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Let us face reality what is bad is bad you must have a motive in been in a forum like this.

Has any married man or woman been mistakenly fall in love with any singles on Nairaland?

U are not allowed my friend since you are married face your husband.

bankedee@yahoo.com @iyatrustee

iyatrustee did you get my mail address?

iyatrustee please talk to me and don't allow others to talk on your behalf.

Hope you all understand me well

No cause for alarm friends

iyatrustee talk to meeeeeeeeeeeee

Iyatrustee u there?

bankedee@yahoo.com

or can i send you mine own mail address?

take me serious iyatrustee.

not confused i know that is what all of you will say but sincerely iyatrustee talk to your husband and get back to me on it.

Iyatrustee how do i get you mail address? i know this is a public forum please don't be offended.

iyatrustee are there?

Never not that type friend

Hope you will not mind iyatrustee?

i agree with you i guess you are a role model for others to follow. wouldn't mind to learn from you though.

So how is marriage life iyatrustee?

That's cool i am happy for you

iyatrustee are you married?

From jokes it lead to something else.

I still don't feel is right for married men or women to contribute to any topics here on this site in order to avoid trouble.

Most single guys target married men and women to play around with. For those that are married you have to careful not to allow anyone to destroy your home. For those who don't see anything wrong can you as a woman be bold enough to share what you wrote or joked about on this site with your husband or other way round? If you can't then there is a problem somewhere.

I keep wondering from my own point of view that when you are happily married you should not be in romance section of nairaland. The reason is obvious that unknown to many married people they might start having undue familiarities with single people on this forum which might lead to something else. My advice is simple if you know you are married and you want to keep a good home leave the romance section to singles alone. I hope you all agree with me or any contrary opinions

The point should one because of obstacles not married?

Once I went to a party, and the next day rumors were spread that I had had sex with one of the boys there. That wasn’t true at all!”—Linda.
“Sometimes I’ll hear a rumor that I’m dating someone—someone whom, in fact, I don’t even know! Many people who gossip don’t bother to check the facts.”—Mike.
GOSSIP can fill your life with more intrigue than a feature film. Just ask 19-year-old Amber. “I’ve been a constant victim,” she says. “It was rumored that I was pregnant, that I’d had abortions, and that I was selling drugs, buying drugs, and doing drugs. Why would people say these things about me? Really, I have no idea!”
Armed with e-mail and instant messaging, a boy or a girl with malicious intent can tarnish your reputation without even speaking a word. All it takes is a few keystrokes to send a vicious rumor on its way to dozens of eager recipients! In some cases an entire Web site has been set up just to humiliate someone. More commonly, online blogs are glutted with gossip that would never be uttered in person.
But is talking about others always bad?

LOVE—to starry-eyed romantics it is a mysterious visitation that seizes you, a once-in-a-lifetime feeling of sheer ecstasy. Love, they believe, is strictly an affair of the heart, something that cannot be understood, just experienced. Love conquers all and lasts forever . . .
So go the romantic clichés. And no doubt about it, falling in love can be a uniquely beautiful experience. But just what is real love?

One teenage bride says of her husband: “Now that we are married, the only time he acts interested in me is when he wants sex. He thinks his boyfriends are just as important to be with as I am. . . . I thought I was going to be his one and only, but was I fooled.” This highlights a misconception that is common among young men: They think that as husbands, they can still live the life-style of single men.
A 19-year-old bride points to a problem common among young wives: “I’d rather watch TV and sleep than clean house and fix meals. I’m ashamed when my husband’s parents visit because they keep a nice house and mine is always a mess. I’m a lousy cook, too.” What stress it can add to a marriage when a girl is incompetent domestically! “Marriage really takes commitment,” stated Vicky (previously quoted). “This isn’t a game. The fun of the wedding is over. It soon becomes day-to-day living and that isn’t easy.”
And what about the day-to-day grind of supporting a family? Vicky’s husband, Mark, says: “I remember that for my first job I had to get up at 6 a.m. I kept thinking: ‘This is hard work. Will I ever get some relief?’ And then when I got home I felt that Vicky didn’t understand what I was going through.”
This brings us to another cause of marital discord for young married couples: money. Forty-eight teenage couples admitted that after three months of marriage, their biggest problem was “spending family income.” After nearly three years, 37 of these couples were asked the same question. Money problems were number one again—and their anguish was even worse! “What fun can you get out of life,” asked Bill, “when you never have enough money to buy the things you need to make you content? . . . When you don’t have enough to last from one payday to another, it can start lots of fights and unhappiness.”