Coincidence?

afope:


please do everything u can to raise money and go for it. u will not regret it. if u MUST chose one option due to financial constraints, please choose U.I

Lol. Before nko.

afope:
i will advise you run the two programs. It will pay off in the long run.

I did the same thing. I ran my HND in Ilaro and my BSC in OAU concurrently. I even served with my HND while in 400 levels in OAU. It was tough, very tough but the rewards are immense. You must study hard,have pals who will assist you sign attendance sheet and do some leg works when u are not in school etc and you must be well above average academically.

The rewards-
1. You can work anywhere...
2. The stress will prepare you for real life stress when u start working
3. Get more invitation for interviews as interviewers will be curious to meet you to explain to them how you manage the two
4. strong point for you during interview when the interviewer ask you if you can cope with work stress
etc

I wish I could also do this, but monetary constraints. Already paid acceptance, school fee and house rent in Ilaro for HND when UI came calling. Struggling to raise fees for UI now.

cutiedave:
bro i would advise u to go to a skul where ur chances are higher...so ur distinction wont b a waste...
D same happened to me last yr...i thought with my distinction from yabatech and good olevel(B parallel) i could enter any skul...so i decided to pick u.i instead of unilag....i still regret dat decision everyday all ma other classmates with distinctions were admitted to unilag...

Just pick a skul where ur chances are higher...

To those who still think UI is absolutely transparent and would accept them if they meet JAMB's requirements, this is a case in point of what I've been reiterating. Good O'level, brilliant ND and yet...
I'll say it again, your ND/O'level must be super impressive to get in through DE. Either that or your "inside person" is very impressive.

The dry season has gotten to his brain too fast.

kunlex445:


Not for every candidates, it is for those who were admitted on PT doing their ND and for those whose admission is not recognize by jamb... for you to know if you need to do the ' Late application' or not, go to jamb site, click on check admission status and select the year u sit for the jamb. If it shows 'sorry No admission given yet' You need to regularized but if it shows otherwise, I.e congratulating you for a successful admission in your school, stating your course and duration,You need no regularization number....

I hope this help...

In the case where the congratulation was for another course? Like someone originally admitted for Mechanical Engineering but didn't have a complete O'level for it and was switched to Estate Management. If JAMB is displaying the admitted status for Mechanical Engineering and not the actual course, Estate Management, would one still need to do regularization?

Iykepromotions, please come and personally mentor me. I need this type of source of income to put myself through the university. Please, how can I contact you personally?

dealslip:


Feminist ke, you nor see the long list of lame conditions. Don't wear ankara, don't wear hairnet, who keeps that kind of stupid and dumb man. he should be snatched with immediate effect by any interested women interested in adopting a man child. what do I get in return. Biko relationships are two sided. what do men have to do to keep their woman. The woman must keep her man like he is some object without senses that can be captured so easily. who wants such a dumb man.

Ma, you have vex? Carm* Dan*.

Elle277:
All this to keep ur husband ni??.. wondering what it will take to keep God..

Where are you taking the thread to now?

dealslip:


sir while the woman is doing all of the above, what would the man be doing. yet he takes glory for the well being of the whole family. if it is about putting food on the table, the woman was eating before he met her and probably driving her car too. most Nigerian men are just over grown babies seeking attention.

Ok ma.

frosbel2:



First off I am a MAN , a modern MAN.

The onus is on the MAN to preserve his marriage and protect his family, the woman is not a property of his, she is not a piece of meat - away with your backward ancient mentality.

If a man expects a woman to be decent he MUST be decent himself, if he expects a WOMAN not to have any flaws he must make sure he is perfect. Before marriage , the onus is on both man and woman to know what they are getting into before tying the knot, you cannot get married and start crying foul years later.

OK sir.

dealslip:


Sister, it is sickening. It is now obvious that most African men are retarded and imbeciles. It is better not to marry than become your husband's mother. The only thing left is to find baby carrier to be carrying this men around on our backs. They claim to be the head of a home but cannot even keep the home, train the children and love their wives irrespective. Even the ones with potbelly, poor sex skills, bushy armpit and pubic area, short, erectile dysfunctional peni.s will be giving conditions of how women should keep them.women have suffered.

