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The day you start believing that 95% of things that happen to us are not ordinary that's when you will know peace.

It's either you're spiritually connected to God or remain where you are

Oga that thing she wore is meant for you alone at home, don't allow this western lifestyle to deceive you..ask her if she can wear same s outfit to church?
Do not follow multitude to commit sin in the name of "I want to belong".
Firstly, you need to understand that what she wore is not normal, do you know how many guys she might be tempting with that dressing? Sometimes we attract some bad boys to ourselves cos of these things.

Not like I'm supporting your mum, cos already she has seen her as a bad girl, which might not be so, I expected her to call her to order and see If she would change, your girl reaction should determine her stand!

I believe no one is entirely bad, just our background and growing up that differs.. unless your mum is seeing more than the bumshort

But the truth of the matter is that you cannot agree with your mum cos you like your girls manner of dressing, maybe that's the reason you love her more..

What are you doing with a married man? Ofcourse he is married, a man with three kids and wishes his family (mother and children) will not live far from him..what kind of attention will this family man give you again?

The bond btw him and his baby mama can't be broken after 3kids! The man don born finish nah

Either you're desperate and does not mind being their ATM or you're lieing shikina

Make your so called boyfriend no kill you oh

I prefer you don't let me know about it, cos once I know, our love life might not remain the same again, it's easier to forgive, but takes God's grace to clear it off your memory

Might meant that, you're not social, 'minding myself' kind-of person.

But at the same time be careful too, she might be looking for a way to do you something

Never ever support her in anyway when it comes to abortion, you committed sin of fornication together, its not enough you want to kill an innocent child join..oga if you try it, your name nah sorry oh!

if you're just realizing that you cant marry her,Stand firm and never give her support to abort your child, you can relate the issue to her close ones and make your stand known to them..Do not kill that child if atall she's pregnant!!

You've not beat her before, but your bad mouth has done more harm than good, your utterances made her feel worthless, Chai.. thank God she has a family that took her back.

Just seat back and continue with your Feb. count down..nah her shadow you go see, don't work on your ego/ nagging self

At this point in your shaky marriage, you dont need her to continue with that work, let her stay back home and take care of the kids and probably look for a better job closeby..like you said, her workplace environment changed her negatively and you want her to continue working there? Put your kids first in your decision making, talk to her and make her see reason with you, Govt work indeed..

They should just move on, to avoid future divorce