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Who called her fat? Is she fat?

Craven:
Domestic abuse isn't something to be taken lightly. It's not something that we can shrug off with "God does not like divorce." Many people have lost their lives believing this and choosing to remain in such marriages. And what use are they to their kids if they are dead?

I didn't feel it was right to dismiss this woman's problems with "God does not like divorce." Hence, my response.

I will not apologize for my lengthy post because I feel it is important. If you're unwilling to read, please ignore.

you don't need to apologize, you said the right thing.

Please someone should help the Op....please. OP, may God see you through and keep your baby for you.

God bless you.

olas24u:
Why are you doing over sabi?the lady wrote something nice and does not like divorce,why all the drama of an essay.

this is not over sabi. I expect u to understand cos you are a woman

kozmicity:
Hard facts,insults and truths are three different things...i hope you learned something new dear

What's asslicker?

Msheeew.

Bye

kozmicity:
Call it whatever you want to...i couldn't care less about asslickers like you. And I owe you no explanation!

That's a man who has sense. Don't insult him.

kozmicity:
LAME...

You Dumb.

But Ini used to have big bombom....
Omawumi needed it.
I thought Oge okoye and Caroline Danjuma added weight.
Anyway if Kim and Nicki can do it, these ones can do it too.

kizyalex10:
well I have nt heard u condemn d evil act most women put their husband through.u keep lamenting on hw we shouldn't turn them into punching bags dear,i hate to beat a woman,infact I haven't done it bfor maybe because am nt married but I have endured a lot as a single man.this is one of the reason why am scared to settle down,to be sincere with u,iam scared of divorce,but @ d same time,i won't subject myself to emotional abuse from a woman I call my wife,i want a wife who will be my best friend nd we parley,am scared of quarrel nd hate keeping malice.guess thatZ why I have nt really found that person I will settle down with.am ok by God's grace,but to find that one girl who will fit into my description as a wife is what I haven't found yet.maybe am a bit choosy.now I knw women re plenty but wives re very few.God should help me.am nt perfect,neither am I expecting my wife to be perfect but there re some certain things qualities I need in a woman but to tell u the truth,d few I have met lack those qualities,which will definitely clash with my personality.

If u read my post well, I said women know aw to run mouth. So, I'm.not saying a wife should be rude to her husband. its bad.

All I said is there are other ways.

seriously, just leave her and let her be talking to the air, no one will tell her to stop.

If she becomes to rude and it becomes so unbearable, stop eating her food, act like u don't care, in fact even if she wears bikini, comot eye (I know its hard) she will think there is someone else, no woman likes competition.

Whenever u are going out, dress to look dapper...show her ure still a fine boy. Her head will reset. if it doesn't reset....well, its better u leave or stay to die of her nags, or start beating her and be labeled a beast, and if it happens that u beat her to death...well, no wahala, u will face the law.

One thing I know is, your children will hate u so much if u beat their mum.

kozmicity:
Jeez...you really are slow minded like the snail you daily scavenge from the gutter which you came from.
What do you think you can go to him??I really blame you not,it may be that your man isn't really an alpha male if not,you won't have the audacity to make such ludicrous comments when a real alpha male has transported your useless self to hell and back.

Stinking bag of farts coalition that you think you are spewing trash about men without caution to women.

I wanted to ignore you but since I saw no man putting you in your place...i think I'll leave the work for tsom and savagefinder to do.

(I wash my hands off you case and use the water to purge your brain of a any stupidity

.receive sense in Jesus name)

I'm not form the gutter and I'm attracted to alpha males only.

You should have really ignored me cos u just spewed trash!

hope u know u are not an alpha male sha, cos u didn't type like one. In case uve been deceiving urself that u are one.

kizyalex10:
I think I Won't jst beat her @ d slightest provocation,she must have pushed me to the wall dat even d kids will encourage me to beat her

Your kids will never encourage you to beat their mum even if what she did is bad.

ikp120:
Shut the fvck up you hoe!

If you hit me or my mum, I will personally kill you and use for rituals!

Now, why did u call her hoe?

bashydemy:
So even if woman slap me of beat up my mom?

She is not ur wife. Send her packing and marry a wife.
and
ask if ur mum did the same thing to her own mother in law.

bashydemy:
So even if woman slap me of beat up my mom?

She is not ur wife. Send her packing and marry a wife.
Or...
ask if ur mum did the same thing to her own mother in law.

datigbogirl:
nothing...but don't gemme wrong oh, I won't hesitate to defend myself if a biitxh starts getting violent around me...I will smack d shiite outta dat kinda bitxch.

Wait, r u a man or a woman. this ur name ....

2dice01:
See african mentality because nicki said ordinary wow una don wan suffocate the bae


Can someone pls explain to me why we worship white as if dey are God?

Oya mi lenu oo.

As Nicki is foreign to us, Wizkid is foreign to them

Both of them are international.

I love Wizkid.

what is Davido thinking now?

datigbogirl:
woulda followed you on insta but don't wanna reveal my real identity.

Lol...why na?

datigbogirl:
When one considers how stvpid most women are, you'll realize there's actually no need to be bothered about them sef let alone hit them...so she's actually right. Only men who take women serious will be bothered by them...once you don't give a fvck about what they do they lose their relevance and they start to fear and respect you sef...

Right

kizyalex10:
well in my marriage divorce is nt an option,is for better for worse,if her worse is her bad mouth,then my worse is a manual resetting slap.two negative equals positive,when she drops hers,i drop mine.shekina.i can't put my children's future @ stake by marrying another woman after divorce because of a simple bad mouth.when I have d solution,i rather answer a woman beater than a woman wrapper

You will beat the mother of your kids!

And you think that one is protecting your children's future.

please try it. Your children will so hate you. Then you will understand.

