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Get me sisikill,im not telling her to stay in her marriage,all im saying is that thousands of people have gone through worst cases and survived it well,while sm didnt

look it gets too a time when a man will quarell wt his wife and its like shes going crazy ,she wants to walk out,but smtimes its like a challeng on your part,and you're like why can't i make this thing work(for those that work out anyways)

marriage is not a bed of roses,u will meet tough challenges,this is when u rely on a friend(like osisi once said) a friend u will cry on his/her shoulder,somone that will encourage u

u don't just run away from your responsibilty just like that because of so big a misunderstanding between u and your inlaws

like i said earlier on,d poster needs to sit down and think, u know ask her herself sm questions if she still loves this man,yes she might be saiyng she does not love him,i don't expect less from her,but one thing we should know is that her feelings or emotions are corrupt and polluted right now that she canot think str8,neither does she know what to do

i wont tell her to make a hasty decision,because she might regret it in life,all she need do is calm herself down and think properly

listen to me,concerning the child,this guy has grown up to be wt mummy and daddy everyday,its going to be so difficult for him to end up wt one person just like that,look children have witnessed daddy and mummys fights before,they seen them quarelling,sm kids even make them reconcile

look,a child whilst growing up,will surely witness a quarell between his/ father and mother,that is the simple truth



i hate been intimidated,i want to be the one intimidating them,i want to laff d last laff,i don't want to run away like a chicken


my dear , if u find yourself in such a situation(which God forbids) i swear u wont even know what to do,it is when u wear d shoe  u will know how it hurts

the poster is too soft on her inlaws,shes just too soft on them so if they insult her she deserves it,how can my inlaws be talking to me anyhow and im keeping quiet like a zombie?even if my hubby does not talk,what on this freaking earth happend to my mouth?

KarmaMod:
lol and how does one do that? You know how families are. "oh she's too pompous, she doesnt even regard me. then the husband to be with hear that bullshit, the mother too will yarn her own and everyone makes you out like some arrogant tart

you're right,but when you're trying to create this impression,make sure u always do it wt smiles on your face,its all about wisdom karma


it depends on d  family u go into toyin,u don't really have to do it in a rude manner,do it wt smiles on your face,and at d same time don't get too familiar wt them,sm will not agree wt u,but pretend before u

the most important thing,is letting your hubby know that you're doing him a favour to even answer his last name,during courtship don't let him know that you're desperate for marriage,infact if its impossible to refuse his first proposal do so,i tell u that the day u will finally agree,this guy will report back to his family,and tell themhow difficult this girl was,infact d way they will take u from dat day,they will worship u like queen elizabeth

let me see any inlaw that will tell me rubbish,thunder will fire that person

CL£T:
B careful dearie,must say! 17,virgn n matured unlyk u, run your mouth a bit slowa dan your brain that is if u a brain at  al, lov u!

u r just a child,and u still wanna date a child?

KarmaMod:
You say she was  soft on the inlaws, what would you have suggested she did

yes she was soft on the inlaws,its how u present yourself before them,they will take u

nobody wants probs wt inlaws,i don't even pray to have any wt mine toyin,but i give them their respects and inreturn i get mine,one thing i tried to avoid was "over familiarity" that is where most people will get u,when you're too familiar wt them ,the insults will come in(depending on d inlaws sha)


the worst mistake any woman will make is worship her inlaws and make them feel that they did  her a favour by bringing her into their family

MAKE THEM KNOW TOO THAT YOU DID THEIR BROTHER A FAVOUR BY MARRYING HIM AND WATCH THEM EAT OUT OF YOUR PALMS

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if u want to really,as in really learn french,then go to badagry ,french village,accomodations r provided there,its a place where u will be tot properly

Sisikill:
Lol, yeah. . . thank you, I was too pissed off.


I don't get it, honestly I don't. Don't get me wrong. . . I have nothing against prayer but when people use it as an excuse not to be proactive, it gets annoying.

He will slap her - They tell her Pray God changes his mind like he changed Paul's or is it Saul's, whatever on the way to Damascus.

He beats her - They say take heart, the Lord is your strength.  Pray the Lord cools his heart like ice water.

He breaks one hand - They tell her prayer is the Key, keep praying that the Lord soften his heart like cotton wool.

