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Romance / Re: Romancelanders, Pls I Need Your Urgent And Sincere Advice!!! by pxdaniel(m): 4:25pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
bobbyluis: I agree with you. She told me she would like to get married by 24 or 25yrs but I would jst be finishing my nysc by then |
Romance / Re: Romancelanders, Pls I Need Your Urgent And Sincere Advice!!! by pxdaniel(m): 4:22pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Thowbie7: Tnk u so much 4 dis ur comment. But if d girl doesn't love me as u say why hasn't she broken up with me and move on with those her rich toasters? This issue is really confusing me |
Romance / Re: Romancelanders, Pls I Need Your Urgent And Sincere Advice!!! by pxdaniel(m): 4:20pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
PunkyVeer: Hmmm...its nice hearing this 4rm a girl. Tnx a lot |
Romance / Re: Romancelanders, Pls I Need Your Urgent And Sincere Advice!!! by pxdaniel(m): 4:18pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
tellwisdom: Ok... |
Romance / Re: Romancelanders, Pls I Need Your Urgent And Sincere Advice!!! by pxdaniel(m): 4:16pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
andromida: Tnx...I've really lost a lot of weight. I dunno if its d stress 4rm school or this issue |
Romance / Re: Romancelanders, Pls I Need Your Urgent And Sincere Advice!!! by pxdaniel(m): 4:14pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
xpac01: I appreciate ur comment but what ways do u think I can have fun and detach myself away 4rm her cos I seem to think about her all d time |
Romance / Re: Romancelanders, Pls I Need Your Urgent And Sincere Advice!!! by pxdaniel(m): 3:42pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Richiy: Tnx 4 ur contribution. But how are u sure she wouldn't change this time around? I'm only emotional abt d issue cos she's d only one I've ever dated and I would love 4 dat to continue since I'm not interested in hit and run games like my friends are currently doing |
Romance / Re: Romancelanders, Pls I Need Your Urgent And Sincere Advice!!! by pxdaniel(m): 3:34pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
tellwisdom: How am I too young to be in a rship? Besides, is that the only contribution you can make? 2 Likes |
Romance / Romancelanders, Pls I Need Your Urgent And Sincere Advice!!! by pxdaniel(m): 2:38pm On Sep 29, 2015 |
Before I start, I want to plead with all trolls and those who have nothing meaningful to say to stay off this thread. I'm not opening this thread for jokes or out of idleness but because I need a good advice which I hope to get. Here's my story: I've been dating my gf since 100l and we are both in 500l now. I'm 22yrs while she's 21yrs and this is my first and only relationship. She will be graduating this session while I'll be graduating next session because I'm doing a 6yr course. We've been through a lot in this rship but I still love her and would love to continue with the rship but the problem is that I can hardly trust her now. My reason is that she keeps a lot of so-called toasters around her not out of love as she claims but so as to 'milk' them because her parents are not adequately providing for her ( I can say this a very true). I wasn't comfortable with this at first but I had to let it go because I'm not capable to meet all her needs as I'm a student as well and I believed her that it was only me she loves and that she doesn't sell her body in the process. However, she completely shattered my heart when I found out that she went to a club and hotel with one of her toasters on her birthday last month. I couldn't be with her that day because she was on her IT in a neighboring state and she gave me some flimsy excuse that she would be busy with work and all that. When I confronted her, she tried to lie her way out of it and cried like a baby all through but I didn't let her fool me once again. The guy works in an oil company and he bought her a brand new laptop, gowns and even gave her money. He has also been giving her money before that day and she once claimed he was her uncle until I found out that was a lie and she promised me she was only eating his money and nothing else. She told me absolutely nothing happened between them and that I'm the only one she has ever slept with. She begged me to see reason with her that she's only keeping those toasters so that she can survive since her parents do not have much and that if she didn't love me then she could easily have broken up with me since 100l but I didn't listen and called off the relationship. However, she kept asking me for forgiveness and since I still love her I accepted her back but I'm having difficulty trusting her. She has accepted to do away with all her toasters and be fully faithful but I still have my fears. Moreover, she will be graduating before me and there's no guarantee that she won't go back to her former self. I feel so much inadequate right now. I still have 2yrs before I graduate plus internship and nysc before I even start working so how do I cope with her needs. Though, I have to admit that she doesn't demand much from me but I feel she would be tempted to leave me for ready-made guys since I still have a long way to cope. Pls, I need your advice on how to deal with this situation. How do I cope with my fears? How do I keep out predators from coming between us again? How do I handle financial matters when they arise? How do I build up the trust once more? This issue has affected me so badly that I now see all girls as runs girl and treat them as such. My apologies to all real girls out there. Lemme stop here for now cos I'm on a queue in a general hospital to see a doctor for anoda matter and it has almost gotten to my turn. Pls pardon my typos or if I sound incoherent. Just advice me based on what you can understand from my write-up and ask any question that you feel is relevant. God bless u all |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Ladies Looking For Men by pxdaniel(m): 8:27am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Guys Drop Ur Number And Let The Ladies Call (hook Up Someone Pls) by pxdaniel(m): 8:21am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: September Born.....let Meets Here by pxdaniel(m): 8:20am On Aug 15, 2015 |
