Romance › Re: Am Between The Devil And The Deep Blue Sea. by Rossynwa(op): 1:53pm On Dec 29, 2014 |
#tag# mizmycoli, kachisbarbie, samflexxy, Ipledge, Rozzay, muguliciousmugu, jenimma, unibenstudent. I knw u guys av d wisdom, am still waiting for some advice frm u. Tnks |
Romance › Re: Tag A Romancelander And Buy A Gift For Him/her This Festive Season by Rossynwa(f): 4:41pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
Ennyhorlar: tagged****** Rossynwa , Harbosede02 , pinkiepetite oh my! Really? Wat am i expecting? |
Romance › Re: Tag A Romancelander And Buy A Gift For Him/her This Festive Season by Rossynwa(f): 4:39pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
I tag Deschyko. I owe him a whole lot. He might not knw bt he saved a life. Deschyko dear, i owe u one. |
Romance › Re: Am Between The Devil And The Deep Blue Sea. by Rossynwa(op): 2:58pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
DesChyko: By him agreeing to take responsibility, does he mean being another 'boyfriend' to you or coming to see your parents?
You know, that both of you hooked up after he and your sister separated has an 'immoral' tone to it. It would be 'hardwork' to drive away morbid lust and have trust in that relationship, but then, love doesn't always come through the front door.
What I think you should do is that you have that child on your own with external support.
Do not make any lasting decision now that you are under a great deal of pressure or you may end up having a lot of 'was' and 'had I known' to live with.
Your elder sister seems a good anchor. Work with her and her experience. I won't advice you to believe the guy. It is true that things are really past 'changing' now, but don't forget that what he did is very bad, and any man that does that has low moral quality and poor self-control. You can't desire that type of man for yourself.
But humans make mistakes. There is a chance that he will change for your sake. So, allow your head, your heart and your religion direct you in making a decision.
Work with your elder sister. I wish you luck.
Worrying solves nothing. If you can't solve it, then why worry as if worry will solve it immediately? If you can solve it, then you have no reason to worry. Take Care. Deschyko dear u're great nd i appreciate u. Have bin thinking of d same thing too. I feel very bad, wish i can undo all this. To think dat i didnt even give in to my own b.f whom i luv so much. I feel like taking my life cus d pain and humiliation is too much. Pls more of ur wonderful advice will be appreciated. |
Romance › Re: Am Between The Devil And The Deep Blue Sea. by Rossynwa(op): 12:05pm On Dec 23, 2014 |
technophantom: Aiit! I get your point.
Look op! Sorry about the way I trashed you, I was just too pissed cos I got sisters too, and I hate it when they get treated like shit by some self acclaimed sharp niggar!
Here are reasons, why you shouldn't continue with the affair!
1) He is/was your cousins BF. 2) He was on hand to F.uc.k ur couzin who is fresh from a separation. 3)He facilitated the break-up with her hubby ( believe it or not , its true) 4) He fu..ked you even when he knew the kind of trouble you'll go through! Yes, your prince charming is responsible for what you are going through 5) He faked a quarrel to appease ur childlike conscience. 6) He is selfish! All he wants is a piece of ur honey! 7) He left you out to face the heat alone, not standing by you! tnks dearie, i undastnd ur point bt let me correct some things. My cuzine isnt freshly separated. Dat happened like four years ago nd she has bin in several r/ship b.4 she met dis guy in question abt a year ago, wen she was empolyed in their office. For nw no one execpt me, the guy, my cuzine, my elder sis nd my two best frnds knws abt dis. U're right to judge me cus i brought dis upon myself, afterall a gal of 23years wont be called a child. All i pray for is to survive dis in one piece. Tnk u dear |
Romance › Re: Am Between The Devil And The Deep Blue Sea. by Rossynwa(op): 11:55am On Dec 23, 2014 |
Elantracey: Deschyko has said it all , but I don't understand the part where , you , your elder sister and her husband and then your cousin and her boyfriend living in the same house , your sister's husband must be very tolerant .
Instead of worrying why not go for a pregnancy test and be sure you're pregnant , if you're lucky you just might not be , then you can apologise to your cousin and hopefully she forgives you but I don't understand your cousin's anger here , you said they've broken up right? Elantracey: Deschyko has said it all , but I don't understand the part where , you , your elder sister and her husband and then your cousin and her boyfriend living in the same house , your sister's husband must be very tolerant . Instead of worrying why not go for a pregnancy test and be sure you're pregnant , if you're lucky you just might not be , then you can apologise to your cousin and hopefully she forgives you but I don't understand your cousin's anger here , you said they've broken up right? yes dear my sister's hubby is very tolerant. Coming to break up issue, she is nw saying dat dey didnt break up, that she is looking for ways to make things work for them. Am not a wild person, hw dis happened i cnt say. It was as if a large curtin was drawn up to my eyes. |
Romance › Am Between The Devil And The Deep Blue Sea. by Rossynwa(op): 11:09am On Dec 23, 2014 |
Pls i need advice from forum visitors. Am a girl of 23 years, staying with my elderst sister and her hubby. Recently my cuzine sis dat stays in another state came for holiday wit her two kids and her boyfriend(N.B. She is divorced with her hubby). Since they came, they have been having issues and misunderstanding, which the boyfriend told me has been on for a while now. She even went on to tell the guy that is over btw them, and the guy said he is feed up too. One thing led to the other and my cuzine's b.f and i fell in love and had an unprotected sex, he deflowered me. We where chatting via whatsapp and i told him that i dnt even knw if am carrying his child now and he said dat i shouldnt worry that he loves me and will take responsibity if eventually am pregnant. To cut the story short my cuzine sis found out about us wen she went through my chat on whatsapp, apperently she has been suspecting us.(she collectd my fone) and alerted my elderst sister. My cuzine sis called me all sorts of names and beat hell out of my eyes, she said starting from that day that am no longer her sister and threated to tell everyone about it but my elderst sis told her that she will do no such thing. I begged and begged her to forgive me bt no way. I had to go back to my father's house and recover. I know i have wrong my cuzine and am deeply remorseful, i dont knw what to do anymore. My elderst sister was devastated, she said she knew how strict i am with men that is why she couldnt put her hand on why i had to do this. She asked the guy what he will do if eventually i become pregnant, and he said he will take full responsibity of me and his baby. Am so faustrated right, i even fainted the day i got to my parents house but den i culdnt tell them what happened. My elderst sis said she have forgiven me that she knws it was temptation. Plss i need advice. Pls forgive my gramma. |
Romance › Re: Seven Reasons Why You Should Never Get Married - For Guys Only by Rossynwa(f): 3:46pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
What is dis all abt? Fogive me bt i dnt undastnd!  |
Family › Re: Are You Sexually Compatible With Your Spouse? by Rossynwa(f): 3:32pm On Nov 05, 2014 |
gidjah: ONLY MARRIED peeps o,for me ,i am a bit on d low side,my libido is low,though i wish i can increase my speed and gear so i can be tough and stay long, but for where?hubby is a kinda opp,she is too much for bro,but i can say we are compatible on d average ,even though i seem not ever to meet up wit her power and speed.i hav never complained about that to her,since she is not weired,i kinda love her style |