Text: Rom 8:14; Heb 1:1-2; John 16:13-14

The Spirit of God is the Holy Spirit.
Leading has to do with movement or direction.

In the old testament, Prophets are God’s ordain people that gives the children of God divine direction (Heb. 1:1).

In the New testament, God’s pattern for divine direction is through the Holy Spirit.

Jesus has transferred the Divine Direction Mandate to the Holy Spirit (John 16: 13)
Jesus speaks to us by the Holy Spirit.

Today, we as Believers must depend on the Holy Spirit for God’s leading, and not some Prophets.

The Holy Spirit now lives in us in order to direct us in the plans and purposes of God.

Biblical Ways to be Led by the Spirit of God

1. Inner Witness

2. Still Small Voice (inner voice)
3. Your Feelings
4. Revelation (dreams and visions)

The Holy Spirit gives us inner witness or signal of conviction through love, peace and faith for positive actions and decisions.

The inner voice is the still small voice which may sound like our own voice inside of our spirit or conscience.

The Holy Spirit lead us through our body feelings. When we present our bodies as living sacrifice, it becomes as instrument of great use in the hand of God.

Characters to Develop to If You Must be Led by the Spirit of God

Humility
Obedience
Faith
Meekness
Submission
Willingness
Joy
Peace

How to Train Your Spirit to Follow Holy Spirit’s Leading

Our human spirit must be prepared and always be sensitive to follow the promptings of the Holy Spirit.

To Train your spirit, you must:

Meditate on the Word of God always.
Practice the Word of God always.
Learn to fast and pray regularly.
Study Anointed Books.
Pray in the Holy Ghost (in tongues) always.

With these, you can position our human spirit to always receive divine signals of the Spirit of God.

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Rufus Yamoah
Prophetic Mentor

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Vain is the tradition (culture) of men…
- Jeremiah 10:3


What is culture?
It is simply, ‘the ideas, customs, and social behaviour of a particular people or society.

What is sexual purity culture?
It means the ideas, lifestyle, attitude or behavior of people in a particular community or nation as regards to sexual morality.


The concept of purity

Purity is a lifestyle.
It is a culture of a kingdom of God.

Sexual purity is not just some kind of religious doctrine; it is truly a lifestyle and behaviour that will transform the social, mental and physical well being of a common people or nation.

Understanding Sexual Purity Culture (SPC)

Jesus taught to his disciples to pray, “Thy Kingdom Come” (Matt. 6:10)
One of the most powerful principles of establishing a kingdom is to teach people culture.
Culture is a product of a kingdom.
Sexual purity culture is a product of God’s kingdom.
Sexual purity culture is a product of heaven where God dwells.
(Read Numbers 31:19-20, Romans 1)


Some Attributes of culture

Festivals
Dressing
Language
Food
Laws
Belief

Types of Sexual immoral culture in our Society

Nudity Co- habitation Same Sex marriage
Divorce Pornography Prostitution
Indecent dressing Polygamy

Examples of Festivals:
Gay pride day, Topless day, No Bra day, Virginity Test day, unclothedness Walk day.

The power and purpose of culture

Culture reflects our behavior and personality.
Culture is transferable

The world is a battle of two kingdoms of cultures.
The Kingdom of Light vs. the Kingdom of Darkness.

The marine kingdom= it is a network of evil spirits that dwells in water, river or sea. Their chief operation is to bring sexual immorality culture into our society in order to pollute, pervert and thwart God’s plans and purpose for mankind.

How to bring purity into the place of immorality

Light shines in darkness and darkness cannot withstand it.
Be not conformed to this world….. (Rom. 12:2)

As Ambassadors of the Kingdom of Light, it is our divine responsibility to manifest purity culture in wherever we are and whatever way we can.
Sexual purity is a must for the liberty and transformation of our society to be possible.


Principles of bringing sexual purity culture
1. Pray to possess the spiritual climate.
2. Teach to impart minds and hearts of men
3. Enforce through positive laws and policies.

As we all pursue society transformation and development, one of the great transformations that we must face is CULTURAL TRANSFORMATION.
Sexual Purity is one the most powerful tools to achieve cultural transformation.

Let us all embrace and campaign for sexual purity.

Note: for help/prayer/counseling on area of sexual morality, you can contact me on email: rufusyamoah@yahoo..com

Rufus Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

ifenes:
God told you?

God is real. God speaks to His children everyday.
God can also speak to you if you let Him.

So what is your question?

GrandFinale2017:
People still engage on premarital sex and even commit sexual immorality with many partners and often become successful and still live long.

Nothwitstanding I'm not in support of fornication. My Bible kicks against it.

The punishment for it is strictly Eternal Punishment in Hell and not those threatening points you stated up there just to scare people to your ministry

I am not after people coming to my ministry.
Sexual immorality is not something that carries eternal consequences only; it carries earthly consequences also. ( e.g. Samson).
What you called the world called success is really failure before GOD. Success is fulfilling your purpose in Life, it is not merely acquiring possessions. Nobody living in sexual immorality can fulfill his/her destiny. They must receive Jesus and become a new creature and turn away from such lifestyle.

“There is a way that seems right to a man, but its end is the way of death” (Proverbs 14:12)

When a person involves in sexual intercourse, there is a transaction that takes place immediately. God told me this is called 'Satanic transaction in sexuality'
There is a deposit and withdrawal that takes place when we involve in sexual immorality.

Here are some consequences of sexual immorality:

1. You will become soul tie with the person. I mean your spirit and soul become joined to that person's spirit. This is what is called sexual cord bondage.
2. You will receive from the person you have sex with his/her spiritual loads, curses, habits, behavior, demonic spirit, blood and even life.
3. You will give the devil your grace and honor when you commit immorality and be left to struggle in shame and disgrace.
4. It can lead to physical death and sickness
5. It can make a person's destiny to be aborted or destroy
6. It brings curse to a family and even generation.
7. It causes spiritual and emotional drainage and loss of anointing and vision of God for one's life.
8. It brings financial hardship and set back to a person's life
9. It causes spiritual unclothedness—losing God the presence and glory of God
10. It leads to financial setback and poverty.
10. It leads to demonic oppression and even possession.
11. Creates emotional and mental chaos (guilt, rejection, depression, low self-esteem, embarrassment, anger, bitterness, emptiness, anxiety etc)
12. It can lead to family crisis and separation.
13. It produces a false definition of love in relationship.
14. It reduces or destroys a person’s dignity, respect and reputation.
15. It produces children out of wedlock.
16. It produces unwanted pregnancy.
17. It causes lack of child support.
18. It leads to school dropout.
19. It leads to Abortion practice (committing murder).
20. It leads to producing children of different fathers.
21. It will render your prayer life useless and powerless.
22. It will hinder you from serving the Lord effectively.
23. It invites spirit of wasting and scattering which make a person’s life useless.

Listen: Whatever you have suffered or whatever you struggle is with sexual immorality, we have a God of a second chance.
God through the power of the Blood of Jesus can wash, cleans you and break the effect of sin and sexual immorality from your life.

This is time for a new beginning.
It time to forget your past and embrace the promise of God.

As long as there is Jesus Christ, there is a way out. There is restoration, healing and total victory for you!!!

NOTE: For help/prayer and free materials to help you free from sexual struggle, email me on rufusyamoah@yahoo.com

Rufus Elijah Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

“Always be clothe with White…” Ecclesiastes 9:8a


We all understand what the color White represents. It is a symbol of purity, holiness and sacredness.
White is a special and unique among of all colors. It is the color of divinity—God’s nature.
This is the very reason why God said we should be always—not sometimes or when we feel like—be clothe in white. (Read Genesis 1:27)

Listen: The above focus scriptural verse is an advice…it is a divine command which we must obey at all cost!

What does it mean to be clothe in White?

It simply means, to always (at all time) do your best to abstain (avoid, flee) from every appearance or act of sin, filthiness, defilement, perversion, immorality or evil that could bring corruption to your life in God.
So what about sexual purity?
Sexual purity is simply a state where the human spirit, soul (mind and emotion) and body is free all sexual defilement, sin, evil or immorality.

But wait…

Is it possible for a youth or teen to attain a sexually pure life in this sex- crazy society we find ourselves?”

I know you may have a thousand reasons why it seems impossible! Yes, I quite understand how you feel, because we all know that as youths we are in period of life where our sexual hormones are most hungry to be fed and our sexual muscles are most seeking to exercise its abilities.

Despite all these…

WITH ALL BOLDNESS, I CAN TELL YOU THAT, SEXUAL PURITY IS VERY POSSIBLE!

Take a look at Revelation 3:14 which say, “Yet you a FEW PEOPLE in Sardis who have not soiled their clothes. They will walk with Me, dressed in White, for they are WORTHY”.

