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FashionRe: How Many Of You Remember This Lady by Raphsays: 6:17am On Jun 01, 2024
I hope she’s still doing well for herself. Because it will be too bad if went back to grass she rose from
PoliticsRe: Ahmad Satom: How Will the National Anthem Bill Solve Hunger and Insecurity? by Raphsays: 3:27pm On May 26, 2024
UselessBuharist:
You be goat, I can’t allow you derail my plans with God today
Goat useful pass u. U useless animal
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PoliticsRe: Ahmad Satom: How Will the National Anthem Bill Solve Hunger and Insecurity? by Raphsays: 7:25am On May 26, 2024
UselessBuharist:
slowpoke, you are always here to fool your family
It’s so obvious u are seriously mentally sick.
Not worthy of sharing normal healthy conversations with.
Ur family has a lot on their hands already with an idiot like u in their fold.
PoliticsRe: Ahmad Satom: How Will the National Anthem Bill Solve Hunger and Insecurity? by Raphsays: 5:49am On May 26, 2024
Greenfusion:
whether he is seeking attention or not, or whether he has contributed or not...d fact is that he has made some sense now.
Yes he has. And that is y he’s in the news. Well said sir
PoliticsRe: Ahmad Satom: How Will the National Anthem Bill Solve Hunger and Insecurity? by Raphsays: 5:48am On May 26, 2024
HateBigots:
Respectfully, please shut tf up. He called out his colleagues for wasting time instead of focusing on more important issues.
Respectfully, shut ur gutters after all just as u have ur opinion , others do have theirs without u having u to spill the contents of ur gutters.
PoliticsRe: Ahmad Satom: How Will the National Anthem Bill Solve Hunger and Insecurity? by Raphsays: 5:45am On May 26, 2024
UselessBuharist:
You guys don’t fail to show your stewpid side
Of course ur response here shows how stepid u are.
PoliticsRe: Ahmad Satom: How Will the National Anthem Bill Solve Hunger and Insecurity? by Raphsays: 5:44am On May 26, 2024
BlakKluKluxKlan:
At least, he is far more reasonable than the fools that litter the house.
Yeah, u are absolutely correct on this.
PoliticsRe: Ahmad Satom: How Will the National Anthem Bill Solve Hunger and Insecurity? by Raphsays: 5:43am On May 26, 2024
cigaricon:
At least he is sensible enough to speak against the misplaced priorities. Now the question is What have been YOUR contribution to the food crisis in Nigeria as a citizen? undecided
Tell us YOUR own contribution before asking others.
PoliticsRe: Ahmad Satom: How Will the National Anthem Bill Solve Hunger and Insecurity? by Raphsays: 1:19pm On May 25, 2024
Attention seeking rep. What has been his contribution to the food crisis in Nigeria as a rep member?
CelebritiesRe: Mohbad Was Using My Glory - Mohbad's Dad Speaks (Video) by Raphsays:
This man needs to be checked upstairs.

Even if he used his glory, was it not better Mohbad used it instead of the man to waste it away.
Afterall his glory was not useful to him
RomanceRe: My Recent Encounter With A Church Girl by Raphsays: 9:14am On May 25, 2024
Animegirl:
I wonder why men always claim we're the bad ones in any given situation.

Anyway.

To be honest your girl gat wisdom. If a guy gives me his phone, I go straight to his message and weigh is bank account. Then I move to his pictures, just to check where he has visited like(abroad), so that I can press button very well.

Op, you won't be crying here if your account wasn't dry like sahara desert. Is not by force to marry, let the girl know who you're, everyone is an hustler.

