I had a girlfriend, who was a serious big cheat. Even as she cheated, I still overlook and give her money, buy things for her do things for her family as well.
One day, a guy called me and said he wanted to know if me and my girl are dating. I replied in the affirmative, only for him to narrate how many times they both have had rounds of sex and what not. I went mad, I got too angry as I couldn't take it anymore and had to narrate what was going on to her family,i wasn't comfortable with everybody keeping quiet about her silly attitude. Only I didn't know it appeared the family were in support of what she was doing, indirectly.

She broke up with that guy and moved to another. With this one she didn't allow me to know who he was. Only the attitude of hers got very nasty, even more than her previous behaviour. Everything I did to talk her into calming down, was futile. I kept quiet, still pleading and asking her to calm down. All fell on deaf ears.

She got pregnant for this other guy she's with now. Hence I decided to close her chapter,before then, before the last year ending, she came to my house, After 3 years,and said she wanted me to talk with her. I wonder what we could have said then. So I just kept silent, even at that,the guy who got her pregnant was calling her on the phone, she bluntly refused to answer as she was in my place. All this I saw and kept quiet, I just watched her,next day, she left my house (I stayed with parents) so she left.

Her sister called me and warned me never to call her sister,that I should let her enjoy her marriage.. I laughed. I didn't say much.

Fast forward to what is happening now:
I decided to forget the entire family, I got a job with a firm I work with now,even tho they have very annoying behaviour there, at least they pay well so, I tend to overlook all of them until my time with them is eventually over..
I was in the office one day, I received a message on Facebook, when I wanted to see who sent a message, it was her, she was asking where I took her name to that I gossip with her name. I shouted at her and asked her to leave me alone. Then she said she did everything to calm me down. That I refused to calm down,blah blah, I asked her that when I was talking to her to stop her cheating behaviour what did she do,she didn't say anything. Then I asked her to go and go forever ,that we wouldn't have words anymore.
Now what she does is to use her mum's Facebook to like my pictures or her sisters or family. She went a' liking my pictures using her mum's ID. I've been laughing. My pals say she's regretting everything she did already.

What you think guys?

gold diggers everywhere just like mtn

Bro..u av been played by a hoe

Hoes b existing since 21AC

If your story isn't a confabulation, then I think you must be silly for having put up with one who cheats and is unapologetic about it.

P.S I think you missed out one part. Have you been having se.x with her? If yes, is it your fear that you won't enjoy it with a new "wife" that is keeping you from leaving?

RedJojo:
I had a girlfriend, blah blah blah

What you think guys?

I think you are a puzzy

Girl cheat on you openly without respect and even got pregnant for another and you still have time to think about her matter

I don't even understand this write up.

I will be back to read again.

Let her enjoy her marriage.

Son, you did the right thing. Fuck_ what these idiots on here say, I saw a big fool talking about sex with the future wife, how outrageous, the idiot here who has been trying to keep up with the James Bond player lifestyle apparently is weak and one useless bitch_ is really using him to clean her anus by now.

For me, I'd say kudos to you. I've had a similar experience and hence I would advise you to allow her go for good. Even if she talks to you, never respond. You are no weakling to tolerate people for me, you are the best thing that has ever happened in this world. Keep up the good behaviour, it's a blessing.
For the silly girl,let her go finally. Don't ever come here to talk about her again, ever again. Hence her chapter is closed,close it for good and let it be. Focus on your job, earn a masters degree(if you haven't) and let them see you soar in flying colors.

God most definitely is in control.

Salem.

I'm coming

Bros you were really a pussy nigga. Learn how to delete people completely. It's a valuable skill.

Let me keep kwite bro its your life your decision you have the freedoms to choose or not

OP slap yourself 10 times.... you are a pvssy.. yes I mean that camel toe... how can a girl openly cheat on you for so long and you refuse to delete the idiot... Kai you be my brother eehhh. ..i go just wake up one morning just they slap you until it result to fight

RedJojo:
I had a girlfriend, who was a serious big cheat. Even as she cheated, I still overlook and give her money, buy things for her do things for her family as well.

