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Please mod I will like this to be push to a wider audience so I can get advice.
My neighbour keeps making this strange drawings outside his door. I have attached the picture of the drawing. I don't really know what it means . The guy is Igbo and he pours drinks and kolanut each time he is doing this.He is just a single with his brother and sister staying with him and he has a big shop were he sells in the market. This is becoming upsetting because anyone that comes to see me will see the drawings.

Please is this just culture or its a form of ritual. I want to know what I'm dealing with. Please elders in the house help because I don't feel safe leaving in that compound with my family anymore.

OP They are probably fucking already or its gonna happen sooner rather than later
A similar experience happened to me years bk with a pretty Chorister that I was supposedly dating
Then one of her Choir guy kept calling and visiting her and forming friendship then, when I confronted her abt the guy she said he was just being friendly not until one day my instinct directed me to visit her without calling around 9pm when she knew I cant come by that time
When I eventually reached her hus opened the entrance gate about opening the door to her room,she immediately blocked me from opening the door and bursting in.
So I stood there till they dressed up probably the guy was too swift and she couldn't control herself , I'm sure it was not planned that's y they didn't even lock the entrance gate and the door. So as a cool guy who has seen it all, I maintained my calm went inside the hus and guilt was written all over thier faces..The dude immediately left and my babe began begging bt the deed has been done so it was over despite all her numerous attempt to resolve the situation.The dude couldnt look me in the face each time we met in church but I moved on..
Moral of the story...Don't ever let any man be so friendly or too close to your woman. Women are weaker vessels for a reason..

Good morning all please I need urgent advice
I have a fashion shop which has been running for sometime now but the income coming in is nothing to write home about plus the fact that the workers I employ to sew keep leaving every month for no just reason.
I'm fade up and frustrated because I nvested all my savings in the business.
Now I'm pondering on changing the shop to another business or turning it to a boutique or just shuttinng down and counting my loss
Please I need advice on what to do or what type of business I can combine in the shop or convert to entirely..
My shop is located at Calabar not too busy area

Please mod help move to front page for more contribution, I'm almost loosing it right now.