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Dandsome:
Welcome. Where is my bottle of wine?

Don't worry come to my house let celebrate pop together

Dandsome:
Must it be a Samsung phone? If your answer is yes, then I can't help. If you're open for other options then go for Tecno Camon C9 or if you have extra cash you can go for the phantom 6 plus and thank me later by getting a bottle of wine

Thanks for your response I will think about it

Please I would like everyone opinion on a very nice Samsung phone with a nice camera, I'm currently using Infinix Note 3 but I don't like the camera at all, please your candid opinion will be welcome,my budget is not more than 65k or less.Thanks

Richy4:
Would you like to give one or two example of the things you tagged manipulative....

If i were u, i will make a % of what i can tolerate..
Make a scale of preferences eg

<<<Manipulative No
<<<Dirty habit YEs
<<<Lies Yes
<<< Cheating No
<<<Bending my roles to accomodate him Yes
<<< Beating/ shouting at me Yes
<<< Tolerating the sister inlaw excesses Yes

then u calculate the %. when it is more, u tell him he was crossing his limits

An example is I shouldn't sleep early and being tired isn't an option,even when having a little misunderstanding no matter how I try to let him see from my point of view he will never accept it and he starts saying, I'm disobedient and not respectful, he just want things done his own way all the time,thanks for your advice I will do that

baddestchic:
do you want to be treated like trash?
do you want to live a life where you have no say and be treated like a scene in yoruba movies of a king and slave?
do you want a man that fights with you when you try correcting him and maybe a little fight ensues and he turns the whole world against you?



if your answer to all these questions are “no”.... run as fast as your legs can carry you
forget love....you wont feel it again when you are married for a while..

Thanks so much I appreciate

SUPERPACK:
The hand writing on the wall is very clear and needs no interpreter.

Thanks for airing your opinion

I don't understand .
Please I need everyone's opinion, I'm engaged to someone I really love, and I believe love me too. The issue here is that he is very manipulative, I really emphasize on the very here, and in this relationship of ours "No" is not allowed in any way, if in any situation I say no that means I'm disobedient and I won't be submissive when we finally get married,please house I really need your opinion on this because I don't want to trust my personal judgement on this situation,even if it is so visible that I'm not in anyway in support of anything I'm being asked to do I must not say No, because he believes a lady must be submissive and must not say No to anything her man asks for. He recently gave a definition of marriage which says a marriage is an institution where ladies are been made a stepping stone.
Please house your opinion will go a long way, am I taking it overboard or is this how it is meant to be?