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Guys I'm really grateful for all your contributions, thanks a lot.

She called on Tuesday evening still asking me that what is problem. I then express myself to her and told her what she did is not proper. She then felt a bit provoked telling me that I don't trust and Love her. Hearing her statement, that really pissed me off. So I took a bold decision to quit the relationship when blew the news to her over the phone. Telling her is over between the two of us, saying too that I don't want us to be seeing each other again (as people who wish to stay together forever).
But could you believe this, that same evening around 10:45pm she came to my place (she never did that). She said that I should take the Holy Bible and say to her that I don't love her (God knows that that is impossible). I then responded to her that if she really say she loves me, then why would she go on doing things that will hurt me. She then insist that there is nothing between her and the guy. I finally insist that she should live me alone and go back to her mothers home. She tried to kiss me and I pushed her away. She came back holding me and crying, which lasted up to an hour. As she cries, I didn't say anything. From the look of things then, it seems she is not living, she is not going back home, she was ready to stay through out the night (she had never slept before at my place). So around 12 midnight I had no choice but to forgive her and warned her not to do things that will hurt me again. She then agreed and promised that such will not happen again, then I took her home.

Now she is always flashing me (greeting) on phone sending text that She loves me. After work yesterday she came to my place and spent the remaining time with me for the day. Now she is at my work place for a visit.

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She went and visited another guy while you where asleep, tired from work?? Thats just plain wrong. No matter if something is going on or not its just wrong and she needs to know that. If she wants you and loves you then she should stop visiting this other guy. She is asking for trouble and temptation. If you dont like it then tell her to stop to save your heart. All the best!

Thanks alot

Some few minutes, I did what I didn't do before to see her reaction. I called to great her.
So what I said was
" Good morning Honey, How are you doing? How is Mommy, everyone and how is "[color=#000099]the guys name"[/color]?
she responded by saying
"everyone is fine".
I then said
"I'll call you later"
I then hang up the phone.
After some minutes later, she called and said,
"Honey, I'm not happy with what you'd just said",
I asked
"what is the problem."
She said
"why would you mention the guys name which you'd never done before, I'm not happy".
I said
"I'm sorry, we will meet later"
[b]I then Hang up the phone. Later I received an sms sayin[/b]g
"Honey, it's you that I want, you that I love Honey. what is the problem"
I'm mute till as type.

Guys I really appreciate u all.

She looks so innocent and gentle after her Dad abandon. I love her passion to be educated, she looks nice too.

Guys, I did threatening her in the past, that is better to quit the relationship. I even told her that I'm moving far away from her to stay with a friend for weeks. But hearing that she cried with her heart beating fast to the extent that she nearly collapse and maybe die. Now I'm even scared to tell her that again because of the past incidence. what do you think I should do. Thanks alot.

I already did that and she still said that there is nothing between the two of them.

I love my Girl so much and up till now I still do. I always encourage her in all she love doing. I always try to provide her needs. In the Past I paid her secondary school fees till she finished her waec. Now I'm struggling to see that she gets an admission to any good high institution she will love to go. I told her I love her so much and I can't staying without her. Now that she is waiting for admission I encouraged her to take a hair dressing job before she gts the admission. She told me that she loves me so much too and she wish to marry me.

Whenever I am back from work, I don't go to any place but her home to spend some quality time with her. Sometimes I take her out in the evening. Weekends I'm free so she comes to my place too. Our relationship is 4yrs old now. She Lied to me once but she pleaded for forgiveness which I did forgive her.

what is happening now is that, I noticed that a guy in her yard has an interest in her from his actions. He even told her he loves her too (she told me that herself). She told me that for her she does not have any interest in this guy, that they are just friends. That the guy sometimes encourage her that I am a good person who is good for her. Now anytime I'm not with her she spends her time in this guys room (with other people) watching movies and charging her phone whenever I'm not there. Sometimes she says that she is in the room charging her phone. So one day it happened that I was with her and tired from work, I had take a sleep in her bed. I woke up from sleep when one of her Uncles came into the room asking for her (she was not the room by then), so I went out looking for her. I met a lady in the yard asking her whether she has an Idea where my girl is and she told me that she is in that same guy's room. I now went to the room, knocked and I didn't hear any response and I went in. What I saw was that she sat close to him while the the guy pretends as if He was sleeping (no one was in room but the two of them). I told her uncle wants to see her, I didn't say anything i then went back to her room (sad inside of me). She noticed that I was sad then later explained that there nothing between the two of them. I warned her that whatever she is doing should have limit. If it means going to the guys room. This happened a week ago, yesterday I came found her in the guys room.

