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EducationRe: Jonathan To Lead Govt, ASUU Talks by RINE1: 10:12am On Aug 21, 2013
Long long story...nothing meaningful.
EducationRe: FG To Meet Varsity Councils And Vice Chancellors Over ASUU Strike by RINE1: 10:08am On Aug 21, 2013
otokx: Looks like the strike is just about to begin.
ON point bro.
EducationRe: President Jonathan Directs Immediate Action To End ASUU Strike by RINE1: 8:19pm On Aug 20, 2013
Tomorrow will be an entirely different story ...ASUU DENIES NEGOTIATING WITH FG!
Spits and leaves thread
EducationRe: ASUU/fg Meeting Today No Agreement Reached. by RINE1: 5:45am On Aug 20, 2013
kambee: Now my dad wants me to go get married...y me!!!!
abeg my sister na your opportunity be dis o...if you nor utilise eh your future self go vex for you.
HE he he he he he he he he
EducationRe: ASUU/fg Meeting Today No Agreement Reached. by RINE1: 5:00am On Aug 20, 2013
Am short of words...
EducationRe: An Open Letter To Goodluck Jonathan On The ASUU Strike by RINE1: 8:18am On Aug 19, 2013
fabby26: NONSENSE!!!
NONSENSE NI?...you fit rite?
EducationRe: ....hon. Patrick Obahiagbon Blows'grammar' Again On The ASUU Strike... by RINE1: 8:06am On Aug 19, 2013
The man na grammarian, lynguistics abi na lynguistician?
Is this purposed to be a positive contribution?
EducationRe: ASUU Strike Update: Jonathan Approves N400bn Lifeline –SSANU by RINE1: 7:51am On Aug 19, 2013
Manchidede: The N100 billion is expected to address needs of the universities in the areas which include re-furbishing and renovation of lecture theatres and lecture halls, re-furbishing and renovation of laboratories/libraries and the renovation of hostels.

“The second category is building of new hostels of international standard, self-contained rooms, the latest model in the world. That is the standard to be built in every university, and also the state-of-the-art laboratories as well as classrooms, lecture theatres and the halls.”

This time around, it is not only by giving university money, but it will be monitored to ensure that the money is used to transform the universities, to bail universities out of the present situation and developed to an international recognized university standard.”
nor be so una day Talk?
EducationRe: ASUU Strike End In Sight by RINE1: 7:42am On Aug 19, 2013
chuqudy: The end to the present strike by the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) may be in sight as President Goodluck Jonathan has approved N400 billion for the infrastructural development of Nigerian universities.

Is it still a tiny drop in the horizon?.
The document to this effect is expected to be made available today at the meeting of the presidential committee on implementation of the NEEDS assessment in the universities with the leaders of the four university-based unions – the Senior Staff Association of Nigerian Universities (SSANU), the Non-Academic Staff Union of Educational and Associated Institutions (NASU), the National Association of Academic Technologists (NAAT) and the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU).

The President of SSANU, Samson Ugwoke, made the revelation while addressing his union members at the SSANU National Executive Committee (NEC) meeting held at the weekend at the University of Abuja.

Ugwoke, briefing the SSANU members on the activities of the NEEDS assesment implementation committee, led by Benue State Governor, Gabriel Suswam. He noted that the fund was different from the N100 billion Governor Suswam had raised from donor agencies and big companies to tackle the problems of Nigerian universities in 2013.

The labour leader said: “Let me give you a tip on what the NEEDS assessment committee is doing. The president has approved that within the next four years; N400 billion would be expended in infrastructural development of Nigerian universities, to transform the universities to international standard.

International standard ni?... Or just to loot the bar??
“N100 billion has already been raised by Suswam committee out of which 61 universities have been pencilled down, as contained in the NEEDS assessement committee. The N100 billion is expected to address needs of the universities in the areas which include re-furbishing and renovation of lecture theatres and lecture halls, re-furbishing and renovation of laboratories/libraries and the renovation of hostels.

“The second category is building of new hostels of international standard, self-contained rooms, the latest model in the world.
The latest model in the world ni?.
That is the standard to be built in every university, and also the state-of-the-art laboratories as well as classrooms, lecture theatres and the halls.”

Caveat emptor
Ugwoke pointed out that the money had been shared and out of the N100 billion, N96 billion had been sent to universities.

