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WebmastersRe: FREE Affiliate Marketing Training For Beginners ~Join Us & Start MakingRealMoney by renaissance(m): 1:46pm On Sep 03, 2018
What about sb who is currently blogging by using "blogger" and not "wordpress". Will it favor him/her?
WebmastersRe: I Want To Share This N18,000 ($49) Template For FREE To All Bloggers by renaissance(m): 3:44pm On Sep 02, 2018
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RomanceReasons You Lose Interest In Your Relationship by renaissance(op): 5:31pm On Sep 01, 2018
https://www.worldforum.com.ng/2017/10/reasons-you-lose-interest-in-your.html

I read about relationship issues and get questions in some of the forums. I get questions like why is it that i get tired of my relationship so fast and the likes.

I realize those asking this kind of question are majorly the teenagers and i am always like what do you expect from a relationship you start when you don't know what relationship is all about and when you don't even know what you want.

It will be fine if as the female you have not let go half of you with the guy before you call it off as the guy will count that as achievement.

You really must know what you want in your partner which he/she must possess plenty of them if not all, having at the back of your mind that your partner cannot be perfect just as you are not..

When you are young, you can only judge base on the appearance, meanwhile, relationship goes beyond just the appearance. And at times, you go for him or her because maybe he/she is outspoken, wear latest designers and so on. Though some adults still make this same mistake. How much more you!

The relationship into which you are and that you are not proud of, or you cannot open up to one of your parent's or your elder siblings you are into cannot even see the day light because the fear of it being revealed is even big enough to scatter the relationship.

The greatest and last of the reasons among people is that when you are in a relationship at a tender age, the emotion is not really attached and no sense of responsibility, so, the two are free to still mingle and can easily be distracted by another who possess the attribute of that person you are in a relationship with and also with another person who gives you little attention.

Related: When to walk away from your Relationship

So you shouldn't worry when you are experiencing loss of interest in your relationship when you are still so young, it is normal as you will get to the real one soon. So it is advisable to keep off completely at this stage.

For an adult, after love making, all the interest disappears, this is common among male. This is why those that victim of love most times are the female.

Also, you lose interest easily and early simply because you think relationship is not as important as people make it look. You place your career far beyond the relationship.

The truth is that when you do not also accord some concentration to your relationship it will definitely affect your feelings once in a while which will even make your lover get tired as you will not give it the all it deserves.

Don't think i am talking about sex, relationship isn't always about sex; the time, the talk, the bond wouldn't be as strong as it should be simply because you place your career so much over it.

Related: Let your marriage bring out the best in your children

Relationship deals with emotion and the mind, if you don't think of nuturing it, it will die a sudden death, this is why you lose it so fast.

I will recommend you achieve what you set your mind at first before you think of relationship if you cannot put different emotional things in your mind at the same time, stop causing people emotional trauma because you wouldn't feel like they feel.

https://www.worldforum.com.ng/2017/10/reasons-you-lose-interest-in-your.html
WebmastersRe: I Want To Share This N18,000 ($49) Template For FREE To All Bloggers by renaissance(m): 5:15pm On Sep 01, 2018
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RomanceRe: To Ladies - 19 Secrets Of Keeping A Man For Yourselves by renaissance(op): 10:07am On Sep 01, 2018
funmisticqueen:
uncle Methuselah, what do you know about me to infer that i have no serious man, that aside. GIVE ME ONE GOOD REASON WHY A WOMAN SHOULD SUFFER WITH YOU, LET ME MAKE A THREAD ON THIS
The number 8 is not inferring that you start up your marriage career with poverty-stricken or jobless man. It simply means "a woman should give a supportive hand to her husband every endeavor: Make the dream of greatness in your man to be easily facilitated and SMART

S= Specific
M= Measurable
A= Achievable
R= Realistic
T= Time bound...

