kaeforum:


Thats if u meet one thats willing to share, all that glitters is not gold, just becos u see a well dressed gals who spends on u during courtship doesnt mean she will do it when u wear her ring.
Most working class gals are selfish, they use their money for themselves only, so gold digger guys take note dont be fooled by her cosmetic generosity.

Atleast that will save me full spending on hungry undergraduate galz...

fajani:
The first duty of a man is to pray seriously when planning to choose someone who he intends marrying,the fact a lady is undergraduate or working class has no positive or negative impact in a man's life, provided that you have dated the right girl... I am dating an undergraduate girl and she is not a burden on me, If we are truly meant to be, i don't see any reason why the relationship won't be a successful one....

While others started making fast pace progress with their spouse so I'll continue wasting my resources (money, effort) on a gal datz not ready and mature enough for marriage. Funny enough they don't appreciate whatever u do for them and see it as their birth right.

They get money frm someone like you sir and splash it on some guyz dat gve it badly to them. I don't say w/class don't have bad ones in them but I'll filter my search to good one in their caucus. Like op have said they got many time to flirt and Bleep other guyz (abi u dey stay with her all time). Well the truth is bitter. Well I rest my case.

yorubatic:
I dont know why my people keeps disgracing themselves in this Nigeria? We have become too cowardly in this nigeria. We are now clowns, ibos have become our nightmare, that we even see ibo giants in our dreams...

My people has turn the sophisticated odua nation to laughing stock...they have shown the world that they are weaklings and O'yes to the Hausa / Fulani muslims. ..it is shame that my sophisticated and progressive people are a bunch of confused people who have no aspiration whatsoever. ..

It seems musiwa and I are the only brave people among our kins. ...musiwa want a western nigeria and I want a sophisticated and progressive Odu'a. ..but my coward folks want to keep being slaves to their Hausa / Fulani masters. ..

Let us that agitating for odua republic where there be no ibos, where lagos will not be no man's land...yorubas wake up. ...we can't remain cowards

My people should stop behaving like clowns ....only God can deliver my people

I'm also a Yourba and i have started seeing sense in dis liberation fight. Why stick with the so called northerner that always parasite and dominate us. Let's call for odua liberation too. Dis one nigeria stuff only favors some rich dude.

Husbands with goals to Nurture Happy Wives…

No one ever thinks about the
characteristics of a Muslim husband. It is always what a wife should do for the husband...and the list never ends; home management, tutoring, ferrying the kids, caring, cooking, cleaning, washing, working even; you name it, she’s doing it, so what about the brothers?

Our beloved Nabi SAW was not EVER lazy, so why the men of this Ummah? It is quite interesting, so I thought I'd share it with you!!!

What a Muslim husband should be like...

>Dress up for your wife, look clean and smell good. When was the last time you went shopping for designer pyjamas? Just like the husband wants his wife to look nice for him, she also wants her husband to dress up for her too. Remember that Nabi (SAW) would always start with Miswak when returning home and always loved the sweetest smells.

>Use the best names for your wife. Call your wife by the most beloved names to her, and avoid using names that hurt their feelings.

>Don't treat her like a fly. We never think about a fly in our daily lives until it 'bugs' us. Similarly, a wife will do well all day - which brings no attention from the husband - until she does something to 'bug' him. Don't treat her like this; recognize all the good that she does and focus on that.

>If you see wrong from your wife, try being silent and do not comment! This is one of the ways Nabi (SAW) used when he would see something inappropriate from his wives (R.A). It's a technique that few Muslim men have mastered.

>Smile at your wife whenever you see her and embrace her often.
Smiling is Sadaqah and your wife is not exempt from the Muslim Ummah. Imagine life with her constantly seeing you smiling.
Remember also those Ahadith when Nabi (SAW) would kiss his wife before leaving for Salaah, even when he was fasting.

>Thank her for all that she does for you. Then, thank her again! Take for example a dinner at your house. She makes the food, cleans the home, and a dozen other tasks to prepare before your return. And sometimes the only acknowledgment she receives is that there needed to be more salt in the soup. Don't let that be; thank her! Nabi (SAW) use to help his wives with the housework, he mended his own clothes, and patched his own footwear. Never forget –what your wife does for you without any assistance is actually out of her goodness, much of the tasks today’s wife does is actually a favour to you Acknowledge it. Be grateful.

>Ask her to write down the last ten things you did for her that made her happy. Then go and do them again. It may be hard to recognize what gives your wife pleasure. You don't have to play a guessing game, ask her and work on repeating those times in your life.

>Don't belittle her desires, comfort her, sometimes the men may look down upon the requests of their wives. Nabi (SAW) set the example for us in an incident when Safiyyah (R.A) was crying because, as she said, he had put her on a slow camel. He wiped her tears, comforted her and brought her the camel.

>Be humorous, play games with your wife, and surprise her once in a while with gifts. Nabi (SAW) encouraged the giving of gifts.
Look at how would race with his wife Aisha (R.A) in the desert.
When was the last time we did something like that?

