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onyinye2:
I'm just saying that they way some of these [b]guys are willing to divorce their wife over not receiving enough se[/b]x, makes it sound like something more than what it is. Of course is see it as important, but if im not giving it to you for like a few days, no need no to be upset. maybe im tired, stressed, not in the mood, upset.

sex is d part that brings out the honey in every marriage,and when both partners can't satisfy themselves then a divorce is very much necessary,dat aside

but all im saying is that for her to refuse d man for one month,then sthg is wrong

a woman dat has been satisfying her husband ,giving it to him almost anytime he wants it,suddenly changes and avoids sex wt him for a whole month and u as d man think there is nothing wrong?

HCH3COO:
oh hell no.  if she refuses me for a month there has to be something wrong somewhere.   believe me, if after two weeks i notice she's gone a complee 180, I will ask her what's wrong.  do the best I can to understand the reason for her unusual behavior.  if she continue to keep moot, what's a man to do?  at some point she must let me know. can't read minds ya kno.

she doesnt even have to refuse u for a month b4 u ask her wat d matter is


lets look at it dis way,wen a man is in d mood for sex,and in dire need of it,he goes to the wife and then tries to initiate d whole thing,and then d woman says "sweetheart im not in d mood" the very first question d mans asks almost immeidately is  "honey wats wrong"  has he not asked ?

HCH3COO:
okay so basically you're both saying [b]anytime [/b]my wife says no when i want to hit it, i should ask her why she's angry, because there has to be something wrong?  husbands are not certified psychologists you know.  


by the way, i don't' support marital rape. would never do something like that.  i would rather divorce my wife over such.

sighs  the topic is talking about if she refuses u for a month or more

and yes weneva a woman refuses u ,the first thing that comes out of a mans mouth is

"whats wrong"  so you're already asking

HCH3COO:
what the Bleep does fixing problems have to do with keeping the pussy shut?  if something's bugging you, open your mouth like a grown ass woman, tell your man and attempt to work it out with him.  don't just keep quiet locking the pussy because you're angry.

ever been in a situation that is tougher than u,and then u don't know what to do,people to talk to,who to confide in ?if u have then u will understand that sm probs needs to be forced out( not rape) from the womans mouth for her to open up to u

shuppie:
of course marriage is a give and take thing, that is why if a man and a woman are in tune with each other, understand each others lows and highs, then am sure they would always come up tops of whatever issues they might be facing,

of course there re times a woman feels less excited, but not throughout the month, and not all round the months, what does the wife think will happen eventually if she keeps turning the husband away, if some men can't bring themselves to force their woman to open up, then they might be forced to look outside. is looking outside a better option the wife can bear

as d man shouldnt he sit his wife down and even try to find out why d sudden change of mood?for a woman to avoid u for one whole month and u both r in d same house,dont u think sthg is defintely wrong


if d man cant sit her down and thrash d issue wt her by trying to find out wat exactly is going on, then he should go rot wt d devil in hell

dreeldee:
@Rampant  update your profile and change your sex to female now

abeg leave me joooo,make i dey find trouble dey go

Aloy.Emeka:
Didnt God ask us again not to judge. Whilst praying with his eyes open, he discovered love. May be God is telling him something. His parents came to lagos all the way from Enugu to stop that relationship but failed and they resorted to reporting him to his pastor. Guess what? Both left the church and decided to worship at RCCG. I wonder how people can fall in love like this. It's just a miracle to me.

r u alright?i mean is your senses together?

u call that stupidity miracle?this r people that r supposed to be stoned to death

a married man falling inlove wt another woman whilst married to one?

Aloy since u preach d bible so well,have u ever heard of d saying that goes like this -----------------what God has joined together . . . . . . . . .

shuppie:
what is there to doubt that am married, if u so much doubt it, then u can confirm from mukina, 

all am saying is, if u want to keep your man to yourself alone,then u should do things that will make him look at u alone. that is even  beside the point, there is no way on earth a man who is well fed sexually would want to rape his own wife not to talk of eating from another woman's plate if u know what i mean, and that is even beside the point too.

so because i want to keep my man i should keep dying in silence abi?he doesnt even want to know if there is sthg wrong wt his wife and d next thing that comes to his mind is "little willy willy uve got to forcefully penetrate in to this woman"

d last time i checked marriage is a give and take thing

Sisikill:
@ KarmaMod
Lmao! Oh haven't you heard, some men now consider Necrophilia another sexual position.

"Hey Honey, I'm tired of the old Missionary style, oh jare. Let's try another one. . . Why don't you play dead? Oh la la, the way you're laying down there with the epin of your eyes practically disappearing into your head and your mouth half open. . . turns me on.  Oh looky here, your legs so stiff, I have to almost break it to move 'em apart, baby you know the way I like it"

Oh my God, I've just made myself sick. Excuse me, there's a toilet bowl waiting with my name on it.

u will never change

dreeldee:


shuppie is married

i very much doubt that

seun and oga huxley,u guys r confusing us wt this sussicorn(respect) of a thing oooooo

shuppie:
why did she get married when she knew she wouldn't be fullfulling her marital duties to the husband, if she is not up to the task then she should not complain if the man is looking outside,

do u think its every single second d woman is available or has d strength to make love ?

madamkoko:
Unlike you, I bring my own points only when needed!!1 I don't have to RESTATE or REPEAT  what someone already said. 