Okay.

samzzycash:
resounding SLAP fall on you

wife beater.

Ichietome:
My friend do imply that of a woman touch me I shouldn't fight back?

The guys quoting me should read very well please.
Why woman go beat you in the first place? u be pikin?

pryme:
Your marriage won't last with this your attitude, it's the likes of you that will be beaten to pulp cos you talk like you can do sh1t.

You better drop that your nasty habit or else you won't live to regret it.

I have had numerous encounter with your likes. I feel sorry for you cos your mouth will buy a first class trip to the hospital wards.

Tonto tried what you are up to now, look how she ended up. It's only the real ladies that are treated like Queens, you don't qualify.

You don't know me. Fortune teller. Sorry, I'm.not.like Tonto and I will never be like Tonto. If u read my post, You will see that I did not insult men, neither did I support women who abuse their husbands. All I said is there are other ways to punish a woman. I think it is you who needs marriage counselling.

I would never insult my boyfriend, not to talk of my husband, because I am indirectly saying my mother did not teach me well.

After saying all these to me, I conclude you are not qualified to be treated like a King either. Women shouldn't insult men, men shouldn't insult women either.

Bye

johnson232:
If u don't want to be beaten by any man...Don't abuse any....No sane man will walk up to u & start beating u when u haven't done something wrong....


Only a madman would go about hitting women without cogent reasons...As humans we have limit, if only women can address this issue from the root, verbal abuse begets physical abuse. But u people don't talk about it...but keep screaming no man should lay hands on a woman?
Why not scream no woman should verbally abuse her man & see if domestic violence won't reduce drastically....Women are free to abuse men verbally, but men shouldn't abuse women physically…does that even sound right?

Selfish gender....

Lol.

Ichietome:
Shut the hell up

You see?
That's part of what we are saying here.
If I were with you and I said this, you would have slapped me abi?
Tyson

johnson232:
@bold what will u do? U can only cry, nothing more...
U women are very selfish, that is why when u people talk about no one should hit a woman i just laugh...u think men are f00ls?
The root cause of physical abuse is verbal abuse. U women don't talk about this, because u people do it all time. Then it leaves me with only one answer that it is because u people don't have strength like the male folks, yours would have been worst...selfish things...

Lol..

what is ur problem?

U don beat woman before?

See, I don't have ur time. if a man beats me, that will be his last, Insha Allah.

majekdom2:
No human is worth being beaten.. Male or female. This cheating cheating thing is very funny. See, why it seems like it's only men that do it is because we are open and free. Most women on the other hand are very secretive. Yes. They do It and hide. I know a few married women that have shown green light at sometime. Most men kiss and tell. Only a few women in Nigeria will.

You are right. That's y I keep saying marriage isn't by force. y wud u cheat on your spouse in the first place?

Yes, married women cheat. its so annoying.

still, no domestic violence. Divorce is the best if they can't tolerate each other.

kizyalex10:
some women forgets that they abuse us emotionally,they see domestic violence as abuse,a woman can make u commit suicide with her mouth.

If ur woman starts running her mouth, leave then house, go to your friends house (not ur concubines house) She will start looking for u upandan when her eyes clear.

If she doesn't...u didn't marry a woman..

If she doesn't change...and u cant ake it anymore. Divorce. Or stay to lose your sanity. Cos if u start beating her, people will.pity her and say you're the bad guy.

Marriage is not by force.

kizyalex10:
some women forgets that they abuse us emotionally,they see domestic violence as abuse,a woman can make u commit suicide with her mouth.

If ur woman starts running her mouth, leave then house, go to your friends house (not ur concubines house) She will start looking for u upandan when her eyes clear.

If she doesn't...u didn't marry a woman..

If she doesn't change...and u cant ake it anymore. Divorce. Or lose your sanity.

Marriage is not by force.

Thewrath:
Inasmuch as I condemn domestic violence,it should be worthy of note that it's not a privilege for women to run their mouth the way they like,some of our mothers were never like that!

Talk anyhow,you see anyhow!
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Women run mouth. I am.a woman and I know sometimes we can be very annoying and I'm.not saying "spoilt" and yes, some of us are very spoilt. But there are other ways to teach a woman lessons. Not beat her. Men that beat women are cowards. These men cannot face men like them when it comes to physical.

How can u beat the mother of your child. think about menstrual pain, all the sickness and discomfort that comes with pregnancy and then labour pain. and then taking care of the kids/kid. A man that beats a woman is cursed for life!

Its not like u men are not annoying. After all some husbands sleep with their wives friend, house girl, neighbor etc and women still take all these shit.

if we can take it, men should take our shit too and not beat us.

Any man wey touch me peke....well lemme just keep quiet.

throwback is skinny, the other is Slim. nice shape tho

hi

sotall

I accidentally switched off my computer (HP 620) while updating.

I tried switching it on, it came on and was showing blank screen. I removed my ba3, re-inserted it and pressed f10. but I couldn't continue cos I don't understand all the grammar.

What do I do?

lonelydora:
This list will be updated in few years to come because my wife will soon join them

Amen. And me too oo and my sisters sef.

why is ur name lonely Dora when you have a wife?

mind urself o

azimibraun:
O boy!!! Go and collect your money o! You have been scammed. When it's time to contest an election or go for a senate clearance for appointment as Minister of Water resources, that's when your enemies and competitors will visit Unilag and revisit your admission. I dey fear for you right now.

If they visit nko?

which grade dangote and co get?

dem go school?

gbagbe iyen.

yes, Unilag accepts even third class for some masters course like MBA, MPIA...

Depends on what the op wants, you can choose to do PGD first if u av time and if the school u want don't accept your CGPA.

in the end, its money making that matters most.

first class or pass, sha make money.