D-Explorer:
Well, i'm yet to know or probably admit "this common thing" about Nigeria men that makes them a suspect even in a relationship. Why not allow your relationship run on open minds than expecting the "Nigerian factor". . .it makes no sense. Now, about the issue, i think you are the one not ready to be hooked to this dude. You're not sure of what the future holds "getting married to a Nigerian". . .clear your head girl, i think he loves you and want more; propably take the relationship to the next level. I'm also concerned about the distance but i think when you are ready, you both could figure that out. A good guy is a good guy regardless of his country, start talking serious with him if you see a future together.

I appreciate your advice. It was all well said and I will definitely take it into consideration.

Harbosede02: NB:Men are Men,whether Nigerian,American,Italian or wateva..cos i don't rily get y u emphasized xo much on "NIGERIAN" men..

I hope I didn't offend you by doing that. I'm not trying to be insensitive and the bulk of my story is not about him being Nigerian but rather that he was a good man that happened to be from a different culture than mine. I'm reaching out to people of his culture for opinions, based on the fact that everyone else around me seems to think we couldn't get along based because we were from different backgrounds. Things that had I known beforehand we probably could have had a much different relationship.

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