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olami100:
Then the question is dis! Is genuine love move by emotions, and feelings! Am just trying to paint a fact that love is beyond those two tins! Am not saying it is not possible not to have sex wif uf gf until marriage! But emotions and feeling can't be dat reason! Ur decision and determination as a man shud be that reason!

u've said it all

oloworulz:
u watch too much of nollywood and Bollywood . It's not all about sex. Atimes u ve to use d negative way to to make it straight

lol

50calibre:
You're not in a relationship my friend, you're in a friendship.

I don't know how you formed this ridiculous opinion or belief, but it is pure hokum.

Nature can't be cheated, a girl who has no urge to sleep with you, has no feelings for you, even the slightest.

A woman can not love you completely till you've slept with her.

This is simple biology, se*x triggers a release of hormones like oxytocin in women, which creates a greater feeling of love & attachment, that's why it's called a bonding hormone. Guys possess a different hormone which triggers some other reactions not necessarily love-related hence you notice guys have no qualms smashing random girls, more so the one they love. If you're not like this, then you're not normal.

In a normal world, se*x is the glue that binds a relationship together, it forms the bedrock on which all other things are built.

that's ur opinion! Even when u have urges, self control amd abstinence counts

datguru:
Get your head examined, its not normal

na u get ur mouth

Tbright:
AnD z possible for such event not to occuR?and If it does Won't it happen

yes ofcos the problem is dat dudes of our generation are after sex only. Lust is the oda of the day

oloworulz:
eventhough na another man remain am for u? I pity u, don't pray to marry my leftover babe, believe me I no leave their engine intact, I scatter inside too much.

lol! Every one has his motives for been in a relationship from wat am seeing urs happen 2 be sex. Mine is beyond dat weda left over or not NOTE: we all have stories 2 tell (past)

olami100:
the only problem I have wif ur write up is wen u said ur feeling and emotions won't let u have sex not even tink of it! I bent to disagree wif u big time!
Honestly I will appreciate if u use the word I was “determined” not to have sex wif her until marriage, not ur feelings and emotions cos love is not feelings or emotions cos dey can decieve u a lot okay!!!!!

. It actually depends I dnt know from what pespertive u are looking from wat I meant is wen u genuinely love her I mean GENUINELY love her nt because of her shape,boobs,booty or tins like dat den sex isn't an issue

Centrifuge4:
U ar deceivin ursef. Ur type turn out to be impotent man on wedin night, discovered to d chagrin of d gullible wif. I refused to go into relatnsip in order to avoid sex for years. D moment i tried a relatnsip, sex folowed imediately witout bargainin 4 it. Wil u say i dnt lov her? I felt as if i wud die if she left me. She eventualy left me, and am yet to recova. Sin? Yes, i knw it's a sin but... to say d truth, lif has no meanin.

hey don't misunderstand me. Am nt talking from a religious point of view am talking from the emotional and psychological aspect.take for instance wen u are very happy or sad u won't have the appetite 2 eat so its in the same development when the love is from ur heart it controls ir feelings n urges. The reason why u had se with her probably u were very intimate with her n u couldn't control ur urges

abm2pistle:
Let's tell our self the truth. Liking someone burns your sexual desire, talk more of love. It could be possible but the chance is very slim.

am not disputing your facts but when true love is involve true,Sex won't be a priority or an issue. Except if u were attracted by her shape,boobs,booty etc but when they love is genuine the story is different with respect 2 our human nature

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buchibrand:
What i meant was the Domain Registrar. If you have no domain already, i can still help you do that.
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buchibrand:
What i meant was the Domain Registrar. If you have no domain already, i can still help you do that.
For quick response just contact me @ www.buchibrand.net or www.facebook.com/buchibrandtechnologies .

. http://www.rhapsodiaffos..nl/

Kericoo:
I volunteered to help the guy o o , bt he wants me to perform Magic.. I should do it without him giving me His blog and hosting login details...

So if u can help him and do it without login in into his blogger account and domain, then I will like to learn the witchcraft method..lol..

. Hmmm okay na I will give u my domain and password. But I hope nting strange will happen.were will I send it 2 u Tanx

buchibrand:
I can, which domain registra did you register with and are u using blogger?

I registered with Blogger.com

buchibrand:
Have you been able to do this? If not i can help you for FREE

pls I want to do thesame so pls help me too. Tanx

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buchibrand:
I have done my part on your blog, just waiting for you to reciprocate.

tanx anyway but I didn't see anything perhaps u didn't do it well

Mine is http://www.rhapsodiaffos..com/ am goin ryt away to comment on your post. Pls ya'll should go comment on mine. Tanx

hushmail:
what is the Op talking about? I tried reading it, but could not

pls learn to summarize

lol if na Blue film u fit watch am till the end abi?

snowprince07:
Like seriously I didn't read all this but


Gej is really vexing me he know d sponsors and supporters why didn't he arrest them it seems some peeps are right for calling him clueless





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there are no tangible evidence to nail them with.....aside from the president,there are stake holders so wat if they are involve?