In the crowd of sexual immorals, in the society that is crippled by sexual infestation and in the church of sexual hypocrites…there are FEW PEOPLE who attain sexual purity!

These few people have made up their mind to walk with God like Enoch, Noah and Daniel and never to compromise their stand no matter their corruption of their generation.

**Don’t say every one is doing it. Nobody will file a lawsuit against you if you don’t! You don’t have to say yes to the crowd. Be part of the worthy few that say NO to sexual sin**

Sexual immorality will only soil (defile) your cloth (glory, life) and destroy your walk with God. It will only invite dishonor, disapproval, failure and shame into your life.

Can God count you to be worthy?

Do you want to live a life full of favor, honor, blessings and abundance…

…the secret is in attainment of sexual purity.

NOTE: For free counseling and prayer or free materials on how to experience sexual purity and freedom, email me on rufusyamoah@yahoo.com. God bless you

Rufus Yamoah
Sex Morality Counselor

If you struggle with immorality just contact me rufusyamoah@yahoo.com, I will send you free powerful materials that will help you out.

“And it shall come to pass in the last days, that the mountain of the LORD'S house shall be established in the top of the mountains, and shall be exalted above the hills; and all nations shall flow unto it”.
--Isaiah 2:2


This is the time of Sexual Confrontation.

Believe me; we will no longer be intimidated by this monster called ‘sexual immorality.
We will no longer give our bodies to this task master.
We are tired of living in this house of bondage.
We shall arise…
Yes…we are arising, we are approaching and we are confronting!

What is Sexual Confrontation?

Sexual Confrontation is all about facing your sexual mountain and conquering it!!!

What is Sexual Mountain?

Sexual Mountain is the controlling power or influence that causes a person/people to be in the bondage of sexual immorality.

It is Time for spirit of ‘Moses’ and ‘Caleb’ to Arise

Moses knew that for him to bring deliverance to his people, he had to confront Pharaoh.

Sexual Immorality has been the ‘pharaoh’ and ‘task master’ that has kept people bound for years and destroyed millions of destinies.

But I say to you…

Arise and go…like Moses

You have the authority…the spirit of Moses…the Spirit of God…has come to help you.

It doesn’t matter the sexual struggle or mountain…It is time to confront and conquer.

Caleb does not see any difficulty or mountain anywhere.
Caleb does not get discourage or accept defeat.
Caleb is not afraid of any monster or giants…he sees his enemies as grasshoppers!

"Truly I tell you, if anyone says to this mountain, 'Go, throw yourself into the sea,' and does not doubt in their heart but believes that what they say will happen, it will be done for them”. (Mark 11:23)

Arise and speak to your mountain to give way.
That is the spirit of Caleb!

Here is the truth:
Without confrontation, there is no deliverance.
Without conquering, there is no inheritance.

Hear the Word of the Lord…

· “The mountain of purity shall arise and sit above the mountains of sexual immorality”
· “The rod of purity shall be given to people to destroy the serpents of sexual immorality”.

The Seven Mountains of Influence

There are Seven Mountains of Influence that is impacting and controlling our world today.
Sexual immorality has become a very powerful weapon satan is using to hold and subdue the mountains of influence for evil and wickedness.

Here they are:

1. Mountain of Family: (e.g. Incest has become a tool the devil has using to corrupt, pollute and destroy families and generations.

2. Mountain of Education: (e.g. Sexual deception is tool whereby students are taught lies about sex and this has led many into pre-marital sex, unwanted pregnancy, STDs and so on. Negative Sex Education is a stronghold the devil is using to control this mountain.

3. Mountain of Media: (e.g. Pornography and Sexual Abuse has grown in the media and it has become a tool and a gateway to capture and enslave many lives.

4. Mountain of Entertainment/Art/Culture: (e.g. Sexual Festivals, Sexual Music, Dance and Movies that promote sexual activities and relationship. This Mountain has really perverted by satan.

5. Mountain of Government/Politics: (e.g. Legalizing sexual perversion like gay relationship, abortion. Also, not having a strong fight/action against abuse. The Government has become satan’s tool to structure and strengthen the mountain of sexual immorality.

6. Mountain of Religion: (e.g. Indecent dressing is a form of immorality and the devil is using to creep into religion (like the church) to make sure he controls this mountain. This is where we need to arise and protect our inheritance. Also, there is another practice called ‘Nudity Worship’ where believers come to church and worship God in absolute unclothedness!!!

7. Mountain of Economy/Business: (e.g. Pornograhy, intimacy gadgets, sex adverts and prostitution are powerful business and economic powerhouse the devil is using to influence this mountain.

You can now find out that sexual immorality is a powerful tool that is influencing the operation of the seven mountains of the world.

The Mountain of Purity

We believe as we confront with authority of God’s Word, we shall conquer by faith.
When shall establish the mountain of purity, then we will see a Sexual Morality World dream come true.


Join…hands…let’s build a sexual immoral free generation.

NOTE: For free counseling/prayer and materials to help you walk in sexual freedom and purity, reach me rufusyamoah@yahoo.com

Rufus Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor/Purity Coach

“But I say unto you, that whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart”. – Matthew 5:28

The Simple Old Definitions

Sexual Intercourse is a sexual activity in which a man insert is manhood (sexual organ) into a woman’s vagina.

Adultery is a sexual intercourse committed by a married person with someone he/she is not married to.

Fornication is a sexual intercourse committed by two unmarried persons.

The Concept of Sexual Immorality

The aim of this article is to redefine sexual immorality according to the perspective laid by Jesus Christ.
In Matthew 5:27-28 ( please read it) where Jesus was having an Open Air teaching seminar, He finally unfold the true concept of sexual immorality…which humans have not been able to understand or comprehend since creation.

Many people hold an archaic and shallow view and belief that sexual immorality consist only in adultery and fornication. They say only these two can be seen as sinful and illegal. They say that apart from adultery and fornication, humans can express their sexual appetite any way they feel like and it is not bad. What a painful philosophy!

People who believe that adultery and fornication is what sexual immorality is all about know nothing about sexuality! We all need to do a rethink!

In the above scripture, Jesus is saying, “My people, sex is more than just an intercourse! “
Sexual immorality or sin is more than adultery and fornication!
Jesus is also saying , “My children, there are many ways you fall into sexual immorality apart from sexual intercourse”.
It is time to change your mindset about sexual immorality. Sexual sin is more than making love with somebody.

I want to show you some others ways we fall into sexual immorality apart from adultery and fornication. Remember, through knowledge and guidance you can win any battle (Proverbs 24:6).

1. Masturbation: Masturbation is having sexual satisfaction with oneself by playing or rubbing your sexual organ(s). There are male masturbation, female masturbation and even group masturbation. Beware , for this is sexual immorality.

2. Pornography: Pornography is which also known as ‘porn’ is having a sexual satisfaction through watching pictures of naked people and videos of people having sex. This is an abomination to God and your eyes. Whether, you do it with your G.SM phone, internet, VCD, magazines or any channel…please stop this destructive act!

3. Internet/phone intimacy: This takes place when two or more persons is having sexual satisfaction by snapping and sending their unclothedness to one another. Sometimes they use a computer device called ‘webcam’ in other to view each other unclothedness live. They write messages with sexual contents and text it to each other. Please stop this corruption if you do it.

4. MouthAction: This is having sexual pleasure or satisfaction by putting your tongue or mouth in the sexual organ(s) of another person. God hate this act so much. It is devilish love expression. Please don’t engage in this.

5. Anal Sex: This when a man get sexual satisfaction by inserting is manhood into the anus of another person, whether male or female. This is witchcraft love. Beware!!!

6. Homosexuality: This is having sexual satisfaction by engaging in love making with a person of the same sex (gender) with you. A gay is a male having sex with another male. A lesbian is a female having sex with another female. This is Satan's idea of mocking God. Beware of this, it will destroy your life.

7. Spiritual Sex: There are some people who get sexual satisfaction only in the spirit world. Some engage in spiritual sex through their dreams ( having spiritual wife or husband); Astral sexual projection and travel; Some through imagination and visualization. This is demonic. Flee from this, it will only bring course into your life.

There are many, but these are some ways people engaged in sexual immorality.
Now you can see than…sex is more than just Intercourse.

You can achieve it…

Note: For free materials for sexual purity and freedom and also counseling and prayer, you can email rufusyamoah@yahoo.com

Rufus Yamoah
Sex Morality Counselor

“Reuben, you are my firstborn, my might and the beginning of my strength,
The excellency of dignity and the excellency of power. Unstable as water, you shall not excel,
Because you went up to your father’s bed; then you defiled it; He went up to my couch”.
--Genesis 49:3-4

The Power of the Family

The family is the oldest and most powerful institute in the world.
The state of the family determines the outcome of every society, nation and church.