>Don’t ever refer to your wife in the third person, & never in a negative or mocking manner, even if you are right. Remember, she is the mother of your children. She deserves their respect & honour more than anyone else in the world. Don’t promote & advertise yourself as better than her. Let Allah be the judge, protect her dignity.
Woman was not made from man’s head to be superior over, Nor his feet to be trampled on. She emerged from his side to walk next to, from under the arm to be protected & from near the heart to be loved & valued.

>Don’t feel intimidated by your woman’s strengths or aptitude, admire her, & treat her as an equal as in the eyes of Allah. Encourage her, support her & be there for her. Allah has not granted superiority of one over the other, but rather has assigned each different tasks according to the uniqueness of His male and female creation. Nabi (SAW) has said that if he would have commanded bowing to any other aside from Allah, it would have been the wife to the husband. This is not a matter to inflate your ego, but to underline how much you need to do for her so as to have earned this status. Remember your attitude towards her would determine the depth of her love for you, her appreciation, and the warmth of her behaviour towards you.

>Don’t be a “ruler”. Be a mediator; compassionate, loving, understanding, compromising. This is what wins a woman’s heart, nothing more, nothing less. Hear her cries for acceptance, don’t complicate matters for her, make things easier. Always remember the words of Allah's Messenger (SAW): 'The best of you are those who treat their families the best.
And I am the best amongst you to my family.' Try to be the best!

>Every time you see your wife, don’t order her to do something, Neither complain about anything.
She’ll begin to avoid you and your company like the plague! Stop finding faults with her all the time, she’ll lose respect for you. Treat others as you would like to be treated. Use hikmah (tact), be diplomatic. and be considerate. Do things to develop her love for you and strengthen the bond.

>NEVER EVER COMPARE YOUR WIFE TO YOUR MOTHER, SISTER, SISTER-IN-LAW, OR ANY FEMALE, whose supposedly “better” at something than she is. Don’t praise other women so as to make her feel as if she “doesn’t-cut-the-cloth”. This spells disaster for her self-confidence, and stunts love between spouses. She’ll begin to feel inferior, and in her desire to live up to your expectations, she’ll soon feel taken for granted, because you’d never recognise her attempts, but always find something else that’s not right or needs to be bettered. Your wife will soon begin to despise you, she’d feel like your servant, a wall-fly, because it’s always “so hard to please you” and you’re “never satisfied”! So please be cognisant of this habit!

>In conclusion: Everyone has
weaknesses, find agreeable ways of working around them together. Never forget to make Dua to Allah - ta'ala to make your marriage successful. And Allah ta'ala knows best!

For ambitious and hustling guyz in the house, dis method works great "pump-and-dump-her-before-she-dumps-you-for-some-bad-boy-who-has-the-balls-to-pump-and-dump-her-because-she-likes-the-challenge” thank me later.

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Saudi Arabia’s grand mufti, the top religious authority in the birthplace of Islam, has condemned Nigeria’s Boko Haram as a group “set up to smear the image of Islam” and condemned its kidnapping of over 200 schoolgirls.
Sheikh Abdulaziz al-Sheikh said the radical
movement, which says it wants to establish a “pure”
Islamic state in Nigeria, was “misguided” and should be “shown their wrong path and be made to reject it.”
His remarks came as religious leaders in the Muslim world, who often do not comment on militant violence, joined in denouncing Boko Haram leader Abubakar Shekau for saying Allah had told him to sell off the kidnapped girls as forced brides.
“This is a group that has been set up to smear the
image of Islam and must be offered advice, shown
their wrong path and be made to reject it,” he told
the Arabic-language newspaper al-Hayat in an interview published on Friday.
“These groups are not on the right path because
Islam is against kidnapping, killing and aggression,”
he said. “Marrying kidnapped girls is not permitted.”
Boko Haram militants kidnapped some 250 girls on
April 14 from a secondary school in Chibok village,
near the Cameroon border, while they took exams.
Fifty have since escaped.
Shekau’s video was released on Monday, sparking a
wave of revulsion in Nigeria and abroad and
prompting offers of help from countries such as the
United States, Britain and France to search for them.
Boko Haram has led a five-year-old insurgency with
the stated aim of reviving a medieval Islamic
caliphate in modern Nigeria, whose 170 million
people are split roughly evenly between Christians
and Muslims.
Its violent attacks have become by far the biggest
security threat to Africa’s top oil producer and it has
spread out to menace the neighboring countries of
Cameroon, Niger and Chad.
On Thursday, Islamic scholars and human rights
officials of the Organization of Islamic Cooperation,
the world’s largest Muslim body representing 57
countries, denounced the kidnapping as “a gross
misinterpretation of Islam.”
This week, al-Azhar, the prestigious Cairo-based seat
of Sunni learning, also said that the kidnapping “has
nothing to do with the tolerant and noble teachings
of Islam.”

Sources: http://muslimvillage.com/2014/05/13/53373/saudi-grand-mufti-condemns-boko-haram-kidnappings/

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