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RomanceRe: What Did You Do For Love That You Later Regretted? by reucom: 12:01pm On Jun 26
Alabig1000:
I for regret everything wey I do : but after 2 months wey she go she don come back :
Should you really take her backhuh
You need to think about that seriously....
HealthRe: Help! My Body Itches Me Terribly. by reucom: 1:37pm On May 07
Are you sure of the bitter leaf recipe?




AbelAbdul:
90% of the commentors here would say HIV. just watch.

I had skin infection which lasted for months. I spent more than 200k on drugs and test. I posted it here last year and a lot of them were shouting HIV.

someone here said i should be eating garlic i did but no way. I saw a post on TikTok where someone had that same skin disease and he was told to mix bitter leaf and one 'drygin' like that to drink. I have forgotten the name of the gin when i remember i will post.

Na so i buy that dry-gin and bitter leaf drank for two says since then no more itching and the rashes were gone.
Nairaland GeneralTransportation From Mile 2 To Badagry by reucom(op): 11:04pm On Dec 17, 2025
Hello there everyone 👋

I want to ask if there are car's going from Mile 2 to Badagry or even seme border and the cost.

I'm wondering if there are car's going from Ketu/Ojota to Badagry as well?

Many thanks
TravelRe: Crazy Transport Fares In Lagos by reucom: 10:21pm On Dec 17, 2025
Hello guy's...
How much is car transport from Mile 2 to Badagry please?

I'm also wondering if there are car's going to Badagry from Ikorodu or Ketu/Ojota side.

Thanks everyone 🥰
PoliticsRe: Abubakar Badaru Resigns as Nigeria's Defence Minister by reucom: 2:42pm On Dec 02, 2025
His name has been flagged as one of the terrorists financier's that's why. Deep calleth to Deep...
HealthRe: Sex Addiction: I Am Tired Of Infection by reucom: 2:52pm On Apr 18, 2025
I don't know if this will interest you young man.....
The only way is to learn to pray for God to deliver you and yes He will.
It saddened my heart to read that you don't have much time to live when God has not said so.
Life isn't all about money, gambling and sex. There's so much you can do with your life. Diseases will only destroy your body to the point of death and that you don't want you see.

If would love to have a chat, I am available to encourage you on how you can overcome these destructive addictions because your life shouldn't have to depend on them.
You are created by God to have a purpose and future in life.
May the Lord help you through this.
WhatsApp - 07059012336




ChildOfDoom:
I started womanizing to help me overcome my addiction of Betting.

It has helped to an extent as I spend majority of my time in a brothel, Eating, drinking, relaxing and fvcking (my mind leaves betting).

The issue now is that, since I started three years back, I have been treating one infection to another. Currently having skin reaction that brings out small inflammation and rashes on my body like my favourite olosho.

I can't help it. I have tried switching to drinking to take over womanizing, but it won't work.

Except I go back to betting (which is worse). In the past, I would sit all day in a bet9ja shop wasting away - gambling with my money, people's money and my belongings. Then I lose focus and don't work

But with womanizing, at least I get some pleasure, and get to use my money little by little. The rate at which it finishes is not as fast as betting.

The thought of having to choose between different bannies to lash at night keeps me motivated during the day to work harder for cash. Just the infection part as condom do burst at times while there are some I only do raw.

I know my lifespan is short, I just want to enjoy it with a sane mind and not fleeing from betting woes. My body is wired to do one addiction to stay placated/elated.

Having a girlfriend is scary. What if I invest a lot on just one girl and she cheats on me
InvestmentRe: It's Time To Make Cool Dollars On Go Ei Ulife. by reucom(op): 9:02pm On Mar 24, 2025
This is not a chance to miss guy's.
Make sure to register ASAP...
InvestmentIt's Time To Make Cool Dollars On Go Ei Ulife. by reucom(op): 12:46am On Mar 21, 2025
There's no other time to make cool dollars and Go E1 ULife is a great plug at the minute...

