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princefrank76:
You wish. Hahaha

If you broke boy you don't t have to make it obvious

Make I no carry this break up anger enter you abeg I no get joy

PureFace1:
Collect the phone back

You should only think about yourself at this stage and what will make you feel better.

After you collect your phone back, it will feel much better to move on.

I bet the only reason she is trying to convince you to put up with her is so that you won't collect the phone back, very manipulative woman.


You shouldn't be buying women something that expensive.

Okay sir thanks

princefrank76:
I swear! You are right.

Op which kind phone you buy for her sef?

Iphone 12promax

PureFace1:
You can collect the phone you bought for her back, if it will make you feel better to move on.

Don't give a damn what she think about you again, You can collect back the phone if it very expensive it will make you feel better.

I will sir am going to take the phone back today the phone is 12promax roughly 350k

PureFace1:
Just forget about her and move on or else you would hurt yourself very badly.

You see my predictions is already coming to reality, what make you even believe she would agree ? and not completely shut you down ? she would lose all the respect she have for you and dump you which would be more painful lol

cut your losses and move on, respect yourself.

Okay bro thank you

PureFace1:
Women have the tendency to get bore with men that they know love them and they have won over.

Most of the time it is because there is no competition to keep them on their toes, that's why they look for it elsewhere and dump the guy that love them or treat him badly.

Have high social proof, don't be completely emotionally invested in one woman, demonstrate your capabilities to get other women affection to the women you are in relationship with.

It will make them constantly compete to win you over 100% and not get bore of you but the moment a woman believe they have won you 100% they get bore and kick you to the cub to look for competition elsewhere.

Okay do you think I should have one last hit before I let her go? cuz now is very obvious she is playing games she just told her bestie that she doesn't want the relationship but it was the same girl that still called me yesterday crying and begging that I should forgive and take her back

MasterJayJay:
I will still marry a virgin.



There is a difference between a virgin that had her first sex in marriage and a virgin that lost her virginity to a man not married to her.

@Op, the prostitutes in brothels are not different from the girl you deflowered. The prostitutes were once virgins to, just like your girlfriend. How do you demand faithfulness to one you are not married to?

True bro very true they are no different

PureFace1:
We are all in that stage at some point

as long as you are ready to correct your mistakes, you will keep getting better

Learn how to remain a mystery
Learn how to control your desperation
Give attention sparingly

Women should be the one asking you why you are not texting or calling not you or saying you are not callling or texting enough.

The moment a woman is not replying your texts and calls, you have already lost and should be ready to move on.

Have learnt a lot from you I acted desperate because I loved her dearly but I will take my L and move on I'm ready to learn from my mistakes
Thanks once again

PureFace1:
Okay i will also tell you to kill any sign of desperation, reduce the amount of texts and calls.

Try to remain a mystery in a relationship, only texts and call to set up dates and some occasional check up here and there or else women will quickly get bore of you.

Thanks I appreciate 💕

PureFace1:
I know that feeling, i will also give you a tip


As a man don't ever confess to a woman first no matter how good you feel the woman is, she must be the one to confess her love for you first and don't be the one eager to take the relationship further.

Women love competition don't let your woman know she have you completely 100% no matter the pressure, let her think subconsciously that she haven't won you over 100%. The moment women feel they have already won you over 100% they would quickly get bore of you, always let her know there is still that 20% chance of you dumping her any time she screw up.

Okay thank you sir

PureFace1:
Don't even keep her for sex, it is not good for your mental and emotional health.

You can only keep women you are not emotionally invested in for just sex only, but you are already too emotionally invested in this woman and i can't blame you. You were the one that disvirgined her and have a wrong conception because of her virginity status.

Okay thank you I will try my best to let her go to be frank I just feel bad when I imagine another guy putting his rod in her and her moaning but I will let her go for my sanity

PureFace1:
Virginity doesn't guarantee loyalty.

Only a naive guy would believe that, with enough experience you would know virginity doesn't guarantee loyalty unless you are lucky enough to marry a woman as a virgin, that woman have a very high chance of staying loyal. There are so many women that feel they need to explore after they lose their virginity and won't be satisfy with just a man doing them.


That woman is still in her ho phase and want to explore, i will advise you to cut your losses in that relationship and move on, that girl would lose the small respect she have for you if you decided to keep her after that bullshits she pulled on you, she may be the one that will dump you next time after she lose the attraction she have left for you.

She is just trying to manipulate you, no self respecting man full of abundance mindset will stay after that bullshit she pulled. If she successfully manipulate you to stay then her brain will tell her that you are not worth it because you are not respecting yourself enough and even willing to take bullshits like that from her. Women only love guys that they know won't entertain their bullshits and can dump them immediately they screw up, she will be the one to dump you next time if you put up with that bullshits she pulled on you, trust me you will regret it, she is only willing to put up with you for now because of what she is getting from you.

You can forgive her but not on offense like that, she is not even afraid to let you know there are other guy she is attracted to, that tell you the level of respect she have for you.

She is now bore of you and want a new spark elsewhere.

I'm just keeping her for sex nothing else.. what do you think should I just let her go?

Eunoiaa:
Nooo, you for kukuma post all your gallery for us now. 😂😂

Or tell us say na Art Exhibition we wan come view for inside the thread.