I don't know why broke Nigerian men complain the most.
U will be so disappointed if u checked mine because I don't receive alerts as i am not subscribed to alert services. grin grin grin grin
But with hindsight y give a stranger your phone?
Christianity EtcRe: Lawrence Kozak, Catholic Priest Stole ₦55M From Church Money To Play Candy Crush by Raphsays: 12:33pm On May 07, 2024
So Everyone including a catholic priest has what he/she is addicted to.
AgricultureRe: Poultry Workers Bury Eggs To Steal Them (Video) by Raphsays: 11:25am On Apr 19, 2024
Stealing mechanisms everywhere.
BusinessRe: Why Prices Are Still On The Rise Despite Appreciation Of The Naira by Raphsays: 5:34pm On Apr 18, 2024
It's cash out time for many GREEDY Nigerians now.
Prices may not fall until Nigerians react.
PropertiesRe: Tank Farms For Sale by Raphsays(op): 9:58am On Apr 14, 2024
FOR OUTRIGHT SALE BY OWNER:
A functional tank* *farm at Dockyard Apapa, Lagos.

Capacity: 3O million litres.
No of tanks: 10
Loading bays: 6
Products stored: AGO & DPK. Can interchange tanks for any product. All tanks are fireproof

Size: Built on 2.5 acres of land.
Title: Certificate of Occupancy registered at Lagos State Lands Registry.

Price 18 billion net
5 % commission net

REQUIREMENTS
1) LETTER OF INTENT FROM BUYER OR HIS REPRESENTATIVE
2)COMFORT LETTER FROM BANK


NB:
The Buyer Has To Show The Evidence Of Either Bank Guarantee Or Comfort Letter Before Taking Him To The Seller. pau
BusinessRe: Aliko Dangote Celebrates His 67th Birthday Today by Raphsays: 9:18am On Apr 10, 2024
Happy Birthday Sir. May days be long
PropertiesRe: Satellite Town, Festac, Amuwo & Ago Axis: Top Properties For Rent And Sale. by Raphsays(op): 7:41am On Apr 03, 2024
To Let!!!

1. One room,sharing only the kitchen, for a single boy With running water and prepaid at Diamond Estate, Owolabi, Satellite Town
Rent 350k

2. Brand new standard Mini Flat with POP and necessary amenities available at Tedi Rent upstairs 700k/yr and downstairs 600k/yr, Video available
 
3. Brand new standard 2 bedroom  with POP and necessary amenities available at Tedi Rent upstairs 1m/yr and downstairs 900/yr, Video available

4. Brand new standard 2 bedroom with POP upstairs at Kessington, Satellite Town. Rent: 1m/yr

Interested? Please kindly send a dm
PropertiesRe: Satellite Town, Festac, Amuwo & Ago Axis: Top Properties For Rent And Sale. by Raphsays(op): 8:53am On Mar 22, 2024
To Let!!!

1. Very Spacious Room in Duplex:
Location: Abuleado Axis
Features: Wardrobe, water, prepaid meter, separate toilet, small kitchen space
Suitability: Strictly for single lady
Rent: 350k/year

2. Room in a Flat:
Location: Close, satellite town Features: Shared kitchen
Suitability: For a single lady
Rent: 250k/year

3. Clean Room and Parlour Self-contained:
Location: Upstairs, Owolabi, Satellite Town
Features: One toilet, prepaid card, clean compound, clean running water
Rent: 400k/year

4. Mini Flat:
Location: Upstairs, Uptown, Close to Ilepo Bus Stop
Features: Very large and neat, prepaid meter, running water
Rent: 650k/year

5. Brand New Room Self-contained (90% Complete)
Location: Off Olasunoye Str, Ijegun, Satellite Town
Features: well water
Rent: 200k/year

6. Three Bedroom Bungalow:
Location: Shell Estate
Features: Self compound, secured environment
Rent: 1.5 million/year

7. Two Bedroom Bungalow:
Location: Shell Estate
Features: Self compound, secured environment
Rent: 1 million/year

8 Room Self Contained:
Location: Ago Last Bus Stop
Rent: 700k/year
Suitability: Single guy/female

9. Single Rooms in Green Field Estate, Ago:
Location: Green Field Estate, Ago
Features: Each unit has a toilet and bath, but no kitchen
Suitability: For single guys
Rent: 200k/year per unit

