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[quote author=OnionBandit post=112036479]Marry a second wife and stop whining like a toddler. Be a man with Ballz. Never let that gender frustrate you

I'm on the verge of relocating, so marrying another wife isn't an option.

Good evening house.

Let me summary and kindly wait for your input.

i married my wife barely 2yrs now, and we have a daughter.

I have a decent job that pays me well on 6figures, and i shoulder 99% of finances in my home. Now the issue is my wife, i will break the issue into 3 parts;

1. She complains a lot that i don't help her with house chores, which I've advised her to get a house help, paying for help isn't my problem. but she will always insist i have to be the one helping not a house help..

2. With the fact that i provide for all the money @ home, my wife sees all i do as nothing anytime we have a bit altercations...as she always use my pain points during her abusive period, but will later say she was only joking as she doesn't mean those words. I'm i the one giving her these effrontery? because i like staying quiet during most fights or leave the home to cool off..

3. Finally, she's so loyal to her family @ the detriment of my own family mostly which i do complain about at times.

Mind you, I'm not good with chores, and i do hire external helper a lot while i was still single..

Now the main part, I'm to relocate to Europe this year with her and my daughter, but I'm a bit worried due to Western government overprotectiveness of women.

What if her verbal abuse continues over there, and that puts me in trouble with authorities (we all how worse women with bad mouth can be) OR I should just ignore and hope for the best..

Please advice !