The devil knows the power of the family in world transformation and destruction that was why His first attack on mankind was channeled towards the first family on this earth (Adam and Eve).

The fall of the first family…lead to a fallen world we live in today.

Sexuality in the Family


Sex is a gift from God to the union of man and wife (marriage).
The Devil biggest weapon of mass destruction in these last days is SEX.
Sexual immorality is one of the biggest issues challenging a lot of families in our world today.

*** 90 % OF EVERY SEXUAL PROBLEM WE DEAL WITH ALL STARTED FROM THE HOME…***

Many families are struggling to handle sexual promiscuity in the home because of lack of knowledge.
Of a truth, “My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge”.(Hosea 4:6)

It is painful to note that there are many Family Life Seminars, courses, training and education going on in the world, yet many families are still living in defeat, shame and disgrace because of failure to handle this monster called ‘sexual immorality’.

I want to address three major sexual issues that has lead to sexual struggle in the family

1. Lack of sexual morality education.

Proverbs 22:6, “Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it”.

A lot parents still do not understand the role they hold in the sexual life of their children.
I tell you the truth: Parents holds up to 80% in the outcome of the sexual health/life of their children.

Parents played an integral part in the sexual make up, response and health of their children.
Parents have failed in teaching their kids sexuality education. Our children today now rely on social media (e.g. facebook), television and peers for solution.

Listen parents: Do not depend entirely on the church, the government or the counselors to train your kids for you. God has given you greater responsibility and you are the most important person in the outcome of their sexual life of your Children.

Parents need to seek sexual morality education and then become the best counselor and trainer to their children. This is the best strategy to achieve a sexually moral society and church.


2. Lack of understanding of sexual doorways.

This has really caused serious problem in the homes. We are now having many sexual casualties in the home.

Here are some Common Sexual Doorways that has led to sexual immorality in the Home

1. Watching of pornographic with siblings
2. Having pornographic book/magazine in the home
3. Dressing or undressing in front of your sibling (the opposite sex)
4. Lying/sleeping on the same bed for brothers and sister
5. Siblings kissing each other
6. Parents bathing with grown up Children (the opposite sex)
7. Parent sleeping on the same bed with grown up children (the opposite sex)
8. Parents having sex in the midst their kids
9. Bathing together of siblings (two opposite sex)
10. Indecent dressing of siblings in the home (nudity/or careless exposing of sexual genitals)
11. Playing too much together of siblings (two opposite sex)
12. Spying your sibling when taking his/her bath

(Note: For More on Sexual Doorways, you can get and read my Book ‘Understanding Sexual Doorways’

3. Facing Sexual Generational Course

A generational curse is a bondage or yoke transferred by the parents to the children by birth.
This can lead to the children living a life of failure, defeat, hardship, poverty, sickness, demonic oppression and habitual sin.

A lot of families are operating under a family/generational curse as a result of sexual immoral practices engaged by the Parents.

Here are some Sexual issues that bring curse to the family:

1. Babies out of wedlock
2. Prostitution by parents
3. Adultery
4. Abortion by parents
5. Marine spirit transfer
6. Rape/Child abuse
7. Having Sex with mad person/witch doctor
8. Incest
9. Homosexuality
10. Bestiality
11. Polygamous background (man marrying and having children from different women)

Some of the Effects of Sexual Curse in the Family

• Unwanted pregnancy
• Sexually transmitted diseases (i.e. HIV)
• Separation from God
• Failure, defeat and Disgrace
• Poverty and Hardship
• Divorce by parents
• Brother and Sister having sex secretly in the home.
• Children prostituting
• Children raped/molested
• Children giving birth to babies in the homes of their parents.
• Aborted destinies
• Mental problem/drug abuse.
• Crisis and Disunity.

If you are a child and your parents have engaged in such lifestyles before you were born, you need to break that curse from having effect in your life.
If you are a parent, you need to pray for yourself and then break the curse from having effect in your children.

How to break the curse

“Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us, for it is written: “Cursed is everyone who is hung on a pole.” He redeemed us in order that the blessing given to Abraham might come to the Gentiles through Christ Jesus, so that by faith we might receive the promise of the Spirit”. (Galatians 3:13-14)

1. Repent (ask for forgiveness) and receive Jesus Christ into your life and your Lord and Savior. (Being born again brings you to a new family and generation.
2. Use the blood of Jesus to break every curse and covenant that has taken place as a result.
3. Use the blood of Jesus to clean every deposit that has been transferred to you.
4. Command every spirit operating in your life to come out.
5. Develop a strong relationship with God
6. Be prayerful.

[b]Some Recommendation for sexual transformation in the Family

1. Start your own family Sexual purity devotional
2. Get a copy of the Book ‘Understanding Sexual Doorways’ for every member of the family and other purify resources.
3. Hold Family Day of Purification prayers every week.
4. Clean off the house monthly from pollution and sexual immoral materials. (This is what I called Home Sanctification)
5. Train your kids on Sexual morality.

Let us play our role in bringing sexual purity into our families…then we can make our society a sexually moral world.

Note: for free sexual purity materials, prayer and counseling, please send me email to rufusyamoah@yahoo.com

Rufus Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

Stanbeto:
Thank you Pastor:-P

Yampotatocarrot:
Don't think those methods ever work.... Atleast not for me

Yampotatocarrot:
Don't think those methods ever work.... Atleast not for me

What is are you struggling with in the area of sex. You can email me, many have given testimonies. God is the only that can help anyone. You can email me on rufusyamoah@yahoo.com

Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman.
--1 Corinthians 7:1

What is Romance?

According to Wikipedia, it is the pleasure of feeling of excitement and mystery of love.
Romance usually implies an expression one’s love or one’s deep emotional desires to connect with another person, most particularly, the opposite sex.

Romance can also be seen as a form of Sexual Play. It is in this context we will address this subject.

The Truth and Power of Romance

Romance or sexual play is a very powerful activity can greatly impact a relationship
Romance is like an oil in an engine, and like a fuel to fire.
Romance is a sweet provision for the satisfaction of the flesh.
Romance is special as sexual intercourse is special.

God is not Against Romance

“When Isaac had been there a long time, Abimelek king of the Philistines looked down from a window and saw Isaac caressing his wife Rebekah” (Genesis 26:

***The Scriptures wrote about Isaac having romantic activity with HIS WIFE. They were MARRIED!!!***

The Act of Romance

Here are some activities people engage in Romance or Sexual Play

1. Kissing
2. Rubbing/touch of sexual/sensitive organs of the other person (e.g. breast, penis, vagina, buttocks)
3. Deep hugging
4. Massaging

Why Young people/Singles Engage in Romance

1. As a means of consolation to avoid sexual intercourse.
2. As a means to avoid pregnancy and Sexually transmitted disease.
3. As a means to attain sexual satisfaction.
4. As a means to please their partner.

What You Need to Know

1. Romance may be sexual abstinence, but it is not sexual purity.
2. Romance as a single is still sexual immorality before God and a sin. (Hard right?—but true)
3. Romance may be a means to avoid STD; but not a means to avoid sin.
4. Romance is a sexual doorway that will always lead to sexual intercourse.
5. Romance is highly influenced by the spirit of lust.
6. Romance is making provision and feeding the flesh and not your spirit.
7. Romance does not bring sexual satisfaction, it will leave wanting for more.

Doorways/Causes of Romance

1. Too much closeness with the opposite sex.
2. Holding and Dancing together
3. Sitting on the laps of an opposite sex
4. Watching pornographic together
5. Falling in lust and infatuation thinking it is Love.
6. Listening to romantic/songs music/ watching love movies/soap operas together.
7. Having sexual dreams while sleeping.
8. Reading romantic novels/magazines.

Overcoming the trap of Romance

1. Change the way you think. A lot of people are too casual when it comes to sexual play. They see it as nothing wrong with it. They believe that as long as we don’t engage in sexual intercourse, everything else can take place. BIG LIE!
2. Humble Yourself and FLEE. A lot people are claim they are strong and that they can manage the game of romance. But this people who claim to be strong are only bread in the hand of the devil. You are not better, stronger or wiser than Joseph who ran away from Potipher’s wife!
3. Soak yourself in the Word of God. This will help you deal with lust in your mind.
4. Spend more time fellowship with God through prayer, fasting and worship.
5. Close every doorway that will only fuel your sexual feelings.

My Advice:

As a single/young person, engaging in sexual play or romance will only give the devil opportunity to attack you with lust towards sexual immorality.

