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AlPeter:
Resipsa thanks so much. Have a fwend like dat too. I can understand how d guy feel and how you feel too. Since I left school I've been involved an a couple of relationship all of which I've ended because everytime I look at them I see her almost the same thing with her she breaks up relationships without giving good reasons like she was never interested. Right now, after years of trying to do like warripekin am planning on popping the question. Can't spend my whole life loving someone else's wife.

Please don't make the same mistake I made. Make things right,pop the question now before its too late. I appreciate all the comments but you are in my shoes right now and can understand the feelings. If only I can make things right but its too late.

firstking01:
This is why girls should desist from the evil of friendzoning guys, mtcheeews

I dey tell you!

goshen26:
Ma'am no escuse for cheating ur hubby....u have to overcome that feeling....try to bring his pics on ur hubby, assume all that u love in him in ur.hubby.
God bless u

Bless you too

Thank you all for your sincere comments and contributions. @ warripekin thanks so much. Experience they say is the best teacher. @AlexCk, I appreciate.

Dear fellow nairalanders, let me not use the popular line that it happened to a friend. This is my story and I had to open a new account for security purposes.
We met 2001 in our year 1 in school and have remained friends.He did a 4 year programme while i did 5 years but all through we kept in touch because we lived in the same town. He graduated and went for service while I had to finish with school and go for law school. Throughout my breaks I would make out time to hang out with him. Fast forward to 2008, I went for service in the same town he was working and our friendship continued. We were there for each other and dating never crossed our minds then. 2009 I finished service and got married and he left for Lagos. That same year he left for the U.S and we were still in touch. We call, chat and Skype since then. Fast forward to this January, he called that he would be coming home to do his traditional wedding wth his wife from the US and he came. Few day before his departure cus he stayed for just 2 weeks, he called that he'd wanna see me before leaving. He had to come down to my see me in another state with gifts for me and my children. We laughed,gisted and later went to Jevinik to have lunch since we left from my office and from there I saw him off to park. We hugged and let go some tear drops. Since then, both of us have been in emotional turmoil. We have realised we have been in love all through these years but suppressed the feelings.
please I need matured advice esp from married NLders cus I can't think straight same with him over there. I can't stop thinking about him and he can't stay without calling to tell me how much he wishes to turn the hands of time and we are scared not to hurt our loved ones.