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With so many women arround 1 man who are ready to do the bidding of any man then these ur poingt are bulshit

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The rate of infidelity in marriage of nowadays is alarming. Infact some men see nothing wrong with that.

Some have blamed it on the neglect of some wives. As a wife, there are things you can do to keep your hubby to yourself;

1. Don’t nag: This can never be over-emphasized. Nothing keeps a man away from home than a nagging wife. He will easily fall into the hands of a soft-spoken woman the longer he stays outside due to your nagging.

2. Keep looking good: I have seen a lot of women who eventually stopped looking so good just because they got married. If you must keep your hubby to yourself, ensure you do look that way that actually made him fall in love you.

3. Personal hygiene: The truth is that a lot of women struggle with personal hygiene. Because you married, you don’t brush well again, you hardly wash or change undies, you sleep like after sweating all day. You really need to smell good.

4. Cook well: It’s quite unfortunate that a lot of ladies cannot prepare ogi or akamu, let alone egusi or bitter leaf soup. There is an adage that ‘the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach‘. If you cannot cook, learn, else, sorry because you will have serious contenders for your hubby’s attention.

5. Be a wealth manager: This is the no 1 duty of a wife. If you earn 500 thousand naira and you are the 200 thousand naira human hair type, your husband will find it difficult to go into a money commitment with you. Money commitment can garnish the love in your home.

6. Give him S3x the way he wants it: There is no greater bond than s3x bond in marriage. If you deprive him s3x for no just cause, OYO is your name because he might be peeping through your neighbor's keyhole to grab her attention.

7. Talk your own

SOURCE : https://darablog.com.ng/2018/11/7-things-to-do-to-keep-your-husband.html

nzeobi:
any lady that refuses to sit should be sent out immediately.

Guy take am easy oooo... hehehe

1. She Insists You Keep The Door Wide Open

A lady visited me yesterday “gbaaaam”, na so I lock door. The lady stood up immediately and demanded I opened the door, saying she was suffocating of heat. For inside rain ? Haba nawa ooooo. I bet she didn’t trust me

2. She Tells Her Friend To Keep Ringing Her Up

If you are a very good observer, I trust you might have noticed it. Once she starts seeing your moves, she will PING or send her friend a on Whatsapp/BBM, that she should do the needful. Suddenly, her fone will start ringing at intervals, she will pick and start begging the person to kindly give her 5minutes to show up

3. She Suddenly Says She’s Going Home

Someone intended to spend 3hours with you; she had barely spent 45mins, and starts heading towards the door when she notices your boxers is having a different shape, she says “my mom should be expecting me by now cos I told her I wouldn’t stay long”

4. She Refuses To Sit Down

There was a time a junior college of mine paid me a visit. She entered into my room and refused to sit on the chair or bed. Babe sit down for bed na, she no gree; oyah sit down for chair den, she no gree; oyah sit down on top rug den, she no gree oooo… Could you believe this lady said she was comfortable and stood for nearly 30 minutes

5. She Tells You She’s On Her Period

This is very common. One even asked for the toilet, saying she wanted to change her pad. Immediately, I begin para like person wey breeze blow him original Bsc certificate for inside gutter

SOURCE : https://darablog.com.ng/2018/11/10-ways-ladies-act-to-avoid-sex.html

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Nigerian Politician and Entrepreneur Abubakar Bukola Saraki popularly known as Bukola Saraki was born in Kwara State December 19, 1962.



Bukola Saraki Net Worth 2018/2019: Forbes listed Bukola Saraki as at 2018, as one of the richest senator in The Federal Rebuplic of Nigera whose net worth is $12 million USD (2018).



He was born into the family of Senator Olusola Saraki (Father). His Father was one time a Senator in The Federal Rebuplic of Nigeria and his mother Florence Morenike Saraki.



