This is killing me slowing

I can't say how I got myself entangled in this relationship. In just a short time it has grow so fast without even given me the opportunity to grow with it.
He is a very nice guy but with lots of baggage.
He loves me with all his heart and I have being doing all my best to love him back. Initially I feel I love him too but it is not working for me anymore. I don't feel anything for him except pity. I try to make him take it slow but he never listen, he always want to do what other people say or think. He wants to please his family with a perfect wife. He sees me as one who will upgrade his class among his family and friends. ( what about me? He never even care to know if I will want to spend the rest of my life with him)
Now he is planning settling down not because he is or we are ready for that rather because his mom wants him to.
I have been faithful to him since we started this relationship, I have done all my best to see that it works but the more I try the more it become clear to me he is not the one for me and I can't be happy with him.
What do I do? Should I close my eyes to all these things that are bothering me and give him the go ahead in order not to break his heart? Can I live with the hope of falling in love with him someday? Will that someday ever come?
Should I tell him how I feel?
How do I do that?

sephry:
Dec 12 is a great day

You got a birthday mate here

Hallymath:
their POP was held yesterday 4th of march, they are through with their training

Thank you Hallymath

Hello everyone in this forum, please I want to know about the DSS cadet that are undergoing training in Lagos, Are they through with their training? or are they still in camp? pls anyone with information should help me out.
For those waiting to be call for training, Don't lose hope. Wish u guys all the best.

Op I think the issue u guys have is still on not settled. The first mistake her uncles made was not sending her back with u then, which allow a big gap to grow between d two of u. So my advice for u is please show her u have forgiven her from ur heart and have forgotten all about her mistake, make her fall in love with u again like u did before getting married to her, work on ur flaws too, and above all Pray very well for all this to work.
Many marriages have passed through different hurdles. Stay strong

karleone:
Hello Beau49 & Corisande,

Do you still find yourselves in this world of Introversion?
We could be friends and fight it together.

Here's one hel of an introvert, but I try as much to fight that life. Believe me, it ain't a life worth being happy for.

Am sorry to say Karleone u can't fight who u are! please try and understand who u are, that way u will know ur strength and weakness, then u capitalise on ur strength. For me I try learning new things and I read a lot. Am not out going but I got myself involved in sports to enable me mingle with people. please try and do things that will make u happy, we all deserve to be happy

I am an introvert and I am proud of it!

I wish your dad quick recovery.
As for your girlfriend that dump u, don't worry is good riddance. Is better to have a broken relationship than broken marriage. Just concentrate on giving your Dad all the care and love he need now

HayZedd:
owk...at what price will U sell it?...or maybe U shuld drop ur digits...I'm in Lag by d way

Am in Abuja. I sent u a mail, reply so we can talk

HayZedd:
please do U guys still ave d Tecno Y2?...If yes what is d current price?

I want to sell my Tecno Y2, Brand new, still in d pack. contact me if u are interested

Is a good thing we are all seen this fake recruitment company for who they are! looking for employment doesn't give them the right to take advantage of us.

Basalt:
The reason why I am writing this is for everybody to be careful in order not to fall a victim to this trap.

I love nairaland for one thing, and that is the fact through it, you can verify the authenticity of companies before accepting their employment letter or before attending any company's aptitude test invitation.

Now back to the trend.

TRUST BOND does aptitude test every month
Trust Bond is a company that invites people for aptitude tests almost every month.

If you think I am lying just send your CV to
recruitment@trustbondgroup.com you must always be invited for job aptitude test.

Trust Bond appears too real to be scam

This company follows a legitimate approach throughout their recruitment processes.

First of all they will invite you for aptitude test which comprises of 100 questions and after the test, if you pass it, you will be invited for panel interview or chat, and after that, you will be invited for Medical test to ascertain that you are fit for training.
After the test you will be meant to undergo so nebulous training at their orange school academy.
For every man, it seems normal and follows the trend of a good legitimate organisation.


What Shortlisted Nairalanders say about their experience in Trust Bond

Before I comment on this, I will share a link so that you will be able to read what transpired in the so called Orange school academy and why you should ignore Trust bond Group.

Click and read this link
https://www.nairaland.com/3119576/else-got




















Etc

I am a bit relief now, known I have spare some people from going through what we passed at the hand of Trustbond group/ Trustbond homes( mind u de are the same just change their website). Anybody still in doubt about them should go and check the addresses they gave for their offices in various places and states, they don't exist!

ensimba:
Good afternoon ..my name here

You scored 59% in the aptitude test and will have a chat with Mr. Isaac and Miss Amina at the same venue at 5.30pm. If you are recommended you will have one last stage interview in Lagos before going to Training school.

We wish you all the very best.

that was the message they sent to me. the interview went well. but I haven't heard from them yet. I don't know the specific position, but its one's performance during the training that will determine where one will be placed .

Did u go for d chat? I guess u only had d chat with the same person that supervised the aptitude test? Right?

pls guys stay away from trustbond group except if u want to waste ur precious time and resources for nothing! I wrote there aptitude test and pass there interview last year, then went for there orange school of investment for almost 4months, throughout the training it was only one Mr Isaac that lecture us. they said no allowance they will only be giving us 7k each month, which they never paid us. At last we all just have to Go back to our homes( because almost all of us are not Lagosians) we came from different states, some of us left d jobs we have to go for d training. Mind u they never call us to explain or apologize to us about what happened. pls be very careful. I wish someone gave me this warning last year.