₦airaland Forum

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Amidst all this, if the UK doesn't stand up for her citizen, we can boldly say 'it has always been about selfish interest'. No one country cares about another. The world we live in is evil and the heart of men are desperately wicked just as the holy scripture says.

How a supposed "attorney general and minister of justice" can boldly lie to the masses, and people out of political alignment and tribalism support such government tells you how much evil thrives in our territory.

If you have the means to work legally or study abroad in some countries having a sense of sanity, please do so while you can.

Added to your lists, men hardly walk up to ladies to ask them out because of the ease at which they tag many things sexual harassments.

No. 3 is usually the case.

Would go straight to the point.

So I started dating my girlfriend few months ago. We both reside outside Nigeria as students. I live and study in a city four hours away from her.
Before I asked her out, I had some female admirers including the whites. But I chose her because she never gave me the 'attention-seeking attitude' prior to our relationship. I understand that i have this personality of not wanting to spend too much time on chats and phone calls but because of my understanding of sacrifice, I compromise for her sake. I also cut off funny and flirty conversations with all my female admirers and declined mere friendship visits from them. Irrespective, she puts up an attitude when they randomly call me. Mind you, she receives calls from her male admirers and when i question her about it she goes defensive saying that they are the ones disturbing her. Oh yes, i understand that but why spend long hours with them on calls and chats? She says it's because she is bored and lonely because I don't reach out to her regularly. This is the same girlfriend I have sacrificed several nights I don't joke with (because i love studying at night) and I have made offer to cater for her fare whenever it is possible for her to visit me. Due to the nature of my programme, unlike hers that is flexible, I cant travel to visit her always.

The recent act of hers that made me create this thread was that she reluctantly told me on phone that a guy asked her for a walk together and she doesn't know what to do. Seriously? Because of her past allegations that I take things too serious at times, I told her to go ahead.

Is she making me a simp for love knowing very well she would feel unhappy if I grant such request from a lady?