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Sparro:
Am wondering what you must have passed through to conclude that most men are hypocrites.

You can do some kegel exercise. Please google it or there are local herbs that are really effective. It will tighten up all the holes.

Sorry dear.

What is your own advise to the girl in question? She should ruine the marriage? Well, some people understand life better from a different perspective. Did you ruine all the men that ruined your holes?

Let her just leave the house. She that even ran to social media has degree in stupidity. She wants to stir emotions on things she enjoy doing. She has the ultimate option of leaving the house

I hope you will give this same advise if your wife is pestering your brother for sex .

Would you want your brother to stay quiet without telling you to save your marriage ?

Please , your presence here is irritating , walk out !

gbami:
Because I work with white people (both men and women), went to school with them..And they tell me stories of how they like to Bleep black girls...That black girls are very strong in bed...

And what does this have to do with the moniker you quoted ?

Do you know her outside nairaland ?

gbami:
I know honey...But that's a fact!.

It's a fact ??

You know that how ?

atmstyle:
You meant to say Teebilz not WizKid, right?

Who's Teebliz ??

The one that's going around producing babies from different women with no kini to his name ?

Definitely No .

Go Girl .

Nairaland Male haters will definitely zoom in to ignite their hatred but you no send .

Muah You are one strong Lady even Wizkid knows that and can testify

StrikeBack:
Now that Jamb is fast approaching, you should be more concerned about your books Riele


You go learn that lesson Soon

Did I mention that I wasn't concerned about my books ? .

Surely , you know that all work and no play isn't advisable .

Mymynd4u:
Who get time

Exactly !

You don't have time to search the 10 pages of that thread looking for a female moniker advice . Because it's way too few . And perpetuated by Male disguised as Female .

Mymynd4u:
If u open ur eyes well, u go see say some ladies too advise she shud keep quiet.. Why r u like this na

Are you not getting my point ? .

They advised her to stay quiet because of their shallow mindset and those women too will give that same advice if gender were switched .

I'm speaking of hypocrisy here .

Those one's advising the OP aren't females but males disguised as F .

But Hey , Kindly provide screenshot of few female moniker advising her to stay quiet , I want to see .

bigpicture001:
Babe I saw the thread. But its better AI than done. You will go ahead nd ruin his life

What BG the option of simply walking way from his house after his first attempt nd leave your sis to her loving hubby then tell her if sh pesters u for reason u left.

Well, that's y u ppl are called women, u take actions b4 u tink. Not surprised emotions usually get the most of you people

Hmm .

Would you want your brother to stay quiet and simply walk out without telling you if , your wife was pestering him for sex ?

Don't bring in emotions here cause it's not peculiar to a gender .

1StopRudeness:
But why are u making it sound like 99% of the male monikers on the thread gave bad advice...
I don’t think anyone on that thread supported the actions of the randy, basstard husband, a couple of people just felt the whole marriage need not be scattered because of it...while I don’t agree with those saying the lady should not doing anything, I’ve also seen better ways of handling such issue rather than just telling the sister “ur husband is asking me to spread my legs”....
The guy could deny, turn the situation around and get the wife confused and end up making the Victim the enemy....which happens a lot...u’ll be surprised how many wives will support their man especially if he’s a smooth criminal that has never been caught or even suspected with such act b4...
U don’t have to get angry at all male and call people hypocrites just because a few people on nairaland gave their view...what I’ve noticed is that people’sopinion are usually influenced by experience, situation and a whole bunch of factors... it’s not always the “male” double standard syndrome u ladies scream about..

Hmm .

Actually about 80% of the men there gave bad advice telling her to stay quiet .

Yes , no one there directly supported the man's actions but telling a potential victim to stay silent is indirectly supporting the pervert man .

Whether the man denies the allegations or his wife choose not to believe is not the point . Truth should be told , however way they decide to handle it should be their problem .

I'm not angry , just annoyed . I called them hypocrites because they won't give same response if gender was switched .

Funmmyastic:
You are right dear.Most of them are useless

So useless dear

Ekemeze:
talk about being dumb, I guess you are smart enough to reply me.

You are very stupid, people gave their opinion as an advice to someone and as a bittered old hag, you decided to attack the men, we've seen your type before, they always end up getting f*cked by the same men, and most of them remain bittered baby mamas. lol

And you are even very stupid becos you couldn't state your point without insult, which actually its not your fault, you lack parental training.

Not that I expected anything less from a product of a broken home.

Fu*k off my mention. Mannerless bitch!

I should Fu*ck off your mention ?? On my own thread ??

And it ended up in slut shaming .

I blame myself though replying a f00l .

Well just so you know , being from a broken home is not something to shame one about . Though I'm not from one .

