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izzou:
True.

Also, Timi might have been pampering him, rather than giving him the hard truth of letting go.

He never mentioned for once that his friends told him to end it. Dem sef "Pamper" am, in my opinion

In the video, I think he shared that his friends warned him that she has checked out and encouraged him to move on. Even when he gave her money to travel, I think he said his friends were against it. Irrespective, I don't think it would have mattered. People like this only learn the hard way.

Another important life lesson from the Roby & Mayowa story.:

Men, try get correct friend like Timi Dakolo!

Throughout the interview Roby talked about the role Timi played during his darkest moments.

Timi stood by his guy, supported his guy, traveled with him, borrow am car, ensured he was always good, never judged him..

And nobody hear pim..

Timi u b correct guy

WhoDeyHause:
Those guys go still add more. They have beaten us into submission. How you do you see fabregas in your team if arteta doesn't win something boss?

Not sold on Fabregas being a winner honestly or ready for the big jump. I am uninterested in another coaching project or internship at Arsenal. Worsestill, a coach capable of dividing the fanbase if it isn’t working.

While I won’t underestimate the incredible work he has done at Como, I don’t think he has enough to take on a big job for a team that needs to win now. Maybe Chelsea can try, especially considering you are going to need about 2 years and massive investment to get back to being competitive, but I don’t want him at Arsenal now.

He has a progressive philosophy and style of play in comparison but I think he needs some more experience. I need an experienced and proven winner.

BlueRayDick:
That's in the past during the time of our fathers. Nowadays guys help out in caring for the kids and the home as a whole.

At least I know about myself and some of my friends we've had discussions around the subject . Me I do it willingly without needing any persuasion required.

An unsupportive partner, will cause thier spouse to burnout because these things add up. It will build stress, unhappiness, health issues and ultimately resentment.

If there is no house help, expecting one spouse to carry all the heavy lifting with house chores, children, shopping, errands etc, irrespective of who the bread winner will lead to burnout. Burnout resulting from completing chores and running the house without any help will inevitably lead to emotional detachment and it just goes down from there.

More importantly, partners, should never take the support of their loved ones for granted. Na that one dey cause "See Finish" for marriage/ relationship.

The entire city of San Antonio will remain on their knees praying Wemby’s injury isn’t severe.

bisqit:
Roland17, what are you doing here instead of worrying for arsenal. You don't seem bothered going trophyless. I don't understand this i don't care behaviour

Bothered?

After last season’s bottle job, I don learn to comot mind. If we win the league, I go celebrate, if we choke again, it is what it is..but I am no longer setting myself up for the emotional rollercoaster.

I was a fan before Arteta wore our jersey as a player, he met me at the club and I will be here when he leaves.

Sportsweb:
Wow

🩸 🛀

WhoDeyHause:
Even tinubu go get better record pass this temu mike ezuronye egbon.

E don complete as I talk

rooftops:
If losenoir had resumed his chelse job earlier like game week 13, we will be talking about relegation definitely

Naa..Chelsea for don fire am since.

WhoDeyHause:
Big bro be like na night we dey but I understand.

You no well!!!!

WhoDeyHause:
Even tinubu go get better record pass this temu mike ezuronye egbon.

E no go bad if una relegate sha.

At this point, na to put tyre around Alhaji Popi neck, sprinkle am small petrol mixed with kerosene and test lighter for him body

Una don drag shege comot for him body.

BlueRayDick:
You know these things!

He kept on emphasizing on making N2.5m and above per gig now. He's trying to milk the publicity now and if possible reconcile with some people he cut off because of his wife. See how he mentioned how he once hated Yaw, how he resented people like daddy freeze due to what his wife said about them, etc.

As much as he claimed he came to the podcast to speak out and share his own side of the story, I think he just needs that publicity because anywhere I jam his videos on social media most people claimed they don't really know him or what he does. Even me I only used to hear his name, can't really say I know who he is and what he does. I just know he's one of the numerous celebrities/influences we have in naija

Yup! He is appealing to the gate keepers of the industry in Lagos to link him up and that is why he is throwing names out too. E don red right now and I doubt returning to Calabar is an option.

The entertainment industry requires ongoing connection and communication and he have lost a lot of those connections since he left Calabar fulltime, especially with the government. Newer entertainers would have filled the void he left in Calabar. Desperate times call for desperate measures.

Make una go reclaim una Conference League title since you were unable to defend it this season..

WhoDeyHause:
Just say make I escort my baby only to step in and see one odd number sharpaly.

I kukuma warn u..

WhoDeyHause:
Egbon come give me arteta abeg. This beating don taya me. 🤲🏿

Collect another 2-0 fess from Brighton.

Make I go find my Burnley jersey

raumdeuter:
That is why I am asking why did the guy agree to go on the show to embarrass himself. He did more damage to his reputation with that podcast

Roby desperately needs the publicity. The Lagos entertainment space is extremely competitive with gate keepers.

semid4lyfe:
Roby Ekpo: Baba, in a week, I fit knack like twice I dey alright.

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Me: Isn't twice a week enough in marriage? How much is enough knacking in marriage?

Intimate compatibility is just as important as how much you Love your partner. Keep in mind that Intimacy drive in women increases as they get older, particularly between late 30s and after 40. This is because they have fewer stressors, are typically done with child bearing, know what they want.

I can tell you that Mayowa's knacking expertise is what blew Moyo away. E get journey wen Mayowa dey carry am go wen e neva go before so baba lost his brain. Werey also knew Mayowa's drive was way higher than his but continued with the marriage.

izzou:
There's no justification to treat a man that way; Heck, a human that way.

Mayowa already checked out of the relationship as at 2017. Why not tell him it was over and move on?