After marriage, will your man sit down and do nothing, absolutely NO? He will be in every effort to make his family experience standard of living... Then a woman should not sit down cross-legged and do nothing to support her husband's endeavor...Common, ladies, Be wise enough

That's All...as simple and ABC
RomanceRe: To Ladies - 19 Secrets Of Keeping A Man For Yourselves by renaissance(op): 7:21am On Sep 01, 2018
funmisticqueen:
if you like, mould your woman from clay and chant a spell using proverbs 31? men like you will still cheat. that your number 8 is a big joke
Your own opinion
RomanceRe: To Ladies - 19 Secrets Of Keeping A Man For Yourselves by renaissance(op): 5:13pm On Aug 31, 2018
chiommy123:
And what do you get in return
It is only a wicked and ungrateful man that will not appreciate a woman of such traits and character... If such characters can befit my future woman, I will do anything for her....
RomanceTo Ladies - 19 Secrets Of Keeping A Man For Yourselves by renaissance(op): 4:08pm On Aug 31, 2018
By "worldforum.com.ng"


1] Bring his family and friends close.

2] Every man needs a prayerful woman.

3] Let him be the man.

4] Remember he needs a second mother from you.

5] Be patient, men are like kids.

6] Always look attractive because it is very important.

7] Smell nice

8] Be ready to build with him

9] Don't ever compare him with other men.

10] Encourage him, every woman has that charm......use it

11] Get close to his mum. Men love their mothers so much.

12] Love and respect the king, him.

13] Men can forgive everything but not a cheating spouse.

14] Keep track records of his schedules and remind him.

15] Be submissive and forgive always.

16] Support his dreams and be his number 1 fan.

17 ] Discover his favorite meal.

18] Know how to cook, if u don't please learn it before coming in as a wife.

19] And don't forget to satisfy him in the other room.

Source: https://www.worldforum.com.ng/2018/05/19-secrets-of-keeping-man-to-yourself.html

Your own piece of opinion?
RomanceRe: When To Walk Away From Your Relationship - Worldforum.com.ng by renaissance(op): 4:00pm On Aug 31, 2018
Lol....funny u
RomanceRe: When To Walk Away From Your Relationship - Worldforum.com.ng by renaissance(op): 3:53pm On Aug 31, 2018
Bluezy13:
Ok
Any piece of comment?
RomanceRe: When To Walk Away From Your Relationship - Worldforum.com.ng by renaissance(op): 8:07am On Aug 31, 2018
comment yours so as to guide our people going into marriage....
RomanceWhen To Walk Away From Your Relationship - Worldforum.com.ng by renaissance(op): 8:01am On Aug 31, 2018
By "worldforum.com.ng"

Physical abuse

if your partner is physically hurting or abusing you continuously without repenting, then you should leave that relationship while you still have the means to do so because your life and your mental health is on the line. There is no excuse for physical abuse. When there is physical and mental abuse in a relationship, then that relationship is heading for destruction.

Addiction

Addiction is a real mental health issue and it should never be taken lightly. If your partner is struggling with an addiction, then advise him or her to get professional help immediately because your partner may drag you down with them. But if they refuse, then that is a sign that they don’t want to be helped.

Too much lie and deceit

There should always be a healthy practice of openness and honesty in a relationship. When you notice that your partner is constantly hiding things from you, confront them and make them see reasons your relationship has to be based on trust. If they refuse to change, then it is time to leave that relationship because you can never know where you stand with a liar and a deceiver.

Cheating

A relationship can never be sustainable if there are consistent cases of cheating. Being in a relationship requires a lot of commitment, dedication, and loyalty to a single person and to a single relationship. If your partner keeps cheating on you, it only shows that he doesn’t regard you. If he or she doesn’t make an effort to map out your lives together, then your relationship isn’t going anywhere.

Related: Reasons you lose interest in your relationship easily

You always argue

You keep arguing about the same things over and over again. You can never seem to come to a resolution or conclusion on important issues and so you have the same fights constantly. If your partner is not willing to budge and compromise, then you two are not meant to be together.

No respect

Relationship is always built on a foundation of mutual respect. There is no way you will have a functional relationship with one another if you don’t respect each other. If your partner doesn’t respect you in any way, that only means that he or she doesn’t love you. You respect whom you love.

Less communication

Communication has the power to fix a lot of problems in a relationship. When a couple is always willing to talk to each other, then the couple maintains an open mind about love and life. However, when there is no communication in a relationship, then there is also no emotional connection there anymore.

Your partner is selfish

If your partner is overly selfish, then there is a need to have a rethink about your relationship. Relationships are a give-and-take kind of situation, you always have to be thinking about the welfare of your partner and of the relationship. If your partner only thinks about his or herself, that relationship won’t last long.

No talk about the future

You have to be able to discuss the future of your relationship as a couple. If your partner always avoid talking about his or her future with you, that means they don’t see you in it. Instead of wasting your time and efforts, you should walk out of that relationship, because only then will you meet someone who wants you in their life.

