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Enkidu:
Thanks people for all your sincere advice so far. Interestingly, the women posters seem to hv a better grasp of the situation. I'm a bit dissapointed at the men. Now, its so easy to say forgive and do this and do tha,t because your not one feeling the pain . I hv not dislocsed this to any close freind or family member because i prefered to throw the issue at complete strangers and get their feelings. Specifically, I wanted the men to put themselves in my shoes, imagine that they were the victim, try to feel a tiny bit of the rage inside me and then advise me accordingly.
And for those that asked, yes i was faithfull for the entire period i was away. Hard to believe, eh? I am a rare bread and thats why its soooo painful.
Now, I ask all of u, isn't there something so sacred and so precious that one should be willing to kill or die to defend? If so, is one's family honour not worth killing or dieing for?? My family is in a mess, the future happiness of my child is in jeopardy while this MO/FO is enjoying his own family life and probably thumping his chest. Wouldn't killing him be an act of self defence??. Who amonst you would not kill to defend the lives or the integrity of your family?

Enkidu:
The family system or structure is the basic pillar or cornerstone of any society or nation both in our traditional and modern times. If we are all willing to fight, kill and and to die to defend our nations, shouldn't we do the same for our family??

BEAUTIFUL NONSENSE !!!

If God is to kill any1 that sinned against Him, instantly, would you be alive by NOW?. . .

And also, we need answer to the question below:

sicily4u:
@poster, do u have any proof that they Were Intimate together ? or are u just saying with out a fact

OP, pls, we need speedy answer. Dont keep us waitin!

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=705239.msg8649070#msg8649070 date=1309800617]Do the crime, do the time.[/quote]Tell him!

rokiatu:
I think you are taking this a bit too far. You are probably one of them clod snakes that hold on to things for so long and has to take drastic action before letting go.

Well its your calling.

Let me put myself in your shoes, and I am being sincere here. If I was married and my husband do such a thing to me, I would not even attack the other woman. My husband is the one who had the audacity to sleep with her. In other words, he is telling me that he has no respect for me, our relationship, and our love. He is not a kid, he give his consent, I am" not even gonna blame it on "He got seduced". nor am I gonna start blaming other people. He is in a relationship with me, he is the one responsible for everything. Without his consent, nothing would have happend. I am not stoopid to kill the other woman for that. No I am not stoopid. My mother blessing is behind me, I can not do something so silly.

What I am trying to say is that, your freaking pride, ego, family integrity or what every you want to called it was drained by your own wife.

Get that in your head young man. And the stoopid luv or stupidity that is making you to think like this will clear up asap!

Well said, gal.

OP, you stil wanna hear some sincere advise from the guys?

Then mine is, dust off and move on (for the 3rd commandment of God says: THOU SHALL NOT KILL !!!

^ Thaz harsh, gal.

Why call him ba$tard?

Nayah:
Ranoscky sorry but we've always crossed each other but I'm there though or post something I'll reply

Alright then.

The celebrity that I wish to marry is Nayah!

Nayah, If honeric wasnt reffering to u, then Rano is refferin it to YOU!

Nayah, longtime gal. . .miss u!

^^ Leavam naa. . .

Until him go dey chop half don beans for breakfast, na dat time him eye go clear!

OP, na warakpa dey worry YOU for head !!!

Do you know how many times you have sinned against God, has He killed you yet?. . .U'r the most cowardest coward cow ever, for even thinkin of killin som1. Common, go and settle whatever problem u have with your wife, and leave that young man alone, u nyash burgger !!!

I just paid $10,000 into your bank account!

iyatrustee:
does nairaland celebrities count?

To the best of ma knowledge, the title of the thread is: Nigerian Celebrity You Wish To Marry?

Is Hotie Tima not a Nigerian?

Hotie Tima.