NONSENSE #1
overlooking your GF cheating on you, and instead rewarding her and her family with money... what kind of muppet are you?!

One day, a guy called me and said he wanted to know if me and my girl are dating. I replied in the affirmative, only for him to narrate how many times they both have had rounds of sex and what not. I went mad, I got too angry as I couldn't take it anymore and had to narrate what was going on to her family,i wasn't comfortable with everybody keeping quiet about her silly attitude. Only I didn't know it appeared the family were in support of what she was doing, indirectly.

NONSENSE #2
getting a concrete proof that your gf is a dirty cheating rat, and instead of BEING A MAN and do something concrete about it, you ran to her family (who probably know the type of deceitful animal she was), to cry like a biatch to them?! what about confronting this cheating hoe and getting rid of her?! have you thought about that?!

She broke up with that guy and moved to another. With this one she didn't allow me to know who he was. Only the attitude of hers got very nasty, even more than her previous behaviour. Everything I did to talk her into calming down, was futile. I kept quiet, still pleading and asking her to calm down. All fell on deaf ears.

NONSENSE #3
staying with a known deceitful cheating women, expecting her to stop disrespecting you, as if you matter to her... bwaaaaaah!
men like you are a rare breed.... you have absolutely NO respect for yourself, and expect some animal to respect your sorry self?! keep dreaming for miracles in your life.

She got pregnant for this other guy she's with now. Hence I decided to close her chapter,before then, before the last year ending, she came to my house, After 3 years,and said she wanted me to talk with her. I wonder what we could have said then. So I just kept silent, even at that,the guy who got her pregnant was calling her on the phone, she bluntly refused to answer as she was in my place. All this I saw and kept quiet, I just watched her,next day, she left my house (I stayed with parents) so she left.

NONSENSE #4
you couldnt even confront her and instead ran to your mummy's place for comfort. all women would love a man like you, that they can toy and disgrace as they wish, without any interference from your sorry self.

Her sister called me and warned me never to call her sister,that I should let her enjoy her marriage.. I laughed. I didn't say much.

NONSENSE #5
is that not the people you ran to when 1st knowing that your woman was a wh0re?! bwaaaah! you should have thanked her sister and tell her that you were better off without her rubbish....Helas, i am sure you didnt say anything.

Fast forward to what is happening now:
I decided to forget the entire family, I got a job with a firm I work with now,even tho they have very annoying behaviour there, at least they pay well so, I tend to overlook all of them until my time with them is eventually over..
I was in the office one day, I received a message on Facebook, when I wanted to see who sent a message, it was her, she was asking where I took her name to that I gossip with her name. I shouted at her and asked her to leave me alone. Then she said she did everything to calm me down. That I refused to calm down,blah blah, I asked her that when I was talking to her to stop her cheating behaviour what did she do,she didn't say anything. Then I asked her to go and go forever ,that we wouldn't have words anymore.
Now what she does is to use her mum's Facebook to like my pictures or her sisters or family. She went a' liking my pictures using her mum's ID. I've been laughing. My pals say she's regretting everything she did already.

ULTIMATE ARRANT NONSENSE
this animal does NOT deserve an answer from you...she should have been blocked and warned NEVER to address you. she treated you like garbage, humiliated you, could have infected you with deadly disease, disrespected you and now she wanna address you like you guys were even friends?! oh boy, you are a kind man o!

What you think guys?

if this story is remotely true, i wish never to get acquainted with men like you, as you will certainly receive my highly effective "45degrees angle mind resetting" slap, in order to bring sense/order/respect back to your damn life.

O great!

Did you advise him or you put up a fight?

MrBrownJay1:


NONSENSE #1
overlooking your GF cheating on you, and instead rewarding her and her family with money... what kind of muppet are you?!



