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Young ladies please read this. Found this report on The Nation, and wanted to share it because a lot of young girls can learn from this. It's a story about a 300level English Language student of Nnamdi Azikiwe University, Annabel Nzubechukwu Edeh, who has not been seen since she left a night club with an unknown man many weeks ago in Awka, Anambra state.

Annabel had gone to the night club with friends on September 17th and as the group of girls prepared to leave, Annabel told her friends she was in need of money so would go home with a guy she'd met at the club and would return to school the following morning. It's been 6 weeks and Annabel hasn't been seen.

Read the full story as told my Oluchukwu Igwe, a 500l Chemical Engineering student of same school, after the cut...
They were six girls, who went to Lounge 24 Gaga, a nightclub in Awka, the Anambra State capital, on September 17. They are Calista, Uju, Lovelyn, Ada, Chika and Annabel. All of them are friends and live close to one another. When they returned to their hostels the following morning, one of them – Annabel – could not be found.
Where is Annabel? This was the question classmates of Annabel Nzubechukwu Edeh could not answer. The 300-Level English Language and Literature student of the Nnamdi Azikiwe University (UNIZIK) in Awka has not been seen anywhere, 43 days after she went to the night club with her friends.
Was she kidnapped? Is she dead? These are some of the questions being asked by her distraught family members and friends. She is the only girl in a family of three.
Annabel, 24, a native of Enugu State, was last seen on Wednesday, September 17 evening, when she left her Paradise City Hostel in Iyiagu Estate, Awka.
When she was leaving the club, Annabel reportedly left at midnight with a guy she met at the club. That was the last time she was seen. Annabel’s friend and hostel mate, who simply gave her name as Ifeoma, said. Continue. www..com/2014/10/girl-goes-missing-after-leaving-club.html

19 year old Chinese girl, Ju Peng who lives in Shanghai, and is currently on tour of China, says she plans to have sex with different men in every city she visits - as a way of paying for her trip. She posted an ad on Chinese website Weibo saying she's looking for "temporary boyfriends" who must be "good looking, under 30, taller than 1.75 metres and, of course, rich".

"They will fund my transport to their city and all my expenses while I am there and they need to be generous. In return, they get a whole night with me, my undivided attention, and a chance to show themselves off in the company of a truly beautiful girl."

Ju Peng wrote Many men, of course, replied to her ads, while the women called her ashewo lol...asking the ads to be removed, but Ju says she's not ashamed of her methods. She's already traveled to a few cities in China sleeping with men who fund her trip and says she wants to see many
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*.1. We learn better.

A study done at the University of Georgia and Columbia University found that women are better learners—basically, we have a better approach to expanding our minds. And, according to researchers, women tend to be more attentive, flexible, and organized. So at work, you're more likely to understand the task at hand better than your male coworker. Booyah.


*.2. We're smarter.

According to a study of IQ tests from around the world, women have higher IQs than men. Researcher James Flynn checked out the IQs of people from the U.S., Europe, Canada, New Zealand, Argentine, and Estonia, and found that women came out on top. Score.


*.3. We're cleaner.

A study from San Diego State University of offices across the U.S. found that men's desks and offices are germier than women's. Researchers discovered that men had anywhere from 10 to 20 percent more bacteria in their workspaces than women-and scientists say it's because they tend to be less hygenic. Ick.


*.4. We interview better.

A new study out of the University of Western Ontario found that women are better at handling the stress of a job interview. Researchers found that, while women get more freaked beforehand about interviewing, we do better in the actual event. Why? We prepare more before the big moment.


*.5. We evolve hotter.

A recent study revealed that women are getting better looking through evolution; meanwhile, men are staying the same. After following more than 2,000 people through four decades of life, the study showed that attractive women had 16 percent more children than average-looking chicks and that beautiful people are 36 percent more likely to have a daughter as their firstborn. All those gorgeous daughters mean more beautiful women than in past generations.


*.6. We survive car accidents more often.

This is sad but true: Men are 77 percent more likely to die in a car accident than women, according to a study done by Carnegie Mellon University. Our boyfriends should be thanking us when we nag them to "Wear your seatbelt!"


*.7. We're better at seeking comfort.

A Mind survey of 2,000 people revealed that women are far more likely than men to talk through their problems. Fifty-three percent of women talk to their friends about what's stressing them out, as opposed to 29 percent of men.

*.8. We're more recession-proof.