The Word of God adminises us to ‘FLEE FROM YOUTHFUL LUST…” (2 Timothy 2:22

Live the sexual morality life…

Note: For prayer/free counseling and materials that will help you live above sexual struggle, email rufusyamoah@yahoo.com

Rufus Elijah Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

15 When Judah saw her, he thought her to be an harlot; because she had covered her face.
16 And he turned unto her by the way, and said, Go to, I pray thee, let me come in unto thee; (for he knew not that she was his daughter in law.) And she said, What wilt thou give me, that thou mayest come in unto me?
17 And he said, I will send thee a kid from the flock. And she said, Wilt thou give me a pledge, till thou send it?
18 And he said, What pledge shall I give thee? And she said, Thy signet, and thy bracelets, and thy staff that is in thine hand. And he gave it her, and came in unto her, and she conceived by him.

(Genesis 38: 15 -18)


Your ability to negotiate wisely will determine your success in any business.
If you think I am lying, go ask Donald Trump!
Negotiation skills are one of the most fundamental skills every aspiring entrepreneur must have if he/she wants to succeed in business.

In our world today, Sex has become more valuable as a business commodity than for any other purpose—whether for recreation, reproduction or pleasure.

Sex is a merchandize. Sex is a commercial and business product.
Today, Sex Entrepreneurs are perhaps the richest dudes you can find in the society.
Expert Advertisers and Marketers in their concluding research claimed: “Anything that has a content of sex will definitely sell in our society!”

The merchandize of sex is one of the most corruptible and destructive practices in human history.
Sex business is highly detestable and an abomination in the sight of God!
Prostitution is highly demonic! Selling sex materials and products that encourages sexual immorality (e.g. like condoms, pornography) is absolutely wickedness!

Sex was a priceless treasure given to the first couples (Adam and Eve) by God in the beginning of creation.

The bible says in Proverbs 6:26, “for the price of a prostitute is only a loaf of bread…”

Satan has turn sex into becoming the cheapest product in the world. In fact, you can get it for free if you want it now. Easy and free! But don’t ask me how because I won’t show you!

The Worst Business Deal Ever

Let me ask you a funny question: “What would make you pay a million dollar for a dirty pant?”
Maybe you would pay out of madness!

Sexual immorality is the worst business you can ever engage in.
Know this today: When you involve yourself in sexual immorality, you are merchandizing with the devil himself!
The truth is that when ever you negotiate with the devil, you will always come out as a failure and a fool!

I want to show you three products you sell to the devil when ever you engage yourself in sexual immorality of any kind.

Now, when you look at our above scripture, you will find out that Judah was negotiating a sex business deal with Tamar, a lady he thought to be a prostitute.
In verse 18 of Genesis 38 Judah said, what pledge shall I give thee? And she said, Thy signet, and thy bracelets, and thy staff that is in thine hand. And he gave it her, and came in unto her…

Like Judah, many of us do not recognize the value of what we possess and that is why we are ready and quick to give it away through sexual immorality.

Product 1: “Thy Signet”: The Signet represents our identity. The first property the devil want to steal from us is ‘who we are’ and what represent in God and Christ Jesus. We sell our signet when we engage in sexual immorality and we become abandoned by God.

Product 2: “Thy Bracelet”: The Bracelet represents our grace and glory. We were created with a special grace and glory so that we can excel and prosper in life. When we sell our bracelet through sexual immorality we will become unstable, wasteful and a failure in life.

Product 3: “Thy Staff”: The Staff represents your authority. When God created you He gave you a staff so that you can rule, lead and have dominion and victory in life. The devil wants to take way your authority and reduce you to a loaf of bread!
Don’t you think Judah gave too much for just a few minutes pleasure?
This is the worst business deal ever recorded in the bible.

Beware of the spirit of Tamar…

Through sexual immorality, the devil takes the three most significant properties given to you by God—your identity, your glory, your authority!

Follow not the way of Judah in the merchandize of sex.

Live the Sexual Morality Life

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Rufus Yamoah
Sex Morality Counselor

Sex, Sex and More Sex.
Give me your attention!!!


I want to show you that our modern humanity is locked in a bloody battle against mighty unseen forces of the luciferian world, whose greatest weapon of persuasion is the sex opium.

Many pastors, bishops, apostles and generals of the gospel may avoid this acclaimed 'dirty topic', and they have a good reason to do so, because talking about sex slavery has been deemed childish, a topic left for errant teens and delinquent juveniles. Yet sex slavery is Satan's most lethal weapon against this civilized world.

Here's A dream I had:

On the 13th of August, 2016, early morning hours, I awoke from a stream of dream, in which the Lord gave me a shocking revelation of Satan's sexual agenda for the young people of this generation. In the revelation, a group of people opened a fast growing business near our place of worship, this business was so lucrative everyone got attracted to it, so I went close to see, friends, what I saw was so shocking I couldn't hold my breath, I saw young people, all boys, flocking around this new business, each paid a certain amount to the business owner, and came outside with a substance they wore around the penile area, then they began having sex in turns, with a she goat tied to a stake in front of the premises, they had sex from the anus of the she goat. This sight was so appalling, I couldn't hold my breath any more, and when I recognized one of my members’ son among the lot, I lifted my voice and ordered the people to close this evil business. The business owner made clear to me that the boys were there on their own volition and that each paid a token fee of one naira for a turn of sex with the she goat. In the altercation that ensued, my threat to involve the law enforcement agency was very weak, there after I awoke.

Friends, there is something sinister about the sex revolution of this present civilization.

Here are some insights gained from this powerful revelation:

1. Sex business is the fastest growing business of this generation.
2. Sex is the cheapest commodity in the world today.
3. Girls who get caught up in the satanic web called prostitution have become slaves of sex, by which men's destinies are brought to mediocrity.
4. Overwhelming majority of the boys and men of this generation have become subjects of Satan’s slave market.
5. The government of the day has no answer whatsoever to this satanic invasion.
6. The organized church is strangely and dangerously silent over the massive enslavement of the young people by Satan's business merchants.
7. The sex industry is juxtaposed against the church, a potent end time weapon to pollute and defile God's people, there by bringing God's work to mediocrity.
8. Sex is Satan's gift to civilized end time humanity.

Dear friend, unless you choose to play the ostrich, you don't need any revelation to see these things.

Recently, a self confessed private prostitute, whom the Lord saved under my watch, asked a question that got me startled. In the course of prayers and deliverance, she asked, "If I get saved now what is going to happen to all the men I have destroyed?" This young lady, a very beautiful girl, told me she has an invisible male partner who sometimes appear physically to have sex at will with her, she makes love to this tall handsome guy in the dream all the time. She went on to say that this same man, sometimes come to her in the form of females and also makes lesbian love to her in the dream, consequently, she began to have a physical attraction to same sex.
Continuing her exposure, she said any man who eventually has his way with her immediately comes under the wrath of this domineering spiritual influence. She said once, a male sex customer was almost choked to death immediately after sex. This lady knows that any man who sleeps with her is already finished. The only problem is, she has lost the will power to determine the direction of her destiny. She was a sex slave, a marine evangelist, a trap for erring men, a she goat and a destroyer of destinies.
Dear friend the battle of this end time is more deadly than what the organized church will have you see, Satan has released an army of water spirits, against unsuspecting civilized people and Satan's final gift to a depraved world is sex, sex and more sex.

Recently, I and my friend Rufus Yamoah ministered deliverance and counseling to normal church girl, whom we later discovered to be a marine evangelist, a she goat who sleeps with up to sixteen men in a day! Once this spirits arrest any soul, that person is enslaved and plunged into sexual delusion.

Make no mistake about it, sexual impurity, slavery, bondage, vice, perversion, immorality, pollution and preponderance is the final agenda of Satan's evil kingdom.

Can you imagine the level of damage Satan has done to the cause of righteousness through the proliferation and preponderance of pornographic materials? Can you imagine the number of gospel ministers secretly struggling with this huge monster, if I have not been there, I wouldn't be talking to you. You cannot accurately estimate Satan's gains against righteousness through the advent of indecent and sexy fashion, what about demonic legislations from government's which pave the way for Satan to unleash the sexual agenda on modern people.
In the light of all these, the church cannot continue in silence.

As almost all the streets today are littered with sex business centers, the church must take the front seat in the battle for a sexually moral and upright generation. The government has no say in this area, only the church can arrest the situation. I therefore call upon our great denominations to synergize and forge a common front.
Sex education and deliverance ministry must return to the churches.

Let us stop the stigmatization of people with sex related problems and pray God for grace to minister to this prisoner of war.
Let us fight and not relent, till a generation is raised who will stand for purity, godliness, holiness and moral uprightness in this corrupt and adulterous generation.