Bukola Saraki Early Life And Net Worth 2018/2019

Senator Saraki born and brought up in Kwara State, He was also the president of the Nigeria's senate since 2015 and he was previously the Governor of Kwara State from 2003 to 2011.



Education : He attended King’s college, Lagos from 1973 to 1978 and Cottenham college in the United Kingdom from 1979 to 1981 and then studied at the London Hospital Medical College of the University of London from 1982 to 1987, when he obtained his M.B.B.S


Currently he is a member of the All Progressive Congress, Previously he is a member of the People's Democratic Party. He was sworn as the Governor of Kwara State in 2003 and he run the post till 2011, He won on the Platform of People's Democratic Party.



As the Governor of Kwara State, He was one of the most influential politician, he led reforms in agriculture, health, education, finance and environment policy.


Achievements : One of his greatest achievement is that he brought in farmers from Zimbabwe down to Kwara State and gave them opportunity to start a farming business in Kwara, This led to the establishment of Shonga Farms programme, which is now being replicated across Nigeria. His charisma among his fellow governors got him appointed chairman of the Nigeria Governors’ forum. Click here to read more

Source : https://www.darablog.com.ng/2018/10/bukola-saraki-net-worth-lifestyle.html

IF YOU HAVE THESE 8 THOUGHTS WHILE HAVING SEX, THERE ARE SERIOUS PROBLEMS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP




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1. Tell Them That They Need Better Makeup

A girl always wants to look her absolute best for you. If you tell her that she needs more work on her makeup, then that may lead her to think that you don’t find her pretty or that you’re ashamed of how she looks. Either way, it doesn’t bode well for her self-esteem.

2. Make Fun Of Their Eating Habits

If she has a big appetite, don’t make fun of her for it. She’ll end up feeling like she’s a fatty and that’s not a good thing. If she’s not eating much, then be sensitive with your remarks. She may not be feeling well or she may be feeling like she needs to lose weight for you. Don’t make fun of her for her eating habits.

3. Hide Your Phones From Them

If you hide your phone from your girlfriend, then that tells her that you’re probably hiding pictures or messages from her.

4. Make Fun Of Their Outfits

Like makeup, a girl will use her outfit as a way to attract her boyfriend. She wants to dress up to feel better about who she is and if you make fun of what she’s wearing, then that creates a dent in her confidence. – Continue reading on the next page

5. Refuse To Be Intimate

Your refusal to be intimate is an indication of disinterest. If she picks up on this, she will think that this is her fault. Your hesitation to engage in intimacy will lead her to believe that she’s not enough for you.



READ MORE: http://bigcrown.com.ng/5-things-boys-do-that-make-girlfriends-insecure/

SWEET 9 SIGNS YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS TOO FOCUSED ON S3X WITH NO REGRET




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IF she’s exactly what you’re looking for, but you’re still finding faults, you need to consider that maybe you’re being unnecessarily judgmental. Everyone has flaws; Why are you picking hers apart? There are a lot of reasons guys do this, but a lot of times it comes from setting unrealistically high standards for yourself, then projecting them onto other people. That’s a problem only you can fix for yourself.

1. There’s no long-term potential

Some girls are fun, but there’s nothing really there. Good times, good sex, good laughs… but nothing more tangible than that. Presumably, if you two are more than “just dating,” you want some kind of long-term potential. If you’re not feeling it, that’s a serious problem.

Solution: Evaluate why she is not a keeper.

Why don’t you two have any long-term potential? It could be something as simple as “we’ve never talked about it.” It could be as complicated as she’s Jewish, you’re Catholic and that’s important to both of you.

Either way, you can’t fix it or even know if you can until you know what it is. It can be difficult to communicate such personal issues, not least of all because you’re afraid of hurting her feelings. Psychologist Marcia Reynolds urges you to avoid spitefulness, examine your motives for speaking up and — of course — to ask her if she’s even interested in your opinion before offering it. Reasons to break up: The difference between where she is and what you want to great.