To be honest, I am not against her getting married or all that stories he told. Why manipulate and deceive him until last week?

Yes, Roby sef need a loud resetting slap, but that lady can poison someone if she could.

In 2017, Roby saw text messages that clearly articulated how Mayowa felt about the marriage but he decided to keep embarrassing mankind with his lack of self-worth. He failed to confront her with to those messages...

That man fall hand abeg. He needs all the therapy he can get and should stay off SM because the depression and trauma no go be here.

That was a bad shot J. Murray. An elbow jumper with Gobert in front of you.

larride:
Either Ingram retires or Raptors need to waive him, he's the weapon fashioned against that team.

They need to build around Barnes and RJ Barret ( )

Sadly, the Raptors don’t have good core to even build around. Barnes doesn’t have enough offense to be a number 2 scoring option on a good team, neither are defensive stats great. Man averaged 18Pts this season, 1 less than he averaged last season. They are going to need the luck of the draft because Toronto isn’t exactly a free agent’s market.

BlueRayDick:
Oil full your head bro!

His problem started from the foundation of their marriage. He met her in May, proposed in September and got married in September of same year. The lady told him in passing that she was once married and this guy didn't for once ask further questions about the failed marriage. He never asked whom she was married to, what was the cause of the marriage crash and other pertinent question. He went ahead to marry her because she's his spec. 🤦‍♂️

They were married for about 4 years till she travelled abroad. Within that 4 years were having marital issues o yet he went ahead to give approval to her travel to the US via arrangee marriage. While in the arrangee marriage she made him delete all their naija marriage pictures off his social media.

His wife bought a house in the US after getting her green card, took in a male house mate and was always limiting the number of times they had conversation like couple in log distance relationship.

This guy still kept sending money to her and was holding on to the so called marriage. He was making naira and sending to her even when she works as a financial analyst in the US.

The guy said he did all of that because of love 🤯🤯🤯🤯🤯.

Baba, this guy reeks of a man that is lacking in self-worth. It is such a sad story but I have no sympathy to give this man.

The signs were ominous and I can bet you, he has friends and family members who warned him but e no gree. He was thinking with his stick versus his head.

Make e no shock you say 2-3 years from now, this same werey fit reconcile with the woman.

He desperately needs to see a therapist to address his lack of self-worth and confidence. Otherwise, another woman will still manipulate him in the name of love.

izzou:
I no understand this kind hatred.

Na wa

Maybe if they were just average earners, and didn't have this fame, they would be a big happy family

Nwannem, na wetin useless pride dey cause and I have seen it even amongst poor people.

Everyone involved in this issue is too proud to be vulnerable. I must be right syndrome!

izzou:
How bad can the beef be between twins, to the extent that one doesn't want his birth date again?

The entire family is in disarray. So much distrust between siblings. Families usually have issues, siblings quarrel, especially as we get older because we change but this is quite extreme, unfortunate and disappointing.

It is one thing to change last name, it is another to want to change DOB (quite immature, petty and illogical if you ask me), so you have nothing to share with your twin.

Usually, most families have that rallying point, that sibling that keeps everyone together, that keeps it tight, that is respected but e no be like say dem these ones send anybody.

Sadly, the new generation of the family are now drawn into this fight and that is how generational fights continue.

BlueRayDick:
The stewpid guy while still married allowed his wife travel to the US, do arrangee marriage for green card, allowed his wife have a male house mate in the US and ignored all the numerous signs that she had zoned out of the marriage a long time ago.

He even saw a message on her WhatsApp that reads she doesn't love him and she's not satisfied with their sex life.

Omo! Bloggers go use his sob story feed well for at least a month

Just like I thought. I always advise men, no matter how much you love your wife/ girl, avoid "see finish"! Na wetin "see finish" for marriage or any relationship dey cause be dis.

Any partner that doesn't show any fear of losing the marriage or relationship isn't worth investing emotions on because na the you go suffer. There has to be a rational fear of losing the relationship between both, sadly, it was for only him..Once she begin show unhealthy indifference to the union, baba begin plan...

To be honest, I don't think the wife thought she needed his approval to do any of these things. She would have still done it even if he said no. I believe she had seen enough from when they were together in Naija to know he is gullible and can be easily manipulated.

The marriage should have ended before she traveled to the US. I only salute his courage for speaking publicly about it because that has to be a lot. He should be kept on a suicide watch.

Before I forget, the way Kolo Toure was celebrating after Haaland's goal vex me small.

Werey was wayyy too happy

raumdeuter:
I saw snippet of this story and it was so sad

https://www.nairaland.com/8657277/roby-ekpo-bitter-experience-mayowa

“I am 48 years old, I don’t have a kid. I started going for sperm test despite being a Calabar man. I now got to find out that she was taking contraceptives,” he said.

The entire union was built on deceit. How he did not act on his suspicions is beyond me.

He is either hiding a few other details or he is straight up gullible and easy to manipulate.

Women can sniff a gullible man from 10 miles, e no dey hard them and they would prey on them without remorse.

I don’t understand some NBA coaches. Robert Williams took only 9 3s throughout the regular season but somehow, he has already attempted 2 three ball. He is supposed to be inside the paint..

bolu96:
Obviously, Arteta hasn't done that yet. Seeing him on our thread yesterday slandering our star boy, I was shocked. I want Arteta to complete the bottling job ao je can really drive this man crazy so he won't have any strength for bantering again.

Hahaaa.

KYP ( Know Your Personnel)

This is good old 90s basketball…

I. Stewart with a strong left hand block.

The Magic want to slow it down to a halfcourt, the Pistons want to run..

This is going to be a good series..