Proverbs 7King James Version (KJV)

1` My son, keep my words, and lay up my commandments with thee.
2 Keep my commandments, and live; and my law as the apple of thine eye.
3 Bind them upon thy fingers, write them upon the table of thine heart.
4 Say unto wisdom, Thou art my sister; and call understanding thy kinswoman:
5 That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words.
6 For at the window of my house I looked through my casement,
7 And beheld among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding,
8 Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house,
9 In the twilight, in the evening, in the black and dark night:
10 And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart.
11 (She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house:
12 Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner.)
13 So she caught him, and kissed him, and with an impudent face said unto him,
14 I have peace offerings with me; this day have I payed my vows.
15 Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.
16 I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt.
17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
18 Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.
19 For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey:
20 He hath taken a bag of money with him, and will come home at the day appointed.
21 With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him.
22 He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks;
23 Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.
24 Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth.
25 Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths.
26 For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her.
27 Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.


More grace.
By Pastor Newman Chibuihe (edited by Rufus Yamoah)

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“Wherefore God also gave them up to uncleanness through the lusts of their own hearts, to dishonour their own bodies between themselves:
25 Who changed the truth of God into a lie, and worshipped and served the creature more than the Creator, who is blessed for ever. Amen.
26 For this cause God gave them up unto vile affections: for even their women did change the natural use into that which is against nature” (Romans 1:24-27)
“Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men (and women) who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God” (1 Corinthians 6:9-10)


What is Lesbianism?

Lesbianism is sexual activity or attraction between women. Female homosexuals are often called lesbians (after the Greek island of Lesbos, home of Sappho, the poetess of Lesbos). Women who are attracted to both women and men are called bisexuals. (Wikipedia)

The Truth about Lesbianism
·
It is a spirit
· It is transferable and
· It is not a sexual orientation or identity; it is sexual bondage!
· It is unnatural
· It is perversion and error
· It is abomination against God
· It is not psychological; it is demonic!
· It is not an experiment or discovery; it is sin!
· It is not world civilization; it was invented in the marine kingdom of Satan
· A lesbian is not virgin!
· It is manifestation of foolishness and shame.
· It is from a reprobate (depraved, unprincipled and wicked) mind.

Some Doorways to Lesbianism

1. Kissing
2. Romance (touching sensitive parts of the body)
3. MouthAction
4. Substance abuse
5. Sleeping on the same bed
4. Bathing together
5. Exchanging under wears
6. Much heart breaks from men
7. Having sex with females in the dream
8. Watching pornography with female(s)
9. Seduction by fellow female
10. Possession with marine spirit
11. Dancing closing with females
12. Ignorance
13. Sexual abuse/rape from male(s)
14. Living in a room of lesbians
15. Close friendship with lesbian(s)
16. Hugging for too long.
17. Depression
18. Sending/receiving love/romantic text messages from female(s)
19. Playing sports together.
20. Low self esteem
21. Personality disorder/gender crisis


Sexual Activities Common

1. Prostitution
2. MouthAction
3. Fingering/fisting sex
4. Group Masturbation
5. Pornography
6. Toy Sex
7. Vagina/Vaginal intercourse

Why Some Get into Lesbianism

1. Peer pressure
2. Financial enticement
3. Fear of pregnancy.
4. Fear of venereal disease. (Big Lie)
5. Preserving virginity. (Big lie)
6. It is cool and interesting
7. Fear of heartbreak
8. Initiation into Occult
9. Curiosity


How to be free from Lesbianism Struggle

1. You need to acknowledge it is a sin. Therefore be willing to repent and ask Jesus to forgive you and cleans you and receive Him into your life.
2. You must also acknowledge that the issue of lesbianism is more than psychological, it is spiritual and demonic. Therefore you need the help of God through the Holy Spirit Power to deliver you from it. Call for divine help through fasting and prayer.
3. Engage yourself on the Word of God and let it cleans and transform your mind and heart.
4. Seek for counseling and deliverance from a Minister that carries special anointing for deliverance and sexual purity.
5. Close every doorway that causes you to fall into lesbianism practice(s).

(NOTE: For help/counseling and free materials to help you will sexual purity life, send me email to rufusyamoah@yahoo.com)

To your freedom,
Building sexual morality world

Rufus Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

What is Pornography?

Pornography is a sexual activity where a person or people view pictures or videos of naked people who are engaging in sexual activity.

Types of Pornography

1. Film pornography: It is the act of watching porn through movies
2. Internet pornography: it is act of watching porn through computer/internet
3. Phone pornography: It is the act of watching porn through mobile device
4. Literature Pornography: it is the act of watching pornography through written materials e.g. books, magazine etc.
5. Live Pornography (Exhibitionism): It is the act of watching people physically having sexual intercourse.
6. Cartoon/Artistic pornography: It is the act of watching pornography drawings/cartoons
7. Group pornography: it is the act of watching porn with group of friends.

Is Pornography Really Bad?

People often say that pornography use is a "victimless crime”.

This is a big lie!!!

Pornography use is a cancerous epidemic in world. It's destroying lives, souls, children, youth, marriages and families.

The Truth About Pornography

· Like adultery, fornication, homosexuality, incest, bestiality and other forms of sexual immorality, the use of pornography, too, is sin.
· Pornography is the product of Lust of the Eye.
· Pornography is ‘deeds of the flesh’
· Pornography is ‘making provision for the flesh’
· Pornography is the best food for the carnal mind.
· Married? Pornography use is adultery. Not married? Pornography use is fornication.
· Pornography is a mental illness or bondage
· Pornography is sexual immorality of the mind/heart
· Pornography is the highest and easiest doorway to sexual immorality, sin and death.
· When you engage in pornography, you are worshiping a sexual idol called ‘Lust’.



Some Consequences of Pornography

It is Addictive—which means slavery or bondage.
It leads to sexual immorality.
It brings pollution to the mind.
It corrupts the purity of the eye.
It brings condemnation and guilt.
It quenches the Fire of God in you.
It grieves the Holy Spirit.
It brings illness to your mind.
It can cause heartbreaks/disappointment in relationship.
It lead to men seeing women has sex objects
It leads to infidelity and divorce


Some Doorways to Pornography

1. Attack by the spirit of lust
2. Emotional heartbreak
3. Lack of sexual satisfaction
4. To create sexual stimulation or arousal in order to engage in sexual activity (e.g. sexual intercourse, masturbation)
5. Desire to learn new sexual fantasies
6. Peer pressure
7. Loneliness/idleness
8. Desire to make money


Some Consequences of Pornography

1. It is Addictive—which means slavery or bondage.
2. It is a sin and brings spiritual death.
3. It leads to sexual immorality.
4. It brings pollution to the mind
5. It corrupt the purity of the eye
6. It brings condemnation and guilt
7. It quenches the Fire of God in you.
8. It grieves the Holy Spirit.
9. It brings illness to your mind
10. It can cause heartbreaks/disappointment in relationship.

Some Scriptures that speaks Against Pornography

2 Samuel 11:2
Now when evening came David arose from his bed and walked around on the roof of the king's house, and from the roof he saw a woman bathing; and the woman was very beautiful in appearance.
Job 31:1

"I have made a covenant with my eyes; How then could I gaze at a virgin?

Matthew 5:27-28
"You have heard that it was said, 'YOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY'; but I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.
James 1:14-15
But each one is tempted when he is carried away and enticed by his own lust. Then when lust has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and when sin is accomplished, it brings forth death.
1 John 2:16
For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh and the lust of the eyes and the boastful pride of life, is not from the Father, but is from the world.


How to be free from Porn

1. You MUST acknowledge, recognize, and believe that pornography is a sexual sin in and of itself and opens doorways for other sexual sin and sin in general to contaminate you. You must get to the root of the reason why you have turned to pornography so the doorway can be fully closed.

2. You must acknowledge that you cannot be totally free by some psychological or medical programs; you can be truly free by the saving power of Jesus Christ. You must call for His help. Accept Him, Ask for His forgiveness and pray for His power to come and break the yoke of pornography.

3. Make a covenant or a vow to stop viewing pornography of any kind and you will see the grace of God begin to work in your life. (Job in the bible did it! I am also a living proof of this method!)

4. Then begin to build a close relationship with God through regular study of the Word, praying and fasting and attending church services and programs.

5. Build relationship with right people. Learn to socialize with godly people.

6. Get Sexual purity materials that will help you to walk in sexual victory, freedom and purity. (MAKE A REQUEST TO ME AND I WILL SEND YOU THEM FOR FREE!!!)

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“For out of the heart proceed evil thoughts, murder, adulteries, fornication, thefts, false witness, and blasphemies.”

--Matthew 15:19

The heart is the Human Emotional Control Center (H.E.C.C).

Our heart determines and dictates our emotional moods, response and feelings.

The heart is the most powerful force of all the make-ups in the human body.

