So I've had this friend for awhile we used to work together, and I always hated his girlfriend, not because she did anything but because she was his girlfriend and I wanted to hate her. He quit and she started working with me soon there after. I'm the closing manager so the two of us spent 6-7 hours alone together and we started talking and getting along and getting to know eachother. We actually ended up being really great friends and we opened up to eachother. She'd always talk about how her boyfriend didn't treat her right and called her stupid and never wanted to talk to her. I tried being there for her innocently we'd go to breakfast after work and hangout a little bit. One night we decided to just spend the entire day together after work and we went to breakfast got coffee, I read poetry to her for hours because I love that kind of stuff and she did too, it was amazing. We went back to my house to watch a movie and she kissed me, then we started cuddling together and just cute stuff, never any sex, I could never do that to her boyfriend. He did find out though, and she was faced with the decision of who to go with, she fought it forever and she told me how she can't just throw to years of her life away and picked him, then she showed up at my house and kept into my arms smiling saying she couldn't pick him and then went to dump him, but later they got in a fight and she called me crying and saying it couldn't happen. We secretly talked for awhile then I decided I had to cut her out of my life for both of our sakes and announced it over coffee. I blocked her on everything, but I caved after like 10 hours and I called her and she started crying thanking me because she didn't want me out of her life. Now we talk on the phone for hours a day and tag eachother voicemail when we're working and text and so on because we can't stand being without eachother, but she still can't bring herself to end it and break his heart. How do I make her do it, she even admits to both of us how much happier she is with me and how badly she wants to go with me but he swears hell change and is dead set he can win her back, and screams if she even mentions my name let alone sees or talks to me, I'm in love with her and I need tto convince her to leap with me instead of staying in her comfort zone despite how miserable it makes her