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EducationRe: Academic Dissertation, Assignment, Statement Of Purpose, Etc? by reucom: 5:16pm On Jan 11, 2025
Hello there
Can you write an Msc dissertation on Psychology
EducationRe: Professional Academic Support Services by reucom: 5:07pm On Jan 11, 2025
Hello there
Can you write an Msc dissertation.... Psychology
TravelRe: Crazy Transport Fares In Lagos by reucom: 4:24pm On Jan 02, 2025
How much is transport fare
from Ikorodu to Mile 12 please?
PoliticsRe: I Will Support Tinubu Again, He Saved Me When OBJ Buried Me Alive. by reucom: 6:45pm On Oct 29, 2024
potent5:
Bipolar ailment is BAD.
I agree with you....
This man is sick
HealthRe: Pretty Lady Dies After Complaining Of A Headache (Photos) by reucom: 11:45pm On Sep 06, 2024
NwaAmaikpe:
shocked




The minister of Education needs to do something about our education sector.

It's not fair that studying for a Masters degree overseas will trigger brain complications for students.

How do you explain it that a person graduates with a 1st class or 2.1 in Nigeria, gets admitted for a Master's degree overseas, then slumps and dies either while still studying or shortly after studying.

This brings me back to the words of Aunty Rapuokwu, my CRK teacher, after catching me armed with almost half of the new testament hidden in between my armpit for use as "expo" during one of her exams.

She simply said, "you are only weakening your brain energy by cheating".

And she wasn't wrong; my first visit to the psychiatric hospital as a patient was from a supposed 'brain fäg' because I blanked out after being handed my Further Maths question paper and seeing Quadratic equations that looked like Hieroglyphics.

With that said, I hope village people are finally happy...because how do you rationalize someone not dying from the stress, heartache, poverty and hardship in Nigeria but then dying from a mere headache after succesfully integrating in a country of limitless potentials?

However, it is not right for a religious person like myself to sound so superstitious.

What if it is not underused brain energy or village people that are responsible for all these 'slump-and-die' deaths, but prayerful sidekicks wishing to replace them?

Mama Ramota still says that's the only reason she was scared when she found out I was cheating on her with a born-again Christian.
You are so funny🤣🤣🤣
Bless ya🙏
HealthRe: The Touching Story Of LATUNDE ODEKU, Nigeria’s First Neurosurgeon by reucom: 10:17pm On Aug 20, 2024
WOW....
What a fantastic man
CrimeRe: Disability Based Violence: How A DSS Pervert Ran Amok In A Boarding School (pic) by reucom: 12:57pm On May 27, 2024
Ishilove:
contd.
What a very heartless young man😭😭😭

Nigeria is indeed finished.....too many wicked people out there
PoliticsRe: One Man Cannot Change The Entire Country – Tinubu’s Aide, Olusegun by reucom: 3:04pm On May 09, 2024
This is the most stupid release ever and shameful too. If that is that is case then divide the useless contraption called Nigeria and let everyone go their way.
It's not by force for one man to rule Nigeria and we all know that already. Nigeria has become so big and the tribes have become so intolerant of one another.
The Igbos are ready today and likewise the Yorubas while the Fulanis are busy terrorizing the whole nation and causing so much hardship.

Tinubu should just do the needful now and then go and rest his old body.
So what's the point, if Tinubu cannot do it then split the country for us amicably and let everyone find their own way.
HealthRe: Foreigners Now Troop Into Nigeria For Medical Treatment – Health Minister, by reucom: 12:15am On May 08, 2024
Not even illiterate Nigerians would ever say this. This is not what any sensible human being should say in John public
EducationRe: My Review Of Utme 2024 Utme Mathematics Examination (they Set Sin40°) by reucom: 4:21pm On Apr 30, 2024
By the way, how old are you if you don't mind?
You sound so matured.
I wish you all the best🙏
PoliticsRe: Emefiele Arraigned In Court, Pleads Not Guilty To Charges by reucom: 10:45am On Apr 08, 2024
How can he plead guilty when he did not act alone. ...
Emefiele is about to sink buhari and the cabal.
Nice one.....