I sense a staunch feminist or one in the making.

frosbel2:
So the woman essentially must not only take care of the kids and home, please her husband and have a part or full time Job, she must also work hard to retain her man throughout the marriage ?? Total STUPIDITY and r.etarded AFRICAN MENTALITY.

Marriage is a union that should be full of kindness, patience , love and humility. If you see a flaw in your wife remember you may have two more , so be patient and work with her to be better, don't stress her out abeg, life is not only about s.ex, s.ex, s.ex , s.ex, s.ex, in our S.EX MAD SOCIETY.

If a MAN cannot honor his wife and family by keeping his cassava parked , then he should be ashamed of himself and deserves no respect whatsoever.

The things Europeans have done to us. All the above does not need to be stated before a sensible and self-respecting woman knows she should do them.
Forget the talk about AFRICAN mentality, a decent woman would not need to work hard to achieve all the above listed.
If a woman gets married to someone she knows genuinely loves and understands her and the feeling is mutual, then there won't be a case of one party cheating. But it's either their life-partner-eligibility judgement has been clouded by looks, money or position, for majority of them.

Also, you women need to stop getting your panties in a bunch whenever your obligations/flaws are pointed out to you.

SexySapphire:
I love his conclusion, if a man will cheat he will cheat no matter what a woman does. Hardly will you see 2 out of a group of 10 guys who is totally faithful to his spouse. Cheating has always been the in-thing and I don't think it will stop anytime soon.

I bet you'll say your present partner is half of those special 2?

What "My Pastor, Daddy G.O, Father in the Lord etc" will destroy in the lives of all you gullible Nigerians will not be countable. You will tell them, worship God if you want not your church or your pastor. They will not listen, obstinately following teachings of men that have twisted the core teachings of their respective religion. I'd call them stupid, but I know some quite intelligent people that are theists.

Now, concerning the post. I feel your struggles woman. I do. And as most other NLers have said, you shouldn't directly broach the topic to said G.O., if at all you'll be discussing it with him. Try doing the following;
1. Follow the wise advice of the NLer that was talking about recording your conversations with the pastor and stylishly get him to tell you the full story surrounding the oil.
2. Change your church if you're obstinate enough to keep putting your life and wellbeing in the hands of one and some "men of God".
3. You're supposedly a child of God, apply yourself to your faith and do not let a Twitter life, i.e. followfollow, destroy you!

I hope you're enlightened enough to see the difference between worshipping a church/pastor and worshipping God. I also hope you have not been irreparably damaged by the vices of those villains.

Andre10:
Apro 6

Hello Mate.

ezteem:


Funny guys are bae.... plus, I always see threads "couple who met on NL now engaged" . I don't even know how the whole email thingy works.

But on a second thought. I just checked out your pic. I think I'll pass

Really? You don't think she's pretty? Smh. Boys will be boys.

Isaolamide:


Can someone help please

https://www.nairaland.com/1923424/nysc-direct-entry-medicine-surgery

Most schools require the certificate or a letter of exemption. So, it is advisable to just go through with service since you'll still end up doing it anyway, so far your age permits.

That is why women are the pillars of a home while men are the casting. Any home that is successful, it is the woman of the house's doing and vice versa. A woman's place is to be the strength of the family. My wife will be my strength, my right hand person, my friend, my counsellor, my everything. God bless her wherever she is presently.

Paraphrase, biko nu. I couldn't even read past the heading of each advise. The prior paragraph to that gan lasan, na die.

Capslock01:

Unilag will not accept your grade. Funaab is cool though. Food technology? I don't think it is that competitive, abi it is?. Maybe UI will be okay abi RandomHero what do you think?

True, UNILAG is a NO! UI? No. FUNAAB though, I think they just place emphasis on having your complete papers in one or two sittings, so I think Capslock01 is on to something good. You could also consider OAU/OOU. (Though I honestly never refer people to OOU due to personal reasons.)
With time though, I would help you narrow down a suitable list of schools that you stand a really good chance of getting in and hopefully it's your dream course too.

Cc Geniustic

krinniebouqui:

You got it right!have been home trying those schools. The 4.01 is upper credit.
Are you now suggesting OAU or UI? Wich one is most suitable, and besides have never tried any polytechnic simply because of this HND discrimination..

