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@fiizznation thanks for the advice. Though I know its very hard to keep going due to the pressure she is facing as she is still in school and solely depend on her parents for now. Can't help it seeing her crying everyday because of this. She live in fright at home telling her she Is a bastard wanting to bring shame to their family and all that. All her family members were scolding her. You know at times when you see the one you wish to spend the rest of your life with going through all this will leave you restless. You wont even mind asking her to do what her parents want just to make her at ease. But what's the eseence of you living with someone and your mind is somewhere else. seriously at times I do want to tell her to accept what they want because you hate seeing her in this kind of mood. They are living their life and don't know when our parent's will start letting us go for what we want and support us rather what they want. But at the same time you have to obey them

just been confused. Not even forcing her to convert. Though she told me she would like to convert to Islam after marriage. My dad is a Muslim and mum Christian and they are both living happily as me and my siblings were brought up in an islamic way and she never object for once to anything dad want. Praying everyday that her mum should change her mind but she wants a church wedding and i suggest we go for registry due to our difference in religion but she object to that. meaning am not welcomed. Have lived my lived my life loving only this lady and never cheated in her has she gat all what I ever dreamed of getting from a woman. Just confused. Though just finished my nysc and still searching for job but at this stage of my life, she is my everything that have ever dreamed of. Please advice me

Good day good people. Met this angel when I was doing my IT three years ago and never picture we going to be this close let alone of falling in love with her. I was born into a Muslim family though my mum is still a Christian till date and we live happily. In my life have never fallen in love with a lady this much and receive the same love in return. Am from osun state but she is from delta. Though they were brought up in ibadan. We both can do without eachother as we are deeply in love. The problem now is her mum, she didnt want her to get married to a Muslim. This has been the only issue in our relationship and its killing us both. Dont just know what to do, have never found this kind of love and now that I found it, the issue of religion is breaking us apart. Dont want to loose her and at the same time cant tell her not to obey her parents. She keeps crying everyday because of this. please advice me on what to do as this is really affecting us both. Thanks