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Phones / Oukitel C21 Screen Replacement Needed by PyroDavid: 6:15am On Feb 13, 2023
Please anyone have Oukitel c21 screen replacement for sale within Lagos/Abeokuta with affordable Price.

Please notify me
WhatsApp 09093255492
Call/text 08118020755
Phones / Re: Phone Engineers On Nairaland Willing To Assist You - Part II by PyroDavid: 3:44am On Feb 13, 2023
DerKlassiker:
I have a New Oukitel C21 screen for sale.

I ordered it on Aliexpress only to find out the issue with my phone is not the screen but the motherboard.

Call: 08143684739

Do you still have this available, cause I need a screen for my phone. And how were you able to order it.
Jobs/Vacancies / Is This Interview Legit? by PyroDavid: 11:37am On Jan 11, 2023
I did not send any email or any of my informations to them but I received this message this morning.

How true is it?

Romance / Re: [b]victory Over Pornography And Masturbation After 28 Yrs Of Addiction. [/b] by PyroDavid: 3:21pm On Feb 27, 2022
Pharmjossy:
Today, Feb 26, 2022 mark my 365 days freedom. Hence, it behoves upon me to express my gratitude to NL and the activities of its Moderators But especially so to the Creator the the Thread: MASTURBATION Quitting Challenge, Mr @Nnamebuka. https://www.nairaland.com/5223408/masturbation-quitting-challenge-thread/1283#110183910 .

I joined the the community Precisely on Feb 26, 2021, weeks after my Last Relapsed, and that was how I discovered what I personally needed to quit my irresistible and recalcitrant circle of constant guilt and feeling of worthlessness for 28 Yrs.

I never realize the name of what i was doing at the time I was caught in the habit, say between 1992 to '94. I was in JSS 2/3 at the time. The name of the act became obvious after reading the book: "Question! Young People ask", published by the Watchtower. While I read much of their publications and associated with them, I made little or no progress due to feeling of shame which breeds reclusiveness. And that's where the eternal grip of Masturbation and Porn lies

CONSEQURNCES

1) ACADEMIC: i was adjudged smart and intellegent while growing up but I lost it while being engrossed with the practice of masturbation . Hence, I Lacked a retentive memory or what some describe as Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD). This made me read a material several times to know It, and there has never been more time. Several F9 and passes in my O/L until after 3 yrs of my graduation did I make 5 Credit Passes. Then came UME for at least 5 times as i can recall before gaining admission into a prestigious Nig. University at age 28. But it was a worthwhile course anyway (before u pitty me too much). I narrowly escaped being withdrawn from Pharmacy Sch twice. But in between those years of SSCE and UTME, I had resorted to a Higher college Certificate anyway.

2) LACK OF MOTIVATION TO IMPROVE & COMPETE: This resulted from the frequent and unavoidable feeling of guilt that engulfed and immobilized me.

3) SPIRITUALLITY: While my association with The JW and her activities was a of help, I remained stagnated spiritually and operated below my pears and presumed capability largely due to the secret nature of MASTURBATION and Pornography. I was off and on, with loved ones wondering what was holding me from doing better.

5) WORK HABIT AND ATTITUDE TOWARDS WORK. You will regret working with me or employing me because i procrastinated and exuded unseriousness all my life this 28 years of MASTURBATION such that little or nothing gets done on time. Hence, I really took up or was given privilleges.

6) PUNCTUALITY: Nothing come out.

7) MARRIAGE: I realized a bigger problem inherent in me. I was not decisive which was borne from my repeated relapses to porn and Masturbation. I was abdicating my responsibility to my spouse or neglecting such without realising it. Pornography- induced- sexual dysfunction had set in and my marriage was at the brink of collapse. But I would not let it. It was at this period, following deep thought of what my Whole life was becoming, that I stumbled on the Thread and took it seriously, made significant progress with immense Benefits which are better experienced than said.
However, I am still recovery from the nearly 3 decades of consequences and loses accrued to me as a result of this habit. My Mental, Emotional, Spiritual, Physical and academic recovery has been gradual and steady. Yet a day away from Pornography and Masturbation is worth my limited Life span.

Its 366 days today and I thank God for the deliverance he made possible via this thread.
To be frank, it was not a prayer thing but much of determination. However, the ultimate goal is to bring glory to God.

My gratitude to fellow victors, especially are the married men in the house who are doing equally well.
May i thank the group President @Iamphenomenal
Gen Sec. @Seas
@onelove508
@CR777 and @Cr7772,
@Challengemaster
@Webhead
@Onyi2212
@determination21
@ Potatochips
@SamConquer
@Bentackle
@EngrOscar
@Jeremani
@Emmyelementoo( the icon)
@Abba114 (the shinning one)
@Petoski7 who just attained 90days
@Sociology555
@KangaIye
@MegaMicrobe who just past 370 days
@SeunDobo (the unbeliver),
@Randomforest the renowned IT guru following his break from this addiction @Pyrodavid my running mate
Nothing is impossible just because u are failling
.
Must recognise my
Achievers So far in the Community
(over 1 year free)
Freedom247
Philantropist1
Jahbwoy nomoress3
Casemiro
Hayesconcept

( ovet 2years free)
Nnamebuka
AyobamiIsaac12
Djeoziv
Banabaz,

Lalalastica and Seun kindly project.

Well said sir, the goal is to be forever free.

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Properties / Seeking For A Job (architectural Firm) by PyroDavid: 6:17pm On Jan 06, 2022
Good day everyone, I'm looking for any architectural firm seeking to recruit a fresh graduate, both design and construction based firms, I'm willing to apply.
Mails and contact can be dropped under this thread. Help a fellow graduate. This year is ours.
Nairaland / General / Re: Send A Shoutout To Nairalanders That Made You Smile This Year by PyroDavid: 9:29pm On Jan 01, 2022
Onelove508:


Chairman.
U just go hide de enjoy.

Longest time bro.

Seriously boss grin grin grin
Nairaland / General / Re: Send A Shoutout To Nairalanders That Made You Smile This Year by PyroDavid: 11:29pm On Dec 31, 2021
Iamphenomenal
Seas
Onelove508
Mr Pharmjossy
Oyin2212

Thank you comrades

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