Your use of words shows your level of stupid*ity .

Kindly walk out of my thread cause at the end of the day you contributed nothing to the post .

SniperSmurf:
I salute this Danish woman. This lady is too much. She deserves National award. Unlike some eye service 'big women' that only do fake charity.

See your hypocrisy ??

Why can't a man do it either . Does it have to be a woman ?

gbami:
It seems you like to be bleeped in the ass...White men like doing that with their women especially African women.

Out of Context .

planetx13:
So any f00l will just come and be talking trash just because social media is available to all..... bunch of lazy slay pigs


Ciao

I just hope you know you're the f00l who came here to spew trash not relating to the thread .

Skyfornia:
Madam how come you didn't see other comments from men condemning the man? You just want to vent.

Few !

Too few . And after condemning the man , they still went ahead to tell her to stay mute .

But hey ! , How come you didn't read my topic where I used the Word Most ?

Ekemeze:
I wasn't the dude that bleeped and dumped you, so don't put your frustration and pains on me. lol #bitterWoman

Such a shallow mindset !.

So pointing out something means I've been dumped and I'm pained ?

Call me bitter whatever . It won't change the fact that you're dumb enough to see a thread but choose to derail it .

Petyprincess:
Yeah i saw it nd i wasn't dissapointed!! typical Nigerian mentality is to always save your marriage or sister's marriage no matter the cost!! That's why married men are misbehaving in marriage because they know society favours them!! God knows i can't marry a Nigerian guy even if he is a good husband his family will be the problem!!

Yes dear .

If you see way flee from Nigerian men , their mentality is sickening .

The way they were saying Save Marriage one would think marriage is life .

Ekemeze:


So you woke up early just to open a thread about men? If you like open a trillion threads, it won't change anything.

Same way your pointless comment won't change a thing .

Ladylite:
Kindly share the thread link here

https://www.nairaland.com/5660941/sisters-husband-wants-sleep-me

Here dear .

Oh Yes Yes ! .

Most hypocrites here will chose to ignore this but I'm really annoyed now to let this slide off .


https://www.nairaland.com/5660941/sisters-husband-wants-sleep-me

A certain post graced front page where a young girl was seeking advice on her pervert brother-in-law who wants to gain advantage of her while his 6 month old son struggles for survival with his wife in the hospital .

I'm more concerned about the advice on that thread with some advising the lady not to destroy her sister's marriage .

Which marriage exactly ??
The one with a fool as a husband ??

Others were even advising her to stay quiet .

Why ?? , So he can continue his ways and think all is Normal ?

When will we Nigerians see evil and recognize it as evil ??

If the reverse was the case here , fire and brimstone would have rain with many insulting the wife .

When will we see evil and say it is evil no matter the gender involved ? .

**********

If I find myself in the position that lady is in , Heaven knows I won't hesitate to ruin the unfortunate man already tarnished reputation .

Whatever my sister decides to do is her problem ! . Marriage is not life and it will never be .

Cheeryfeet:
Yeah right, We don't buy from such places

Who are the we ??

I feel like you don't understand my post you quoted .

InfernoNig:
True at some point.

I can't speak for all but I can tell you some girls I've met are decent at their teen age even when the attain 20's still kept that decency. Some i've met follow this trend due to peer pressure, wannabe and influence.

So I won't say every girl.

Tell them dear .

He's using example from his household to judge millions of ladies which we totally understand .

There are more unemployed male than females

This one is yarning dust .

The reverse should be the case here .

The father is among the people I lament about .

Useless specie of humans .

JamesRiley:
Which state

To any state dear .

Just WhatsApp Me .

roladex:
see the dirty and ugly background u are using to advertise ur bag.tufiakwa

Aunty , did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed this morning ?

What's Tufiakwaish about the environment .

Just say it's bad and move on .

Just so you know , your opinion doesn't bother me .

YorubaAmaka:
hmmm

Why shinning teeth this early morning, whatever

For your information, I'm a local village guy' , a proud one for that matter, that does not make me to accept anything I see.

I know what I want (I have taste) when I see one I will know.

I knew you were a local village champion

Taste ko taste ni

The bag is just 2000 , you don't expect it to be laced with diamond .

The background was to show it's "Realness" , if at all there is a word like realness .

I'll shine my teeth dear , ain't it sparkling ?

MOnkeyBabe:
Cute PuRseS . But DiSCaRDed SaCRifice,lol,never heard that one before

They exist amongst us .

YorubaAmaka:
hmmm

You talk too much, and this your bag abi purse is too local

Yes na

It's made for local people like you .

Cheeryfeet:
Aunty please at least snap the bag in a white background or a in a better environment

And when that is done , you still won't buy it .

Goan sleep .