In the latter case referenced above, there’s nothing really to do about it. You can hang around until it runs its course, but that’s also preventing you from getting something more meaningful and permanent.

2. You don’t trust each other

Trust is a difficult thing. Especially if one of you has done something to violate the other’s trust; But maybe one of you is just not a trusting person or have had experiences in the past that affects your ability to trust. You might even be an untrustworthy person who is projecting how you lie or manipulate onto your partner even if they do not do that. Whatever the issue is, you can’t have a serious relationship without trust. So how do you start building that?

Solution: Begin building trust in small ways.

Rather than looking for these grand gestures that build trust, look for small ones.

Keeping your world on small promises allows you to build trust incrementally. Simply being where you say you’ll be when you say you’ll be there can be an important step.

Be honest about when you’ve done something wrong and expect the same from her.

At the same time, be willing to forgive when you are the wronged party.

Share things about yourself that are personal, or even painful. That kind of vulnerability can help to build trust.

Have a trusted friend you can check in with. Sometimes all we need is a third party to tell us it’s OK to trust. Reasons to Break Up: One of you just can’t repair the trust.

At the end of the day, it doesn’t really matter who’s the one who can’t trust. A lack of trust in a relationship means that there won’t be a relationship sooner rather than later. All you’re doing by maintaining things is digging yourself in deep into something that is going to have diminishing returns and eventually come to an end.

3. You never go on dates

It’s funny. They call it “dating,” but a lot of people who are don’t go on a lot of actual dates. This can lead to boredom. It can also lead to “falling out of love,” which was cited by nearly 40 percent of women as a reason for breaking up. So you need to pay attention to this, even when you’re in a long-term relationship.

Solution: Pick a day of the week and make that date night.

While it’s definitely serious, it’s also one of the easiest things to go ahead and fix: Pick a night, make it date night. No cancelling for a night with the guys, a work thing or even the Superbowl. Date night is date night is date night.

This isn’t speculation: A 2010 survey showed that not only did couples with a date night have better relationships — the couples surveyed even had better sex lives.

Reasons to break up: Just don’t.

Seriously, if the only problem you have is not going on dates, there is no way to make this a break-up worthy offense. You need to step up, be a man and start directing the relationship.

4. You’re wondering about other women

Maybe you’ve got some chemistry with a woman at work. Maybe it’s the girl who serves you coffee. Maybe you’re just day dreaming a lot about women that you encounter. The point is, you’re wondering about other women. Solution: Realize it’s normal and not necessarily a reason to break up.

Guess what? You’re never going to stop looking at other women. You’re never going to stop wondering about other women. Not only is it normal, there are ways to appreciate women that don’t involve breaking up or cheating. Maybe you flirt a bit with the girl who makes your


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4 REASONS WHY SOME GUYS DON’T WANT RELATIONSHIPS AND ONLY WANT SEX



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Having trouble getting over your ex?

Do you miss the way that they looked at you? The way that they smelled? The way their hand felt in yours?

Do you think you see them walking down the street when really it’s a stranger? Do you still hear certain music that reminds you of them?

When someone takes up so much of your life, it’s impossible to get over them in a day or two.

And while doing things like reading, walking, working out, journaling, and hanging out with friends can certainly be positive distractions, if you really want to deal with the root cause of the emotional pain you still feel you’ll have to do things a little bit differently.

A Personal Story Of Heart Break


I have a secret to confess…

I went through a break up that took me several years to get over.

She was intelligent, challenging, loving, kind, and absolutely beautiful. We dated for just over a year and the mark she left on my heart was undeniable.

I had imagined our futures together. Repeatedly. I pictured her smiling face looking up at me at our wedding. We had discussed what we would name our children.

I fell in love with her, hard. And one day it was all over.

It took several painful years to get over her. Years of hiding myself emotionally and engaging in surface level relationships.

I could have done it a lot sooner if I knew how to properly address what was really going on in my unconscious mind… and I want to help you get through things much faster, by laying out that process in this article.