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snowprince07:
leave women alone oo.what of men that sleeps with other women women this ,ladies that everyday uuna no de tire??

lol we no go tire till de change completely o

Last week, a
foreign
source
identified
two of the
Nigerians
he alleges
to be
behind the
Boko Haram
militants.
One of
them:
former
military
Chief of Army Staff, Lt-General Azubuike
Ihejirika. The other: a former state governor
Modu Sheriff.
The disclosure was made in Australia by
Stephen Davis, a hostage negotiator reportedly
hired by the Nigerian government to interface
with Boko Haram, from whom he got the two
names. General Ihejirika swiftly denied any
involvement.
The news was broken in Nigeria on Thursday
by Nasir El-Rufai, a former Minister.
Ihejirika, who was fired from his plum job last
January, immediately picked up his weapons
and aimed them in the direction of El-Rufai,
calling him a Boko Haram “commander.”
“The likes of El-Rufai have been supporting
Boko Haram,” he said in his rebuttal. “In fact,
El-Rufai and his likes are the same group of
people that ensured the army did not get the
requested equipment to deal with this menace
once and for all, as they used their cohorts to
tell the government that procuring modern
equipment were not necessary.”
He did not forget to throw in the ethnic card,
either. “When the Boko Haram operation
started, supporters of the sect like El-Rufai
said that there was nothing like Boko Haram
and that the army was just killing innocent
youths. El-Rufai said that I was re-inventing
the killing of the Ibos during the Biafra war
following government’s determination to rid
the country of terrorism.”
For some reason, Ihejirika seemed to
concentrate his bullets on the emissary, rather
than the message, which was Davis. He did not
say what he did about “the El-Rufais” when he
was in office.
That describes Nigeria rather well, in terms of
our persistent refusal to face the issues that
confront us. For a government which claims it
really wants to treat the Boko Haram infection,
the Davis intervention is a vital opening.
To begin with, the government, which knew—
or ought to have known—about the Davis
allegations before El-Rufai rang the bell, ought
to have commenced immediate investigations
into the allegations right away.
Ihejirika and Sheriff ought to have been
arrested the same day, and left with no chance
to influence the narrative.
The problem is the government of doubt in
Abuja: doubting itself, doubting its
responsibilities, doubting yesterday, doubting
the questions, questioning the doubts.
But for Abuja’s self-esteem crisis, we might
actually have reached the Davis level two and a
half years ago when President Goodluck
Jonathan himself first announced that he had
Boko Haram sympathizers in his government.
“Some of them are in the executive arm of
government, some of them are in the
parliamentary/legislative arm of government,
while some of them are even in the judiciary.
Some are also in the armed forces, the police
and other security agencies.”
How in the world does a leader identify the
enemy in the same room as he, but do nothing
about it even as that enemy inflicts increasing
carnage in the country?
But for Abuja’s self-esteem issues, we might
actually have reached the Davis level in April
2012 when National Security Adviser, Owoeye
Azazi, speaking a few months after Mr.
Jonathan’s remarks, said Nigeria needed to
investigate the root of the level of violence in
Northeastern Nigeria [to establish] whether it
had escalated because the group out of the
blue became better trained, better equipped
and better funded.
He attributed the growing insecurity to what
he called “undemocratic practices” by the
political parties, and specifically indicting the
ruling People’s Democratic Party (PDP).
“The issue of violence did not increase in
Nigeria until when there was a declaration by
the current president that he was going to
contest. PDP got it wrong from the beginning.
The party started by saying Mr. A can rule, and
Mr. B cannot rule, according to PDP
conventions, rules and regulations and not
according to the constitution. That created the
climate for what is happening or manifesting
itself in the country…”
The PDP, which is defined by power, not
responsibility, hated that kind of talk from an
official it considered to be its property rather
than a servant of the country. Two months
later, Azazi was fired. Seven months later, he
died in a helicopter accident.
Azazi’s death ended any hopes of any more
uncomfortable questions from within the
upper echelons of power, but the disclosure by
Dr. Davis means that the old file ought to be
re-opened. Will the government of doubt do
that? Better still, what will the government do?
Judging solely from the track record of the
Jonathan government, we are to expect
nothing. Even if he did set up an investigation,
such a process will be abandoned once public
focus is no longer as harsh. His government,
lacking interest in accountability,
characteristically and routinely ignores such
reports.
The truth is that this is how the Boko Haram
insurgency grew out of control. In the past
couple of years, not only has it unveiled itself
as the most destructive and divisive force
since independence, it has exposed the
Jonathan government as divided and
incompetent, and the security agencies as
overblown and overrated.
While the presidential fleet of jets continues