10. Mini Flat Upstairs with Two Toilets at Park View Estate, Ago:
Rent: 800k/year

11. Mini Flat Upstairs (One Toilet) at Green Field Estate, Ago:
Rent: 900k/year
Preference: Guy preferable

12. Mini Flat Downstairs (Two Toilets) at Green Field Estate, Ago:
Rent: 1.1m/year

13. 2 Bedroom Upstairs (Ensuite) at Green Field Estate, Ago:
Rent: 1.3m/year

14. 3 Bedroom Downstairs at Off Park View Estate, Ago:
Rent: 1.5m/year

15. 3 Bedroom Upstairs at Startime Estate, Ago:
Rent: 1.5m/year

Send a dm if interested.
RomanceRe: How Do I Kick Out This Lazy Man Out Of My House. He Is Draining My Pocket by Raphsays: 10:08pm On Mar 17, 2024
Obavoh:
A lazy 42 years old man with a wife and 3 children. No job. Living with his mother.

I mistakenly invited him into my home to hustle with me not knowing I have opened the door to the devil.

For almost 2 months now this man has been with me, I feed him 3 times a day along with my family. We both get paid daily but for this man to release money for his own meal or transport na war Haba mana!

I wake up around 5am to go to work, this man will still be sleeping. When He comes to site late he will still ask me to pay for his transport fare.

At first, i was patient with him until his wife called to tell me that he has not been sending money to the family.

As if that is not enough, Yesterday, he was gisting our workmates how me and my wife wanted to cause earthquake in our bed. I was embarrassed but I had to laugh it off.

I don’t know how to tell him to leave my home as I had promised him that I will help him. I find it difficult to break my promises.

How do I go about this?
This situation definitely requires a firm but fair approach. Here's how you can address it:

1.Direct Conversation: Schedule a private talk with him. Briefly acknowledge your initial good intentions of helping him out.

2. Set Boundaries:Clearly state that things haven't worked out as planned. Be honest: "The current arrangement isn't sustainable. You haven't been contributing financially and are arriving late to work, causing issues for both of us."

3. Timeframe for Leaving:Give him a reasonable timeframe to find alternative accommodation. "I need you to find a new place within [amount of time] weeks." Offer to help him search for resources online or connect him with people who might have leads.

4. No More Financial Support: Be upfront that you won't be covering his meals or transportation anymore. "Moving forward, you'll need to be responsible for your own expenses."

5. Clear Communication: Emphasize that you're still willing to help him get back on his feet, but it has to be done independently. "I want to see you succeed, but you need to take charge and show initiative."

Note that

Focus on facts: Avoid accusatory language. Stick to concrete examples of how his behavior is impacting you.
Maintain Respect: Be firm, but avoid personal attacks.
Address Your Discomfort: Don't be afraid to mention how his comments about your family life made you feel. "Those kinds of jokes are inappropriate and disrespectful."

Breaking a promise is tough, but so is being taken advantage of. Keeping him around creates a negative situation for you, your family, and even him. By setting boundaries now, you're giving him a chance to become self-sufficient.

Additional Tips:

If he resists leaving, involve your spouse in the conversation
Consider having a witness present during your talk, like a trusted friend
In extreme cases, if he becomes aggressive or refuses to leave, you may need to involve the authorities