The Chemical Process You Experience During A Break Up
Emotions are one of the most addictive things available to you.

When you are in love with someone, your brain is hit with massive surges of dopamine (brain scans have shown that our minds follow very similar patterns when influenced by cocaine or nicotine).

When you no longer have access to your intimate partner (post-breakup), your brain doesn’t fall out of love with them… it simply continues to be in love with them, but you no longer have access to them. And, like a crying baby who doesn’t have access to his mother that it so yearns for, our minds “rejector stimulus” is on overdrive. We simultaneously feel the pain of abandonment, the deep craving for a “fix” of our drug (aka partner) of choice and our once-regular hits of dopamine and oxytocin are nowhere to be found.

In fact, immediately after a break up, your happy chemicals are replaced with a flood of cortisol (stress hormone) and adrenaline. It’s almost as if your body is saying “Here’s a rush of energy… time to get up! Either work your ass off to get that one back, or go make yourself a more valuable partner and find someone else!”

Long story short, if you were hooked up to a brain scanner, your brain after a painful break up is highly similar to the brain of a drug addict in rehab.

Getting Over Your Ex – Do These Things First


1. Remind Yourself Of The Good, The Bad, And The Awful

Part of the reason we get stuck in processing our break up is that we idealize the relationship as a big collection of amazing, emotionally fulfilling times with very little downside. In reality, you fought frequently and there were core incompatibilities that drove you apart.

To get a more accurate view of your past relationship, journal about the things that you loved about the relationship, the things that bothered you about your ex, and your part in the down fall of the relationship.

2. Allow Yourself Space To Grieve By Yourself

Take a few days (at least) to sit with your emotions and let them move through you.

Every time you resist feeling an emotion it goes down to the basement to lift weights. So if you ignore the frustration, anger, resentment, hurt, or pain that is present in your body, it will only get stronger and come back louder than before until you listen to the signals.

3. Embody The ‘You’ That Felt The Most Stifled

In the vast majority of failed relationships there is bound to be a part of you that felt like it was discouraged by your ex.

Maybe she didn’t like your playful side, or how much time you wanted to spend with your friends, or how much time you spent working on your career.

Whatever it was that felt dormant, go and inhabit that side of yourself to the fullest degree.

You only suffer in a breakup to the extent that you lost yourself during the relationship… so there might be some leftover negative emotional residue if you felt like you weren’t fully allowed to be yourself around your partner. So go be you… all of you!

4. Use Your New Found Energy For Positive Growth

With the surge of adrenaline and cortisol that you get after a break up telling you to get up and get out (aka numb yourself to the pain by partying and hooking up with others) you have a huge opportunity.

Get your exercise routine dialled, learn a new skill, or build a new business.

I have had clients who built successful seven figure businesses from the surge of adrenaline that they got from an especially painful breakup.

Some of the best art in the world was made by people who had lost love. Utilize this current of emotional energy for your personal gain.

(To read more about this point, check out this article on harnessing the pain of a breakup).

5. See Your Emotional Process As A Trend, Not A Linear Path Away From Suffering

If you expect your emotional suffering to decrease in a linear A to B straight line, you’re in for a rude awakening.

Re-frame your processing of the breakup as something that generally trends upwards and you won’t be as taken aback by the down days (when you see something that reminds you of your ex, smell their perfume on someone, etc.). Realistically, it might take a few months before you feel totally like yourself again… and that’s okay. You aren’t broken. You’re human.



READ MORE: http://bigcrown.com.ng/5-best-ways-how-to-finally-get-over-your-ex-even-if-it-feels-impossible/

7 SHOCKING EXERCISES TO INCREASE YOUR SEXUAL STAMINA




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Here are the five biggest things that I had to overcome in order to find my dream woman.