Hope so
He added: “The committee is meeting again on Monday, and by Monday (today), the document will be out.
I pray they come out wit a new and positive resolution. Not 'ASUU denies calling off strike' as the headline always read.
This time around, it is not only by giving university money, but it will be monitored to ensure that the money is used to transform the universities, to bail universities out of the present situation and developed to an international recognized university standard.”

Are you sure... woun't tomorrow be an entirely different story?
CrimeRe: Cleaner Docked For Trimming Flower Tree by RINE1: 1:07pm On Aug 17, 2013
And this made front page. Why? # spits and leaves thread#.
EducationRe: ASUU May Call Off Strike On Tuesday. by RINE1: 9:19am On Aug 17, 2013
Watin we nor go hear?...tomorrow dem go tell us say ASUU denies calling off strike.
Christianity EtcRe: Top 10 Richest Pastors In The World by RINE1: 9:50pm On Aug 14, 2013
Please click ' like' if you knows that vanity upon vanity ...all is vanity!
PoliticsRe: Video & Picture: Edo Teacher Who Can’t Read Her Own Age Declaration Affidavit by RINE1: 9:25pm On Aug 14, 2013
Please before you laugh the woman have a second thought and look at these.....
1.My Husband and Sambo is a good
people
2. The President was once a Child
and the Senators were once a
Children
3. My Fellow Widows
4. A Good Mother takes care of his
Children
5. The people sitting before you
here were once a Children
6. Yes we are all happy for the
effort,it is not easy to carry
second in an international
competition like this one –
Addressing Press men after
Female Under 19 Fifa World Cup
7. The Bombers who born them?
wasn’t it not a woman? They
were once a Children now a adult
now they are bombing women
and children making some
children a widow
8. My Heart feels sorry for these
Children who have become
Widows by losing their Parents
for one reason or another
9. We should have love for our
fellow Nigerians irrespective of
their NATIONALITY?
10. vote UMBLERRA and press
your finger for UMBLERRA.

Now What sayest thou?.
EducationRe: Bye Bye To Strike: Fg, ASUU Agree On N100bn Deal For Varsities’ Infrastructure by RINE1: 9:01pm On Aug 14, 2013
Watin we nor go hear,
na today?... Eh?
BTW, I am 4th to comment again.
Thanks to my beautiful wife for
giving me her Blackberry and to
all the moderators that made it
possible!.
RomanceRe: "6 Things Every Woman Will Fall For... No Matter What" by RINE1: 8:50pm On Aug 14, 2013
I nor even bother to read am self... Just day watch one person go come quote every thing now now
RomanceRe: Groom Utters Name Of Ex During Wedding Vows. by RINE1: 8:45pm On Aug 14, 2013
[quote author=Baba_Eleko]The following story sounds more like a scene from a movie, but if media reports are to be believed, an idiot blurted out the name of his first love rather than the name of his bride, during a recent wedding ceremony in Beijing. Upon hearing the name of the ex, the bride fled the scene in a huff and, in full wedding attire, headed straight to the local court to file for a divorce.

Wife-to-be Zhou Ting and groom Zhao Lei met at university, and after their graduation eventually settled down together. Their wedding was held at a high-end hotel in Beijing, and like many young Chinese couples these days, was a romantic “Western-style” wedding ceremony. When it came to the pinnacle moment of the evening, the vow saying, groom Zhao turned to Zhou Ting and uttered the line, “Xiao Ling, will you marry me?”

It then emerged that this Xiao Ling was Zhao Lei’s first love, and the two broke up when Xiao moved abroad. In what wouldn’t be amiss in a Chinese soap opera, Zhou Ting slapped the bumbling Zhao and ran out of the room crying before rushing to the court.

“If you love her, why are you marrying me!” said an emotional Zhou Ting as she threw her wedding ring on the ground during the court session. Zhao, with his face covered in sweat, grabbed the ring from the floor and tried to apologize, pleading, “It’s all my fault, I was too nervous. I was wrong and didn’t mean it. Please forgive me this one time.”
The judged later ruled that he thought Zhou and Zhao actually had a pretty sold relationship foundation, and following appeals from friends and family alike suggested that the bride withdrew her complaint.
The case was subsequently dropped. May they live happily ever after.

