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Una too dey talk..wetin your wife want to enjoy under stress oga?

When she's working herself out cos of money in the name of assisting the home, you still dey complain..nawa oh

It's either you help her to reduce the stress ( add fun and break to your marriage) or you manage it the way it is.
Some marriage sef one month sef NO sEX, you dey here dey complain

Oga stop committing sin with your gf, you never marry her, repent and be blessed!

I can only say you're not in charge of your marriage as you supposed to be, you are the man of the house and needed to be in charge oga, you don't need to be harsh on your wife but also little strictness upon her will do a lot good.

In marriage, you need to apply caution and be little strict to your woman for her to respect you more. With this post, I have this feelings that you still want her back but truth is that if she comes back and you're still this soft with her, nothing will change.

Like why on earth will she pack and go on the first place and you will be the one to go and plead, and she will come back and start again without you doing something about it, it will only give her room to continue.

Sometimes it might not be ordinary, you might need to pray seriously for her and watch what God can do, atleast BTW the both of you, your sanity is still intact, she's the one devil is using! So do your best to safe your marriage!
No marriage is a bed of roses!

It's normal for you to be angry with him, but pls think twice before involving your mum about this, it might be his first time,or might also be a normal thing he does occasionally which your mum knows about but keeps praying that he comes out of it. Trust me, If your mum gets to hear a thing like this from you, two things will actually happen, either she shuts you up and defends your dad..lolz or the whole respect she has for your dad fades, meaning that all hope, faith etc he has for your dad will be lost and trust me, you dont want to witness this attitude in women ( better they leave the marriage gently) cos women can over do when it comes to revenge..and you and your siblings will be the ones to suffer in all of it.

Even if there are some underlying issues with your dad before this one came up, like maybe he's known to be bad, cheating, wicked and all that.. your mum will be so ashamed to hear it from you!
And hell might looose oh and you might live to regret it all!...lolz ( instead, confront him for disrespecting your mum in that manner) I know this situation isn't easy at all but may wisdom be your guide!

Governor has a lot of mouth to feed

Honestly, he didn't try, but if you have it, give him, forgiveness is divine, remember he's your dad!

He's actions might have contributed to your strong will towards achieving success.

You know the true colour of people when they make money.

If you both are okay with it, pls go ahead, I don't see anything wrong with it, do the needful, make another man no collect your future wife

Hope there's a monthly package to cárter for the animal? Smh!

You get mind sha, dey eat free food wey you no pay for or sabi wetin dey use cook am, you should know that something is attached to it, and it only takes a desperate person to make such move, unless you have feelings for her, stop her at once, if not,gradually she will start controlling your life.

Achievement

Wait until you are married, your mind will calm down, and you will enjoy sex with your wife in peace

There is time for everything, for now it remains fornication/stealing and your mind is not at rest doing such..how about that?

Just make sure you're okay medically and remove your mind off sex!! You will be fine

In my culture two blood sisters marry two blood brothers and its normal

If you mean well for her, it's cool but if you don't mean well, pls leave that family alone and go far away..
Do not spoil the good relationship your brother has with his inlaw because of your worldly selfish desires

Marriage no be child's play, it has its ups and downs even when you thought you figured it all out, how both of you manage the situation is what makes yours different.

Nevertheless, use this opportunity to equip yourself, both financial and other wise, learn and unlearn, and don't forget to reach on your family financially..

It is well with you both!

If telling her not to come will bring issues with both of you, just allow her to come and make sure you have someone that will help you out( that's if she will not have problem with the person

That man must be possessed..SMH

You mean he gave you a meat pie, and you accepted?

That was the beginning of the scam, he first put you where he wanted and did the needful

Lesson: Do not trust people easily

Very sad experience!

I pray for the grace that will enable you to leave the past where it belongs For total healing and breakthrough to manifest in your life
May God take absolute Control over your life!

Nah people wey still get conscience get this message, not those ones that have sold their souls to devil, they care less

The moment she started moving out with friends was her doom..she needed to belong and show off hence the desperation!

A materialistic woman is hard to please, you need to sit her down, tell her what you know already and talk to her real good..nah oversea just happened to her

She can still change if she's willing

With your gf is not fornication abi?
Who told you so??
You better leave someone's daughter until you tie the knot,

You're not Married yet, so it's fornication, don't sugar coat it.

You don't just fornicate alone, you still want to upgrade to killing an innocent child...

This is serious..like when will all these madness come to an end?

Sanwo Olu is my preferred candidate..I just like the man

Happy Birthday Damsel..Many Happy Returns!!

It's so annoying, and keeps getting worst everyday, coupled with the poor Network from banks, so frustrating!

Really don't know what the whole cashless is all about, Our leaders cannot get something right for once in this Country.
They care less anyway!!


This language of BUYING CASH is now normal

It's so annoying, and keeps getting worst everyday, coupled with the poor Network from banks, so frustrating

Really don't know what the whole cashless is all about, Our leaders cannot get something right for once in this Country.
They care less anyway!!

No wonder the governorship election was postponed..you'll should keep the fake pretense coming

The youth are wiser!!

This man is so filled with bitter heart..will you tell the masses who to vote for?

Politicians with their selfish Desires

You both are married already and there's nothing you can do about it, just put more effort in knowing what turns her on, if she truly loves you, she will come around..
Hope you love and care for her, if not..oyo

And she's not a lesbian, and suffering from any form of infection too?

meum:
The question should have been will you marry me? Simple. Why did you add self con to the question? You gave her options and she made her choice.

Now ask her to borrow you money to rent her dream apartment.

You said it all!!

She's just thinking about tomorrow, nothing bad, you guys should put head together and make it work,

everything must not be taken in a negative way, she knows you can do better, afterall she didn't mention that she does not love you any more..nah question she answer

Nigeria is for all of us. Let's pray for a favorable Nigeria

Election has come and gone, all these aren't necessary

1, Vote doesn't count 100% in Nigeria, unless you want to waste your time, cruise and risk your life at the same time(as the case of some victims)

2, We have a long way to go for a credible, free and fair election in Nigeria

3, Heaven helps those who help themselves..

My prayer is that God should intervene not minding the intention of anyone elected