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Talk2Bella:
Hi Bella I need some advice.

We didn’t really date for long before I found out he’s a cheat and a liar but I was already in love and decided to turn a blind eye until he started acting real funny, ignoring my calls, won’t send me messages for days, always snapped at me and so on.

I was really patient and all but when I saw where the whole thing was leading to I decided to take a walk and save myself some shame, after all I did see the signs and I decided to ignore it.

Recently we started talking again and he tells me how much he misses me and all, how he made a mistake and should never have let me go, that he was facing some issues then and needed the space, now he wants us to work things over, another chance to get to know him.

I am scared, he hurt me more than I let on here, I was devastated for weeks, would cry myself to sleep always till I was able to get over him and now he’s back and I can’t stop myself from not giving him a chance, do you think this would be like before?



Talk2Bella.



Thanks for opening up.

You see, Dating and being in a Love bound relationship are two different things and most times, people wrongly interchange them and feel they are the same, but truthfully, they are not and I can point out u skipped the part where you were supposed to get to know each other and went to fall in love blindly due to reasons best known to you. Love doesn't happen overnight, it takes a lot of effort and actions, not feelings, for it to be established correctly.


Due to the course of you two dating, you observed that he was a cheat and a liar, that alone should have made you to understand he isn't the right man for you. Someone who cheats is more likely than not to cheat a second time, and a third, and a fourth, irrespective of how sorry they are during their cry for another chance.

I advise you ask yourself what you really want in a relationship. From what I gathered in your post, it seems you like the attention from your partner and where that Is lacking, would really bring friction in your relationship so I suggest you find someone else who shares same passion and reasoning with you and pitch your tent there.

Please don't allow feelings to cloud your sense of judgment rather, stay on top of your game and be in charge of your happiness.


I believe other viewers would have some comments to pitch in which will go a long way in strengthening you to make the right decision.

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All I Hav 2 say is just Dat U should Neva Be Down 4 Dey Cause Buh U can Be Down 4 dey Count. Nd _
Situations reveal the true nature of humans. No one can pretend for ever so Don't giv up Cos Dere ar Many fishes in Dey River ........
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Hull have never beaten Chelsea in the Premier League, losing six and drawing twice.
Chelsea are unbeaten in their last 12 matches in all competitions against Hull City, winning 10 (D2).
Diego Costa and Eden Hazard scored in both Premier League fixtures against Hull in 2014/15. Indeed, five of Chelsea's last seven PL goals against the Tigers have been scored or assisted by Costa and Hazard.
Hazard has scored in each of his last three Premier League clashes with Hull; he's never scored in four consecutive PL matches against a single opponent (also three in a row vs Spurs).
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If Chelsea lose this game they will have lost as many games under Antonio Conte (3) in seven matches as they did in 21 outings under Guus Hiddink last season.
Chelsea have used a league-low 17 players this season, with Hull next lowest on 18.
Diego Costa has been booked in four of his six Premier League appearances this season.
Hull have had a red card in their last two games, there have only been eight instances in Premier League history of teams getting men sent off in three successive matches, most recently by West Ham in August 2015

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Chelsea provisional squad: Courtois, Begovic, Ivanovic, Alonso, Fabregas, Kante, Oscar, Hazard, Pedro, Mikel, Loftus-Cheek, Moses, Costa, Matic, Willian, Batshuayi, Cahill, Azpilicueta, Chalobah, Luiz, Eduardo.


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