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Christianity EtcRe: Dealing With Sexual Immorality In The Church by Raphsays: 9:59am On Dec 22, 2024
This post does not tell us how to deal with sexual immorality in the church.
So what’s the essence of the post.

Accepting Jesus is just the first step , however, it doesn’t deal with sexual immorality in the church.
After all many so called born again peeps in the church are into sexual immorality.

Provide practical solutions and not rants
Nairaland GeneralRe: Why Is it That Old Friends Tend To Ignore You Once They Are Rich by Raphsays: 2:51pm On Dec 12, 2024
@op

I feel your pain, and it’s understandable to feel hurt and frustrated when people you helped in the past seem unresponsive or ungrateful now that they’ve achieved success.
Life can sometimes feel unfair, but I want to remind you of a few things:

1. Your Heart and Efforts Matter
You’ve been a good person—helping others win bets, sharing your winnings, and supporting friends during school.
Those actions speak to your kind and giving heart. Even if people don’t reciprocate, your generosity was never wasted.
What you sow in life often comes back, even if it’s not through those same people.

2. People Change
Sometimes success changes people, or they may have their own insecurities or reasons for not reaching out. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re against you or don’t value what you did—it could just be their own way of dealing with life now.

3. Your Time is Coming
That vow you made? Hold onto it as a declaration of faith, not bitterness. Keep working, learning, and putting yourself out there. Surround yourself with people who will uplift and encourage you. Your breakthrough may be closer than you think.

4. Stay Focused on Growth
Instead of waiting for those who ignored you, look for opportunities around you. Network, learn new skills, and remain open to ideas from unexpected sources. Sometimes blessings come from strangers, not the people we expect.

5. Let Go of Resentment
Bitterness can hold you back. Release any anger or disappointment you feel toward these people. Your success will be sweeter if it’s fueled by hope and determination, not vengeance or pain.

You have the fire and determination to succeed. Keep pushing and believing.
Your story isn’t over yet; it’s just building up to a powerful chapter.
CelebritiesRe: 65% Of Married Men In Lagos Are In My DM - Pride Evy by Raphsays: 3:16pm On Nov 27, 2024
Zico5:
Liar. These daughters of Jezebel can lie. How is it possible for 65% of married men in Lagos to be in ur DM. Do you know how many married men are in Lagos. I'm a married man in Lagos and I have never heard about u or your existence.
Exactly my thoughts. She's another blockhead seeking online attention
FamilyRe: I Can't Run Ads On My Facebook And IG, I Need Help by Raphsays: 1:32pm On Nov 24, 2024
Mode4:
I am currently using a UBA dollar master card, but each time I try to boost my post on my business page on facebook and IG, it doesn't work. I keep getting an error message that, Meta cannot extract funds from the card.

This issue has happened before when I used an FCMB naira master card and my account has been barred from running ads. I have opened a new account but it's still the same issue.

It was even because of the issue that made me get a dollar card and yet it's the same thing I am facing now. Please if anyone has a good idea on what I should do, please let me know. Adim very tired 😫
Are u trying to run the ads from ur phone or a desktop?

Facebook ads are better suited to run from desktop computers rather than mobile phones.
FamilyRe: Pastor Proposes To Widow At Husband’s Funeral by Raphsays: 5:23pm On Nov 11, 2024
Pastor already eyeing someone's wife possibly before husband died.
Well pastors are humans too with blood and flesh like other men, so it doesn't matter his title.

However, that man must be investigated
TravelRe: Woman Blames 'Posting Achievements Online' For Accident That Left Her Paralyzed by Raphsays: 7:26am On Nov 11, 2024
What sense does it make to post achievements online that’s full of envious people.
Foreign AffairsRe: Equatorial Guinea Sex Scandal: Woman Allegedly Commits Suicide On Seeing Videos by Raphsays: 5:59am On Nov 05, 2024
Some more women involved in the s3xtapes will still join her through same route.

When they were doing it, pleasure took over not minding the aftermath.

Now it’s payday.
PoliticsRe: Electricity Consumers Demand Disconnection Over Rising Tariffs by Raphsays: 7:35am On Nov 02, 2024
Staying away from estimated bill is the beginning of wealth creation for Nigerians.
The estimated bill is designed to choke one into big time debt especially in areas with poor power supply.
BusinessRe: Can I Get A Shop For Rent In Lagos For This Price? by Raphsays: 6:53pm On Oct 25, 2024
Odee2:
I need a shop/space.
Please if you have a budget friendly shop in a busy environment on the mainland precisely (shomolu, yaba, gbagada, ogudu, ojota, oworo)..