You're not responsible for solving all his problems. Your priority is your own well-being and your family's.
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Just Cheated On Me With Someone I Warned Her About by Raphsays: 7:05pm On Mar 13, 2024
When a lady tells u consistently that she doesn't like a guy.
Watch out! Because she has already fallen head over heels for the guy.
CelebritiesRe: Mr. Ibu's Corpse Arrives Enugu Ahead Of Burial (Video) by Raphsays: 8:51am On Mar 12, 2024
It is well.
PoliticsRe: Funeral Service Of Rotimi Akeredolu In Pictures by Raphsays: 2:08pm On Feb 23, 2024
safe journey and rest in perfect peace sir
PoliticsRe: Funeral Service Of Rotimi Akeredolu In Pictures by Raphsays: 2:06pm On Feb 23, 2024
safe journey and rest in perfect peace sir
PropertiesRe: Realtors And Agents Are Going Through Alot. by Raphsays: 6:55pm On Feb 16, 2024
scholes23:
Agents are the major cause of accommodation problems we have. From them misleading clients against their will to go for a house that's not good , knowing fully well that the house is bad but their greed wouldn't let them .
Few months ago, my brother got an apartment, thankfully the owner is a nice person. She opened up to us telling us that agents are instigating that she should increase the house rent and that she's spoiling business for them. This is not fair at all. With what is going on in the country, everything is increasing except salaries and you want someone to increase rent. Like you nor dey pay rent abi na you build house for the owner.

Maggots
Except the agent is the caretaker of the house whereby he/she generates income from the rent paid, it's only the owner that benefits from rent increments.

With increased rents, it even makes it a bit harder to get a willing client and as such makes the task of earning from commission even more tricky especially if the agent is not the principal agent with several other agents marketing same property.

The biggest beneficiaries from the real estate industry still remains the investors such as the landlords.
RomanceRe: Aftermath Of Valentine's Day Romance (picture) by Raphsays: 4:58pm On Feb 14, 2024
imagrg:
This may eventually be the consequence of St. Valentine's Day!
You are absolutely right.
Many naive and hungry girls would be taken advantage off today especially at night.
PropertiesRe: Surulere Properties To Let And For Sale by Raphsays(op): 6:22am On Feb 05, 2024
TO LET

1. Standard 3 bedroom office space on Itire road by Shaga b/s surulere
Upstairs, #3m, ask.

2. Standard Roomself contain at Babs Oni str off Agbebi road ijeshatedo surulere
#220k, 1yr

3. Standard Roomself contain at Mogaji str off Agbebi road ijeshatedo surulere
#300k, 1½

4. Newly renovated clean Miniflat at Enitan str via Adetola road Aguda surulere
#750k

5. Standard Shop on Mogaji str Ijeshatedo surulere.
Good for any business
#200k

6. Specious clean 3 bedroom flat at James Robertson str surulere,
Upstairs,
#1.7m

7. Nice 3 bedroom office space off Adeniran Ogunsanya rd surulere
#2.5m

8. Open space on Adeniran Ogunsanya rd surulere
Upstairs,
Suitable for: office use, businesses,
#2m

9. Clean sharp 2 bedroom flat off Enitan road Aguda surulere
Upstairs, POP, water running all round tiles car park, prepaid meter
#1m, 1yr.
Christianity EtcRe: Video Of Nigerians Praying For A Faulty Transformer: Dino Melaye Reacts by Raphsays: 8:27am On Jan 25, 2024
nlfpmod:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MCk16NN0iGY?si=gbqrquIEMoIZzABo

Senator Dino Melaye has reacted to a video where residents of Ikota Housing estate in Ajah, Lagos state, converged for prayers over the faulty transformer in their area.

Sharing the video on his social media page, Melaye wrote:
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These guys are Really sick i must admit.
This is a case of misplaced priorities.
Let them raise money to fix the problem instead of wasting time, energy and saliva.
RomanceRe: My Experience With A Single Mother by Raphsays: 7:53pm On Jan 13, 2024
Hungerbadoo:
As in this lady didn't tell me she have kids. I didn't suspect tha too.
Yeah, it's part of getting to know her better.
RomanceRe: Man Dumps Fiancee Over Inability To Afford Wig by Raphsays: 1:50pm On Jan 09, 2024
reddingtonblack:
And on a 2nd thought have you considered the possibility the guy can't afford that wig or you think guyz just enjoy denying there partners items they can afford
the guy said he couldn't afford the wig. But he could come up with options that could make up for the particular wig she asked for.
Well many guys deny their ladies what they can afford if they feel she doesn't worth it.