He pushes her down the stairs, she breaks her neck and dies - Ha! If only she had prayed very very well for him enough.

Do you notice they keep telling her to pray for him? So what happens, she's too engrossed with praying for him, she misses God's warnings telling her to  pack her things and flee from danger fast. fast. . . had she been praying for herself.

how r u so sure that she has missed Gods warnings,every relationship will always stand d test of time,that test brings out the real u and puts your heart to action

im not telling her to mve out,neither im i telling her to stay,one thingi knw  is that we all should not conclude just like that,this is marriage that has produced a child,a child that has known a man to be his father and then will be told one day by his mother that 'i am no longer married to daddy"

d poster really needs to think,the only thing is that she has been to soft wt her inlaws from d onset

im saying this because im married,i know what its like to just packout of your husbands house like that,a man that uve shared so many things wt,i wouldnt want my son or daughter to go through d pains of been separated from either one of us,this is emotions we r talking about here

hehehehehe if she makes a funny move,call for a family meeting,that will bring out the shame in her

but b4 dat,u need a good proof

LMAO @sistawoman u r really a case

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if he doesnt do it,then there will be action strike for 3 months

Queenisha:
That line had me in stitches.
Osanobua
the love between these 2 people is unquantifiable.

KarmaMod:
Dont know why people still respond to sam milla. He never makes sense. He forgets there's more to this place than the jokes section. Bloody yahooze.

4PLay, you say that like all modeling contracts require

1. Nudity
2. Sleeping with someone
etc

First off it's merely $15,000 so it's probably some teen mag or something low brow. She could use that money to set up something alot more stable or even go back to school for a better job.

onyinye2:
Rampant you know im trying not to start trouble this early morning, but brotha man just had the audacity to call me "Ekwensu".

sweetheart avoid trouble,even wen its staring at u on ur face

Dr Kitaun:
Jenny . . .wetin naw 

ah oga Kitaun ,no vex ooooo,i don forget say Gamine na one of ur numerous wives wwey u get for dis forum

onyinye2:
Wow im still in aw, i can't believe Nigeria has beaten Belgium. Man i aint going to hear the end of this from my dad. He is going to boast from morning to night. But im still skeptical about them beating the defending champions Argentina.

wt faith,we can . . . . . . . . . . . . . . abeg complete am


if our faith be as little as a mustard seed,we can say to nigerians,move on for the gold,and it shall come to pass



_{pastor in d house}

kay_pumpin:
BREAKING NEW:It''s  now confirmed  and will be published in the next edition of guinness book of records that naira land and its users commonly called nairalanders have set a new world record for the  highest number of  posts/replies/responses on a particular discussion/issue/thread on a website forum.The record hitherto held by a website in NIGERIA which its users bombarded with  various post/responses during the DAMMAN MIRACLE in Saudia "89 was  shattered during the Nigeria/belgium match in which an unprecedented 60 posts/sec were recorded.This is congratulating nairaland and nairalanders for this great record that has been set and also hoping the record will be surpassed WHEN NAIJA WINS THE OLYMPIC GOLD,  for more info on this go to www.b.bc.com(lol).

And do i hear my people say a big amen to naija winning the gold?AMEN

AMEN

ride on sis ,ive gat ur back

Gamine:
Yeah im a Child

Before!

What i say has to be Childish

ok,no wonder u quote d bible childishly,i understand

grafikdon:
Where is that Prophet of doom 'Thor'? Come see as Naija take Belgium do kpoff kpoff,

him no go come,shame dey ctach am

Gamine:
Why this monkey boy just dey follow pesin eh?

i no get banana wetin be hin own sef 


@Rampant, i know its hard for someone to admit their misunderstandings

i get what you are saying. since Engrish grammer may be too hard for you to comprehend, let me put it in Naija lingo.


What me i dey talk, be say, Chris Okotie no suppose remarry if he never divorce her, even tho she go marry another pesin

if he divorce her, ehen! he don free to marry.

finito.

dis post is so so childish,i tot u were more matured than dis

abeg wen naija dey play again? im beginning to have interest in football

metodman:
@rampant, there are some people u don't have to follow talk

abi oooo,thank u sweetheart

gabe_logan:
e be like say na australia onyinye dey

for where she dey, the match go start tommorow

she been dey another planet

xyoung:
to

rampant,
iyineda,
jids,
desgiez

ar Y al tryin 2 speak english here.
did dey mould u guys?
or did u escape from drawin Book?



