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This post does not tell us how to deal with sexual immorality in the church. So what’s the essence of the post. Accepting Jesus is just the first step , however, it doesn’t deal with sexual immorality in the church. After all many so called born again peeps in the church are into sexual immorality. Provide practical solutions and not rants |
@op I feel your pain, and it’s understandable to feel hurt and frustrated when people you helped in the past seem unresponsive or ungrateful now that they’ve achieved success. Life can sometimes feel unfair, but I want to remind you of a few things: 1. Your Heart and Efforts Matter You’ve been a good person—helping others win bets, sharing your winnings, and supporting friends during school. Those actions speak to your kind and giving heart. Even if people don’t reciprocate, your generosity was never wasted. What you sow in life often comes back, even if it’s not through those same people. 2. People Change Sometimes success changes people, or they may have their own insecurities or reasons for not reaching out. It doesn’t necessarily mean they’re against you or don’t value what you did—it could just be their own way of dealing with life now. 3. Your Time is Coming That vow you made? Hold onto it as a declaration of faith, not bitterness. Keep working, learning, and putting yourself out there. Surround yourself with people who will uplift and encourage you. Your breakthrough may be closer than you think. 4. Stay Focused on Growth Instead of waiting for those who ignored you, look for opportunities around you. Network, learn new skills, and remain open to ideas from unexpected sources. Sometimes blessings come from strangers, not the people we expect. 5. Let Go of Resentment Bitterness can hold you back. Release any anger or disappointment you feel toward these people. Your success will be sweeter if it’s fueled by hope and determination, not vengeance or pain. You have the fire and determination to succeed. Keep pushing and believing. Your story isn’t over yet; it’s just building up to a powerful chapter. |
Zico5:Exactly my thoughts. She's another blockhead seeking online attention |
Mode4:Are u trying to run the ads from ur phone or a desktop? Facebook ads are better suited to run from desktop computers rather than mobile phones. |
Pastor already eyeing someone's wife possibly before husband died. Well pastors are humans too with blood and flesh like other men, so it doesn't matter his title. However, that man must be investigated |
What sense does it make to post achievements online that’s full of envious people. |
Some more women involved in the s3xtapes will still join her through same route. When they were doing it, pleasure took over not minding the aftermath. Now it’s payday. |
Staying away from estimated bill is the beginning of wealth creation for Nigerians. The estimated bill is designed to choke one into big time debt especially in areas with poor power supply. |
Odee2:It really depends on size and location within these areas u specified These days shop rents are determined by level and quality of traffic in that environment. The higher the quality and quantity of traffic the higher the rent. |
I only saw a man carrying tv and moving up and down. Looks like acting |
What a way to die, losing one loved one is not easy how much more to witness the death of 11 in a gruesome way. RIP |
Nice thread. Started barbing myself. Skipped driving everywhere, anywhere close I walk. Also dropped processed food and drinks to embrace more natural healthier and cheaper options. Minimized hanging out with friends in the evenings. I can go a month without hanging out with anyone Minimized giveaways, people only reach out more because of what they can get. If there’s nothing to get, they won’t even call to say hi |
Bandakisk: |
jesusjnr2020:So good that we have the Power of Choice. The power to chose Good over evil. |
What a way to start the day for her family. Rest in peace Ma |
This one is Among those tarnishing the image of our dear nation. U won't go scot free. Biznesworld: |
This kain business of his get as e be. This should be the end of the road for him if handled well |
maasoap:U dey do I too know, but with hindsight it’s not d case from ur comment. I don’t watch nollywood movies like u because I don’t have that time. If she’s developed herself enough as u think she won’t come online telling us she’s looking for an husband. Finally I don’t need an unsolicited advice from you with respect to my comments as u know nothing about me and u are not in a position to offer such. |
looks like husband is one important thing. Millions of married people are not enjoying marriage. At times i begin to ask the big deal about marriage these days besides having children. My two cents make she improve her life and stop looking for a husband. The ideal man will show up if he hasn't showed up before and then discarded. |
He go dey carry am about |
Nigerians have turned to something else tarnishing the name of this great country because of the love of money. |
No source and another scrappy article put together article to defame pastors. I don't believe this because i am so confident with that level of allegations against the pastors, Pst Kezi will not remain as a Pst at LFC. |
@ op i am sorry about your ordeal. The guy is as good as gone unless u want to spend money in order to get hm Lesson well learnt. When something looks too good to be true, use ur sixth sense. |
There are more wicked people than the govt outside. That whole chunk of money put together for a protest can be channeled to improve the lot of Nigerians. No wonder people tend to spend millions on the burial of a friend or relative rather than helping when the deceased was alive. |
Nifemy4:I sense a deep feeling of frustration and regret in your words. However you must understand that You're not doomed! Unless u just want to be At 34, you're still relatively young, and many people have successfully transitioned careers or acquired new skills in their 30s, 40s, and beyond. So yours cannot be different Take a deep breath and let's break this down: Acknowledge your strengths: You have a first degree and 8 years of experience in customer care. These are valuable assets! Identify your interests: What are your other dreams and passions? Make a list, no matter how wild or impractical they may seem.They can always be handy to help you make helpful progress in life. Explore new skills:: Research high-rated skills that align with your interests. You can start with online courses or certifications to test the waters.The good thing is that these courses are easily available online and offline. Take small steps: Don't feel pressured to quit your job immediately. Start by dedicating time outside of work to learn and explore new things that aligns with your experience and interests. Seek support: Just like you have done here, talk to trusted friends, family, or a mentor about your feelings and aspirations. You might be surprised by the encouragement and guidance you receive. Marriage and skills are not directly correlated: Your worth and readiness for marriage aren't defined by your skills. Focus on personal growth,and making more money as get fulfillment in your purpose and the right person will appreciate you for who you are. You have today and you can start now. Don't give way to despair at this young age. |
stano2:MTN has joined them I spent 11k in one week for data, something that has never happened before |
These are really challenging times for our country Nigeriia. |
Sapasenator:Does it make her more special when a man decides to hang on for a Yes from a lady. There is really no time if a lady says No just move on to someone else. Many times u meet ladies far better and less stressful than the ones that want u to keep begging them for acceptance. |
Funny people. Just imagine "sensitive positions" |
HisXLNC1:I totally agree with u |
No be only Nigeria that wild animals are killed and eaten. |