reddingtonblack:
I laugh whenever i see netizens reminisce sit her down nd have a communication, sounds reasonable BUT what gives you the impression he hasnt done that already
From her outbursts u would know he has done that already. Communication doesn't just boil down to sitting ur lady down and start talking. Even when she asked him for the wig, he could suggest something cheaper and nice too. This is also communication.

reddingtonblack:
Humans don't just wake up and get fed up, there is always a build up and we all have gauge, patience with a materialistic gurl is a waste of time she will serve you break the day she meet one yahoo boy or rich man that can pay premium subscription
I am very sure the guy is always not giving the lady many things she wants, (her outbursts clearly states that).
After all he didn't state she's materialistic because if she was, he wouldn't engage her.

The guy got fed up because he was so sure he couldn't maintain the lady even as a husband.
And when one have slept with a lady he's not married to several times wetin remain again?
Any small tin na to serve her hot breakfast. Which the guy did.





Well, i understand how guys shirk when a girl starts billing.
I have understanding to a level and i can relate since i am a married man.
RomanceRe: Man Dumps Fiancee Over Inability To Afford Wig by Raphsays: 10:56am On Jan 09, 2024
Jewessgratitud3:
Your decision was too drastic and rash. You should tried to reason with her on why she made such statement, cut her some slack and see if she would do it again before leaving her. I mean... For someone to make such weighty statement, you must have really pushed her to the wall. Like you rightly said, she said you keep denying her, which means it's not that once you did it.

The girl too should have been more patient as what she requested for is not something that will kill her if she doesn't get it. The Wig can always wait or better still let her go and hustle and buy it herself.

Both of you were wrong .no be every small thing go enter I no do again.
I love this response.
It is most likely that this is not the first thing
that she has asked from her ex that he's denied her.

Patience and good communication was key here but
the guy didn't quite get it here.

With hindsight, he must have been looking for one silly
excuse to end the relationship.
PropertiesRe: Satellite Town, Festac, Amuwo & Ago Axis: Top Properties For Rent And Sale. by Raphsays(op): 11:29am On Jan 08, 2024
6. Standard 2brf at off community road, not far from the bus stop, in Ago Palace way....
Price:1.5m(upstairs) and 1.4m...(downstairs)

7.Very lovely/spacious 2brf at Ago palace estate in Ago palace way, all rooms ensuite, p.o.p, balcony, wardrobe and kitchen.
Not far from the major road...
Price:1.3m(upstairs)

8. Newly built 2brf at off community road in Ago palace way....
Price:1.1m(slightly negotiable )

9. Nice 2brf at canna view off community road, in Ago palace way....
Price:850k...

10.Spacious miniflat at hosanna estate, in Ago palace, not far from Zion Church...
Price:900k

11. Mini flat at Greenfield estate in Ago palace way...
Price:650k

12. Miniflat at Divine estate, off community road, in Ago palace way.. Price:600k and 700k, respectively.

13.Newly built miniflat with visitors toilet, at off community road, Ago palace way....
Prics:750k(up).

14. Flatshare, in a newly built 2brf in Ago...all rooms ensuit...A female banker client needs some one to share the flat with...
Price:500k...

15. Very big shop/showroom facing the major road in Ago palace way.
Price:3m(upstairs)

16. Very big shop with an office space in a plaza facing the major road in Ago palace way...
Price: 2.5m (up)

17. Standard/spacious 3 shops joined together in a busy street of Perkview estate in Ago palace way. It can be used for gym center and Spar, warehouse, Salon etc, but not for church, mosque or restaurant and bar.
Price:30k for each but 1m for the 3shops...

18. Standard shop at off community road, in Ago palace way...
Price: 250k, yrly.

19. Standard shop in Olushesi (Nwachuhwu road) facing the major road in Ago palace way.
Price: 300k yrly

Hurry while offer lasts

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