NONSENSE #2
getting a concrete proof that your gf is a dirty cheating rat, and instead of BEING A MAN and do something concrete about it, you ran to her family (who probably know the type of deceitful animal she was), to cry like a biatch to them?! what about confronting this cheating hoe and getting rid of her?! have you thought about that?!



NONSENSE #3
staying with a known deceitful cheating women, expecting her to stop disrespecting you, as if you matter to her... bwaaaaaah!
men like you are a rare breed.... you have absolutely NO respect for yourself, and expect some animal to respect your sorry self?! keep dreaming for miracles in your life.



NONSENSE #4
you couldnt even confront her and instead ran to your mummy's place for comfort. all women would love a man like you, that they can toy and disgrace as they wish, without any interference from your sorry self.



NONSENSE #5
is that not the people you ran to when 1st knowing that your woman was a wh0re?! bwaaaah! you should have thanked her sister and tell her that you were better off without her rubbish....Helas, i am sure you didnt say anything.



ULTIMATE ARRANT NONSENSE
this animal does NOT deserve an answer from you...she should have been blocked and warned NEVER to address you. she treated you like garbage, humiliated you, could have infected you with deadly disease, disrespected you and now she wanna address you like you guys were even friends?! oh boy, you are a kind man o!



if this story is remotely true, i wish never to get acquainted with men like you, as you will certainly receive my highly effective "45degrees angle mind resetting" slap, in order to bring sense/order/respect back to your damn life.

RedJojo:
I had a girlfriend, who was a serious big cheat. Even as she cheated, I still overlook and give her money, buy things for her do things for her family as well.
One day, a guy called me and said he wanted to know if me and my girl are dating. I replied in the affirmative, only for him to narrate how many times they both have had rounds of sex and what not. I went mad, I got too angry as I couldn't take it anymore and had to narrate what was going on to her family,i wasn't comfortable with everybody keeping quiet about her silly attitude. Only I didn't know it appeared the family were in support of what she was doing, indirectly.

She broke up with that guy and moved to another. With this one she didn't allow me to know who he was. Only the attitude of hers got very nasty, even more than her previous behaviour. Everything I did to talk her into calming down, was futile. I kept quiet, still pleading and asking her to calm down. All fell on deaf ears.

She got pregnant for this other guy she's with now. Hence I decided to close her chapter,before then, before the last year ending, she came to my house, After 3 years,and said she wanted me to talk with her. I wonder what we could have said then. So I just kept silent, even at that,the guy who got her pregnant was calling her on the phone, she bluntly refused to answer as she was in my place. All this I saw and kept quiet, I just watched her,next day, she left my house (I stayed with parents) so she left.

Her sister called me and warned me never to call her sister,that I should let her enjoy her marriage.. I laughed. I didn't say much.

Fast forward to what is happening now:
I decided to forget the entire family, I got a job with a firm I work with now,even tho they have very annoying behaviour there, at least they pay well so, I tend to overlook all of them until my time with them is eventually over..
I was in the office one day, I received a message on Facebook, when I wanted to see who sent a message, it was her, she was asking where I took her name to that I gossip with her name. I shouted at her and asked her to leave me alone. Then she said she did everything to calm me down. That I refused to calm down,blah blah, I asked her that when I was talking to her to stop her cheating behaviour what did she do,she didn't say anything. Then I asked her to go and go forever ,that we wouldn't have words anymore.
Now what she does is to use her mum's Facebook to like my pictures or her sisters or family. She went a' liking my pictures using her mum's ID. I've been laughing. My pals say she's regretting everything she did already.

What you think guys?

Im not convinced she was your girlfriend in the first place. Probably you were the side guy or just some friend she keeps when she is bored as is evident now. Probably bored in her marriage and falling back on her plaything like she used to. You also seem to enjoy being toyed with... 8 years... wow

gimakon:
O great!
Did you advise him or you put up a fight?

its called the UNDILUTED truth, and as much as the truth may hurt, it is still the truth....

MrBrownJay1:

correct guy

boss i dash u seun wife

MrBrownJay1:


its called the UNDILUTED truth, and as much as the truth may hurt, it is still the truth....