nairalandkachy1:
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BusinessRe: Naira Rebounds As Banks Offload Excess Dollars by reucom: 9:33pm On Feb 02, 2024
Faiththatworks:
I have been asking this question since last week,and I really need some Intelligent Nigerians to please educate me.
What's causing the downward spiral of the Naira to the Dollar, Can the CBN and the Banks please release the industries where the dollar demand is coming from.
I can say for a fact that NNPCL already told us petrol is no longer subsided,all diesel and Aviation fuel importers have given them selves some sense and have totally reduced their importation because of the Dangote Refinery.
Even Manufactures have reduced importation of essential raw materials,from Drugs to household essentials,everyone is cutting back on importation cos of the high Usd,so what's causing the spike in Demand.
My economic theory is very simple and I hope I get some Intelligent rebuttals,anyone buying Usd this high at 1$ to 1400,will never make a profit on whatever they import.
No right thinking importer will do business at such a ridiculous rate and still expect to make a profit,so who's buying this Usd.
I daresay this spiral is just open ended round tripping,the banks and the bureau are really the ones buying and selling this Usd,they create an artificial supply and demand bogus economy just to milk the Nigerian economy.
EFCC,NSA,ICPC should categorize these people as Economic Terriorist and treat them as such.
God bless Nigeria.
You are making a lot of sense 👍
PhonesRe: Once You Lose your Phone, You Lose All Your Money In Your Bank Account. by reucom: 5:38pm On Jan 19, 2024
tochez24:
Exactly.... An atm card is the pathway for all Mobile and online transactions💯

If you don't want to stress yourself, just deactivate your atm card and rest. Then you have to be going to the bank anytime you want to withdraw money.

However, some banks won't allow you to withdraw any amount less than 150k inside the bank shaaa
But is it possible though to use these phone app for transactions without having the bank card?
PhonesRe: Once You Lose your Phone, You Lose All Your Money In Your Bank Account. by reucom: 3:33pm On Jan 19, 2024
Hello guys

Is it possible one can use the bank app for transactions without having a master card on the same account please?
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by reucom: 11:18am On Aug 29, 2023
This market ain't funny at the minute Mercy.
Lord have mercy 🙏


yMcy56:
E Ku Market o. smiley
Bull sighted in the market this early hours....let me add: in selected stocks....banks still on recess.....

TRANSCORP: Full bid @7.01!
DANGSUGAR: @57.30 as at now.....57.45.....Full bid!
NASCON: Full bid @54.10!
NAHCO: Sighted @21.50.......22.......
FMN responding positively.....
GSK: Sighted @12.80! Full bid now!

When me and my Oga was chatting, I told him that, in my opinion, SAHCOL shouldn't be trading above NAHCO all things being equal......don't mind my quack view of some of these things.... grin

** Pls do your DD o! No talk say na one Mcy give update wey make you sell or buy* grin
RomanceRe: My Wife Has Set A Timetable For Sex For Me. What Do I Do? by reucom: 5:30pm On Aug 24, 2023
So sorry you have to go through this young man.
I can see that you have tried all your best possible in order to keep your marriage.
You even cheated on her and this I consider very very dangerous for you. It is risky business so stop it now.
Anger issues are also not the best. That also could lead you into prison. Be more careful henceforth.
The children are constantly seeing the two of you bickering and fighting. That is so irresponsible and it will affect your children in the future. Stop it now.
You need to choose the road to peace and the way forward will be for you to separate and get a divorce.
For your peace and for her joy because it is very obvious that your wife do not love you. It appears this marriage was a marriage of convenience where she is concerned. The fire is out and her family are helping her to fan the flame of divorce. No mother inlaw should say what her mother said to you. NO...even her sister. This is so sad.
Do not be afraid to do what you need to do ASAP because you may just regret hanging in there thinking things will change.
I pray God will strengthen you and help you 🙏🙏🙏
Blessings






addmole:
I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.

Anyway sha, lets move on...

5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.

Omo...
The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.

I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.

I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.

ANOTHER PART OF HER:
My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.

There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.

We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.

I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.

I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.

Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.

i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.

Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.

She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.

What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by reucom: 6:13pm On Aug 21, 2023
yMcy56
I forgot respond to your question.
It's Integrated Trust and Equities

Thanks
EducationRe: Mention A Course You Want To Do BSc/MSC/PHD & I’ll Reply You With A Funded Offer by reucom: 2:54pm On Aug 19, 2023
Msc in Psychology
InvestmentRe: Nigerian Stock Exchange Market Pick Alerts by reucom: 9:23pm On Aug 17, 2023
I got my FBNH dividends as well. I'm gonna sell soon.
TravelRe: My Guy Is Asking If I Would Like To Come And Work In Benin Republic by reucom: 1:17pm On Aug 16, 2023
Bloom where you are young man.
Benin republic is not a country to make money, you will regret it. Carry on with your shop and pray for God's blessings 🙏

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