to grow, Nigeria’s military has been exposed as
being of limited training and equipment; while
the Nigerian government continues to spend
money recklessly on its privileged inner circle,
Nigeria’s infrastructure decays; while Nigeria’s
rulers make speeches, the poverty and
disenchantment are growing.
What next? The future is already here:
Nigerian soldiers refusing to fight, preferring
the humiliation of being court-martialed to
execution by better-armed, and perhaps
better-trained militants.
The future is already here: a country where a
small group of violent militants armed itself,
as well as trained and mastered the terrain
better than all of the security agencies put
together.
It is a sad, shameful day when Nigeria’s rulers
declare a state of emergency in the worst-
affected states, only for the militants to prove
to be even more diabolical in those states. It
is an even more shameful day to consider that
a man of Ihejirika was in charge of the army
during a significant part of this period, only to
start pointing fingers after he has been called
out.
This is the tragedy of the Jonathan era: self-
doubting governance where fear is nurtured
rather than combatted; where the hard
treatment is avoided and the patient dies;
where the criminals are pardoned, not
prosecuted. Our prize is that million and
millions of young citizens are left on the
streets to fend for themselves.
Hopefully, Boko Haram is as deep as we will
ever sink. It need not be this way. A
responsible government must find the courage
to isolate the enemy to defeat it. This can only
be done if it first establishes a capacity for
social justice and the rule of law. That is what
#BringBackOurGirls is really about, and why it
defines the Jonathan government so well.
Who are the sponsors of Boko Haram? Now
Nigeria has a good opportunity to find out.
Can her government of doubt find the heart?
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Many women who are Still in love with
their Ex’s Usually Make mistake by sleeping
around with their Ex’s thinking they will get
back together yet she’s already dating
another man, She Easily forget she’s dating
and let her emotion take control of her,
Today have written few thing to know If
your woman Is Sleeping Around With
Another Man.
1. She spends more time away from
home.
A woman should spend her time at home
with his man and family not spending more
time outside than home, so your woman
does this then it might be a sign she is
sleeping around but find out don’t judge
her first.
2. She has noticeable cell phone habit
changes.
when she doesn’t answer Her phone
around you, turns the ringtone off or takes
longer than usual to call you back. If you
have access to her cell phone, check for
calls made during odd times or of long
duration. You Might find answers If she’s
sleeping around.
3 She’s not interested in sex as much.
You Will notice Her sex drive is low when
you two get intimate and she will try to
avoid you when even you want to kiss her if
you notice this signs then she’s Might be
doing this with someone else.
4. She is unusually defensive or starts
ignoring you.
When the woman your dating starts acting
defensive when you ask her about things
that concern her then something is wrong
and when she starts ignoring you then
someone else has her attention. This doesn’t
mean she’s sleeping around but it’s a sign
that she’s seeing someone else
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Hello friends,
Pls i'm sorry 4 not coming online regularly
these
days,
its because my iphone had a problem and my
ipad
battery is dead,
my sister is with my Samsung galaxy note-3
Am just alone here @ home since my parents
traveled to Germany.
I would have skyped with you but I misplaced
my
apple laptop power- pack
so I have to hit S.A later this week to get a new
one.
I wanted visiting the mall tonight but my Aunt
went
out with my Bugatti,
and my junior brother is out with the Range
Rover,
the Toyota Highlander had a little problem,
the tyre of the Honda CRV is flat and I hate
driving
the Lexus jeep @ night.
I tried calling the driver to come pick me with
mum's
Ferrari but no credit...
Can you please send me Etisalat credit of #100...
so I
can call him?.... Gudmoni
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Kind of letters that were sent around early 90s.
If you havnt seen a letter like this its either you
weren't given birth to or breastfeeding
DEAR SUGAR,
Time and ability plus double capacity has forced
my pen to dance automatically on this
benedicted sheet of paper. I hope you're
swimming in the
wonderful pool of Mr. Health there. I am also
palambulating in the cool
breeze wellness here.
Sweetie pie, the reason why this miraculous
thing is happening is because, honey, I love you
spontaneously, and as I stand horizontally
parallel to the wall
and vertically perpendicular to the ground now,
I only think of you, since you are a fantastic and
fabulous girl put together as fantabulous.
Darling, please stop haranguing with the
feelings in my heart because I love you more
than a snake loves rat.
To me each day i start by dreaming of you. Each
time I see you my metabolism
suddenly halts and my peristalsis goes in
reverse gear. My medula
oblangata also ceases functioning. Crazy crazy
crazy you may say but
this is true. If only you knew what is going on in
my encephalon you would prostrate. That's why
I
need to see you vis a vis soon for a better