It is the driver…wherever it goes, everything else just have to conform.

The heart is the mother of all emotional responses or reactions—whether good or bad—to life, circumstances and people.

A healthy heart produces a healthy emotion; a sick heart produces an unhealthy emotion. It’s a simple as 1+1=2!

The bible understand that the heart is the H.E.C.C (I hope you know what I mean) that is while it warns that “guide your heart with all diligence, for out of it flows the issues of life”. (Proverbs. 4:23).

All sexual issues like fornication, adultery, homosexuality, prostitution, sexual protests, rape, womanizing, masturbation, pornography and so on, where all, at first, was produced and nurtured in the heart before it became physical evidence!

>>>The emotional force of sexuality is the HEART<<<

If you can guide it in the way of holiness, righteousness and the fear of God, you will produce and experience sexual liberty, purity and morality.

Now; I want to reveal to you some negative emotional forces that can become a doorway to sexual immorality. You must guide against these emotions and feelings…

Depression: For some people, when they feel downcast and sad they fall into sexual pleasure as a tool for their comfort. Depression is a doorway to prostitution and womanizing.

Rejection/Loneliness: Some people use sex as a bridge to cover their feeling of loneliness. This negative force is a doorway to sexual issues like masturbation and pornography.

Anger and Frustration: For some people, when they get cut up in this feelings, they get into dangerous sexual activity like rape, cyber bullying, child abuse and even sexual protest.

Low Self Esteem/Poor Self Image: A lot of people with these negative feelings about themselves may end up with sexual activity like internet sex, homosexuality and even masturbation.

Infatuation: Even if this looks like a positive emotion, the truth is that it is false appearance of love which eventually gives birth to lust and then Lust will lead to sexual activity. When infatuation is not dealt it, you may end up in fornication, romance, oral or anal sex, fingering and even sexual addiction.

These are but a few emotional forces in the heart that can become doorway to sexual corruption and immorality if not properly checked and guided.

Guide your heart so that it can produce the positive emotion of faith, holiness, hope, grace, peace and self control.

Live the Sexual morality life

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Rufus Yamoah

Sex Morality Counselor

"Let there be no Filthiness nor Foolish Talk nor Crude Joking, which are out of place, but instead let there be thanksgiving". (Ephesians 5:3)

What Is Sexual Harassment?



Sexual harassment means bothering someone in a sexual way.

Some Facts you need to Know:
· Sexual harassment is an unwelcome and unpleasant behavior.
· Sexual harassment is not a GAME or a PLAY.
· Sexual harassment in most cases grows into sexual assault (rape).
· Sexual harassment in most cases is repeated when not dealt with.
· Sexual harassment is only defined from the victim’s point of view.
· Sexual harassment is against the law.
· The goal of a sexual harasser may not be sexual, but to gain power or control over the victim.
· Men/males are also victims are of sexual harassment, most especially from older women/ gay men.
· Sexual harassment is also very common on the internet (e.g. Cyber-bullying)


Examples of Sexual Harassment

Verbal Harassment: Telling sexual jokes and stories, Asking about sexual fantasies, preferences, or history, Making sexual comments about a person's clothing, anatomy, or looks, Making kissing sounds, howling, and smacking lips, Telling lies or spreading rumors about a person's personal sex life, Referring to an adult as a girl, hunk, doll, babe, or honey, Making sexual comments about a person's body.

Non-Verbal Harassment: Looking a person up and down (elevator eyes), Staring at someone, Blocking a person's path, Following the person, Giving personal gifts, Displaying sexually suggestive visuals, throwing kisses, or licking lips, Making sexual gestures with hands or through body movements, showing up your genitals (Sexual organs).

Physical Harassment: Giving a massage around the neck or shoulders, Touching the person's clothing, hair, or body, Hugging, kissing, Grabbing Caressing, patting, or stroking, Standing close or brushing up against a person, forcing.

Virtual Harassment: Unwanted Love poems, Love letters, Cards, Obscene poems, Obscene gestures Sexually suggestive cartoons, posters, drawings, magazines, pictures and sending unwanted videos.

Common Doors to Watch Out that lead to Sexual Harassment

1. When someone is trying to help/give you an assistance.
2. When someone is supervising you.
3.When someone is looking/staring at you.
4. When you are in a relationship.
5. When someone is talking/ giving jokes.
6. When someone is angry with you for rejecting his/her request.
7. When you are in a competition with someone.



Some Common Places of Sexual Harassment:
1. Workplace
2. Internet (e.g. Facebook)
3. School
4. Street
5. Home

What to Do When Faced with Sexual Harassment

1. Keep a Journal (writing) of details of who, when, where, what and how of any sexual harassment experienced.

2. Be aggressive to state your position to the Harasser.

3. Get a few witnesses even at first attempt.

4. If the harasser repeats it, get to the nearest Authority and report your case for the law to be enforced.

5. Be positive about yourself and live your life. Do live in self-blame, guilt, fear or shame.

6. Watch and pray. I called this WP strategy. It works best!!! You can use prayer to drive away sexual harasser from your life.

Live in freedom...live the purified life.

NOTE: IF YOU NEED ANY COUNSELING/PRAYER OR FREE MATERIALS ON HOW TO BE FREE FROM SEXUAL STRUGGLE, Send me email to rufusyamoah@yahoo.com .

Rufus Elijah Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

The Concept of Sexual Purity

Sexual purity is more than abstinence from sexual intercourse; it is the freedom from engaging in all forms of sexual activities in your spirit, soul and body.
This is to say:
When you constantly have sex in your dreams, it means you spirit is polluted and becomes unclean.
When you lust after a woman in your heart or you engage in pornography, it means your soul (heart/mind) is unclean and polluted.
When you engage in masturbation, penetrative sex, MouthAction, fingering sex, it means your body is unclean and you become polluted.

Many people who claim to be virgins and sexually pure are living in lesbianism, masturbation, MouthAction, fingering sex, kissing and romance yet the claim to be free from sexual immorality.

Listen; Science, Education or Psychology is not the yardstick for purity; But the WORD OF GOD.

WE CANNOT TALK ABOUT LOVE AND SEX WITHOUT TALKING ABOUT GOD.
These two subjects originated from God. We can only find answers to them when we consult Him through His Word—the Bible!

The Popular Myth of Love

One of the strongest lies Satan has used in destroying millions of lives in sexual immorality is the popular myth that: SEX IS LOVE.
This LIE (weapon) of Satan has wounded many, destroys countless homes, caused great violence, promotes betrayal and abuse, break many hearts and relationships. THIS IS PAINFUL.
The World we live in has wrongly defined Love for our teens, youth and singles.
The Romance Novels, Soap Operas, Social Media and Society have painted a world of Sex and Romance rather than True Love.

Dating and Courtship that is built on sex and not love is heading for a real collapse.
This is one of the major reasons why we see many broken hearts, homes, divorce and abuse in our society.

Marriages will be heaven on earth, families will be at peace and our Society will be less violence when will begin to promote true love and move away from the sex and romance story.

God did not formed relationship for sex; He formed relationship for love (companionship)

Yes, it is true we cannot remove sex and romance from marriage, but we must align ourselves to the ultimate purpose of relationship which is LOVE (whether dating, courtship or marriage).

What millions of people call Love is nothing but Romance and Sex.

Love is not Sex and can never be sex.
Romance is not Love; Sex is not Romance

Love is a connection of hearts; Sex is a connection of sexual organs!
If love is sex; then think about Prostitutes who are professional sex workers!
Would you say Prostitutes are the most loving people in the world?
If Love is Sex; then think about Jesus—He never had sex in His life!
Would you now say Jesus did not love at all?

IF YOU CAN BREAK OUT FROM THIS LIE, THEN YOU ARE ON YOUR WAY TO SEXUAL PURITY!

The World was created by Love (God) and can only be built by Love.
The World was founded by Holy (God) and can only be built on holiness (which is purity).

Sex is not a sin; Romance is not a sin. But it is not for everybody! It was created by God for Man and wife.
Before Sex and Romance came into our world, God first had to create man and wife in marriage.
But today the reverse is the case, Sex and romance comes first in relationship before people begin to think about whether to marry or not.
In fact in many dating scenarios, we see people meeting themselves for the first time and having sex the same day and then say they are in love.

LOVE COMES BEFORE SEX; NOT SEX BEFORE LOVE. (This is the divine order of every true relationship)
Any relationship that is founded on Sex is influenced by lust and infatuation and not love. (Hard Truth)

The Concept of Love

LOVE AS 'A FEELING' (OLD CONCEPT)
Many Dictionaries define love as, “the feeling of deep affection for someone”.

Let me tell you this, if we define love in the context of feeling we will get it wrong.