1. Fear of being seen

In my six years of being emotionally closed I learned to construct a highly convincing mask that most people couldn’t see through. I became funny, charming, charismatic, and was always ‘on’ when I was around people.

I avoided people who had the intuitive power to really see me and the suffering that I was experiencing internally. For me, allowing others to see me as a struggling, vulnerable person was a huge challenge.

One of the greatest things that I did to overcome this roadblock was to start posting articles with more of myself in them (more of my stories and experiences as opposed to simply ‘tips and tricks’ articles) and spending more time with close friends who saw and expected me to be my authentic self around them. To draw an analogy, if I was an iceberg that had previously only shown 3% of its mass above the water line, I moved the water line down so that closer to 20% of me was showing above the water. I don’t believe that 100% of the iceberg ever has to be shown above the water line because, as researcher Brene Brown has shown, not everyone that you cross paths with in your life will be deserving of knowing your fully authentic self. Only certain people deserve to know the real you while others can see and understand a more surface version.

2. Inability to receive love 

It is much easier (in my opinion) to give love than it is to receive it. This is because there is more certainty in giving than there is in receiving.

Receiving love brings up all of our issues surrounding worthiness, vulnerability, guilt, and shame that may have been layered on to us in our early childhood or through past traumatic relationship experiences.

It’s much easier (and less anxiety-producing) to give love than to receive it because when we start to allow ourselves to receive love we may start to fear that the love we are receiving could be pulled away from us at any time. Which would then feel like a rejection. Which could then trigger our feelings of “See… I knew I wasn’t worthy enough of love to begin with. Why did I even bother trying?”

To overcome my inability to receive love I did weekly sessions with a self-love coach. While you think that I might have been able to work through this on my own (being a relationship coach myself) I am a person just like you and, just like you, I can’t see my own blind spots. This was a necessary step in my emotional process. Having someone externally be able to point out the flawed logic in my emotional thinking was absolutely critical towards my growth. If you think that you might be spinning your wheels in the mud as well, I can’t recommend reaching out enough.

I’m always here to chat if you need an outsider’s perspective.

3. Fear of rejection

I dated women that were safe for the vast majority of the six years I was emotionally closed. What does that mean exactly? It means that I dated women that rarely challenged me or stood up to me. They didn’t have solid personal boundaries.

I dated women that were safe because it meant that I would be able to stay closed off and keep my romantic partners at an emotional arms distance.

In order to find my dream woman, I had to let go of this habit that I knew wasn’t serving me.

4. Playing small

Not only was I playing small in my love life (by dating women that were safe) but I was also playing small throughout my entire life.

I stayed inside of my comfort zone in all matters. I didn’t go to the gym too frequently because I didn’t want to become one of those guys that was overly strong. I didn’t push my comfort zone in my business because I didn’t want to hear what the critics would have to say about me. I didn’t want to leave my hometown for extended periods of time because of other fear-based rationalizations.

In short, my ego would flare up and I would let it win.

Then one day (near the beginning of the calendar year) I decided that enough was enough. I decided to face all of my emotional demons, get the help that I knew I needed, and start playing bigger throughout my entire life.

And before long, I met the woman that I knew I could spend forever with.

5. Fear of big feelings

One of the overarching things that I was avoiding was the fear of big feelings.

What do I mean by big feelings? Well, in my previous years of emotional closure, I convinced myself that I needed to live within a smaller range of emotions. Because the pain from my old break up was so overwhelmingly huge I wanted to numb out the big, scary emotions like those. But we can’t selectively numb emotions. If you numb the lows you also numb the highs. And that’s exactly what happened.

When I first met my significant other and true love was offered to me, everything that was unlike love inside of me was brought to the surface. I went through a hellacious month of emotional processing. There were days where I felt like I was possessed. It was as if all of the grief, shame, and sadness were ripped out of my body.