According to the Bureau of Labor Statistics, 80 percent of those who have lost their jobs since December 2007 have been men. Ouch. This could be because male-dominated fields have been hit the hardest, like manufacturing and finance. That really

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Read on as we show you the fine art of being a 'man magnet'.

Lips pouted and wine glass in hand, you walk around at your friend’s party only to realise no one is watching you. If just the thought is depressing enough, then you have still to learn a thing or two about attracting the right guy. Read on as we show you the fine art of being a ‘man magnet’.


1. Dress to kill: Did you know that the colour red has the ability to attract a man’s attention? Be it a glossy red lipstick, a gorgeous red outfit or a pair of killer red stilettos – you can actually pull him towards you without much effort. A little skin show won’t hurt either!


2. Make eye contact: If you want to be a man magnet, you have to show that you are interested and ‘available’! So how do you do that? Make eye contact, of course. But before that, you must master the art of grabbing his attention. You could either casually stare at the guy and exchange a few stolen glances or smile and blush to let him know that you are interested.


3. Power of touch: Once you have nailed the eye contact, prepare to strike up a conversation with the guy. A subtle smile will attract him and get you closer to him. Maintain a confident poise, and indulge in some harmless flirting by keeping your hand on his shoulder while sharing a joke. A tingle of excitement will surely make him lose balance.


4. Flaunt the right attitude: Men don’t like loud women, so take it easy. It is more about flaunting the right attitude that makes you a man magnet. Wear a positive attitude and show him that you are an ambitious woman. It’s clearly a turn on, trust us.


5. Wear a smile: A smile costs nothing, so
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A jilted lover has chopped off his own p*nis after he was dumped by his girlfriend, Metro.co.ukreports.

Oliver Ilic, 22, was told that he was no good in bed so it is claimed he mutilated himself then threw the remains in the bin.
He is alleged to have told doctors that he had a small appendage and cited that as the reason why his girlfriend was no use to him.
Ilic contacted emergency services when he could not stop the bleeding and was taken to hospital in the east Macedonian town of Kocani.

Police searched his house and discovered the severed organ in a bin after it had been cut off with a single swipe from a razor blade which was also lying in the bin.

Doctors were initially unable to re-attach his p*nis but he was then transferred to the capital, Skopje, where it was reunited with his body following five hours of surgery.
However they said it was still too early to know if the operation would be a success and if it would ever function properly again.
A 40-year-old Macedonian man recently also chopped off his own p*nis then flushed it down the toilet.
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The world of Nollywood actresses is associated with fashion, glamour and style. They turn heads at events, and are cynosure of attraction at every function. In fact, some of them live as comfortably as they appear on screen and rightly so, they have sacrificed so much to live like queens. We list the prosperous lifestyles of some Nigerian actresses.


Uche Jombo

Though she came into Nollywood as an actor in 1999 in the movie, Visa to Hell but currently, Uche Jombo Rodriguez is an accomplished screenwriter and producer.
Born in Abiriba in Abia State, Jombo, a graduate of Mathematics and Statistics from the University of Calabar and Computer Programming from the Federal University of Technology, Minna has featured in over 70 movies.
With her multi-million naira movie. production outfit, the former Glo Ambassador has a beautiful mansion in her hometown, in Abia State, and she’s almost completing another magnificent edifice in Lekki area of Lagos.


Kate Henshaw

Not much is known about Kate Henshaw’s investment outside Nollywood. But she is a force to reckon with in the industry as she is still the choice of most producers.
Having sojourned in the industry for over two decades, the dark-skinned actress who majored in Medical Microbiology at the School of Medical Lab Science, LUTH has starred in over 40 movies.

In 2008, she won the African Movie Academy Award for Best Actress as well as a mouth-watering contract with Samsung. The Cross River born thespian is the current Face of Onga, and one of the judges on Nigeria’s Got Talent. She cruises in expensive automobiles and spends fortunes on her dresses.


Funke Akindele

Funke Akindele unarguably could be described as the most successful Yoruba actress of her time. Popularly known as Jenifa, Akindele studied Law at the University of Lagos.
In 2009, she was adjudged the Best actress in Africa, by organisers of the prestigious African Movie Academy Award, AMAA.
Jenifa has been raking in millions of naira as regards her roles in movie aside her contract.
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Lagos Court on Thursday saved a 12-year-old marriage between Mr Femi Ajayi and his wife, Modupe.
The Court President, Mr R.I Adeyeri, was able to reconcile the estranged couple thorough counselling.
Adeyeri ordered Modupe to write an undertaking that she would change her attitudes and admonished the couple to maintain the peace.