Nothing wrong with having similar opinions with someone and I am yet to agree or acknowledge anything u've said.

nothing wrong wt smone having similar opinions wt u,but y don't u bring it all out first before d person,when d person brings it out na that time u dey agree


agree? we r two diff persons ,so don't hope upon hope,because we will never agree 

dreeldee:
masturbate after all the years i've waited for the marriage

and after all d sex uve had u still can't calm your hormones down abi?

madamkoko:
Huxley, I totally agree with you.  

People pick and choose the parts of the bible that fits their argument and lifestyles.

Just like the Bible was edited over and over again to tell a believeable story, so do we edit our beliefs!!!

ur own na to dey agree everytime,but u no go bring out ur own points

yea ,but its better he goes masturbate somewhere else and then later sit her down and thrash out the issue wt her,tell her shes going to make u seek sexual satisfaction outside

dreeldee:
fornication in marriage

fornication's got to do wt d word illegal right?

u said since d couple r legally married ,and i said there is a difference between forced sex and fornication

dreeldee:
Is there anything like non-consensual sexual assault/ rape in marriage? Since marriage is a LEGAL union of both a man and a woman intimately, and sexually. Also one primary reason we get married is to procreate and most states will issue a divorce on the No sex ground

there is a difference btw rape and fornication

a forced sex is rape,married or not married

olukunle:
When some people talk in here, I wonder if there are any Christians in here at all.
The bible in Matthew chapter 21 verses 19-20 talks about Jesus Christ cursing a fig tree because the tree bore no fruits. Th bible also says suffer not a witch to live. Exodus 22 verse 18 also says suffer not a witch to live. It is therefore difficult for some people to understand certain things, except those who really and deeply nderstand whta the bible says about certain things. It is better to be an atheist than say you are a Christian and condemn what a man of God says simply because you are ignorant of what the bible says.

Mind you, am not a member of winners chapel, but I will stand up any day for what the BIBLE says

sir can i buy u a drink?u've really made my day

LadyT:
Leave me Jor Negro  . As a child from a broken home [b]I watched my mother struggle to raise us alone she had no choice.  [/b]So I hate seeing useless situations like this!

eeyaaaa 

come is this poster still wasting her time hoping for destruction?

bridget if u like go ahead and marry d guy,as long as u don't come back here shedding tears of how much he never gives u and your son d attention u need,im ok

Sisikill:
Holy fudge heck! What in the Sam Hill is going on here?

Sweet Fancy Moses! I can’t believe my fracking eyes!

What kind of Pissernoodle thread is this? 

Drats! What the frick does swearing have to do with anything?

Dagnabbit! Why do Motherflowers like to correlate two things that have absolutely nothing to do with anything together?

Sonofabiscuit!! This is fracking annoying!!!

Jeebus! Off to the nunnery I go, I’ll never meet a guy now! Aw Shucks 

i swear u r a case

Shaz:
[color=olive]No matter. . You won't see BILL GATES kids doin this, or even grandkids. . Yet, u find out that peeps in power blame poverty for crime in NGA[/color]

u took that right out of my mouth

im not against them wealthy people,but what happened to proper training?how can a kid this young be wt an AK47 ?how can they just plaster d money on him like that

even me sef ,when i saw him wt d gun,i shook wt fear as if it was happening real it was if i should just take/jack it from his hands and warn him never to hold such again

tpia:
I was wondering about the number of wives he had, since its quite unusual for a Nigerian leader to have only one wife.

So this is the other family?


In any case, whoever posted these pictures on the internet, is a very wicked person, for setting the boy up like that. He's only 12, for goodness sake. What does he know?

And its extremely bad taste to get at a man through his kids. Like these militants who are kidnapping young children and elderly citizens. Whoever took the photos must be working for them.

Rich kids in Nigeria (or anywhere) live rich, regardless if their parents made the money through their own hard work or by looting public funds.

Yaradua was rich before becoming president, abeg.

Whoever took these pictures (especially the one with the rifle) should be prosecuted.

it will surprise u to know how intelligent even kids of 7 yrs can be not to talk of 12

bia ruby kedi ife ine me na ebea?

olabowale:
@Olowo tee: Toki si otito kon to so? Mo nduro, ki nto lo kirun aila! lol. At least i am helping myself to Nigerianness on this board, writing in yoruba, sometimes.

d last time i checked there is a cultural section,where people from diff tribes show their language skills

@topic
grace is priviledge  _{and hey don't ask me questions}

5'11

at this age them don dey spoil am like this,what happens if he grows up?