If I'll be suggesting based on posts in this thread, I'd say go with OAU; as they're acclaimed to give ND applicants a fair chance of DE admission.
However, addressing the issue of HND discrimination, it's been two years. I studied Statistics, but I don't need to have done that to know that any venture that does not have at least 0.8 probability of occurring is just as well not worth praying on. Rather settle for parallel credits in WAEC than retake 5-7times because you want A1s, right?
I was called while in school, Federal Poly Ilaro, studying to get my HND, that I've been offered admission in UI. Better late than never and better HND than wasted years.
If you've got age on your side, you can faith it and go for just the DE, if not, please improvise.

HND can always be upgraded.

You're female, there's an amount of time pressure society has imposed on your gender that can't allow you to be obstinately stuck up on one ambition.

Divide your eggs, it has been two years.

stupidity:
If na buuby, I dey make sure say I press am sotay, the thing go vex shoot out.


Tips for guys that got buubyless girlfriends:

When alone with her, tell her to take off her shirt, then tell her to do cow girl style for you. Then go under her like a mechanic. The small buuby will be right in ur face, then start pulling them as is you are milking her, pull am hard. no mercy.
Nor fear, they won't pull out.

Do this to her morning and night for 3months.
Cossy will congratulate her.

krinniebouqui:
Pls,I graduated from the polytechnic ibadan with 4.01 in food science and technology as an ND graduate.have tried unilorin and funaab all to no avail,am now thinking of which school to go for again..pls help mi...

From this, I take it that you've been home for two years after your IT trying out FUNAAB and UNILORIN?
Have you tried going for HND in Federal Poly Ilaro, Yaba College of Tech or your alma mater? No? Why? Yes? Good for you!
But if you're still intent on university education, why not try OAU or UI. Is that 4.01 equivalent to distinction? If it is, you could also try UNILAG.
But please, along with DE, take HND form for a good polytechnic too.

MicroSweet:
With this testimony, ladies will now be forming like "Any guy that really wants me, will always stick around, no matter how shitty I treat him"...

Well, will only apply to guys who have the patience to stick around and take the BS.

i.e. Guys without self respect.

niggi4life:
Taking a closer look at the guy, u will observe that he's still scared of touching the girl sef

Na dis kind geh go dey control d family once dem marry and d guy must dey keep up with d chase even after marriage because d girl look like d type wey go dey give timetable for sex

Walahi!

wonukwuru:
I am adult married to a lady of 35years. We have been married since 2007. God has blessed us with 3 wonderful children( 2 boys and 1 girl). Before we got married, i agreed with my wife that i only want to have 2 kids ( I wouldnt mind if they just boys or girls. That means, Im not particular of the sex of the kids). My wife is a B.sc Accounting graduate, while myself, I am a Chartered Accountant, with a well paid job. My wife had a 3rd class degree. On several occassions, i have told her to go back to school for Post Graduate Diploma (PGD) in order to upgrade, but she plainly told me that she cannot go back to school again. When i asked her why, she told me that her brain cannot withstand any academic stree again. I also suggested to her, since you studied accounting in the university, why not enroll for ICAN program? When i said that to her, she told me that she could not go for PGD, is it ICAN that she can do? I have been thinking, what will i do for her to be like others.

Luckly, was transferred to Benin. I went with my family to Benin. We stayed over 4years in Benin. While we were in Benin, I told my wife to go and enroll for a 6months diploma programm in computer (because she is not computer literate). I paid over N110,000 for the 6months programme. My wife only went for the programme for 1month and stopped. She refused to complete the program. When I asked her, she told me that she will go back after she had "put to bed"( Then she was pregnant). Guys, its over two years now and the baby is even in pre-nursery school, yet my wife has not reminded me of going back to complete the programme.

Last year, she asked me to open a store for her, that she want to go into trading. When I asked her the nature of the business, she said, she wants to deal on selling rice, beans, yams, groundnut oil, etc. I now suggested that it will not be a problem, but she has to look for somebody who is already in the business so as to understudy the person for atleast 1month. She refused, saying that without her understudying anybody, that she can still make it. I told her that my reason of suggesting to her to understudy somebody was that, i wanted her to be selling in wholesale. My plan was to give like N1.5million. I told her, i cannot just release N1.5million to her for a business that she did not learn. I told her that N1.5million is not a small money. Brethren, that was why up til now, i have not opened the business for her.