The petitioner, Mr Femi Ajayi, 45, legal practitioner, had filed a suit seeking dissolution of his 12-year-old marriage over threat to his life, arrogance and extravagant life style.
He said that his wife always threatened his life with dangerous weapons whenever they were fighting by picking a knife or other sharp objects to stab him.
He described Modupe as a pompous, disrespectful and arrogant woman.
“She is so full of herself and does not have respect for me despite all I have done for her, I bought her four cars within our 12 years of marriage, yet she does not have regard for me.
“She does thing without telling me; she travelled out of Nigeria without my consent”.

Femi accused his wife of living. extravagantly, using any money she got to buy jewellery to the extent that she spent N250,000 meant for his children’s school fees.
He said that he would have divorced her two years ago, but he thought she would change and that they were living as enemies in the house as they had stopped talking to each other since June, 2013.

In her defence, Mrs Modupe Ajayi, 40, businesswoman, told the court that her husband was a “womaniser” and had slept with her best friend.
“My husband runs after anything in skirt; I caught him making love to my best friend in her house.
“I refused to employ any house help again as he has turned them into sex machines,” Modupe said.
She said that she stopped having sex with her husband since September 2013 because she always had infection days after he made.
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She is a Mother of two still look banging! Fast rising actress/model and mother of two beautiful boys Adunni Ade shows off her amazing body in this sexy bikini on set of "How To Marry a Diva.
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There is a load of relationship advice on the internet and in advice columns. Some of it is good, some of it is not so bad, but some of it is pretty awful! In fact, these days, anyone with a basic grasp of the language and a computer keyboard can offer their advice, but beware, not all of it makes a great deal of sense! Here are just ten of the, not so clever, relationship tips that you would be well advised to ignore:

Always wait for the man to make the first move

If you wait for some guys to make the first move, you are going to be waiting for a long time! This, so called rule, is long past its sell by date. Girls can take the initiative too, so ask the question; the worst that he can say is ‘no’.

Online dating is for desperate people
Many people now meet the love of their lives online, so does that make all these people losers? Of course not! Online dating is a convenient way for busy people to get introductions to like minded people. That’s why so many successful relationships have now blossomed from online dating sites.


Don’t let him know how you really feel

A bit of mystery is fine, but if you don’t let the guy know how you feel about him, how’s he supposed to know! Men are notoriously bad at reading between the lines; they need a little encouragement and prompting, so don’t leave it to chance.


Leave him waiting to hear from you

You’ve probably heard about the rule that says that you should wait three days after date before contacting him. Well, this is a rule to be completely ignored. If you liked the guy, then talk to him the next morning if you want to. Certainly don’t leave it for three days, because three days is a long time and a lot can happen in three days!

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The female breasts, also known as “the twins” or “the girls”, have remained the most conspicuous and attractive feature of the female sexual organ. Perhaps, its strategic positioning and function adds to its importance in the life of a woman.

Besides the age long biological function of the breasts as a source of food and nourishment for babies, the breast is also a major source of sexual attraction for the male specie, just as it is also a key sexual organ for the woman, highly sensitive to stimulation. The fact that they come in various shapes and sizes, further add to their uniqueness and endearing place in our hearts as humans.

As a sexual organ, the breasts have been known to give immense pleasure to both men and women during sexual encounters. In fact, some women have reportedly disclosed that they are capable of achieving orgasm even when thoroughly stimulated through sucking and caressing of the breasts alone. Though, because of this highly sensitive nature, some women find it very uncomfortable or even painful to submit their twin girls to constant sexual manipulation of any kind.
Interestingly, men are constantly drawn to the breasts. A lot of this attraction has been attributed to psychological composition, perception and beliefs.

For, pray, why would a full grown man be obsessed with sucking some mounds of milkless breasts? I don’t often get logical answers to this question when I ask. The function of the breasts in sexual behaviour has been attributed to human Face -to -Face copulation that is unusual among other mammals. Since the breast already serves the function of mother-infant bonding, then it is also excellent for male -female bonding, says an argument.

