Is it a crime for a girl to be a first child. My boyfriend of 2yrs broke up with me on tuesday because of this. I still can't believe it and i dn't even know what to do. I've been calling but his phone's been switched off. I plan to go to his house tomorrow to see if we could talk.

realsammie: Baba GOD i'm stil looking unto you for my text. surely, i know that you will never disappoint.

me too o

webb jamie:

Since when did Lil Wayne become a rock artist?

lol heelep me ask am o

Tosin o Tosin (bigi belle)[/quote] hahaha tosin wanted to born again biggy belle...tosin don born biggy belle . Can't remember d name b4 tosin don born

Amazingift01: pls who knws ow to sing dis song; who sat nd watch my infant head, wen sleeping on my cradle bed nd.................pls help out.

my mother who sat and watched my infant head when sleeping on my cradle bed and tears of sweet affection shed, my mother

Motor car motor car little riding motor car if i want to go to school please carry me pee pee poor poor. dont know if its little riding motor car o

javadoctor:
13,14 Shoot ur gun,I say shoot ur gun

gboa gboa gboa

crimo4us:

1,2 buckle my shoe
3,4 knock at the door
5,6 pick up sticks
7,8 lay them striaght
9,10 the big fat hen

11,12 run to school and don't be late

the most excellency is Jesus. Heard the correct one on one gospel. The Most Excellent King is Jesus. Some churches in naija still sing the previous one.

all the kids are cute. Seriously, i don't think ufoma's baby was even a week old when the photo was taken but he will sure be a cute baby when he grows...

uch90: This an end result of anger, the guy should ve at least waited until he graduates from school also leaving family matter out of school, u know t[b]his white folks are always looking for a means to rebrand other nationals[/b]. Anyways the deed has been done, the guy should revaluate the information provided earlier and latter,what are his reasons for change of names, am sure they suspected some discrepancies, lastly let him watch his back someone could be somewhere providing a contradicting information to the school.

@the boldedhe didn't travel because he was denied visa so he schooled here in Nigeria

i.:
Fraud is defined as obtaining by false pretenses!
The boy's mother's family are fraudulent even if she claims honest mistake? Who will refund the money spent?
Sometimes Families should seat up! It is for your Dad to call his inlaws to order! Or was it your Uncles that paid his fees and fed him?
The boy should get an uncle from his mother's side to swear to the change of name aπϑ file it with his school!

They have refused to listen to my dad so my he has washed his hands off the matter but he still caters for the boy.

My reason maybe because i don't like enough to date u or am simply not interested instead of leading u on, i dn't believe in that.

nbright: I said it somewhere in this thread that if I do approach a lady and she said no, that's all from me cos nothing will make me even approach her again..

For me my no is no o if u perster me, i become irritated

nbright: @bolded, now am confused.. I remember somewhere on this site I read that girls love playing hard to get to see if the guy is serious in her now here is another female saying an entirely different thing altogether.. Wonders..

No b bad thing bt u 4get say as u dey talk nw anoda bobo dey one corner dey plan e go take chop ur sis i.e if u've got one

passionate88: bt na bad thing me talk?

Na wa to u o, u sure say u get sista

passionate88: if na me, i go chop o, if she dey save haslf 4 marriage me go save my money 4 marriage too. I just no see myslf behavin like that, if my papa get to hear am im go call olokpa to arrest me even if na jst rumour. Gals wicked boys pass 4 relationship bt we no dey too like to talk abt am bt if na dm, dm go shout am to d high heavens if we wan complain dm go say we dey talk like woman. God pass them

tpia@:


so its that easy to just dump someone you raised all his life? Knowing he knows no other family besides yours?


this is just cruel

that is what my mum have been trying to make her siblings understand instead they turned against her. My dad being the good man that he is, still pay fee and the boy is still in my house. My uncles don't seem to like that.

mtn is even worse,my airtime keeps reading when i can't even hear the person at the other end

Pls if u dn't have any meaningful words to say, u can leave the thread. Thank u

baby_123:

LMAO!!! Abi, who is ready to run around helping a jobless person who is here for fun. . It is best to identify the fakers first, so you dont waste your time.

baby_123:

LMAO! Change of name is done with the government, and then the notice presented to the school. The school will never ask or refuse when the government has approved. OP also said the guy was denied visa for traveling. Then skipped thoughts and said the guy entered school. Then skipped thoughts again that an immigration lawyer out of the blue sent the guy a vacation notice. When did the guy travel abroad if he was refused visa and found not to be her uncles son? Why is the VC involved in each student's lives? When there are so many offices in school who take care of administrative and student level issues. Are head of schools abroad even called VC? Why will an immigration lawyer send a letter and not immigration themselves? OP has a very active imagination, but is highly unexposed and unintelligent. . The way the person skips thoughts, forgets dates, is a bit disturbing. Coupled with the apparent joblessness that is obvious in this post, other issues can be suspected as well. Maybe spiritual

