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CrimeRe: Kidnap Victim Knocks Down Abductor, Frees Many Captives Along Kaduna Road by Raphsays: 5:06pm On Oct 03, 2019
subtlemee:
Some of them don't even know how to use that gun or the courage to pull the trigger..it's just that the sight of guns sends shivers down anybody's spine
My dear those guys are trained to handle and to kill before assigning them guns for raids.
CrimeRe: Kidnap Victim Knocks Down Abductor, Frees Many Captives Along Kaduna Road by Raphsays: 4:56pm On Oct 03, 2019
This is interesting.
Just a little courage and all those stunts we watched in movies come back to help.
Nice one Usman.

No man is invisible including these useless kidnappers
FamilyRe: . by Raphsays: 4:23pm On Oct 03, 2019
The man must have been so grateful for what you gifted him. He just didn't express his gratitude in ur language or making a show out of it.
Don't stop expressing ur love to him by buying him gifts.
FamilyRe: Please I Need Advice by Raphsays: 4:16pm On Oct 03, 2019
Sorry about what you have been through.

Why did you miss d full 3rd year 1st semester exams?
It's most likely u'll carry over some courses.
The only way you won't end as a dropout is if u don't turn missing exams to a hubby.
PoliticsRe: President Buhari To Present 2020 Budget Next Tuesday - Senate by Raphsays: 3:35pm On Oct 03, 2019
Mrcomedimatic:
The Nigerian Senate says President Buhari will on Tuesday October 7th, present the 2020 Appropriation Bill to a joint session of the National Assembly.

Senator Adeyeye Adedayo who is the Chairman Senate Committee on Media and Public Affairs, disclosed this in Abuja while answering questions from Senate Correspondents in Abuja today Thursday October 4th.

The presentation of the budget is coming on the heels of the consideration and passage of the 2020 Medium Term Expenditure Framework and Fiscal Strategy Paper (MTEF/FSP) by the Senate.


https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2019/10/president-buhari-to-present-2020-budget-next-tuesday-senate.html
We are waiting .
CrimeRe: Burial Of South African-Based Nigerian Man Shot Dead In Onitsha by Raphsays: 3:34pm On Oct 03, 2019
Kingkzee:
May his gentle soul rest in peace
Amen
BusinessRe: How To Start Ankara Fabrics Business in Nigeria by Raphsays: 3:55pm On Sep 03, 2019
Nice one.
Thread bookmarked
RomanceRe: This Has Been Eating Me Up. Please, Folks I Need Advice by Raphsays: 10:36pm On Aug 25, 2019
Guy, stop begging girls to go out with you. If she's dating someone kindly let her be.
Don't let her take you as a weakling. After all, there are better single ladies out there if you can
open your heart to search. Don't play a role in destroying a relationship that she cherishes.
SportsRe: Junior Agogo Of Ghana Is Dead. by Raphsays: 4:36pm On Aug 22, 2019
Mavrick2012:
Remember that guy who terrorised Nigeria at the nation's cup in 2008?

Junior Agogo is dead. He died at a London hospital of an undisclosed ailment.

He has been down with stroke since 2015, 3 years after hanging his boot.
He died at age 40.

https://www.goal.com/en-ng/news/former-sheffield-wednesday-nottingham-forest-and-ghana/80s4t6w3mt911wbl1uey6e0vc
Na wa oh!RIP
FamilyRe: My Three And Half Year Old Son Inability To Speak Properly: Please Help by Raphsays: 5:22am On Aug 22, 2019
Your son does not have to be like the others.
Your job is to continue to give him confidence through his challenge.

Teach him lovingly, don't openly express your concerns to him.

Encourage him and tell him as often as possible the great guy
he will turn out to be.

I had similar fear for my last child (for now) a girl. All of a sudden,
the girl is just too hot to handle. Her teachers just love her.

Show him love and you will see the changes.

And if you strongly feel it is a disability, talk to a consultant.
FamilyRe: My Wife Does Not Know That I Know. by Raphsays: 6:33pm On Aug 21, 2019
SteveOfu:
MY WIFE DOES NOT KNOW THAT I KNOW.

I have been married for 14years 'we' have 3kids(all boys) but none of them belongs to me. I know this for a fact but my wife does not know that I know. Let me explain.
5years before I met my wife, I was involved in a car accident together with two of my friends. We were traveling from Kasoa to Madina and our car skidded off the road. I was the only survivor of that accident, my friends died. I spent about 11months at the hospital and that left me with a condition that says I can't have children. I gave my life to Jesus Christ and became a committed Christian after the incident.

In summary I became a pastor in a local church in my community 5years later and met my wife in the process. I did not tell her about my condition because I was hopeful that God will heal me. 6years into our marriage my wife got pregnant and had 'our' first child. To be sure, I secretly went for a DNA n it was clear I wasn't the father. I repeated the test for all 3 children and they are all not mine. I have been living with this situation for the past 8 years and I am beginning to get irritated by both the children and my wife.

My wife pretends to be a good wife. She goes round preaching to young women in the church about the need to remain faithful to their partners but she has had 3 children by another man or men I don't know. I want to confront her, but I am confused as to how to go about d situation

I am just angry and irritated by everyone in my house lately. I feel like a total stranger in my own home.

