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passionate88: na wa o. The guy get sense die, e b like say u neva experience hw sm in laws dey do like leech to anybody wey marry dia sis, sm families no dey even send d married couples o as long as d man take care of dia daughter bt majority go drain d guy finance wit demands and what have u, me just blame d guy for not tellin ha on time, him jst cut share runaway. I remember when person bn talk abt d husband mama, many gals say na d husband dm marry no b d mama, na so many men see am. Them marry one gal for d family no b d whole family.

my family is not like that. For the two yrs of the relationship, i didn't ask him for help for my family and he knows so why should the issue come into play now?

@aluta and camelion, thanks

pasqal88: Well, he tries anyway, even the one he sang with Kelvin rudolph. T'was quite good

ok will try to listen to it

I went to see my boyfriend today. He still told me the same thing. I tried to make him understand that it does not matter but he told me that it will still come up in the future and that he wants to avoid it. Then i asked him if there was some one else and he said no. I tried getting one of his friends to help talk to him but he told me he thinks his mind's made up and that they've been talking about it for some time now. The truth is that i don't even know what i feel right now, don't even know if i should cry or not. Anyways, it is well

pasqal88: Well prom queen by lil wayne sounds like rock tho

i hadly listen to lil wayne may be that's why i feel dat way

my parents are still supporting. It is not lyk i'll be d only one.

alutacontinua: Which means there are 3 more to take care of...dt shouldn't be too much na. But ur mama try sha ooo...6 children

I think you should go and talk to him as you said. Make him to understand that you're ready to take care of ur siblings yourself, although, as an african man, after you guys get married, he's expected and supposed to be of help. But if you're cool with him not helping as you've hinted, tell him!

If I were in your shoes, though, he can as well run away as fast as possible. How won't he be ready to help you. What if your first born happen to be 6 children at once? Or 3 first time, you try a second attempt and 3 pop out again...is he gonna run then?

carmelion: He feels he will shoulder the responsibilty of your younger ones when he marries you.#lame

i don't see any need because the i've been doing on my own, he hasn't lent any helping hand

alutacontinua: What the Heck

Why would he do that? How many siblings do u have?

i have 5 siblings. 3 of us are graduates. Me, i'm working, not the type that pays well, at least it keeps me busy, d 2nd is doin her masters, the 3rd is a barrister and he's in youth service with ministry of justice, owerri.

Is it a crime for a girl to be a first child. My boyfriend of 2yrs broke up with me on tuesday because of this. I still can't believe it and i dn't even know what to do. I've been calling but his phone's been switched off. I plan to go to his house tomorrow to see if we could talk.

realsammie: Baba GOD i'm stil looking unto you for my text. surely, i know that you will never disappoint.

me too o

webb jamie: Since when did Lil Wayne become a rock artist?

lol heelep me ask am o

Tosin o Tosin (bigi belle)[/quote]hahaha tosin wanted to born again biggy belle...tosin don born biggy belle . Can't remember d name b4 tosin don born

Amazingift01: pls who knws ow to sing dis song; who sat nd watch my infant head, wen sleeping on my cradle bed nd.................pls help out.

my mother who sat and watched my infant head when sleeping on my cradle bed and tears of sweet affection shed, my mother

Motor car motor car little riding motor car if i want to go to school please carry me pee pee poor poor. dont know if its little riding motor car o

javadoctor: 13,14 Shoot ur gun,I say shoot ur gun

gboa gboa gboa

crimo4us: 1,2 buckle my shoe
3,4 knock at the door
5,6 pick up sticks
7,8 lay them striaght
9,10 the big fat hen

11,12 run to school and don't be late

the most excellency is Jesus. Heard the correct one on one gospel. The Most Excellent King is Jesus. Some churches in naija still sing the previous one.

all the kids are cute. Seriously, i don't think ufoma's baby was even a week old when the photo was taken but he will sure be a cute baby when he grows...

uch90: This an end result of anger, the guy should ve at least waited until he graduates from school also leaving family matter out of school, u know t[b]his white folks are always looking for a means to rebrand other nationals[/b]. Anyways the deed has been done, the guy should revaluate the information provided earlier and latter,what are his reasons for change of names, am sure they suspected some discrepancies, lastly let him watch his back someone could be somewhere providing a contradicting information to the school.

