7victor:
As an adult, have you dated or are you married to a person who was once your class mate either in primary or secondary School?

How was/is the experience like?

For me, I think it is the best experience someone can have as far as(or as near as) bonding with him or her is concerned.

Marrying someone who was your class mate or play mate when you were very young,always brings out fond memories.

Such love is always very sweet.

I remember one Imaobong when I was in primary school.

She was such an active child who was not hesitant to find trouble.

She would run up and down the school pursuing boys.

Because of always finding trouble, one fine arts teacher asked her to touch her toes for caning on the buttocks.

All boys were very happy that they would beat her.

The last time I saw her was in primary 5.

When I got posted to Kano state for NYSC,

I saw surprised to see her in Kano also as a corper after so many years.

I had clean forgotten that such a person existed until I found her in Kano.


We got along so well with so much fun memories to relive.

I knew she still had that trouble making nature by the way she acted around the Hausa teachers in the school.

She rarely related with people.

But I have noticed that women that are very troublesome,

when they see me,they tend to immediately like me, even if they hate other people.

Because I am capable of showing so much submission and humility to the extent that they would not find fighting with me worthwhile.

Some of them would start calling me sweet names like "darling","sweet heart" etc.

But if a woman still feels like fighting me,I will not give her such opportunity to fight me.

And so it was that Imaobong started talking with me and we got so close, laughed over issues together and relived so many childhood memories.

That was the best kind of reunion I have ever had although we did not relate well in primary school, because she was always finding me trouble.

Even though I would be minding my business, she would come and say something hurtful to me, because she sat close to me in primary 5.

But all these changed during our NYSC.We became close friends.

When it came time to part ways, after NYSC, she said she had never been so close to anyone as she was close to me.

Have you ever had such experience?

Please share it here.

FatherCHRISTMAS:
Be it not today, but definitely someday
Be it not in pain, but definitely some way
we all shall depart earth and hopefully meet again.

Dear Amelian, In the morning of 25th of February around 4am, I saw a thread about Victorian. That name alone made me wish earnestly it wasn't you before I clicked on it. I called the number posted, but a husky voice picked it and broke the heart-wrenching news to me.

You see, life is strange. Some days before I came across that thread, I had a mild yet intense memory about my 100/200 level days when you gave me your bbm pin and we chatted. Strange isn't it? A Nairalander mentioned same too. And the reason why I am writing this to you is because I feel you may hear it.

The first time I chatted you, I didn't believe you were Nigerian. I even thought it was a man using a Chinese picture. I asked for more pictures and you told me to wait till the next day. The next day you sent me pictures of you in a tailoring shop with some girls in the back ground.

I remembered telling you you were beautiful and would love to meet you. I remembered calling you all to no avail but later when I got back in touch with you, you said your Blackberry was stolen. I feel I never tried enough to see you. I feel like I didn't take the chances I had to meet you or maybe academics and life got too heavy on me. I feel maybe if I had met you, you would be perfectly ok.

One thing that was clear about you was being a kind and free soul. A lady who wasn't obsessive about pride. A gentle lady, A lady willing to listen to a voice she'll never meet. But you still listened and talk to me with a smile eventhough I was way younger. After all these years, I remember your smile over the phone more clearly than ever.

Wherever you are right now
Do not tarry, do not despair
For you are above death and fear.
You are above cold and loneliness.
May wherever your soul journey, be that of everlasting comfort. And may the powers behind the plane you are right now guide you right.

Good night Victorian

Escabado:
When these girls are in the 18 to 24 , they fvk any guy ready to spend money on them including married men and sugar daddies . Then when she is getting old and all those men have run away to marry a decent girl .u will see her claiming good girl and playing the victim . Where as she is the one rejecting men and broke shaming them in her prime . So guys don't ever marry or have mercy on any girl in her 30s .she is the cause of her problem . Nothing concern Village people for her Mata .