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Romance › How I decided to leave A Girl Finally After 8 Years Of A Very Wrong Relationship by RedJojo(op): 8:33am On Aug 20, 2017
I had a girlfriend, who was a serious big cheat. Even as she cheated, I still overlook and give her money, buy things for her do things for her family as well.
One day, a guy called me and said he wanted to know if me and my girl are dating. I replied in the affirmative, only for him to narrate how many times they both have had rounds of sex and what not. I went mad, I got too angry as I couldn't take it anymore and had to narrate what was going on to her family,i wasn't comfortable with everybody keeping quiet about her silly attitude. Only I didn't know it appeared the family were in support of what she was doing, indirectly.

She broke up with that guy and moved to another. With this one she didn't allow me to know who he was. Only the attitude of hers got very nasty, even more than her previous behaviour. Everything I did to talk her into calming down, was futile. I kept quiet, still pleading and asking her to calm down. All fell on deaf ears.

She got pregnant for this other guy she's with now. Hence I decided to close her chapter,before then, before the last year ending, she came to my house, After 3 years,and said she wanted me to talk with her. I wonder what we could have said then. So I just kept silent, even at that,the guy who got her pregnant was calling her on the phone, she bluntly refused to answer as she was in my place. All this I saw and kept quiet, I just watched her,next day, she left my house (I stayed with parents) so she left.

Her sister called me and warned me never to call her sister,that I should let her enjoy her marriage.. I laughed. I didn't say much.

Fast forward to what is happening now:
I decided to forget the entire family, I got a job with a firm I work with now,even tho they have very annoying behaviour there, at least they pay well so, I tend to overlook all of them until my time with them is eventually over..
I was in the office one day, I received a message on Facebook, when I wanted to see who sent a message, it was her, she was asking where I took her name to that I gossip with her name. I shouted at her and asked her to leave me alone. Then she said she did everything to calm me down. That I refused to calm down,blah blah, I asked her that when I was talking to her to stop her cheating behaviour what did she do,she didn't say anything. Then I asked her to go and go forever ,that we wouldn't have words anymore.
Now what she does is to use her mum's Facebook to like my pictures or her sisters or family. She went a' liking my pictures using her mum's ID. I've been laughing. My pals say she's regretting everything she did already.

What you think guys?

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