Ewo ni ti ikun omi pictures bayi?


Abyway, take heart on your plight lol.

Take heart on what plight?

Jflex07:
Does she school in port Harcourt? Where do you both stay?

Akwai Ibom state

IyaebeTheGreat:
Well, she has proven you wrong that you taken her virginity doesn't guarantee anything. Ladies hardly cheat on a man they are truly into, count your losses and move on. She loves the other guy way more than you.

Why do you say so I wanna know
What makes you think she loves the other guy more than me? Please tell me

princefrank76:
Guy I would advise you to leave the phone.
Make she at least use the phone remember you.

You that took her virginity nkoor?

She'll never forget you for life..

You see why I tell you say na small children reasoning? Make e no concern you who she use the phone call.

Ask yourself this question; the phones wey all your ex's use call you, u no reason say na other men buy for them?

Pata wey u off the girl sef, some na men pay for them.

What's good for the goose is good for the gander..

Guy leave that banny with that phone..

You can still apply okafor law in the future

I get your point sha but my mind no go gree me guy😂
Have tried living it for her but omo my mind no gree no be my fault bros

Haynnie:
Petty of you and how you reason is immature. You are so pained my guy!

Lol! I agree

Newsneako:
They said marrying a virgin. You guys are not married there's nothing holding you two together. It's easy for her to try many options cause you aren't married. If it's not marriage but stupid stuff you'll call dating shut the F up abeg. If she really want to be loyal she'll wait till wedding night.

Lol you think so?

princefrank76:
guy forget the phone for her joor..

Wetin be phone my guy, u supposed big pass that kind package..

Don't always ask for stuffs u gifted someone.

It was not a conditional gift.


I can see u are either a teenager or u are in your early twenties from the way you converse with the girl

Lol very funny how did my write up depict my age can you tell? Tho I'm in my late 20’s

For me bro it's was a conditional gift even tho I'm bigger than that... A girl will be using a phone I bought for her to call and fvck another dude men not me I would take it back asap I'm very jealous

Haynnie:
The first phase of your chat should have end everything. The rest is not necessary.vif you aren't pained you would have bid her "e go be" and block her all those unnecessary chats about betray and love should have been summarrised on the first phase of your chat.

This shows you are still pained. well, idk but it seems like it.

I just wanted to take back the phone I bought for her that's why I didn't block her was waiting till have gotten it

IyaebeTheGreat:
Stop forcing yourself on ladies, allow your women choose you and you'll never experience any of these. Obviously you choked her for a relationship but her love was for the other guy. I can't date whom I didn't choose, you'll be wasting your time on every of your moves. Attract your woman first, you'll always see that sign that she has chosen you if you are smart but some guys ain't smart anyways.

How did I choke her? When we started dating long ago before she knew this guy just of recent?

If you can real well you would see where I said I was the one who took her virginity so if she doesn't love me she would give me that?

Haynnie:
Oh is you again, Ronaldo. I stumbled on of your recent thread about a guy who gave your babe 200k. Are you for real? Is it same babe that you are claiming to be a virgin?

Omo you must be controversial.

Yes is she

Haynnie:
What kind of chat is this one?

Op are you pained?

Pained as in how?

CANDYDADDY:
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mumu wake up, the girl changed all story at the part you asked of the phone you bought her.


I'm very certain the girl is two things;she is smart and manipulative
But it good you get back to your senses for turning her to your Bleep mate

Yeah bro am aware of that when I fvck her tire I go still collect the phone she never jam

donbachi:
The girl done chop the guy brain.

Which person brain you mean?

CondenseMilk:
Are you unemployed?

Lol yes... Why the question?

TemplarLandry:
Well, you're still growing...
There's a level of maturity required to be able to keep a healthy relationship.

How do you mean?

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You know have come to agree with Nairaland repillers on a lot of things but not this one

I believe a girl can be loyal if she decides to irrespective of her sexual status and have had a first hand experience on this

I met this girl last year tho we have known each other for quite a while before we started dating around august and in due course I found out she was pure(virgin)

It took me a while to disflower her because she was extremely tight and couldn’t handle the pain
Coupled with the blood it took me like a month cuz I was very patient with her and whenever she complains I will just stop

Now we have been dating for up to 7 months now and guess what I found out from my virgin girlfriend? She loves another dude!

She confessed to me after a series of quarrels cuz of her attitude… this girl started giving me attitude like hell would be online no text no call nothing!

I had to confront her she then said she needed some space in the relationship that she is stressed… why on earth will she be stressed? After series of questioning she opened up to me that she likes another guy and is confused between the both of us.

I was awestruck! What! Can you believe she had to guts to tell me she don’t know if she should date the both of us? I was so angry and broke up with her

I confronted her bestie who told me everything and said she has told her to choose between me and the guy and my supposed girlfriend Said can’t let any of us go that we both satisfy in different ways which neither of us could do individually 😂

Girls! What do you guys even want? She called me today and was begging me that it was all a prank that there wasn’t another guy that she just made the story up to see my reaction lol… maybe she thinks am a kid

I played along and accepted her back and have decided to use her for just knacking until I get a new chick she is now a certified hoe in my eyes… that’s what I now take her as…. someone I loved with my all..

So to cut the long story short my Guys, virginity is not a guarantee that the girl will be loyal after you disflower her thank you 😊