. because i like staying quiet during most fights or leave the home to cool off..

godofuck231:
Learn to ignore and be confident, nothing kills a nag than ignorance and extreme self control

Kriss216:

Married men are truly suffering

One has to leave home just to avoid a nagging wife...a wife that suppose to be a comforter.

Maybe the reason I'm still single is because God knows I can't handle all these. No woman in this world except my mother is worth my happiness. I can't trade my peace of mind for anything as useless as marriage.

emmanuelbrown26:

U get d point now. When i talk about daughters of eve, they would come for my head. I dont just understand why we hv many simps thos day. Imagine in my own house that a daughter of eve will be talkinh nonsense

Kriss216:

Ike gwuru my brother.

And to think the husband foot 99% of the bills at home.

An unproductive liability giving you tough time at home

This is beyond SIMPism.

godofuck231:
Learn to ignore and be confident, nothing kills a nag than ignorance and extreme self control

Beremx:
All those advising the Op to get a second wife are not married. I dunno why people who are not married especially redpillers will come to family section and be giving useless advice.

rayparlour:
Now the main part, I'm to relocate to Europe this year with her and my daughter, but I'm a bit worried due to Western government overprotectiveness of women.

What if her verbal abuse continues over there, and that puts me in trouble with authorities (we all how worse women with bad mouth can be) OR I should just ignore and hope for the best..

Please advice !

DoctorOlasDesk:
Bad wife nor get cure o


Make sure you fix these issues before relocating with her o.

Given her character even when you relocate have an account in Nigeria you stash secret funds increase the worse happens. I bet you understand this.

She doesn't want to be under your control cause you didn't marry your real wife from the very beginning.


All women are this way but when they acknowledge they one they are with, they control it. Her not controlling it is directly saying she doesn't accept you but just staying with you for the benefits

rayparlour:
Good evening house.

Let me summary and kindly wait for your input.

i married my wife barely 2yrs now, and we have a daughter.

I have a decent job that pays me well on 6figures, and i shoulder 99% of finances in my home. Now the issue is my wife, i will break the issue into 3 parts;

1. She complains a lot that i don't help her with house chores, which I've advised her to get a house help, paying for help isn't my problem. but she will always insist i have to be the one helping not a house help..

2. With the fact that i provide for all the money @ home, my wife sees all i do as nothing anytime we have a bit altercations...as she always use my pain points during her abusive period, but will later say she was only joking as she doesn't mean those words. I'm i the one giving her these effrontery? because i like staying quiet during most fights or leave the home to cool off..

3. Finally, she's so loyal to her family @ the detriment of my own family mostly which i do complain about at times.

Mind you, I'm not good with chores, and i do hire external helper a lot while i was still single..

Now the main part, I'm to relocate to Europe this year with her and my daughter, but I'm a bit worried due to Western government overprotectiveness of women.

What if her verbal abuse continues over there, and that puts me in trouble with authorities (we all how worse women with bad mouth can be) OR I should just ignore and hope for the best..

Please advice !

Beremx:
All those advising the Op to get a second wife are not married. I dunno why people who are not married especially redpillers will come to family section and be giving useless advice.

To the Op, no one knows your wife more than you do. It’s all about understanding each other.
I dunno the kind of house chores your wife wants you to do. She has only a child for now and she’s complaining of house chores.

OnionBandit:
Marry a second wife and stop whining like a toddler. Be a man with Ballz. Never let that gender frustrate you

Marry a second wife and put her in another apartment. Spend one week here, spend one week there. If your wife continues to be abusive, increase the number of days you spend with the other. She will learn the hard way

I hate men who complain

Act!!!

HarunaWest:
You skipped the insult and started to comment on house chores.. You boor

ashawopikin:
but what if the second wife come worst pass the first? That na double wahala be dat o, will advice him to travel to europe alone make d wife no see am for some time