No my friend, it's not undiluted, you don't understand telling the truth and putting a brawl, you lucky he's not the type of person you think he is, una for fight taya for here.

Calm down follow person talk,he no owe you money. No one is gonna give you an award for speaking the truth to him this way.

Side guy feeling funky

She was not your girlfriend u just another ATM to her nonsense
Come here dey cry .. for what
Cheat on your head anyhow you no dey shame mtcheew can't stand weaklings in a relationship.... grow some balls ..

How did you last so long in a wrong relationship? You're supposed to know from the onset.

gimakon:


No my friend, it's not undiluted, you don't understand telling the truth and putting a brawl, you lucky he's not the type of person you think he is, una for fight taya for here.

Calm down follow person talk,he no owe you money. No one is gonna give you an award for speaking the truth to him this way.

grow a pair and stop seeing everything as a brawl.... just because you dont like what is thrown at him. i dont sugar coat shiiit and wont start today.

MrBrownJay1:


grow a pair and stop seeing everything as a brawl.... just because you dont like what is thrown at him. i dont sugar coat shiiit and wont start today.

I don't hate what you said. But truth is you need to calm down. No be fight.

He learnt his lessons am sure. So other than call him names, advice him. You sef fall this kain mugu during your time. I fall mugu like this sef

All these nairaland boys insulting the op, in real life, it is their girlfriends that is controlling them, they would just come online and be forming hardcore

gimakon:
Son, you did the right thing. Fuck_ what these idiots on here say, I saw a big fool talking about sex with the future wife, how outrageous, the idiot here who has been trying to keep up with the James Bond player lifestyle apparently is weak and one useless bitch_ is really using him to clean her anus by now.

For me, I'd say kudos to you. I've had a similar experience and hence I would advise you to allow her go for good. Even if she talks to you, never respond. You are no weakling to tolerate people for me, you are the best thing that has ever happened in this world. Keep up the good behaviour, it's a blessing.
For the silly girl,let her go finally. Don't ever come here to talk about her again, ever again. Hence her chapter is closed,close it for good and let it be. Focus on your job, earn a masters degree(if you haven't) and let them see you soar in flying colors.

God most definitely is in control.

Salem.

Nice one bro

This op you try ooh
8 years of frustrated constant frustration.
Cheating dishonesty pregnancy disloyalty..
You get mind my brother. U don do test ?

How do you guys stay with a cheating partner?

I can't do that o.

They will keep taking you for granted, cheat, cheat and more cheating.

Thank God you left the relationship....
just forget the girl.... Good riddance to bad nonsense

Deefuray:
Thank God you left the relationship....

just forget the girl.... Good riddance to bad nonsense

hi are you single? Can he date you??

gimakon:


I don't hate what you said. But truth is you need to calm down. No be fight.

He learnt his lessons am sure. So other than call him names, advice him. You sef fall this kain mugu during your time. I fall mugu like this sef

what should we call such man, if not for what he is?! you may want to stroke his ego by trying to sugarcoat this nonsense, while i will ALWAYS call a spade A SPADE! and if you want to take this as a fight, instead of just being truthful, then so be it.
been on NL since 2009, and never sugarcoated my word, not about to start now. the donkey should take this as the jolt needed in his life to start having some respect for himself.

to each their own

MrBrownJay1:


what should we call such man, if not for what he is?! you may want to stroke his ego by trying to sugarcoat this nonsense, while i will ALWAYS call a spade A SPADE! and if you want to take this as a fight, instead of just being truthful, then so be it.
been on NL since 2009, and never sugarcoated my word, not about to start now. the donkey should take this as the jolt needed in his life to start having some respect for himself.

to each their own

Smh..

tosyne2much:
Nice one bro

Thanks Fam.

nna eh eight years!!!...even if d girl is as fine as omotola plus Genny plus Victoria kimani plus agbani darego cum get money like otedola's daughters cum dey famous like rihanna plus Nicki plus Beyonce... nna eh D's 1 js weak me oooooo