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CoderX:
In my own experience, both men and women easily take advantage of your love when they know you've fallen for them, especially in this part of the world.

The best thing to do is to draw a line and love with your brain, not your heart. Once you draw lines in the relationship, you won't be taken for granted anymore. If the lady is really interested and the feeling is mutual, your relationship will grow with time... But that's not to say you shouldn't show emotions at all, no, you have to... Otherwise it would be boring and one-sided which is even worse.

thanks

Hello Nairalanders i get this problem that always bothers me, the problem is each time i fall for a lady they start drawing back away from me, because of that i stopped taking relationship serious, for the last 6 years i have not been in a relationship, but this year i met a lady and we just clicked but truth is i did not want a relationship cause of my past experience of not having them love me like i will to them, so this lady i met was always all over me but i was not reciprocating to her love, she complains i dont care about her that i dont call nothing nothing, so i decided to show little care but before i know it i don fall yakata for her, then tuale she started drawing back upon all the love am showing her she start to dey see me as a disturbance, if i call sometimes she wont pick or she will pick and say i will call u bck later but for where, i was doing everything for her but she was not showing me the love like before, she says am too soft but i jst care and love her is it a crime, am tired and scared of loving someone, they always say this you are soft, calm, quiet.
I wonder what all that means am just a guy that loves with all my heart is it a crime?.
Is any one having this problem with ladies please advise me on what i should be doing to avoid being hurt all the time.

Pmedia7787:
I think you are wrong to have refuse the gift

You can keep the gift till she is matured to use it

Your molding is more of a thing of the mind therefore will always work in your child

Your child will grow up, to see more and have access to this thing when you are not even there

What you have thought he/she is what will help at that very moment

PS is very good

But depends highly on the usage

As per taking gifts to school during birth day

..you don't have to spend much to make a mark

lol u funny, jst like my parents keeping sega from me until i reach secondary school omo na ps2 era i go still dey play sega

SweetCunt97:
one can easily own a land and build a house here. So many developing cheap areas to invest in.

land way easy to be claimed by govt

City of packaging