Source: news.online.sh.cn
[/quote]just day watch one person go come quote every thing now now
HealthRe: Can POWER MAX Be Use For Penis Enlargement? by RINE1: 2:39pm On Aug 10, 2013
slimbryan: pls someone just suggested dis drug for me. I jst want to knw hw effective it is, or if u knw of any good one.
HealthRe: 45 Best Health Tips Ever! by RINE1(op): 9:36pm On Aug 09, 2013
31. My smear campaign. Have a
pap smear once a year. Not on
our list of favourite things, but
it’s vital. Cervical cancer kills 200
000 women a year and it’s the
most prevalent form of cancer
among black women, affecting
more than 30 percent. But the
chances of survival are nearly
100 percent if it’s detected early.
Be particularly careful if you
became sexually active at an
early age, have had multiple sex
partners or smoke.
32. Understand hormones.
Recent research suggests that
short-term (less than five years)
use of HRT is not associated with
an increase in the risk of breast
cancer, but that using it for more
than ten years might be. Breast
cancer is detected earlier in
women using HRT, as they are
more alert to the disease than
other women.
32. Beat the sneezes. There are
more than 240 allergens, some
rare and others very common. If
you’re a sneezer due to pollen:
close your car’s windows while
driving, rather switch on the
internal fan (drawing in air from
the outside), and avoid being
outdoors between 5am and 10
am when pollen counts are at
their highest; stick to holidays in
areas with low pollen counts,
such as the seaside and stay
away from freshly cut grass.
33. Doggone. If you’re allergic to
your cat, dog, budgie or pet
piglet, stop suffering the
ravages of animal dander: Install
an air filter in your home. Keep
your pet outside as much as
possible and brush him outside
of the home to remove loose
hair and other allergens. Better
yet, ask someone else to do so.
34. Asthma-friendly sports.
Swimming is the most asthma-
friendly sport of all, but cycling,
canoeing, fishing, sailing and
walking are also good, according
to the experts. Asthma need not
hinder peak performance in
sport. 11 percent of the US
Olympic team were asthmatics –
and between them they won 41
medals.
35. Deep heat. Sun rays can
burn even through thick glass,
and under water. Up to 35
percent of UVB rays and 85
percent of UVA rays penetrate
thick glass, while 50 percent of
UVB rays and 77 percent of UVA
rays penetrate a meter of water
and wet cotton clothing. Which
means you’ll need sunscreen
while driving your car on
holiday, and water resistant
block if you’re swimming.
36. Fragrant ageing. Stay away
from perfumed or flavoured
suntan lotions which smell of
coconut oil or orange if you
want your skin to stay young.
These lotions contain psoralen,
which speeds up the ageing
process. Rather use a fake-tan
lotion. Avoid sun beds, which
are as bad as the sun itself.
37. Sunscreen can be a
smokescreen.Sunscreen is
unlikely to stop you from being
sunburned, or to reduce your
risk of developing skin cancer.
That’s because most people
don’t apply it properly, and stay
in the sun too long. The
solution? Slather on sunscreen
daily and reapply it often,
especially if you’ve been in the
water. How much? At least
enough to fill a shot glass.
38. Laugh and cry. Having a
good sob is reputed to be good
for you. So is laughter, which
has been shown to help heal
bodies, as well as broken hearts.
Studies in Japan indicate that
laughter boosts the immune
system and helps the body
shake offallergic reactions.
39. It ain’t over till it’s over.
End relationships that no longer
work for you, as you could be
spending time in a dead end.
Rather head for more
meaningful things. You could be
missing opportunities while
you’re stuck in a meaningless
rut, trying to breathe life into
something that is long gone.
40. Strong people go for help.
Ask for assistance. Gnashing
your teeth in the dark will not
get you extra brownie points. It
is a sign of strength to ask for
assistance and people will
respect you for it. If there is a
relationship problem, the one
who refuses to go for help is
usually the one with whom the
problem lies to begin with.
41. Save steamy scenes for the
bedroom.Showering or bathing
in water that’s too hot will dry
out your skin and cause it to age
prematurely. Warm water is
much better. Apply moisturiser
while yourskin is still damp – it’ll
be absorbed more easily. Adding
a little olive oil to your bath with
help keep your skin moisturised
too.
42. Here’s the rub. Improve
your circulation and help your
lymph glands to drain by the
way you towel off. Helping your
lymph glands function can help
prevent them becoming
infected. When drying off your
limbs and torso, brush towards
the groin on your legs and
towards the armpits on your
upper body. You can do the
same during gentle massage
with your partner.
43. Sugar-coated. More than
three million South Africans
suffer from type 2 diabetes, and
the incidence is increasing –
with new patients getting
younger. New studies show this
type of diabetes is often part of
a metabolic syndrome (X
Syndrome), which includes high
blood pressure and other risk
factors for heart disease. More
than 80 percent of type 2
diabetics die ofheart disease, so
make sure you control your
glucose levels, and watch your
blood pressure and cholesterol
counts.
44. Relax, it’s only sex. Stress
and sex make bad bedfellows, it
seems. A US survey showed that
stress, kids and work are main
factors to dampen libido. With
the advent of technology that
allows us to work from home,
the lines between our jobs and
our personal lives have become
blurred. People work longer
hours, commutes are longer and
work pervades all aspects of our
lives, including our sexual
relationships. Put nooky and
intimacy on the agenda, just like
everything else.
45. Good night, sweetheart.