elucidation through tete a tete. No hyperbole &
onomatopoeia, simple candidness.
I think I have to pen off
here ,because I still haven't
finished studing electrolysis and polymerization.
Catch you later.
Sleep tight and don't let those bed bugs bite you
because you
are too sweet for them. Goodbye for now.
Your slave in love,
Me
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1. Nagging
Anybody can nag whether man or woman,
once you are fond of complaining over a
matter repeatedly.
This habit will frustrate your spouse/partner
once you have it and may lead to a sudden
collapse of your relationship.
Nagging can drive a person mad at times if
they cannot control their mood or weakens
the bond in a relationship.
Many relationship has failed because one of
the party involved nags a lot.
If you notice this habit in you, do away with it
as quick as you can because your partner may
not be able to tolerate it.
Never complain over a matter repeatedly but
find better ways to express your opinions
without having to nag your spouse/partner.
2. DECEPTION/LIES
Some people are trained liars, some inherit it
while others tell lies naturally.
Lies are falsified truth which are said to cover
up something.
Telling lies about your age, past or job doesn’t
help matters in your relationship.
It is best you tell who you are than to be
accepted for who you’re not.
Call a spade a spade.
A man/lady that cannot accept your past does
not deserve your future.
Never use lies to cover up something you
don’t have or have wrongly done. It will
expose you in the future.
If lies could go for twenty years, one day, the
truth will catch up with with. Just say the truth
even if it hurts you or the person listening. It
is better than to be labeled a liar.
When a lie has been said once or more, it will
be very difficult for trust to be built.
3. Ego
Most people have a measure of ego in them,
whether male or female. A form of pride
which sees itself to be better than others in
one area or the other or not wanting to be
ruled or corrected by others.
An event of not wanting to take others
opinions or ideas is a form of pride.
Its not in all situations that your ideas must
prevail over others. There's problem if you
cannot take to corrections or you'd always
want your will to prevail.
Moreso, some could also take pride in their
status, wealth, name or family background.
All of these should be taken out of your life if
you don't want to pull down your relationship
which might have cost you lot to build.
4. Lack of Integrity
Integrity, in a simple term is keeping to your
words or promises.
If some people greets you good morning, it
better to check out for confirmation because
it may be midnight.
Lack of integrity will make you a person of no
good reputation. It is better not to make a
promise than to break it.
Don't promise to give a call, visit or a gift if
you cannot fulfill it. It will affect your
relationship and could bring up trust issues.
Integrity makes people faithful to their words
or principles even if they will go out of their
convenience to fulfill it. It is better to have it
than to loose it.
5. FEAR
What are your fears or what do you fear the
most?
Fears are normal but abnormal when it
becomes an attitude.
Some people are afraid of heart break,
infidelity, being cheated on, jilted or feared
they might loose their lovers to the hands of
other ladies/men.
When you abhor fears, you will automatically
attract those negative forces which you
feared.
Not all men are cheating. Not all women are
promiscuous. If you carry on with a fearful
mentality, you're likely to attract that fear.
This is one simple law of attraction.
Instead of nursing your fears, it is much
better to feed your faith.
6. OVER EXPECTATION
For as long as the earth remains, man will
never be a perfect creature.
It is usually abnormal to expect much from
your partner. Humans are not a god who do
not have flaws, weakness or shortcomings. If
you are a perfectionist, do not expect your
partner to fit into the same measure as you
do.
If you expect much from your partner, be
sure to be disappointed or heart broken.
Never expect your partner to be perfect,
know all or to have known everything about
most things in life.
Lower your expectations, not your standards
so that you will not experience heartache.
7. OVER-DEMANDING/DENIAL OF SEX
The art of lovemaking is an experience that
most inactive sexual youths look forward to
experience. It creates a bond of intimacy and
pleasure for married couples only.
However, when it is excessively demanded or
denied, it would lead to the collapse of the
relationship.
Married couples should not deny themselves
sex in their marriage except for some
medical conditions or spiritual exercise.
Moreso, the urge should also be controlled.
Those who lack self control are more prone to
extramarital affairs when they cannot bear it
at home. You need to learn the art of self
control if you discover that you have an
excessive urge for sex. Don't deny your
spouse sex or use it as means of punishment.
Sex can be likened to be food but you cannot
have it as a three square meal twenty-four-
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Yea its very true, cos wen real love is involve it comes from the heart, so ur feelings and emotion won't let u have sex nt even think of it. Am in such a relationship

Mi abaga is the man with respect to the likes of 2face,jesse jags,p square, d banj,darey atlarde and brymo,jeremiah gyang