When  God dey share sense dey give people,
Una go hide,

na your self u dey do, 
hahaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa


loserrrrrrrrrrssssssss

dis reply  has stated clearly dat u r still imature,i will give u my time by d time u start thinking wt ur  head and not u tiny ass,till then carry ur wahala go

onyinye2:
I see most of yal are still living the win over Ivory Coast. Now it is time to face reality. Belgium is a not Ivory Coast. Belgium will pick up on Nigeria's not so strong defense. And that is what Belgium is know for. They press from the beginning of the game to the very last seconds. So i hope Nigeria is up for the challenge because if they think this game is going to be easy like Ivory Coast, may God help us all.

onyinye na which century u dey live for?game wey dem don play since and naija win belgium na him u still dey find way to watch

Brash!:
is that effigy called GAMINE even worth replying to JK?

i'd say nah, shez a dimwit!

Just chatting all sorts of jargons as if she knows everything!

u and gamine never reconcile as friends?

but seriously this man is free to remarry ,only on d condition that d wife cheated on him,that is exactly what i read in my bible,except evrybody bible dey different

Brash!:
i wont be surprised!

no mind d anu mpam wey dey talk rubbish here,i dont know why dis internet allows 14 yr old kids to log on,its supposed to be from  18 and above

xyoung:
i guess the rite medals STanding for the soccer event is,


GOLD--------------------argentina
Aba made SILVER-----nigeria
BRONZE-----------------brazil
PLASTIC-----------------belgium
TIN CUP-----------------ivory coast
POOOO-----------------italy
PRISON SENTENCE---USA


I culdnt have said better,
dnt gt it twisted plsssssssssssss

how old r u?'14 i guess

Gamine:
You are confusing yourself.


If they hadnt divorced and she went ahead to marry someone

ofcourse, the woman is an adultress and Chris Okotie cannot remarry.

the Christian thing to do, is to forgive, and if she dosnt want to come back

he divorces her,

Whats so hard for you to understand

the akpu your drinking is making your head heavy o

says who?he has every right to remarry as long as his wife was unfaithful to him

my dear abeg i rest my case on ur side,u no sabi wetin u dey talk atall

make u read matthew 19:9 properly,read it very well wt ur two eyes opened,u will find out that u r so wrong


buhbyeeeee

deejnr:
thank u all for your replies. i have lost the will to make things work. i have lost the will to try. i don't even know if i have any feelings for my husband or not.
to bkplur: i've been a member of winners since when i was 6yrs old. my husband is equally a member though we did not have a church wedding because i choose not to. - most importantly - we are in diaspora  but we do however watch the services online.
i believe it takes 2 people to get married but 1 to seperate. i cannot fight my husband or inlaws. I don't have the strength to. Mentally, physically and emotionally, i feel drained.
I am tired and God it's hard, but 'm just lost,  'm exhausted u know.
really tired. its nothing like i imagined it would be, nothing i anticipated

u need to sit down alone and think sweetheart

ask your heart if you're still inlove wt your hubby,sit yourself down and really think,because u might be saying u don't love him because of the emotional torture you're going through,and u might be saying it because u have lost all hopes

your answer will be d only solution to your prob,if u still love him,give him a little more time ,if u don't well ,i wont say anything but its better not to be married than be in a loveless marriage

oziomatv:
Babe you're correct

naaa u r more correct,u predicted well

ndi igbo unu ri'kpole (a suo mu ka ndie owerri)

Thor:
Not just talk, I have based my prediction on past and current form!

Brazil - Belgium final

Gold - Belgium
Silver - Brazil
Bronze - Argentina
Tin Cup - Nigeria

hehehehehe shame ooooooo,ur prediction is false,oya go enter well

dudu-bobo:
You are all invited to come and drink a bottle of Pepsi each in celebration. make we wash am

lmao so na only pepsi u wan offer us abi?


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honestly siasia has tried no be small,he deserves better

so naija won?
dis bois have made us proud oooooooo




_{infact wey my green passport again,i need to dust am to show off}