This definition has done more harm than good to the lives of people.
This definition many lead many into being seduced and deceived into sexual immorality.
There are many feelings in this world. This includes sexual feeling!)
If we see love as just a feeling, it will bring a lot of confusion and lead people astray and even into

Infatuation (false Love) is a feeling.
Lust (sexual love) is a feeling.

Love has a feeling, but it is not a feeling.

Categories of Love

Human Love = the natural love we are born. We exercise this for our families, friends and neighbors.
Satanic Love = Infatuation and Lust is a kind of feeling that graves for romance and sex without following divine order.
Divine Love= this is a special love brought from Heaven to earth by Jesus for man to embrace. This is the greatest love. It can only be experience when you encounter Jesus Christ

LOVE AS 'LIVING LIKE JESUS' (TRUE CONCEPT)

God is Love; Love is divine.

This is the true concept of love.

This is the only love we must truly promote. This is the love that will change the world.
Every kind of love will fail; But the Love of Jesus can never fail.

When we seek to live and practice this kind of love the result will be unprecedented.

The Power of Divine Love on Sexual Purity

Sexual feeling is a very powerful feeling that every other kind of love cannot resist its temptation.
I am seen many fathers who love their daughter end up having sex with them.
Human love cannot successfully resist sexual temptation.
Infatuation and Lust cannot resist sexual temptation; it will even promote and attract sexual immorality.

IT TAKES ONLY DIVINE LOVE TO BE ABLE TO RESIST THE FEELING OF SEXUAL DESIRE.
DIVINE LOVE IS ONE THE MOST POWERFUL TOOLS FOR SEXUAL PURITY.

The Misuse of Sex

Many people have turned sex into idol worship.
Whenever they have problem they run to have sex!
This is an abuse and misuse of love.
So many people are struggling with emotional wounds like rejections, loneliness, abandonment, abuse, fear, jealousy, bitterness, disappointment, betrayal, anger and worry. But what do they do to gain solution?
They engage in sexual activities to express, react or respond to their pain.

LISTEN; SEX IS NOT THE SOLUTION TO YOUR WOUNDS; DIVINE LOVE IS THE HEALING YOU NEED.
You cannot use sex to fill the void of love in your life.

So many people will be walking in sexual purity as soon as they receive healing from their wounds through the power of divine love.

Examples of Sexual Activities Caused by Lack of Divine Love:

Bitterness/hatred= homosexuality
Abandonment/Rejection= Masturbation, intimacy gadgets, Transvestism/Transexuality:
Anger= rape, child abuse, incest.
Jealousy= party, Orgies, Nudity.
Betrayal= Prostitution
Loneliness= Pornography, Mental Sex
The truth is that engaging in these sexual activities will not heal your wounds or make you feel better.

SEXUAL PURITY IS THE TEST OF TRUE LOVE

One of the most powerful ways to know if someone truly loves you in a relationship is to move into what I called ‘Sexual Purity Vow Agreement’.

Sexual purity is the tester of what you feel or what someone feel towards you whether it is True Love, Lust or infatuation.

I have encountered many ladies who claim to love me so much and grave for a serious relationship with me. I just told me, ‘Well, if we will be together, we will have a sexual purity commitment, meaning no sexual activities of any kind till we are legally ready”.
This is how I saved myself from the lives of many ladies who just want to get a fill of sex thinking they are in love.
True Love embraces sexual purity with joy and readiness; But infatuation and lust dies where they is no fuel of sex to increase its fire.

Divine Love seeks to sacrifice and not gratify.
Divine Love seeks to obey God’s commandment and not man’s desire or pressure.
Divine Love commit to holiness and righteousness and not to feelings.
Divine Love produces the fear of the Lord that will enable you to flee from every sexual temptation from within and without.

How to Embrace and Experience Divine Love

1. You need to Encounter Jesus Christ and be born again.
2. When you receive Salvation, you need healing and deliverance from your wounds/bondage.
3. Ask the Holy Spirit to fill your heart with the Love of Christ. What a wonderful experience!
4. Fall in Love with the Scriptures and also build a personal Relationship with Jesus daily.
5. When you truly understand divine love, you will begin to know learn how to love people without driven by sexual desire.

Live the purified life

NOTE: If you need support, counseling and prayer, and also free materials on how to walk in sexual purity, send me email to rufusyamoah@yahoo.com .

Rufus Elijah Yamoah
Sexual Purity Strategist

advocates:
Thank you sir. Everything you said is a perfect picture of my recent life style. You couldn't have said it better. If not for anything, I believe God Spirit led me here to be admonished.

This has been the very temptation in my life even though I'm convinced it is satanic, several times, I feel pressed to go ahead.

I am still a virgin, but I admit, this act is a satanic manipulation. May God help us.

Hello, Advocate, I really like to connect you to share more resources with you especially as you said you are a virgin, it is a sign you really want to walk in purity. you can send me an email to rufusyamoah@yahoo.com or add me on facebook with name: Evangelist Rufus Elijah

“Can a man scoop fire into his lap without his clothes being burned? Can a man walk on hot coals without his feet being scorched?” –Proverbs 6:27-28

Flirting?

Does it really matter?



Flirting is perhaps the oldest and most trusted weapon the enemy, Satan, has used to draw and deceived mankind into the pit of sin and wickedness.
Flirting is the mother of temptation; as temptation is the mother of sin.

Flirting is simply a deliberate choice, will or act of putting oneself in a position of being tempted or lured into problem or sin.
Flirting is creating a doorway by your own self-will for the Devil and Sin to creep into your life.
It is all about building a house when you know you will not live in it…

I ask you, “Why will someone get to a door if he knows you is not interested to come inside or enter”.
This is the attitude of a Flirt, “I like to get to the door, but I don’t feel like entering. I just want to stay and play around the door.”. IT DOESN’T MAKE ANY SENSE!

Flirting is a game of deception, lies, disguise, hypocrisy, flattery and seduction. It is a creative attitude displayed by a person in order to make people believe what is not true.
God is not a Flirt. There is no flirting in His Nature. God is honest,straightforward, truthful, original and sincere.

The game of flirting has been a deadly parasite that has diverted and destroy the destiny and lives of many young people today. People flirt around the door of sexual immorality and God warned to flee from it!

If you study the Life of Samson in the Bible, you will find out that he was a Flirt. He used his wisdom, power and abilities to flirt and play game. He ventured into sexual immorality and ended up losses his eyes, power and life.

Flirting is an profitable activity. It is one of Satan tricks to waste, steal and divert the destinies, visions and gifts of young people without them knowing.

Joseph in the Bible was not a Flirt. He feared God and saw sexual immorality as wickedness and evil. Therefore when His Master’s wife came to romance him, he ran for his life.
FLEE…for this is the right attitude we must develop if we want to overcome sexual temptations.

How many of us see flirting as a sin?
How many of play around sin and then say, “After all, I haven’t committed the sin?” How many of us kiss and romance someone and say, ‘well it is okay, we did not have sexual intercourse.”

There is a proverb that says, “IF YOU DON’T WANT TO EAT THE APPLE, THERE IS NO NEED TOUCHING IT”.

The Bible says, “do not give the devil a chance”.
Many so called Christians have boyfriend and girlfriend, yet they claim they want to remain a virgin! What a stress…what a deception.

Flirting is self-deception. It comes from the spirit of lust. You said you don’t want to have sex, yet you like to watch pictures and videos of naked people having sex. Who is deceiving who?

It is time to examine yourself. Life is a battle field, and not a game house or a theater. It is time to separate yourself from careless and care-free living. It is time to live a life of self-respect, integrity and honesty.

‘It doesn’t matter’ is the attitude that has destroy many destinies.
Don’t live a life today that will be full of regrets and pain tomorrow.
I am speaking from experience.

Stop the game of flirting…

Live the sexual moral life

NOTE: For counseling and prayer on how to walk in sexual morality and purity and also for free materials, send a message to rufusyamoah@yahoo.com .

Rufus Elijah Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

Sexual Doorway= activities or conversations that can create an opportunity for the enemy to tempt you or cause you to engage in a sexually immoral act

*** IN ORDER FOR SOMEONE TO ENGAGE IN A SEXUALLY IMMORAL ACT, A SEXUAL DOORWAY WAS OPEN (discover which doorway was open and close it)***
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Types of Sexual Doorways

1. Personal= a doorway a person creates by him/herself that brings about personal sexual satisfaction (does not involve other people) ex. Masturbation

2. External= the desire/opening is created by someone else but causes the individual to fall into immorality
3. Intentional= a deliberate act of putting yourself in a position to engage in sexual immorality
4. Subconscious= accidental and caused by the spirit of lust ***lust creates an opening in the spirit and heart causing the individual to be carnal and allowing the devil to penetrate the mind-> most Christians fall victim to this doorway and the devil uses other people to set this up

***EACH DOORWAY HAS ITS OWN APPROACH SO EACH DOORWAY IS CLOSED USING DIFFERENT TACTICS
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Examples of Sexual Doorways

1. Pornography
2. Indecent dressing
3. Visiting the opposite sex alone in a home
4. Drinking
5. Smoking
6. Kissing
7. Romancing
8. Dating

...and many more!!!