See: When you maltreat your woman, she becomes available to other men



You’ve grown apart

According to dailymail.co.uk, when you start struggling to have a meaningful conversation with your partner, that is a signal that you both need to work on your relationship. But when you realise that you have grown apart and want different things in life, then it is time to walk away. Although it is not easy, but it is better to have a more fulfilled life.

It’s not a partnership

A relationship should be balanced with each partner supporting and being there for each other no matter what. If your partner requires you to be there for them all the time when they need you but are never there when you need them, then you should probably start thinking about moving on.

https://www.worldforum.com.ng/2017/11/when-to-walk-away-from-your-relationship.html
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I saw my state code on the same day I did documentation in the sectariat since 2 weeks ago.... Up till now, I have not been given PPA...I even went there on Friday, the day before yesterday, we were asked to go and that they were working on it...
WebmastersRe: I Need 200 Bloggers - Drop Your Blog Link So We Can Comment And Get Backlink by renaissance(m): 9:15am On Aug 10, 2018
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CareerFactors That Can Affect Your Choice Of Career by renaissance(op): 10:14pm On Aug 03, 2018
Let me ask you a question. What is your intention for going to school? I discovered that most people go to tertiary institutions just to be referred to as a graduate. Many people just go and study any course they are been given. It’s not supposed to be so. Have a plan and a direction in your life and it will help you a great deal. Plan your life and follow your plan. That’s all I can say. There are a lot of factors that can influence your choice of career . some of which are outlined below.

Your Passion

The greatest influencing factor of success is to pursue your passion. Your passion is a burning desire that cannot be quenched except it has been achieved. Everyone has a unique vacuum he/she is to fill. When this vacuum is discovered, it arouses the passion for fulfillment. With passion, you work hard to make sure that your destiny is fulfilled. I met a young man who according to him, gets so annoyed whenever he hears that someone died and in most cases as a result of an avoidable carelessness. This aroused that passion to save lives and as such, he decided to study medicine and surgery in order to save as few as he can and as many as he can. Passion for saving lives was the propeller.

There was also another lady who had a dream of becoming a mouth of the poor and oppressed. She wanted to defend the law and stand tall for justice and this led her to study law. Passion initiated and influenced her choice. All the most celebrated football stars today were stared up by their passion for soccer. Some of them started as early as before age 10. You might have seen some of them in your area carrying their soccer boot every evening and Saturday morning and you might think that they do not have any plan for their lives. You might think that they are only wasting their lives but it is not so. These young boys know what they are pursuing. Their passion is simply what they are pursuing.

Do you think that there is anything that when you are been given the opportunity to do, you will do better than the people who did it previously? That could be your passion. The passion to do things better is the basic backbone of innovation and technology. Never pursue a career because other want you to. You will be the one spending half of your life at the job, therefore pursue your passion. Oprah Winfrey said, “make it your intention to serve through your life with purpose, you will have a blessed life”.

Your Advisers

Your advisers could also influence your choice of preferred career of study. When we are surrounded with godly and reasonable advisers, we tend to move in the right direction. For example, I planned studying electrical or mechanical engineering in higher institution but my brother advised me on the importance and relevance of Information Management Technology, which I adhered to his advice and currently, I owe it no regret.
Mind you, you are the person to choose the course of field that interests you since it’s your life and not anyone else. But in choosing your career, you must also give heed to advice from elderly ones who have gone before you. Their responsibility is just to advise you, not to force or compel you into what was not initially your intension.

May I use this opportunity to correct the error some parents make. Some parents tend to decide what their child would study. They believe that since they are the ones to bear the financial responsibility, therefore, the child must study whatever they tell them to. That’s wrong! even God who is the master of us all never compels anyone to do anything but rather permits us to make our own choice. Advice the child only and let him make his own choice because he will be the one facing the rudiments of that profession and not you. Young ones, listen to advice and take counseling but weigh them accurately and appropriately and then go with the right advice. Probably, it might be the same with your passion.


To read more, visit:
https://www.worldforum.com.ng/2018/05/factors-that-can-influence-your-choice.html
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Thank you for the pictures... I am going to Rivers camp but I'm gonna serve in Lagos state....Therefore, is it possible for me to receive the first cash allowance at the camp?......
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