Rest heals the body and has
been shown to lessen the risk of
heart trouble andpsychological
problems.
HealthRe: 45 Best Health Tips Ever! by RINE1(op): 9:34pm On Aug 09, 2013
21. The secret of stretching.
When you stretch, ease your
body into position until you feel
the stretch and hold it for about
25 seconds. Breathe deeply to
help your body move oxygen-
rich blood to those sore muscles.
Don't bounce or force yourself
into an uncomfortable position.
22. Do your weights workout
first.Experts say weight training
should be done first, because it's
a higher intensity exercise
compared to cardio. Your body
is better able to handle weight
training early in the workout
because you're fresh and you
have the energy you need to
work it. Conversely,
cardiovascular exercise should
be the last thing you do at the
gym, because it helps your body
recover by increasing blood
flow to the muscles, and flushing
out lactic acid, which builds up in
the muscles while you're weight
training. It’s the lactic acid that
makes your muscles feel stiff
and sore.
23. Burn fat during intervals. To
improve your fitness quickly
andlose weight, harness the
joys of interval training. Set the
treadmill or step machine on the
interval programme, where your
speed and workload varies from
minute to minute. Build up
gradually, every minute and
return to the starting speed.
Repeat this routine. Not only will
it be less monotonous, but you
can train for a shorter time and
achieve greater results.
24. Your dirtiest foot forward.
If your ankles, knees, and hips
ache from running on
pavement, head for the dirt. Soft
trails or graded roads are a lot
easier on your joints than the
hard stuff. Also, dirt surfaces
tend to be uneven, forcing you
to slow down a bit and focus on
where to put your feet – great
for agility and concentration.
25.
Burn the boredom, blast the
lard.Rev up your metabolism by
alternating your speed and
intensity during aerobic
workouts. Not only should you
alternate your routine to
prevent burnout or boredom,
but to give your body a jolt. If
you normally walk at 6.5km/h
on the treadmill or take 15
minutes to walk a km, up the
pace by going at 8km/h for a
minute or so during your
workout. Do this every five
minutes or so. Each time you
work out, increase your bouts of
speed in small increments.
26. Cool off without a beer.
Don’t eat carbohydrates for at
least an hour after exercise. This
will force your body to break
down body fat, rather than
using the food you ingest. Stick
to fruit and fluids during that
hour, but avoid beer.
27. ‘Okay, now do 100 of
those’.Instead of flailing away
at gym, enlist the help – even
temporarily – of apersonal
trainer. Make sure you learn to
breathe properly and to do the
exercises the right way. You’ll
get more of a workout while
spending less time at the gym.
28. Stop fuming. Don’t smoke
and if you smoke already, do
everything in your power to
quit. Don’t buy into that my-
granny-smoked-and-lived-to-
be-90 crud – not even the
tobacco giants believe it. Apart
from the well-known risks of
heart disease and cancer,
orthopaedic surgeons have
found that smoking accelerates
bone density loss and constricts
blood flow. So you could live to
be a 90-year-old amputee who
smells of stale tobacco smoke.
Unsexy.
29. Ask about Mad Aunt Edith.
Find out your family history.
You need to know if there are
any inherited diseases prowling
your gene pool. According to the
Mayo Clinic, USA, finding out
what your grandparents died of
can provide useful – even
lifesaving – information about
what’s in store for you. And be
candid, not coy: 25 percent of
the children of alcoholics
become alcoholics themselves.
30. Do self-checks. Do regular
self-examinations of your
breasts. Most partners are more
than happy to help, not just
because breast cancer is the
most common cancer among SA
women. The best time to
examine your breasts is in the
week after your period.
HealthRe: 45 Best Health Tips Ever! by RINE1(op): 9:33pm On Aug 09, 2013
11. Curry favour. Hot, spicy
foods containing chillies or
cayenne pepper trigger
endorphins, the feel-good
hormones. Endorphins have a
powerful, almost narcotic, effect
and make you feel good after
exercising. But go easy on the
lamb, pork and mutton and the
high-fat, creamy dishes served
in many Indian restaurants.
12. Cut out herbs before ops.
Some herbal supplements – from
the popular St John's Wort and
ginkgo biloba to garlic, ginger,
ginseng and feverfew – can
cause increased bleeding during
surgery, warn surgeons. It may
be wise to stop taking all
medication, including herbal
supplements, at least two weeks
before surgery, and inform your
surgeon about your herbal use.
13. I say tomato. Tomato is a
superstar in the fruit and veggie
pantheon. Tomatoes contain
lycopene, a powerful cancer
fighter. They’re also rich in
vitamin C. The good news is that
cooked tomatoes are also
nutritious, so use them in pasta,
soups and casseroles, as well as
in salads. The British Thoracic
Society says that tomatoes and
apples can reduce your risk of
asthma and chronic lung
diseases. Both contain the
antioxidant quercetin. To enjoy
the benefits, eat five apples a
week or a tomato every other
day.
14. Eat your stress away.
Prevent low blood sugar as it
stresses you out. Eat regular and
small healthy meals and keep
fruit and veggies handy. Herbal
teas will also soothe your
frazzled nerves. Eating unrefined
carbohydrates, nuts and
bananas boosts the formation of
serotonin, another feel-good
drug. Small amounts of protein
containing the amino acid
tryptamine can give you a boost
when stress tires you out.
15. Load up on vitamin C.We
need at least 90 mg of vitamin C
per day and the best way to get
this is by eating at least five
servings of fresh fruit and
vegetables every day. So hit the
oranges and guavas!
16. No folly in folic acid. Folic