After all, it is just within reach. For those familiar with some of the social media platforms, you would have come across a particular message that has been making the rounds for a couple of years now. Purportedly attributed to the BBC as source, this message usually springs out during the cancer awareness months and in support of cancer prevention campaign. As expected, it elicits a wide range of controversies from both men and women, from humour to disdain and sexual innuendoes, while some others believe the content hook, line and sinker. The purported message is claimed to have been issued by the Ministry of Health in the fight against breast cancer. One of the versions I have received read thus:

Very soon, women will be paying men to have their breasts sucked! According to a report on BBC website, Doctors recommend

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A keeper: (n) someone who you’d likely spend the rest of your life with if you find him/her. My dear sister, sorry to say this, but that man you are clutching on to like the latest LV purse, is not a keeper.
I know it hurts- these truths; tearing at your insides like a savage beast. Would you rather I keep quiet and watch you mourn inconsolably a few months down the line over unrequited love and self-worth smashed to tiny bits; bemoaning time that cannot be recovered, with tear marks like a child forced to swallow pap without sugar every morning? Would you rather I turn the other way and pretend I didn’t see that gaffe- the one you tried to hide just so we can all pretend that your man is a good one?

Ah! My darling, I have a big mouth. Have they not told you? I have a big mouth andstrong opinions. You see, I used to be just like you, making excuses in the name of love; twiddling my thumb, biting my lower lip and blinking a hundred times at the sight of casual love mistaken for the real thing- you know the type that comes like a whiff of a fart, leaving a foul odour behind that kills your sense of humour and blurs your inner glow. I will not let you suffer this ignorance. Haba, what else am I here for? I will tell the truth and watch the devil run mad; lay down bare facts and watch demons flee.

Does he have healthy conversations with you? Heck do you have conversations at all?! Every day you meet after work at a bar on the Island- both of you, sharing a bottle of wine and a nice dinner. You think he meets up with you because he cares? No, he is only waiting for traffic to wane before he heads back to the mainland.

You sit for dinner; his hand should be holding yours, no? But where are those hands of his? On his damned blackberry- pinging away! He is smiling into a phone, chuckling and texting. Who is he texting? It doesn’t matter. It could be Bob Marley for all I care, it still wouldn’t make it cool. With all sense of love and reason, he should be handling your breasts…ok maybe not your breasts, but your hands- on the table, drawing love marks. That’s what a keeper does.

Where is the gleam in his eyes, ehn? The last time you saw it was last week when he was on top of you, riding you like a horse to its death. You saw it only for a split second before he poured his waste right inside your body. And then his eyes wouldn’t even rest on you for another second. Did he not roll out of bed and into the shower? When he came out did he not frown at you- still lying in bed, feeling like Monalisa (the painting)?

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We all know that exercise is good for you: it burns fat; it gives your heart and cardiovascular system a workout and it keeps your muscles trim. That’s all well and good for those who enjoy running thirty miles to get absolutely nowhere on a treadmill, but what if you want to lose some pounds, but you loathe exercising?
Did you know that there are ways that you can lose weight without having to work up a sweat or go on a starvation diet? Here we investigate some of the more leisurely ways of shedding a few pounds that don’t involve donning a woolly hat, a pair of running shoes and jogging around your neighborhood when you should still be at home in bed! Here are our 10 lazy tips on how to lose weight without exercise:


Laugh more


This doesn’t sound like a weight loss trick. Not only does laughing calm the nerves and improve the immune system, it also burns the calories and tones the abdominal muscles! A good ten minute laugh can burn off up to 50 calories. Never before has losing weight been so much fun!


Get more sleep to lose weight without exercise

Even more good news: resting and sleeping can help you lose weight! Scientific studies have shown that you eat more when you are stressed, tired and exhausted; and also when you feel anxious you are more prone to, so called, “emotional eating”. Therefore, if you sleep more you will eat less. Also, don’t neglect meditation, it also can help you lose weight without exercise.


Keep breathing


Obviously you have to breathe to stay alive, but did you know that you can lose weight by just changing the way you breathe? Diaphragmatic breathing, which is the way that singers do it, increases the oxygen in the blood stream which increases your fat burning capabilities and it also exercises your stomach muscles as well. The trick is simple: just breathe in through your nose and then slowly out through the mouth.


How to lose weight without exercise? Buy some new plates

An easy way to cut down how much food you are eating is to buy some smaller plates! Cutting down the size of your plate means cutting down your portion size; well, this won’t make a difference overnight, but after a couple of months you will notice the difference: slimmer and fitter you!


Eat a healthy breakfast


Unfortunately, this doesn’t mean pile your plate high with french fries and big macs, but equally, don’t be tempted to skip breakfast either. A good, high protein breakfast of eggs, fresh fruits, vegetables, oatmeal or yoghurt will keep the hunger pangs at bay well into the day and help you to stop snacking.