My children's school fees is over N650,00 per term for the 3 kids. I provide for feeding. My wife does not want to do anything as to assist me in the family. I give her money for her hair, cream, bathing soap, panties and clothing. Im really getting tired. My salary does not carry the family again because of too much expenses.

Another problem now is, my wife's dressing is nothing to write home about. She dresses as if she is in her late 60s. I have complained to her on several occasion that i dont like the way she dresses, but each time i bring up the issue, she will get angry. People around, have meeting my sisters to tell them that my wife does not dress well as somebody that has gone to the university. Even in my house, my wife only tires wrapper. Nothing in her again attracts me to her. Infact, for the past 3 months, i have not slept with her. I sleep in the parlour while she sleeps in the bed room.

Else, i forget, my wife delibrately "took in" again since July last year. This is after we agreed that the 3 kids that we already have is enough. Her method is, each time i remind her of what to do as to be assisting me in the family, she will delibrately "take in".

My wife, went to the university but she cannot speak simple and correct english. She cannot write application letter. She cannot teach my kids who are in primary 2 and 5 respectively. I pay a lesson teacher N30,000 monthly for my kids but my wife is at home doing nothing. Since we got married, my wife has not sent me text message on her phone more than 3times. The ones that she sent, my brothers, there are lots of gramatical blunders. When i confronted her with the text message, she could not say anything. I was checking for some documents in my room last week, and i came across an application that my wife wrote to submit to a private school where she wants to teach. When i saw the letter, believe me, my brothers, one of my kids that is in primary 5 cannot write such rubbish.

What i thought she was before i married her, is not what she is. I cannot take her out for an occassion because she may embarrase me by her conduct in the public. I need a divorce but the problem now is, i did i court wedding with her. What should i do? Im confused.

OP, I feel your struggles, as my friend is going through a similar though lesser scale of it. Their is nothing worse than being in the wrong marriage, especially court marriage with kids.
The pros and cons of divorce, far as I know;
1. Kids have to pick sides; this is never a good thing, ever!
2. Yes, you finally get to X that wife you can't seem to love anymore, but are you planning to go back to your bachelorhood?
3. Bring in new wife who you "think" is right, but remember you once thought present wife is also right.
4. New wife comes, happy new year! She's the model wife doing everything right, the kids love her too. You're thinking you made the right choice.
5. You think now it is time to court marriage her, again. Then package changes, kids are turned to maids/butlers.

I'm tired of typing. Just go and see a marriage counsellor. I know that's still the best thing to do in any case. Please don't pay heed to all the insults NLers without maturity are hauling. Do not hit your wife!

PLEASE TAKE THE BOTH OF YOU FOR MARRIAGE COUNSELLING

Modified
Do not give her the 1.5million naira if she doesn't make any effort to go and learn that trade. Think about your kids. She may run you to the ground when she starts struggling to keep it up then comes asking for extra capital to block shock waves of looming collapse. Be realistic! If you refuse to give her the extra capital, she may go and start borrowing from friends of the family or even family, putting you in an embarrassing position where you have no choice but to pay for the debt. Remember, realism is a life saver. Your income may not always be as it is, you can only hope it gets better but....
Do not give her that money until she goes and learn under someone you have approved and then she comes and draws you a feasible business plan.
Think about your kids, give them a good life.
God bless you.

kerryjossy:
The truth of the matter is that the poster has actually seen some other woman that he loves and wants to be with. Thats the only explanation i can give for a man that has lived with a woman for 10yrs and suddenly wants a divorce for the qualities he has seen in that same woman all through those years!.

Men and lies are like 5&6

I don't lie. I'm brutally honest.

Quintessential1:


I won't indulge you. Each man to his beliefs.

Quintessential1:


I believe absolutely in God and not science.

Oh really?! Everything you presently are is basically science. Except God is your real time tailor, cosmetologist, engineer, doctor etc. So, please, don't attribute everything directly to God.

sogud:
[color=#000099][/color].......d devil is a liar upon d life of dis family. God is d giver n teka of life..............God is gud

Or maybe biology?

Rapmoney:
Typical Nigerian mentality! Every accident must be the handwork of spiritual enemies!!!

And every escape from it must be the handwork of God. Smh.