acid should be taken regularly
by all pregnant mums and
people with a low immunity to
disease. Folic acid prevents spina
bifida in unborn babies and can
play a role in cancer prevention.
It is found in green leafy
vegetables, liver, fruit and bran.
17. A for Away. This vitamin,
and beta carotene, help to boost
immunity against disease. It also
assists in the healing process of
diseases such as measles and is
recommended by the WHO. Good
natural sources of vitamin A are
kidneys, liver, dairy products,
green and yellow vegetables,
pawpaw, mangoes, chilli pepper,
red sorrel and red palm oil.
18. Pure water. Don’t have soft
drinks or energy drinks while
you're exercising. Stay properly
hydrated by drinking enough
waterduring your workout (just
don't overdo things, as drinking
too much water can also be
dangerous). While you might
need energy drinks for long-
distance running, in shorter
exercise sessions in the gym,
your body will burn the glucose
from the soft drink first, before
starting to burn body fat. Same
goes for eating sweets.
19. GI, Jane. Carbohydrates with
a high glycaemic index, such as
bread, sugar, honey and grain-
based food will give instant
energy and accelerate your
metabolism. If you’re trying to
burn fat, stick to beans, rice,
pasta, lentils, peas, soya beans
and oat bran, all of which have a
low GI count.
20. Mindful living. You've
probably heard the old adage
that life's too short to stuff a
mushroom. But perhaps you
should consider the opposite:
that life's simply too short NOT
to focus on the simple tasks. By
slowing down and
concentrating on basic things,
you'll clear your mind of
everything that worries you.
Really concentrate on sensations
and experiences again: observe
the rough texture of a
strawberry's skin as you touch
it, and taste the sweet-sour juice
as you bite into the fruit; when
your partner strokes your hand,
pay careful attention to the
sensation on your skin; and
learn to really focus on simple
tasks while doing them, whether
it's flowering plants or ironing
your clothes.
Health45 Best Health Tips Ever! by RINE1(op): 9:31pm On Aug 09, 2013
We've done the legwork for you
and here they are: the 45 best
health tips. Make that 46 - taking
the time to read this tops the list.
1. Copy your kitty: Learn to do
stretching exercises when you
wake up. It boosts circulation
anddigestion, and eases back
pain.
2. Don’t skip breakfast. Studies
show that eating a proper
breakfast is one of the most
positive things you can do if
you are
trying to lose weight. Breakfast
skippers tend to gain weight. A
balanced breakfast includes
fresh fruit or fruit juice, a high-
fibre breakfast cereal, low-fat
milk or yoghurt, wholewheat
toast, and a boiled egg.
3. Brush up on hygiene. Many
people don't know how to brush
theirteeth properly. Improper
brushing can cause as much
damage to the teeth and gums
as not brushing at all. Lots of
people don’t brush for long
enough, don’t floss and don’t
see a dentist regularly. Hold your
toothbrush in the same way that
would hold a pencil, and brush
for at least two minutes. This
includes brushing the teeth, the
junction of the teeth and gums,
the tongue and the roof of the
mouth. And you don't need a
fancy, angled toothbrush – just a
sturdy, soft-bristled one that
you replace each month.
4. Neurobics for your mind. Get
your brain fizzing with energy.
American researchers coined the
term ‘neurobics’ for tasks which
activate the brain's own
biochemical pathways and to
bring new pathways online that
can help to strengthen or
preserve brain circuits. Brush
your teeth with your ‘other’
hand, take a new route to work
or choose your clothes based on
sense of touch rather than sight.
People with mental agility tend
to have lower rates of
Alzheimer's disease and age-
related mental decline.
5. Get what you give! Always
giving and never taking? This is
the short road to compassion
fatigue. Give to yourself and
receive from others, otherwise
you’ll get to a point where you
have nothing left to give. And
hey, if you can’t receive from
others, how can you expect
them to receive from you?
6. Get spiritual. A study
conducted by the formidably
sober and scientific Harvard
University found that patients
who were prayed for recovered
quicker than those who weren’t,
even if they weren’t aware of
the prayer.
7. Get smelly. Garlic, onions,
spring onions and leeks all
contain stuff that’s good for
you. A study at the Child’s Health
Institute in Cape Town found
that eating raw garlic helped
fight serious childhood
infections. Heat destroys these
properties, so eat yours raw,
wash it down with fruit juice or,
if you’re a sissy, have it in tablet
form.
8. Knock one back. A glass of
red wine a day is good for you.
A number of studies have found
this, but a recent one found that
the polyphenols (a type of
antioxidant) in green tea, red
wine and olives may also help
protect you against breast
cancer. It’s thought that the
antioxidants help protect you
fromenvironmental carcinogens
such as passive tobacco smoke.
9. Bone up daily. Get your daily
calcium by popping a tab,
chugging milk or eating yoghurt.
It’ll keep your bones strong.
Remember that your bone
density declines after the age of
30. You need at least 200
milligrams daily, which you
should combine with
magnesium, or it simply won’t
be absorbed.
10. Berries for your belly.
Blueberries, strawberries and
raspberries contain plant
nutrients known as
anthocyanidins, which are
powerful antioxidants.
Blueberries rival grapes in
concentrations of resveratrol –
the antioxidant compound
found in red wine that has
assumed near mythological
proportions. Resveratrol is
believed to help protect against
heart disease and cancer.
RomanceRe: What Is Wrong With My Girlfriend? Is She A Cheater? by RINE1: 4:43pm On Aug 09, 2013
Summersky: Hi everyone,