Budget: 200-500k
It really depends on size and location within these areas u specified
These days shop rents are determined by level and quality of traffic in that environment.
The higher the quality and quantity of traffic the higher the rent.
CrimeRe: Owner Of Stolen TV Sends Bees To Retrieve It (Video) by Raphsays: 5:47pm On Oct 25, 2024
I only saw a man carrying tv and moving up and down.
Looks like acting
Foreign AffairsRe: Shirel Golan Dies By Suicide On 22nd Birthday. by Raphsays: 8:35am On Oct 21, 2024
What a way to die, losing one loved one is not easy how much more to witness the death of 11 in a gruesome way.
RIP
RomanceRe: This Is What I'm Doing To Save Money — What About You? by Raphsays: 7:06pm On Oct 12, 2024
Nice thread.
Started barbing myself.
Skipped driving everywhere, anywhere close I walk.
Also dropped processed food and drinks to embrace more natural healthier and cheaper options.
Minimized hanging out with friends in the evenings. I can go a month without hanging out with anyone
Minimized giveaways, people only reach out more because of what they can get. If there’s nothing to get, they won’t even call to say hi
Christianity EtcRe: Bishops David Abioye And Thomas Aremu Retire From Living Faith Church by Raphsays: 10:35pm On Oct 10, 2024
Bandakisk:
https://x.com/therealchurchg1/status/1844420395618689419?t=duklF_AV_KdVj_ErzLTSSg&s=19[/quote]A man will always be a man. Human nature doesn't change even with pastors
Christianity EtcRe: Olympics Most Iconic Photo: What I Discovered About Viral Christian Post(Photos) by Raphsays: 10:00am On Sep 29, 2024
jesusjnr2020:
Olympics Most Iconic Photo: What I Discovered About Viral Christian Post

I first saw a viral Christian post on social media about a Brazilian surfer in the Olympics told to remove Jesus from his surfboard or risk disqualification, but he decided to walk away instead.

It was so inspiring to see how yet another Christian defiantly chose to take an unwavering stand for their faith in Christ considering how the tournament held in France had proven to be blatantly fashioned to make a mockery of Christ and Christianity especially via its opening ceremony.

God bless.
So good that we have the Power of Choice. The power to chose Good over evil.
PoliticsRe: Patience Uno, Wife Of Akwa Ibom Governor Dies by Raphsays: 3:38am On Sep 27, 2024
What a way to start the day for her family.

Rest in peace Ma
CrimeRe: Nigerian Pastor Arrested in Thailand Over Scam-Related Documents (Picture/Video) by Raphsays: 7:08am On Sep 26, 2024
This one is Among those tarnishing the image of our dear nation.
U won't go scot free.


Biznesworld:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vd6U6RIqyQg

Thai authorities have apprehended a Nigerian pastor, an illegal immigrant, for possessing sensitive documents revealing a massive international scam.
The cleric who's an illegal immigrant, had compiled a database of victims' personal information, including:
- Profiles with names and addresses
- Social media accounts with login credentials
- Home addresses
- Bank details etc

Thai authorities have sent a strong message: scamming will not be tolerated, regardless of nationality or profession. The public is reminded to be cautious of fraudulent schemes, Protect personal information and report suspicious activities to authorities.
CrimeRe: Joseph Efe Who Lures Abuja Hookup Girls Speaks (Video) by Raphsays: 2:31pm On Sep 24, 2024
This kain business of his get as e be.
This should be the end of the road for him if handled well
RomanceRe: I Need A Husband; Please Help My Life - Lady (Photo) by Raphsays: 6:04am On Sep 19, 2024
maasoap:
How do you know from the picture and that terse message that she hasn't improved herself enough.


Lol. You watch nollywood movies too much grin grin grin


May be that's why she's now taking this bold step.
Bottomline: you guys should stop giving unsolicited advice to strangers you don't know anything about
U dey do I too know, but with hindsight it’s not d case from ur comment.

I don’t watch nollywood movies like u because I don’t have that time.

If she’s developed herself enough as u think she won’t come online telling us she’s looking for an husband.

Finally I don’t need an unsolicited advice from you with respect to my comments as u know nothing about me and u are not in a position to offer such.
RomanceRe: I Need A Husband; Please Help My Life - Lady (Photo) by Raphsays: 4:54pm On Sep 18, 2024
looks like husband is one important thing.
Millions of married people are not enjoying marriage.

At times i begin to ask the big deal about marriage these days besides having children.
My two cents make she improve her life and stop looking for a husband.
The ideal man will show up if he hasn't showed up before and then discarded.
PoliticsRe: Fuel Hike: I Wonder Where This Guy Keeps His Fuel Now; Funny 2022 Post Trends by Raphsays: 9:31pm On Sep 09, 2024
He go dey carry am about
CrimeRe: Ogoshi Brothers Jailed For 17 Years In US For Sextortion Scam by Raphsays: 9:26am On Sep 06, 2024
Nigerians have turned to something else tarnishing the name of this great country because of the love of money.
Christianity EtcRe: Living Faith Church Worldwide Sack Senior Pastor For Corrupt Practice by Raphsays: 5:10pm On Sep 04, 2024
No source and another scrappy article put together article to defame pastors.