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Fair-skinned Nollywood damsel, Uche Ogbodo, who has just returned from the United States after the delivery of her baby girl, is no stranger to controversies.
The current one rocking her boat is about her failed marriage to ex-Nigerian footballer, Ato Ubby.
While some say she dumped the man because he had a brain tumour, others accused the actress of marrying the hapless footballer only for money. But Uche is back and has told her own side of the story about her marriage to Vanguard. Excerpts:


*.Have you left your husband for real?

The marriage didn’t work out.


*.Was it really a marriage?

It was a marriage but we didn’t do any wedding. We didn’t do any court marriage or church wedding. We did nothing. We didn’t even do traditional marriage but in my culture, there are many processes
to getting married and I did a few of those, so you can say I was married. In Igbo land, there are rites you adhere to before you can say this is my wife and I did a couple of them.


*.Why did you do the rites in secret?


You cannot do rites openly; it’s just a family thing, family members only. It’s not a traditional wedding. If I had done traditional wedding, I would definitely invite people. If I had done a white wedding, I would have invited people. If I had done a court marriage, I would still have invited people but it was just rites. I didn’t do anything the public needed to know, so you can’t say I did any marriage in secret.


*.What really made you leave your husband?

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Cheating the ultimate killer of relationship, the home breaker, the engagement breaker, the word cheating have shattered many great plans,it has destroyed quite a lot of things in relationship but can we have an honest relationship without cheating on our partner ?

The Ladies accuses the guys that the are the dogs here, a lady once said to me that you can never find a faithful man that all guys are dogs that the always cheat on there spouse even when the are married the still cheat on there wives, the ladies now have a popular slogan for men ALL MEN ARE THE SAME, the will always cheat on you, so when you are in a relationship just expect that your guy will cheat on you that's what this lady told me. Well if you analyse what she told me is not far from the truth, hardly you see a faithful guy this days even the married ones still cheat on there wives and some to that very openly especially here in africa the are proud of it that the are cheating on there spouse, you see an old man flaunting around a young girl her of her daughter's age bracket proudly,and her wife lies lonely on there matrimonial bed hoping her husband is save where he is.
Have your wonder why many celebrity marriage in the western world crash, well cheating contributes like 80percent..

Ladies are also Guilty in the cheating aspect, 5 different girls confided in me that no lady is faithful in a relationship that a girl will be only committed to you only when she is married to you, a girl told me the have continue www..com/2014/09/cheating-ultimate-destroyer.html?m=1

The market place is crowded with skilled and talented people. You have a responsibility to make sure that you standout and be desirable. Instead of doing just that, you are busy complaining about how other people are getting ahead, how some other people are being rewarded and you are not, how some people are being paid higher than you are, how other people's business is doing better than yours.
It's your responsibility to ensure that you are standing out and are desirable by many. Have you ever asked yourself how you can be desirable and be different from others? The simple thing that most people want to do is to join the crowd to do the same thing that they do and expect a different result. You can't plant maize and expect to harvest cocoa. You must be different and deliberate.
My challenge is this: you must become your brand, if you want to succeed in this crowded world that we presently live in, personal branding is not optional, it's a must. Let me explain how to go about branding yourself and become desirable as simple as it can be explained. Personal branding has become a buzz word and yet many people don't understand it and how to go about it.

Personal branding doesn't start with your image, its starts with your personality. Your personal brand is an expression of who you are.


First, you must have a thorough understanding of your personality. You must ask yourself, who am I? What is my personality? What makes me unique? This is where your personal branding starts from. Your ability to discover your real self and personality will make you come out unique and authentic, and there is no brand without authenticity.

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It hurts to love someone and not to be. Loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never have the courage to tell that person know how u feel. Maybe God want us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right person, so when we finally meet the right person then we know how to appreciate that gift.
Love is when you take away the feeling of passion and romance in a relationship and you still find out that you still care for that person.

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone that means a lot to you and you find out that it was never meant to be.
when a door of happiness closes another opens,but often time we look so much at the one that is already closed that we don't see the one which have already been open for us.

The best kind of friend is the one you be with and never say a word and came out looking like you had the best conversation you ever had. It is true that we don't value what we have until is gone but is also true that we don't know what we have been missing till it arrives.
When you love someone don't expect to be loved in return immediately you give it time for it to grow in that person, but if it doesn't grow in that person, be contend it grew in yours.
There are things you want to hear but you will never hear it from someone you will like to hear it from but don't b so deaf to hear it from the one who says it from there heart.
Never say goodbye if you still want to to stay, never give up if you still want to go on.

Love comes to those who hope but have been disappointed, to those who still believe though the have been betrayed, those that
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