When this happened, I had two options on how to deal with it. I could have said “Uh-oh… incoming BIG emotions! I should dodge these by numbing myself!”… or I could face the emotions head on and feel the shit out of them. I decided on the second option. So, while it was the furthest thing from being easy, it was an absolutely necessary step in my process towards finding my love.

7 STRATEGIC WAYS ON HOW TO EXPLORE YOUR SEXUALITY WITHIN A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT BEEN FED UP WITH UR PARTNER





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When it comes to relationships, language is everything. Just as soon as the wrong phrase can set your lover off, a perfectly worded sentence can also unlock her heart.
If you’re having trouble finding the right words to say to the girl of your dreams, let these quotes from young adult novels say it for you.

bigcrown.com.ng brings you 10 sweet things every Partner would love to hear

 1. I love you from the bottom of my heart

 2. You are so beautiful and angelic that I feel shy taking photos with you.

 3. You’re the one thing I’m most thankful for having in my life.

 4. I fall madly in love with you whenever you say you love over the phone.

  5. I can’t wait to spend the rest of my life with you.

  6. You make my sadness disappear with your beautiful smile.

  7. You’re perfect just the way you are and I like it.

  8. You have changed me into a better man and I am so glad I met you.

  9. You always know how to make me happy.

  10. My life is complete because I have you by my side.



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Having a girlfriend is mostly what all men wants. A girlfriend is your best friend, lover and favorite person on earth all in the same person. To get to her, you will have to get through some phases. But, the first phases of a relationship is hard. Especially when you are not sure if you have a future with her and if you have a commitment issue. Don’t lose the girl that might be the love of your life just because of a silly uncertainty. See these signs she is a girlfriend material and match the signs with her behavior and you might realize that you have already met the love of your life.
We all look for the same things in a partner. Comfort and understanding. A girl who have most of these signs in her attitude might give you both of that qualities. So read on and explore!

1. She listens

This is the first signs she is a girlfriend material. The base of every good relationship is of course communication. If she is able to listen to you intently, she might just be the one. She is a great listener when you see her actually listening anytime, anywhere. She might be busy but a girl who is a girlfriend material will always make time to listen to you. This is because she knows being heard makes you feel happy and comfortable and she wants you to feel that way.

2. She is happy

Sure, constant happiness is not always good but a girl who is happy is still one of the signs of a girlfriend material. When you see her as a happy person for most of the times, that means she is an independent girl who is feeling content within and she is not afraid to radiate her love to someone else. A girl who is happy is a girl who is ready to give and receive love. So if you see her being sad for as long as you know her, maybe you need to reconsider.

[/b]3. She is proud of herself[/b]

This might sound odd but a girl who loves herself is a girl that is definitely a girlfriend material. Someone who loves herself is content with who she is and she can feel that way without bringing down some other people. These kind of girls find happiness within herself. She is emotionally stable. But you still have to determine the fine line between self love and arrogance.
A girl who is arrogant will try to take down someone else in an attempt to make herself seems higher. When you date these kinds of girls it will be filled with jealousy and sadness because she is an insecure girl who is filled with hatred.

4. Silence is not a space to be filled

Sometimes you know that you are really comfortable with silence when you can be comfortably quiet with someone. Find a girl that can stand being peacefully quiet with you just for the sake of chilling. A girl can detect the moment when you want to be quiet. And once she starts blabbering about something unimportant, that means she is not quite comfortable with you. This is a great and simple experiment to figure out if she is the perfect girlfriend.

5. She accepts you and your flaw

Of course we all want to be in a relationship, but what is a relationship without honesty? You will know that you have a girl that is a possible girlfriend when she accepts you and your flaws. She is not surprised or overly angry when you made a mistake. She understands that you are a human, just like her. And she even likes you more because of your flaws!


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TOP 26 STIMULATING SEX FACTS THAT GIVES LIFE(YOU NEED TO KNOW!)




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First thing first, you need to know what is the definition of boyfriend material. Boyfriend material is someone who takes care of you and who loves you more than anything (get a guy like this please!). Someone wo accept you the way you are and support you na matter your circumstances. If you have all of these, he may be the winner!