He never travelled, after been refused visa, he continued his education here in Nigeria

according to the VC the guy should graduate first before changing name

ileobatojo:

My first thought as well. Doesn't sound real. Why should a VC say no to a legal document? Why even go to the VC directly for such? Do women who marry in school have to visit the VC to change their name too?

baby_123: Story teller. Incomplete and highly atrocious story telling skills. This person didnt do a lot of research and no thought in compiling the story. OP cant even arrange his thoughts well enough to deliver a compelling story.

well you can say what you want until it happens to you.

ileobatojo: Where did the lawyer come from? Who went and retained one and what is his business with all the old documents? Sounds more like a hater pretending to be a lawyer, bottom line is they are just trying to scare and intimidate the young man. No reason why all his old documents should suddenly become invalid. Whose payroll is the VC on? Hopefully he can find a pro bono lawyer to take on his case and fight the VC

the lawyers were contacted by my uncles

he is not so close to the mother because the "father" has always warned him not to go the maternal home but once in a while he goes to visit without the father knowing. the mum is still maintaining that my uncle is the father

chaircover: Please where is this boys mother in all of this. What is she doing while her sons life is coming crashing down all due to her fault.

I dont get it though . .why is the boy changing his name to a different name from his mothers family? Has the mother suddenly found out who the real father is? and if so why arent the boys real biological family taking care of all this?
He was adviced by the eldest man in his maternal home not to because any one who bears that name does not progress, it well known and anyone who does dies.
BTW was that paternity test checked again just in case?

no the "father" is based in the UK

my first phone was orange and blue ericson can't remember the model

I have this cousin who has lived with my family almost all his life(had his primary, secondary and currently university living with us). He used to be the son of my mum's younger brother ( teenage pregnancy). The question of paternity became a problem in 2009 when he was to travel out to school in the UK. A test was conducted through mouth swab and it was found that he was not my uncle's son and all hell broke loose to the extent that my mum and her younger brother are not in talking terms. Traditionally, my mum's uncles and elder brother handed the boy back to his mother's family although my mum was not happy about that. After that no one bother about the boy's welfare including education not that they were contributing any thing towards the boy's development before including the father( until he wanted to take him abroad to study). Fastforward to 2012... the issue of change of name, formerly the boy bears Adewale Chinedum Maxwell( not real names)and Adewale being the surname. He decided to bear Chinedum Maxwell without including his mum's family name but my mum's brothers including the "father" were against it, eventually they gave in. He went to school to submit a copy of affidavit ( he is in final year in the university) only for the VC to say he can't change his name. My uncles said it was a lie so my eldest uncle went with him only to be told the same thing by the VC himself. Yesterday, the boy in question recieved a letter from a lawyer telling him that all his documents bearing the surname he's been bearing all his life are invalid and a copy of the letter will be sent to the embasssy, immigration and so on and he will be charged for impersonation, convicted and jailed.Before this the 'father' will always call him only to abuse and threaten him. My question is
1. was it the boy's fault that he was born?
2. what kind of lawyer will write that kind of affidavit?
3. why are they hell bent on destroying this boy.
4. is there anywhere at least a government agency he can go for help concerning this issue,please i need to know because 5. Can a lawyer really make ones certificate previous certificate invalid based on what is happening now?
6. Who is he impersonating considering that he has been the only one in the family bearing the name? example; Adewale Chinedu Maxwell.
7 At the bolded is it wrong to do that?
Now my mum is at crossroads, her siblings are against her to the extent her closest and younger sister are using this opportunity to insult her (verbal insults)at every family meeting concerning this issue, while her maternal instinct can't let go of this boy without making sure he is okay. I am not happy? Candid advise please. Thanks.

I don't think it can be corrected. My younger brother is left handed, there was nothing my mum and my Grandmum didn'tdo to make him stop instead he learnt to use both right and left but he's more comfortable using left than right

Just started having this fondness for french music after i visited calabar and listened to one radio station called malabo all the way from equatorial guinea. I'll appreciate if anyone can give me link(s) to download on my mobile phone. Thank you

sheyie2007: M.I passes subliminal rhymes into your brain, sakodie passes jagons..

in his ghanian language dat most africans dn't understand except ghanians... MI rocks nd i still lyk him though

Donlouise: na your own kasala b dat o! Hw many police pikin u don come across 4 lyf as in get 2 noe d person wella.

many of them and they are always very rude

Police barracks is the worse of all barracks.

bamosagie:

You are one hell of a liar, almost sure you have never spent a night in the barrack.
The barrack is a little community where discipline is learnt, a place where character is built, where responsibility is passed down at early age. Like Every other place on earth, it is natural to have the good, the bad and the ugly.
In all, I am proud of the time spent in the barrack.

na big lie there is no discipline in police barracks