Me and my girl are together for 17 months. I am 25 years old and she is 21. We both live in europe, I was born there and she is living here for 2 years, she came from ghana. Our relationship seems great, i think she loves me but i can´t understand her behaviour. There were two situations in our relationship that made me questioning her..

1) She wanted to visit a family friend (who is a grown up man) here in europe because her mum told her to. He wanted to help her out with something (he is rich).. She said that she set up a meeting and he told her that she is going to meet his family. When she got there, she found that he is alone in his appartment. So they had dinner together and because she wasn´t able to get home at this time, she spend the night there. Because he only had one room and one bed, they slept in one bed. That´s what she told me.. But she sweared there was nothing going on, no sex or anything. She told me she saw him as an "uncle" cause he is a very good friend of her parents. I got very angry cause i don´t like her sleeping in a strange mens bed (she never saw/met him before)..

2) The cousin of her good friend came to our country and her friend asked her to spend time with him cause he knows nobody here and is alone (This is true cause i talked to her friend). So she started chatting with him and they set up a meeting. He was also a rich man. He was flirting with her, offered her materialistic things and it was obvious that he just wanted to have sex with her. She told me, she knew, that he just wanted to have sex with her and still wanted to meet him cause she wanted to do a favour to her friend... She wanted to meet him in his town and didn´t ask me to come along. I got angry but she told me, she just wanted to do a favour to her friend and that i should trust her. She just didn´t want to be disrespectful and wanted to visit him. She sweared that she never wanted to do something with him.. I told her, she disrespected me and that i don´t want her to go. She didn´t...