You comes to that point that you should be thinking of someone whom you can imagine yourself having a long-term relationship with or even spending your life with them and build a family.

Not all men are classed as boyfriend material, even not many taken men are boyfriend material (true!). It can be hard to find out if they’re boyfriend material or not in the beginning of relationship. So here are the tips to identify boyfriend materials:

1. He Introduces You to His Friends

If your man waits too long to introduce you to his friends, you shoulb be curious. Because no one that is in serious relationship would hide their partner. Instead he will let all his friends know about his partner and he wants his parter to know his friends.

2. He Is A Great Lover

There are so many thing that makes a man become a great lover. Does not have to mean he is the bes you have ever had in technical sense.no matter how hight skilled he is, he have to be open to you and willing to make you happy, but as well as expressing that he is happy to be with you. A man who identified as boyfriend material is receptive to your needs and communicate about his own needs.

3. Man Who Let’s His Girl Have Her Own Space

Get a man who is not possessive to you and trust you. A man who is boyfriend material will understand that you have a life and friends. We as a girl don’t want to feel like our man trying to control everything. The more space your man gace you, the more time you wants to spend time with him.

4. He Will Support Your Decision

A man who really love you and into you will never makes you feel bad about your decision, instead they will support you and gave loads of motivation whenever you feeling down. And even if he does not agree with you, he will explain why he does not agree with you in a nice way.

5. He Will Always Open and Honest With You

Perfect man will always honest and be open with you, they usually feels bad whenever he is not telling you the truth even the truth hurts. You should never have question about how is his feeling.

6. Compromises

A man who is classed as a boyfriend material will make certain compromises to get close to you. Maybe he start to keeping his car clean so you can put your stuff there or he keep his house clean so you have your own space there. Man who is not boyfriend material will never be ready for changes in their lives for someone else and may be put blame on you for trying to disrupt their life at the moment.

7. He Understands the Difference between the Good and Wrong

He won’t even close to try to lie, cheating, or hurting you. Because they know and they will never try to hurt you. He know what is up.

8. He Is Ready for Committed in Relationship With You

We know that commitment is not for everyone, some people would consider to cheat from their partner even after they’re married! But you find him different than the other, he acts that he is ready to be in serious relationship and commitment. He will show to you that he is ready for you, and he will try to be with you. If people act like they are super duper busy and don’t make time for you, well that’s a sign if he is not even put you on the first place.

9. He Listen to You

Some men will say that woman talk too much, but there is one thing that you should know that real man will listen to you without complaining or labels you with ‘big mouth’. He probably will participate with your subject.

10. He Always Tells You That You Are Beautiful All the Time

By ‘beautiful’ does not mean you have to dress up and put your make up on. Because we know, we feel comfortable without putting efforts to do make ups, or curl your hair with the iron, he will still adore you even if when you woke up in the morning with your natural hair – tsirt – and no make up on your face. A man should always make his lady feels sexy and beautiful.

11. He Always Wants to Improve to Be Better

I believe self improvements in relationship, good man wouls do this and try to get rid of their bad behavior for his partner. For the example, before he staes you he partying every night, woke up with hangover or the worst is that he was a player before he met you. But then he met you and you changed his life, he decided to improve himself and s=don’t want to do the same behavior in the past. He will try to win your heart.

12. He Is Not Shy to Hold Your Hands in Public

I personally like holding hand with my partner, holding hands means so much to me. I believe good boyfriend will not shy to hold your hands whilst you hang out. It’s kinda showing that you’re his. And this kind of make other ladies out there jealous because you man is such a gentleman!

13. He Will Consider You As His Best Friend Too

By the end of the day, he should want to spend time with you over anyone else, he feel like you are not a burden. And feels comfortable to be with you, you should be feel the same way as him. You make him attracted to you in a good way.



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