@the boldedhe didn't travel because he was denied visa so he schooled here in Nigeria

i.:
Fraud is defined as obtaining by false pretenses!
The boy's mother's family are fraudulent even if she claims honest mistake? Who will refund the money spent?
Sometimes Families should seat up! It is for your Dad to call his inlaws to order! Or was it your Uncles that paid his fees and fed him?
The boy should get an uncle from his mother's side to swear to the change of name aπϑ file it with his school!

They have refused to listen to my dad so my he has washed his hands off the matter but he still caters for the boy.

My reason maybe because i don't like enough to date u or am simply not interested instead of leading u on, i dn't believe in that.

nbright: I said it somewhere in this thread that if I do approach a lady and she said no, that's all from me cos nothing will make me even approach her again..

For me my no is no o if u perster me, i become irritated

nbright: @bolded, now am confused.. I remember somewhere on this site I read that girls love playing hard to get to see if the guy is serious in her now here is another female saying an entirely different thing altogether.. Wonders..

No b bad thing bt u 4get say as u dey talk nw anoda bobo dey one corner dey plan e go take chop ur sis i.e if u've got one

passionate88: bt na bad thing me talk?

Na wa to u o, u sure say u get sista

passionate88: if na me, i go chop o, if she dey save haslf 4 marriage me go save my money 4 marriage too. I just no see myslf behavin like that, if my papa get to hear am im go call olokpa to arrest me even if na jst rumour. Gals wicked boys pass 4 relationship bt we no dey too like to talk abt am bt if na dm, dm go shout am to d high heavens if we wan complain dm go say we dey talk like woman. God pass them

tpia@:
so its that easy to just dump someone you raised all his life? Knowing he knows no other family besides yours?


this is just cruel

that is what my mum have been trying to make her siblings understand instead they turned against her. My dad being the good man that he is, still pay fee and the boy is still in my house. My uncles don't seem to like that.

mtn is even worse,my airtime keeps reading when i can't even hear the person at the other end

Pls if u dn't have any meaningful words to say, u can leave the thread. Thank u

baby_123: LMAO!!! Abi, who is ready to run around helping a jobless person who is here for fun. . It is best to identify the fakers first, so you dont waste your time.

baby_123: LMAO! Change of name is done with the government, and then the notice presented to the school. The school will never ask or refuse when the government has approved. OP also said the guy was denied visa for traveling. Then skipped thoughts and said the guy entered school. Then skipped thoughts again that an immigration lawyer out of the blue sent the guy a vacation notice. When did the guy travel abroad if he was refused visa and found not to be her uncles son? Why is the VC involved in each student's lives? When there are so many offices in school who take care of administrative and student level issues. Are head of schools abroad even called VC? Why will an immigration lawyer send a letter and not immigration themselves? OP has a very active imagination, but is highly unexposed and unintelligent. . The way the person skips thoughts, forgets dates, is a bit disturbing. Coupled with the apparent joblessness that is obvious in this post, other issues can be suspected as well. Maybe spiritual

He never travelled, after been refused visa, he continued his education here in Nigeria

according to the VC the guy should graduate first before changing name

ileobatojo: My first thought as well. Doesn't sound real. Why should a VC say no to a legal document? Why even go to the VC directly for such? Do women who marry in school have to visit the VC to change their name too?

baby_123: Story teller. Incomplete and highly atrocious story telling skills. This person didnt do a lot of research and no thought in compiling the story. OP cant even arrange his thoughts well enough to deliver a compelling story.

well you can say what you want until it happens to you.

ileobatojo: Where did the lawyer come from? Who went and retained one and what is his business with all the old documents? Sounds more like a hater pretending to be a lawyer, bottom line is they are just trying to scare and intimidate the young man. No reason why all his old documents should suddenly become invalid. Whose payroll is the VC on? Hopefully he can find a pro bono lawyer to take on his case and fight the VC

the lawyers were contacted by my uncles

he is not so close to the mother because the "father" has always warned him not to go the maternal home but once in a while he goes to visit without the father knowing. the mum is still maintaining that my uncle is the father

chaircover: Please where is this boys mother in all of this. What is she doing while her sons life is coming crashing down all due to her fault.

I dont get it though . .why is the boy changing his name to a different name from his mothers family? Has the mother suddenly found out who the real father is? and if so why arent the boys real biological family taking care of all this?
He was adviced by the eldest man in his maternal home not to because any one who bears that name does not progress, it well known and anyone who does dies.
BTW was that paternity test checked again just in case?

no the "father" is based in the UK