Can I trust this girl, when she is telling me this? I don´t think she is a cheater or she wanted to do something bad.. Maybe she is very very naive and don´t understand that putting herself in these situations will lead to something bad... I don´t know what to belive. I trust and belive her but I can´t understand why she is doing these things.

What do you think?
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Go read 1 corinthians 6:19 & 20. If you dont change, my brother....
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Christianity EtcRe: What Do U Say To This by RINE1: 12:07pm On Aug 09, 2013
tony9k: I came across an interview a female pastor had with a newspaper and she was talking about the importance of sex in a marriage. She said " A couple should have sex at least once a week the problem why some wives do not want to have sex with their husbands is because they are not well taken care of and the wives are worried about everyday things and can't concentrate on the act. Husbands should provide for their wives so that their wives can give themselves completely to them. In my case my husband provides every thing I need so I make sure that I am available for him at anytime.' My thinking is that sex between a couple should be unconditional submission to each other. It should not be predicated on a husband providing for the wife this is without prejudice to a husband's natural inclination to provide for his wife. Come to think of it if u provide well for an 'ashi' she would service you very well. What do u think?
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@ Op... Ecclesiastes 10:8 (KJV) ~ Whoso
breaketh an hedge, a serpent
shall bite him.

To be bitten by a snake can be
deadly; the poison, if not treated,
can be lethal. God puts His hedge
of protection around your life,
however, you can cause little
breaks to appear, little holes
through which the enemy of
souls can come in by his cunning
craftiness, then fix his poisoned
fangs onto you, sinking into the
very fabric of your spiritual life.
How can you break a hedge?
You can break a hedge by
#wrong ungodly attitudes
#You can break a hedge by
having sinful thoughts and ways
#You can break a hedge by
having unforgiveness
#You can break a hedge by
backsliding
#You can break a hedge through
disobedience to the will of God.
There is a story in the Old
Testament of the people of Israel
who, because of their sinful
ways, were bitten by poisonous
snakes. This is what God told
Moses what to do in Numbers
21:7 to 8 (NIV), “The people
came to Moses and said, ‘We
sinned when we spoke against
the LORD and against you. Pray
that the LORD will take the
snakes away from us.’ So Moses
prayed for the people. The LORD
said to Moses, ‘Make a snake and
put it up on a pole; anyone who
is bitten can look at it and live.’”
Look upon the cross of Calvary
and live, look to Jesus, by faith,
and live. If the serpent has bitten
you, if sin has had a hold on
your life, the cure is found in
Jesus Christ. Someone once said,
“Life is short, death is sure, sin
the cause, Christ the cure.”
My friend, how can you fix up
the hedge? How do you restore
His protection over your life?
Repent before the Lord, and ask
His forgiveness if you have
sinned. Let Him restore the broad
wall, let Him repair your spiritual
hedge, and let Him fill the break
in the hedge by His love, mercy
and grace. Walk in the spirit and
you will not gratify the sinful
desires of the flesh. As you do so
you will walk in His victory.
Today, may God cover you with
His love, and may He restore
your hedge of protection. So
instead of the serpents of sin
fixing their fangs on you and
biting you because of the
breakage in the hedge because
of sin, embrace God’s
forgiveness, so you may walk in
victory over sin and crush the
enemy ( the serpent of sin)
under your feet.
God loves You!

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