technophantom:
#Fell in love#
Hisses!
Pray tell! What do you know about Love?
Inconsiderate Toddler!

Is this an advice?

Mr "I know about Love"

technophantom:
#Fell in love#
Hisses!
Pray tell! What do you know about Love?
Inconsiderate Toddler!

naijaboiy:

Is this an advice?

Mr "I know about Love"

technophantom:

You seriously feel Op haven't gotten enough advice from her immediate relatives?
Now let me tell u why she came on line! To fine solidarity! People who will tell her to go ahead and love a con-artist!

Not that...I just felt the way you lambasted her at first was harsh.

But you're right tho. She must have been advised a lot from friends and relatives off line.

Most people who open threads like this online usually do that just to find solace in words from people that will support them. They have already made up their minds before the thread has been opened.

naijaboiy:

Not that...I just felt the way you lambasted her at first was harsh.

But you're right tho. She must have been advised a lot from friends and relatives off line.

Most people who open threads like this online usually do that just to find solace in words from people that will support them. They have already made up their minds before the thread has been opened.

Elantracey:
Deschyko has said it all , but I don't understand the part where , you , your elder sister and her husband and then your cousin and her boyfriend living in the same house , your sister's husband must be very tolerant .


Instead of worrying why not go for a pregnancy test and be sure you're pregnant , if you're lucky you just might not be , then you can apologise to your cousin and hopefully she forgives you but I don't understand your cousin's anger here , you said they've broken up right?

Elantracey:
Deschyko has said it all , but I don't understand the part where , you , your elder sister and her husband and then your cousin and her boyfriend living in the same house , your sister's husband must be very tolerant .
Instead of worrying why not go for a pregnancy test and be sure you're pregnant , if you're lucky you just might not be , then you can apologise to your cousin and hopefully she forgives you but I don't understand your cousin's anger here , you said they've broken up right?

technophantom:


Aiit! I get your point.


Look op! Sorry about the way I trashed you, I was just too pissed cos I got sisters too, and I hate it when they get treated like shit by some self acclaimed sharp niggar!

Here are reasons, why you shouldn't continue with the affair!

1) He is/was your cousins BF.
2) He was on hand to F.uc.k ur couzin who is fresh from a separation.
3)He facilitated the break-up with her hubby ( believe it or not , its true)
4) He fu..ked you even when he knew the kind of trouble you'll go through! Yes, your prince charming is responsible for what you are going through
5) He faked a quarrel to appease ur childlike conscience.
6) He is selfish! All he wants is a piece of ur honey!
7) He left you out to face the heat alone, not standing by you!

Rossynwa:
tnks dearie, U're right to judge me cus i brought dis upon myself, afterall a gal of 23years wont be called a child. All i pray for is to survive dis in one piece. Tnk u dear

technophantom:


Aiit! I get your point.


Look op! Sorry about the way I trashed you, I was just too pissed cos I got sisters too, and I hate it when they get treated like shit by some self acclaimed sharp niggar!

Here are reasons, why you shouldn't continue with the affair!

1) He is/was your cousins BF.
2) He was on hand to F.uc.k ur couzin who is fresh from a separation.
3)He facilitated the break-up with her hubby ( believe it or not , its true)
4) He fu..ked you even when he knew the kind of trouble you'll go through! Yes, your prince charming is responsible for what you are going through
5) He faked a quarrel to appease ur childlike conscience.
6) He is selfish! All he wants is a piece of ur honey!
7) He left you out to face the heat alone, not standing by you!
He used you to deal a deathly blow on your couzin! Just to score some cheap shots!



Look babe, you got your whole life ahead of you.... Its too early to start dealing in this messy ish! He is dispensable, ur cousin isn't, she's family. Stop sticking to the love story and tell them he used you the same way he used her.... Love doesn't leave you and run!!

Now you're making sense

DesChyko:
By him agreeing to take responsibility, does he mean being another 'boyfriend' to you or coming to see your parents?

You know, that both of you hooked up after he and your sister separated has an 'immoral' tone to it. It would be 'hardwork' to drive away morbid lust and have trust in that relationship, but then, love doesn't always come through the front door.

What I think you should do is that you have that child on your own with external support.

Do not make any lasting decision now that you are under a great deal of pressure or you may end up having a lot of 'was' and 'had I known' to live with.

Your elder sister seems a good anchor. Work with her and her experience. I won't advice you to believe the guy. It is true that things are really past 'changing' now, but don't forget that what he did is very bad, and any man that does that has low moral quality and poor self-control. You can't desire that type of man for yourself.

But humans make mistakes. There is a chance that he will change for your sake. So, allow your head, your heart and your religion direct you in making a decision.

Work with your elder sister. I wish you luck.

Worrying solves nothing. If you can't solve it, then why worry as if worry will solve it immediately? If you can solve it, then you have no reason to worry. Take Care.

Elantracey:
Deschyko has said it all , but I don't understand the part where , you , your elder sister and her husband and then your cousin and her boyfriend living in the same house , your sister's husband must be very tolerant .


Instead of worrying why not go for a pregnancy test and be sure you're pregnant , if you're lucky you just might not be , then you can apologise to your cousin and hopefully she forgives you but I don't understand your cousin's anger here , you said they've broken up right?

Rossynwa:
Pls i need advice from forum visitors. Am a girl of 23 years, staying with my elderst sister and her hubby. Recently my cuzine sis dat stays in another state came for holiday wit her two kids and her boyfriend(N.B. She is divorced with her hubby). Since they came, they have been having issues and misunderstanding, which the boyfriend told me has been on for a while now. She even went on to tell the guy that is over btw them, and the guy said he is feed up too. One thing led to the other and my cuzine's b.f and i fell in love and had an unprotected sex, he deflowered me. We where chatting via whatsapp and i told him that i dnt even knw if am carrying his child now and he said dat i shouldnt worry that he loves me and will take responsibity if eventually am pregnant. To cut the story short my cuzine sis found out about us wen she went through my chat on whatsapp, apperently she has been suspecting us.(she collectd my fone) and alerted my elderst sister. My cuzine sis called me all sorts of names and beat hell out of my eyes, she said starting from that day that am no longer her sister and threated to tell everyone about it but my elderst sis told her that she will do no such thing. I begged and begged her to forgive me bt no way. I had to go back to my father's house and recover. I know i have wrong my cuzine and am deeply remorseful, i dont knw what to do anymore. My elderst sister was devastated, she said she knew how strict i am with men that is why she couldnt put her hand on why i had to do this. She asked the guy what he will do if eventually i become pregnant, and he said he will take full responsibity of me and his baby. Am so faustrated right, i even fainted the day i got to my parents house but den i culdnt tell them what happened. My elderst sis said she have forgiven me that she knws it was temptation. Plss i need advice. Pls forgive my gramma.

ireneony:
am following

samflexxy:
Hmmmm this one is strong.
I'll advice you to breakup any contact you have with your cousin's b.f you were wrong to have a relationship with him anyways I don't blame you, I blame the ass licker of a guy who derives pleasure in sleeping with blood relations
Incase you get pregnant, he'll have to take care of you and the baby, but for the main time oppologize to your cousin and cut all ties you have with the bloody goon


Rossynwa

jmoore:

You don't blame her. Was she r@ped, huh?

samflexxy:
no but as a guy, you no what we are capable of doing to get under a woman's skirt, if he didn't propose it, nofing would have happen