As for me, I always tried to avoid any intimate relationship with other ladies. So I want to ask good people of nairaland, I'm I too hard on this lady. Do you think that there is something that I don't have but the other guy do. I always tried to find out what is missing and yet I can't find any answer to that even we discuss. Does it mean that she is tired of me. Guys I need your help thanks.

These guys are animals and they proud of it.

I think is time that someone needs to inflicted terror in their life so that anywhere they go, they will respect their host community. They feel they have the monopoly of violence, goats.

Kaduna na dem, Lagos na dem, Plateau na dem etc. Na wah!

Please I need website where I can find free gospel Hip hop/rap music to download.

Thank you.

what is the cost for the Audis so that one can prepare

I need Audi a4 too, but 2000 version

I want a lady who is

1. 4.8 feet tall,
damn, how tall are you? 5ft?

What is your problem FL Gators, are 8feets (Goliath)

I want a lady who is

1.  4.8 feet tall,
2.  light in skin colour
3.  Intelligent
4.  Pretty
5.  Educated
etc

"The Non accademic staff unions i.e. SSANU, NASU and NAAT may go on another STRIKE, if the Federal Government do not sign the agreement reached last week".

What is wrong with these two parties? Federal government has settled ASUU why didn't they settled the rest of the Unions in the University system?
What is wrong with the Minister of Education and Yar'adu?

I don't want to add another year(s) in the University. Please Mr. President, hear the cry of Nigerian students .

Glo is 3.6Mpbs for internet, what is the Mpbs for Multilinks, Zain, Starcom etc ?

Which network is cheap and good?

What do you feel about our Policemen and Policewomen?

Do they perform as you expect?
Say something or share stories on what Police are capable of, what they can do and what they cannot do.

Is Nigeria Police Corrupt than any citizen?

Share something.

Have you tried Window 7 OS?

It looks cool, but it seems one will need at least 512MB of RAM to enjoy it.

Please, please , , I need your help on this.

I have a laptop which was blown up by a generator.

I discovered that the power pack those not supply and also the Laptop those not come ON when powered by a good power pack.
The indicator light is OFF when connected.

I need ur help on how I can solve this problem.

Thanks.

if you try that, sorry!!

Please I your help.

I've worked on several laptops but I have a perculiar problem with three laptops. One is HP and others are Dell.

Problem is, when I press ON, the LED power comes ON for a few seconds then goes OFF including the entire. I can hear the sound of the Fan at that point in time then it stops when light goes OFF. I opened and cleaned the system, reached the processor to feel if there is heat generated but none. What is problem.

Thanks

Am here in Jos. I need a New Toshiba Satellite Laptop @ N70,000.00, not opened or activated.

Must Have:
Window Vista
250GB HDD,
1GB DDR,
DVD/CD writer,
Intel core 2 duo Processor,
802.11 a/g,
LAN,
14'' or 15'' screen,
USB ports
Webcam

Thanks.

Am here in Jos. I need a New Toshiba Satellite Laptop @ N70,000.00, not opened or activated.

Must Have:
Window Vista
250GB HDD,
1GB DDR,
DVD/CD writer,
Intel core 2 duo Processor,
802.11 a/g,
LAN,
14'' or 15'' screen,
USB ports
Webcam

Thanks.

This man, u don't know what u are saying. The present situation in Jos is done by ISLAMIC TERRORISTS go and make proper research.

I grew up in Jos with a friend who is a Muslim. We played together, shared things together, go to places together, did alot of things together. Sometimes my Muslim friend encourage me whenever i have problems.
With all these, I thought we could be friends forever.

I thought Islam is a religion that preaches peace, but I got it all wrong when reliogion crisess started september 2001, that was on after friday Juma' a prayers. My muslim brother, himself and others shot my cousin and his wife (6 month pregnant), both died. Some mallams organise and give guns to their members to kill those who are not part their religion.

That same period innocent people were killed, properties looted, children raped, churches burnt without any reason.

Today, another crises has erupted again on Friday morning before Election result was announced in Jos. It was pre-planned by this same muslims who say that the Koran preaches peace still killing, looting, raping burning Churches.

Brothers, any Muslim that says that you are brothers, BE CAREFULL .

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oooooopppps Bro. hw u go do such a thing

I no get anything to say on this ur Problem.

But make u just believe in God and kneel down and pray so that God will direct ur path.

Bro. are u desparate to get married I think the Bible those not allow that cos the Priest has to unite both of you. God has giving the Priest the power to bind two people together.

If u like u may not invite other people but it is important to involve your parents.

This is the little I have for you

KunleOshob is quite a wonderful person to give you good details on what is going on between u and ur pastor.

Really Bro. take ur time and still go through KunleOshob statements and think over it,
after school or uni, take a vacation

@Mr. KunleOshob well done

go kill urself and sale corps to baba lawoo

u don't think of making best use of ur time doing good .