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Nah see finish nah, if dey tell una wait until marriage, you go gree, Henceforth, gradually withdraw yourself from her, don't see another woman, just stay without sex, pray and commit your life to God, come back and marry her if the feeling is still there, if not, move on and sin no more( cos, even if you keep 2 years relationship with a fair girl tomorrow without marrying her. Same thing will still happen)

I can only see an ambitious wife material that will help you build your life and biz she might not have 1m today, but aims big, do you borther to ask her what kind of business shes nursing in her mind? What is 1m in today's Nigeria sef

It is well with you Annie, remain focused, have a good relationship with your maker, train your kids and see you at the top!

Foods and fruits in general, very costly 2 tiny egg for my area nah 500h abi nah apple not to talk of our local orange, meat nko, abi nah oil or beans, garri Abi nah their papa wey be rice

And this is Nigeria's greatest problem? Arresting a man of God over fake testimony of one lady that said she acted alone..it is well with Nigeria!

With being truthful, having the knowledge of the business in question and also being upright in your doings and have a good relationship with God, you will make it with whatever money you were given!

I forgot this one, avoid women and Bet !!!

Lol..it is finished!!

Show of shame from these agbayas...is this what you all are called to do??

Like are you from the moon?? Going back to get a degree in computer?? In this Nigeria, and you think it will add anything in your life? That should have been your first degree before looking out to upgrading yourself in it..You want to just waste another 4 yrs of your life, pls get a diploma that's if you're good at tech! Or if you have passion for teachingand something good to offer, do a one Yr programme in pgde Edu and gradually enter deep into education, online teaching etal

Nice one, but I don't really like it, might not collect!
The animal will just mess up everywhere, like how can I even hold the thing??

Not just outside the country,even in Nigeria,divorce is much, some of the causes are emulating the Western way of life ( a situation where women has upper hand in marriage than men, no respect for the head etc) lack of contentment/ commitment,not seeking the face of God before getting married..you might have all you desire in a man/woman and wish to rush and get married to the person, but it might jot be what God wants for you! You need to seek the face of God before you embark on the institution called marriage!

Odingo1:
I have ask her, she said she is not a sex freak. That one of her ex boyfriend ask her that this one she is married hope she will be kissing the husband.

She might not be a sex freak, and in that case be more romantic with her, dont rush her and also make her see reasons why she need to open up to you as a husband, she might as well have a strong spiritual husband with will be sorted out by the power of God through deliverance!

Forgive her and move on, deep down you don't want to revenge, if not, you won't bring the matter here, so pls follow your heart!!. Live a good life, everytime no be sex sex, try and do without seeing women as object of sex, no dey follow multitude to commit sin, you are different, embrace God and follow His commandments.

Its like you never meet some possessed girls that will damage your destiny ni Sha you no go even know..nah village people una go still mention..

Heal for the fact that you both aren't supposed to be together in the first place, like i mean, she's not your wife and you fornicate with her aren't you? Bros its a sin in God's sight, embrace your new life, go back to Jesus and see how you will shine!

Gods love is the best love!

You are eating the fruit of your shameless act..you're a disgrace! Carry your cross in peace old man!

I shame for his children, what a man!..lol

Oga tuface move on, if not that Annie love you and so much believe in you, your marriage with her for no last this long..i guess you married her out of pity not love..I pray she heals and move on as well! Her greatest mistake was trusting you with all her heart, carry your matter for her head, and even neglect her own self/career. See as you dey defend girlfriend, have you defend her publicly like this before?? Try get sense abeg,.you Don dey old oh!

Kobojunkie:
Which one? There are currently over 4000 deities that have been identified so far. Which of them is this maker that you believe cares about such human issues as marriage and where is the evidence of this concern to be observed?

Jesus is the way, the truth and Life, cut out from Him, you can do nothing!..(John15:5) When you're connected with God by prayer, studying the word of God and keeping His commands, His Mercy and grace will be sufficient in your life and above all, He will guide you in all your life endeavours!

Lolz..im serious oh, There's joy when you're connected with your maker

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying o'jare! 🙄🙄🙄

Some days are like that without Jesus,marriage inclusive, try and return back to God, because with him all things are possible, involve Him in your marital life and get some relief! You can't do it alone!.

This is heartbreaking, a full grown man wasted just like that!

I feel for the family he left behind, May the grace to bear this great lost be with them..Amen

God Almighty May you locate Anambra and safe your people!

Shebi Universities are selling Medicine and surgery to the Elite children, what do you expect when the intelligent and passionate students are denied admission that supposed to be by merit..it is well with my country!

The man is evil and wicked..heartless human being..jeez
How come she manged to stayed with a beast to the extend of having that number of kids with him..SMH!

Una too dey talk..wetin your wife want to enjoy under stress oga?

When she's working herself out cos of money in the name of assisting the home, you still dey complain..nawa oh

It's either you help her to reduce the stress ( add fun and break to your marriage) or you manage it the way it is.
Some marriage sef one month sef NO sEX, you dey here dey complain

Oga stop committing sin with your gf, you never marry her, repent and be blessed!

I can only say you're not in charge of your marriage as you supposed to be, you are the man of the house and needed to be in charge oga, you don't need to be harsh on your wife but also little strictness upon her will do a lot good.

In marriage, you need to apply caution and be little strict to your woman for her to respect you more. With this post, I have this feelings that you still want her back but truth is that if she comes back and you're still this soft with her, nothing will change.

Like why on earth will she pack and go on the first place and you will be the one to go and plead, and she will come back and start again without you doing something about it, it will only give her room to continue.

Sometimes it might not be ordinary, you might need to pray seriously for her and watch what God can do, atleast BTW the both of you, your sanity is still intact, she's the one devil is using! So do your best to safe your marriage!
No marriage is a bed of roses!

It's normal for you to be angry with him, but pls think twice before involving your mum about this, it might be his first time,or might also be a normal thing he does occasionally which your mum knows about but keeps praying that he comes out of it. Trust me, If your mum gets to hear a thing like this from you, two things will actually happen, either she shuts you up and defends your dad..lolz or the whole respect she has for your dad fades, meaning that all hope, faith etc he has for your dad will be lost and trust me, you dont want to witness this attitude in women ( better they leave the marriage gently) cos women can over do when it comes to revenge..and you and your siblings will be the ones to suffer in all of it.

Even if there are some underlying issues with your dad before this one came up, like maybe he's known to be bad, cheating, wicked and all that.. your mum will be so ashamed to hear it from you!
And hell might looose oh and you might live to regret it all!...lolz ( instead, confront him for disrespecting your mum in that manner) I know this situation isn't easy at all but may wisdom be your guide!

Governor has a lot of mouth to feed

Honestly, he didn't try, but if you have it, give him, forgiveness is divine, remember he's your dad!

He's actions might have contributed to your strong will towards achieving success.

You know the true colour of people when they make money.

If you both are okay with it, pls go ahead, I don't see anything wrong with it, do the needful, make another man no collect your future wife

Hope there's a monthly package to cárter for the animal? Smh!

You get mind sha, dey eat free food wey you no pay for or sabi wetin dey use cook am, you should know that something is attached to it, and it only takes a desperate person to make such move, unless you have feelings for her, stop her at once, if not,gradually she will start controlling your life.