What should I do?
Very easy.
Just tell her your short story or give her this thread to read and see her reaction and get her confessions.
FamilyRe: I Have Been Married For Five Years, But I Want To Cheat by Raphsays: 6:29pm On Aug 21, 2019
Just file for divorce and be single again to enjoy adventure again instead of
committing a grave sin.
TravelRe: These Buses Are Not Lagos BRT Buses (see PHOTOS) by Raphsays: 12:52pm On Aug 09, 2019
Ok
HealthRe: 22-Year-Old Mother Battles Life With 'Strange Pregnancy' In Yobe (Photo) by Raphsays: 1:16pm On Aug 07, 2019
Let the will of God be done.
Hopefully, she will pull through.
FamilyRe: Help Me Delibrate On This Please by Raphsays: 5:54pm On Aug 05, 2019
This kind of girls loves bad guys.
She is not your type, kindly move on.

If you don't she will so break ur heart that you may attempt suicide.
Make hay while the sun shines bro.
Look for another lady....
FamilyRe: Should Family Background Influence Your Choice Of Spouse? by Raphsays: 5:47pm On Aug 05, 2019
It matters a lot.
Especially from the spiritual point of view.
Like Generational madness, bareness, infidelity, untimely deaths,lies and deceit etc
FamilyRe: Can I Wife Her by Raphsays: 9:43am On Aug 01, 2019
nigeriagospel:
She is well behave no pretence, very respectful and down to earth, all she want from me is to love her and be sincere with her, a single mother of one.

No woman is a saint but at least she can be trusted to some extend as we are all human, is it advisable for me to wife her?
Don't ask us, ask God! This is because He knows d end from the beginning.
FamilyRe: My Wife Changed 2 Weeks After Wedding!! by Raphsays: 9:41am On Aug 01, 2019
I will reply shortly. It's gonna be lengthy.
CelebritiesRe: Tracey Boakye: Why Fly Business Class When You Can’t Boast Of A Piece Of Land? by Raphsays: 11:59am On Jul 30, 2019
Na so. She is absolutely right!
FamilyRe: Am So Confused,urgent Advice Needed by Raphsays: 11:50am On Jul 30, 2019
rayrex:
Hi,i have been depressed since on tuesday it got to a point i told God to take my life cause of d hard ship we are facing(job less mess)i am a graduate from Uniport since 2013, have been job hunting but to no avail,got married but to a man that sometimes they owe salary currently for eight months now we dont know what is called salary and we have 3 kids,pls any legit jobwith a good salary will b ok am based in PH. A friend talked about insurrance job as a market er what do yöu think she said they pay 31k,btw insurance and bank job which will b better pls advice.I want God to surprise me b4 next month which is my 27th both day.Thanx cry
I am sorry about what you are going through. However, you are better off than several out there.

Someone talked about private lessons, I will also advise you look into that opportunity.

From your comments, it's like you don't want to do business.
No problem, dust your certificate and get a teaching job. This is the time
to apply. It's very likely you will get a school that will need your service for summer lessons.
An added advantage is that your children will attend without paying a dime.

Take advantage of that and start applying.

When d job becomes permanent, you pay subsided rates for school fees, you get paid monthly and you can
engage in extra classes if you are not lazy.
You will definitely pull through if you think and do enough.
FamilyRe: Is She A Prostitute Or A Caring Mother? by Raphsays: 11:40am On Jul 30, 2019
Isabellah:
A woman slept with a man to pay her kids school fees,is she a prostitute or a caring mother? Let's discus this.
A prostitute and a caring mother.
She slept with the man for cash makes her a sex worker.
FamilyRe: Beware Of Leeches In The Name Of Friends by Raphsays: 11:38am On Jul 30, 2019
Premiumwriter:
I first read of this in one of James Hadley Chase book and I thought it wasn't possible.

But indeed leeches exist.

They suck you as much as possible and cunningly too until you become aware of them.

Stay as far away from them as possible. They are not true friends. So long as you have the juice, they will keep coming once in a while like they are faithful but once the fountain dries out they become scarce.

I had this friend (who's friends with everybody else sha) who's always running to me for money.

The first time we met, it was when I gave him some money to mend his footwear. Ever since then, we became 'close'

And it wouldn't take long for me to understand his nature. At every single opportunity, he was either asking me for this or that.

The amount he often request is not always thar big and every time, it's either he's having headaches (and wants to buy panadol) or already have the panadol and wants to buy pure water.

I do give out but soon realized he was meeting several others asking them for the same thing.

From that moment, I just didn't even want to see him again. I mean we are all students for christ sake. We all have it rough.

But he keeps squeezing people of the little they have unknown to them that that's he's cunning way of survival.

When I saw him begging another of my friend yesterday after I refused him (though then I didn't even have anything on me) I wanted to shout at him but just decided to hold it in.
Now you know them kindly stay away.

The moment someone does not add value to your life,
honestly, you don't need that person as a friend.
FamilyRe: Soldier Gets Home After 8 Months To Meet His Wife 3-Months Pregnant For Her Ex by Raphsays: 11:34am On Jul 30, 2019
Another gist, please!

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