I don't believe this because i am so confident with that level of allegations against the
pastors, Pst Kezi will not remain as a Pst at LFC.
CrimeRe: I've Just Been Duped by Raphsays: 11:10pm On Aug 22, 2024
@ op
i am sorry about your ordeal.

The guy is as good as gone unless u want to spend money in order to get hm

Lesson well learnt.
When something looks too good to be true, use ur sixth sense.
PoliticsRe: FG Blocks N83bn Protest Funds, Arrests Political Collaborators by Raphsays: 8:16am On Aug 14, 2024
There are more wicked people than the govt outside.
That whole chunk of money put together for a protest can be channeled to improve the lot of Nigerians.
No wonder people tend to spend millions on the burial of a friend or relative rather than helping when the deceased was alive.
CareerRe: Am I Doomed? by Raphsays: 8:10am On Aug 05, 2024
Nifemy4:
Am i doomed? i am 34 years old without a solid skill whatsoever, i got a first degree, worked as a customer care agent since 2016 in a private firm. i am literarily soaked in the ocean of regrets, i had wanted to quit to pursue other dreams and invest time to acquire new high rated skills , but i was scared of the unknown. now 34 years gone by, how can i even think of getting married with such a shallow skill. i am lost and confused...

no insults please, i am pained already.
I sense a deep feeling of frustration and regret in your words.

However you must understand that You're not doomed! Unless u just want to be

At 34, you're still relatively young, and many people have successfully transitioned
careers or acquired new skills in their 30s, 40s, and beyond. So yours cannot be different

Take a deep breath and let's break this down:

Acknowledge your strengths: You have a first degree and 8 years of experience in customer care. These are valuable assets!

Identify your interests: What are your other dreams and passions? Make a list, no matter how wild or impractical they may seem.They can always be handy to help you make helpful progress in life.

Explore new skills:: Research high-rated skills that align with your interests. You can start with online courses or certifications to test the waters.The good thing is that these courses are easily available online and offline.

Take small steps: Don't feel pressured to quit your job immediately. Start by dedicating time outside of work to learn and explore new things that aligns with your experience and interests.

Seek support: Just like you have done here, talk to trusted friends, family, or a mentor about your feelings and aspirations. You might be surprised by the encouragement and guidance you receive.

Marriage and skills are not directly correlated: Your worth and readiness for marriage aren't defined by your skills. Focus on personal growth,and making more money as get fulfillment in your purpose and the right person will appreciate you for who you are.

You have today and you can start now. Don't give way to despair at this young age.
PhonesRe: Subscribers, TELCOs Disagree Over Data Billing by Raphsays: 7:27am On Jul 25, 2024
stano2:
Airtel is worst in zapping
MTN has joined them

I spent 11k in one week for data, something that has never happened before
PoliticsRe: Economic Crisis: Slump In Port Operations Puts 40,000 Jobs At Risk by Raphsays: 6:49am On Jul 02, 2024
These are really challenging times for our country Nigeriia.
RomanceRe: Just Because She Said No by Raphsays: 7:13am On Jul 01, 2024
Sapasenator:
Guys, ladies, what do you think? If she said no, are you able to give her more time and ladies, when you say no to a guys proposal, do you expect him to keep trying, hanging around or just cut off.
Does it make her more special when a man decides to hang on for a Yes from a lady.

There is really no time if a lady says No just move on to someone else. Many times u meet ladies
far better and less stressful than the ones that want u to keep begging them for acceptance.
PoliticsRe: Appoint Labour Leaders Into Sensitive Position In Govt - NLC Urges Tinubu by Raphsays: 3:04pm On Jun 27, 2024
Funny people. Just imagine "sensitive positions"
FoodRe: A Crocodile Was Terrorizing an Australian Town. The Residents Cooked And Ate It by Raphsays: 6:43pm On Jun 16, 2024
HisXLNC1:
Na inferiority complex dey worry Africans... Nigerians especially. Always expecting the white man to give validation to what they do. Wetin white man carry for body way black people no get? Imagine somebody abandoning their culture to embrace that of the whites. Who tell you say na white man culture be civilization? Civilization started in Africa.
I totally agree with u
FoodRe: A Crocodile Was Terrorizing an Australian Town. The Residents Cooked And Ate It by Raphsays: 9:41am On Jun 15, 2024
No be only Nigeria that wild animals are killed and eaten.

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