I proudly rep sept 26th....where is my birthday mate o |
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Blackberry Pin Exchange (bb Pin) by pxdaniel(m): 8:18am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Bbm Pin Exchange by pxdaniel(m): 8:16am On Aug 15, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Those Born September Let's Meet Here. by pxdaniel(m): 8:10am On Aug 15, 2015 |
I'm proudly sept 26th....where is my birthday mate o |
Politics / Re: Garba Shehu And Reuben Abati All Smiles During An Encounter In Aso Rock. Photo by pxdaniel(m): 3:09pm On Jun 20, 2015 |
It's a shame that many nairalanders do not read a post before commenting. This picture was taken before the inauguration. I don't know why some people are saying bs |
Politics / Re: Why Buhari Didn’t Make Assets Public – Aides by pxdaniel(m): 9:05am On Jun 01, 2015 |
bashydemy: Bro, pls which school did u attend? No offense 4 Likes |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Changes Name To Accommodate Buhari's Style by pxdaniel(m): 12:00am On May 30, 2015 |
AhmedMustapha: If u tink d joke is lame then ur problem must be really bigger than that of Nigeria...mr ahmed! 2 Likes |
Politics / Re: I Am Still Relevant On Nairaland - Cramjones by pxdaniel(m): 6:59pm On May 29, 2015 |
With all the grammatical blunders you made in your post, I wonder how you will be able to manage your 'dream' appointment. Stop taking cheap crack...by the way, why didn't I see you at the eagles square today? Irrelevant fo0l 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Biggest Regret In Life So Far by pxdaniel(m): 8:55am On May 22, 2015 |
@op, I commend you for opening up and sharing your story with us. I'm very sure that someone would learn a lesson from this. The fact that you feel guilty means that you either did something that violates your own values/principles or something that you think will reflect negatively on you in the eyes of other people that you care about the opinions of (or both). I'd recommend asking yourself which of your principles you broke, why you broke it, why you have that principle and whether in hindsight the principle or the action that broke it is better for you / more important to you. Understanding why you did something, even if later you regret it or disagree with your past self about it, helps. You can also use a time like this to decide whether some of your beliefs should change, or to strengthen your grip on your beliefs so that you do not cross the line with what you think is right / wrong again. However, the deed is done and can not be undone no matter what so just move on. Channel your energy into doing productive things like studying if you are a student or work. More importantly, be very careful about people you keep as friends and don't let anyone pressure you to do what you don't wanna do. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: I Will Work With Mrs. Buhari, Says Patience Jonathan by pxdaniel(m): 8:25am On May 22, 2015 |
This is the woman most Nigerians love to hate. I know she has a lot of flaws but one fact I love about her is that she's not bothered about whatever anyone speaks of her. She's bold, fearless, speaks her mind and greatly supports her husband even to the detriment of her health. I don't think Jonathan would have been so successful in life if he didn't have a woman of strong character such as her as his backbone. We'll surely miss your drama...farewell |
Family / Re: Were You Ever Fed In This manner? See the Picture.. by pxdaniel(m): 10:50pm On May 21, 2015 |
cococandy: Everybody is suddenly Einstein!! I would love to know how you came up with your statistics? Besides, give me just one scenario where you saw a baby choke. Different strokes for different folks. Just let it go |
Celebrities / Re: South African Church Where Pastor Strips Members During Prayer (photos) by pxdaniel(m): 4:41pm On May 21, 2015 |
How do these pastors manage to brainwash people on a large scale? Or are some human beings naturally gullible? This is a despicable act!! I think human rights organizations and the government should work together to significantly reduce the influence of these so-called men of God. The other day, it was a pastor giving petrol to members to drink, ordering them to eat grass etc. This nonsense will continue unless something is done |
Family / Re: Were You Ever Fed In This manner? See the Picture.. by pxdaniel(m): 3:53pm On May 21, 2015 |
cococandy: Well, if u say so. However, I don't see anything cultural about feeding a baby that way and even if it is culturally related, it is wrong for one to criticize other peoples way of life as if they are superior or whatever. |
Romance / Re: My Landlady R..aped Me!!!!! by pxdaniel(m): 3:38pm On May 21, 2015 |
@op, abeg take style drop ur address. I know many guys that would like to move into that kind of house. Lol |
Crime / Re: 20-year-old Girl Stabs Lover Boy To Death by pxdaniel(m): 3:31pm On May 21, 2015 |
remember007: Of course I am. Jst trust me. Is it not sambisa avenue? I know there very well na Jst common 55k for everything :30k for t-fare, 20k for miscellaneous, 5k to buy food that I'll eat on the road |
Crime / Re: 20-year-old Girl Stabs Lover Boy To Death by pxdaniel(m): 3:22pm On May 21, 2015 |
remember007: Alright...I'm on my way. But I need jst one favor from u . . . . . . . Send me t-fare!! |
Crime / Re: 20-year-old Girl Stabs Lover Boy To Death by pxdaniel(m): 11:23am On May 21, 2015 |
remember007: All this one na mouth. Oya gimme ur address, lemme pay u a visit and let's act the drama |
Crime / Re: 20-year-old Girl Stabs Lover Boy To Death by pxdaniel(m): 11:16am On May 21, 2015 |
Sugarpeaches: Maybe he's one of those guys that have been brainwashed to think that when a girl says 'no' she actually mean 'yes' I don't see any reason why you should go to her family house when you know you won't be welcomed because they don't even know you. She's obviously hiding the relationship maybe because her family wouldn't approve because of her age or something so respect her decision. I'm not supporting the girl for stabbing him though. She should be made to serve the punishment for her crime. |
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