(This is an except from my powerful new book Understanding Sexual Doorways. It is must read for everyone who want to walk in your sexual freedom and purity and also help others in doing so).

(for counseling/prayer and free materials for sexual freedom and purity, write to me to on rufusyamoah@yahoo.com)

"Thou didst divide the sea by thy strength: thou brakest the heads of the dragons in the water. Thou brakest the heads of the leviathans in pieces, and gave him to be meat to the people inhabiting the wilderness"
-- (Psalms 74:13-14)

Marine Spirit is a group of spirits that lives in the water, river or sea, with their ruler commonly known as Queen of the Coast (a woman who from head to waist is human body and from waist down to leg is fish).

They are one of Satan’s most dreadful agents of destruction in these last days.

Their main aim is to seduce, manipulate and perverse in order to steal, kill, destroy, pollute and disgrace the children of God and also blaspheme and mock God Himself.

They are out to depopulate the Kingdom of God and populate the Kingdom of Satan.

Common Doorway to Marine Spirit Bondage

1. Sexual immorality

2. Idol worship

3. Bringing unclean things into your home.

4. Dedication to a River as a Child.

Sexual Activities caused by Marine Spirit

Prostitution
Abortion
Rape/Molestation
Sex Robbery
Divorce
Polygamy
Single mother
Miscarriage/Still born
Child Abuse
Nudity
Bestiality
Lesbianism
Sex in the Dream
Spiritual Wife/husband
Womanizing/flirting
Partying
Sex Exhibition
MouthAction
Pornography
Sex orgy
party
Seduction/manipulation


The Effect of Marine Spirit Operation

People who are under the influence or attack by marine spirit will suffer things like:

Rejection
Pollution
Worldliness
Smoking/drinking addiction
Pain/Sorrow
Bitterness
Hate/Murder
Homelessness
Unstable
Division
Reproach/disgrace
Bondage
Loneliness
Poverty/financial slavery
Delay
Accident
Crisis/Violence
Loss
Damage
Emotional/Mental Stress
Caged (hidden)
Setbacks


How to deal with marine spirit

1. Ask for forgiveness and cleansing from every known/unknown sin using the Blood of Jesus
2. Be a person of integrity. Live by standard and principles of God’s Word.
3. Be grounded on the Word of God. Study, meditate and observe the Word of God day and Night.
4. Fasting and prayer always. Spiritual warfare is the only answer.
5. Focus on your purpose. Live a life of vision and direction.
6. Make holiness and sexual purity your priority.
7. Seek wisdom, knowledge and understanding. They play on your ignorance.
8. Let the love of God fill your heart.
9. Seek for advice from godly believers and leaders.
10. Go for counseling, healing and deliverance prayer from anointed men of God.
11. Be humble and always seek the presence of God
12. Love people and learn to forgive. They operate where there is bitterness and hatred.
13. Break evil relationship, dedication and connection with the water kingdom.
14. Command your glory, destiny, power and blessings to be restored back to you.

To your freedom

(Note: If you need more counseling/prayer or free materials that will help you overcome sexual challenges just email rufusyamoah@yahoo.com or call 07037488806)

Rufus Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

In this lesson, I will be sharing with you the Part Two of my Masturbation series teachings.

In part one teaching, I share with you what masturbation is all about and its causes and consequences.
You can click to read the part one: The Truth About Masturbation



In this part two teaching, I will go straight to the point to give you proven steps I took that others have also taken to come out from the bondage of masturbation.

God’ will for you is to live a life of freedom, purity and victory.
You are not meant to live in sexual bondage and struggle.
There is always a way out with God.


1. You must accept that the ability to gain freedom and victory over any sexual struggle is by the grace of God. Therefore, you must humbly call for His Help. The Word of God in Isaiah 41:10 give us assurance of His Divine help.
2. You must acknowledge that your body is the temple of God and that through masturbation you defile and dishonor our glorious body. Therefore you must ask God for His mercy and forgiveness.

3. To experience freedom from sexual struggle is having the courage to speak out.
Yes! Shout it loud; don’t die in silence.
You must not allow fear, shame or guilt to shut you in darkness.You have to flex your mind and try to share your issue with a trusted Adult or counselor for advice or prayer.

4. You must try to shut doorways that always lead to masturbation (i.e. loneliness and idleness).

5. Develop a serious fellowship with God. Always try to be in God’s presence. When you draw closer to God, the power to resist the temptation to masturbate will come to you.

6. Practice studying the Word of God regularly. This is the absolute weapon for washing and transforming your mind from sexual thoughts and imaginations that always lead you to masturbation.
Some Recommended Resources that can help are :
· SEXUAL PURITY TABLET (FREE EBOOK)
· SEXUAL PURITY TABLET (AUDIO MP3)

7. Make a choice to stop this unclean habit. Make positive confession of your freedom in Christ. You are not a slave to any sin or negative habit. You are more than conqueror through the saving power of Jesus’ Blood. Make a choice to accept the free gift of righteousness and enjoy God’s grace.

Take these steps very serious and you will also share your testimony of freedom. (Please make sure you share with anyone you know that is struggling with this issue).

Note : You can reach me for free materials, prayer and counsel on rufusyamoah@yahoo.com or 07037488806 .

Rufus Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

Jazzlite:
You're a deekhead op
Twisting the Bible to suit your purposes... Kontinu

My beloved, you are entitle to your own opinion. this has not call for harsh words or insult. I am not twisting the bible to suit myself. I ask you, what is my purpose? If people stop their struggle with masturbation, what do I stand to gain to we should all live a sexually pure life...

"You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery. But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart."--Matt. 5:27-28 (NIV)

One of the reasons God created Eve was because He did not want Adam to end up in masturbation lifestyle. Sound funny, right? (Please read Gen. 2:18; Eccl. 4:11).

Understanding What Masturbation IS?


Masturbation is a sexual activity where someone derives sexual pleasure or satisfaction by rubbing or playing with his/her sexual organ with their hands or with the help of any instrument.
We have male and female masturbation.

Masturbation is one of the most common sexual behaviors among young people—yet nobody sees the effects and dangers around it.
The truth has been swallowed up with many lies and misconceptions.
Of a truth, people are destroyed because of lack of knowledge—God’s knowledge.

Understanding the Cause

Loneliness + Uncontrolled sexual urge = Masturbation.
Masturbation is caused an unclean spirit.
It is addictive and habitual. It has a strong bonding power to cage its victim for a lifetime.
This force of masturbation is so strong that when it comes upon someone, until he/she engage in the act the spirit will not leave.

Masturbation is having a strong desire to satisfy flesh. God warned us against seeking to satisfy or please the flesh or our carnal mind. (See Romans 8:6-

Masturbation is a consolation of the devil to bridge your sexual immoral desire and lust.

**God is too Holy to ever suggest masturbation as an antidote for your sexual lust or urge**

Many people try to treat masturbation as common and casual. Some felt that it should not be given attention because it is just a bad habit and not more. THIS IS NON SENSE!

Masturbation is more than just a bad habit…IT IS SEXUAL IMMORALITY…IT IS A SIN AGAINST GOD.
When we lack this truth and understanding…we will continue to live in bondage of falsehood.
When you look carefully at the above opening scripture, you will discover the powerful truth Jesus revealed to us: Sexual immorality is more than just sexual intercourse...

THIS IS IT:

**Every sexual gratification, relieve or pleasure that does not involve a man and a wife (as prescribed by God) is a sin and evil whether there is an intercourse or not...PERIOD!

Take a look at this scripture: "AGAIN, IF TWO LIE TOGETHER, THEN THEY HAVE HEAT: BUT HOW CAN ONE BE WARM ALONE?" (Eccl. 4:11)
This scriptural question is posted to everybody who engages in masturbation.
THINK—YES, THINK ABOUT IT.

How can you find warm (sexual pleasure) alone?

This reveals and proved that masturbation is abnormal no matter who or what you are!
Much as Sexual intercourse outside marriage is condemned...Masturbation is not an Option...

Those who engage in masturbation have put on a filthy garment. And like Joshua (Zech. 3:1-7), God is ready to change your garment today...

YOU SHALL KNOW THE TRUTH…AND THE TRUTH YOU KNOW AND APPLY SHALL SET YOU FREE.

Note (for prayer or counseling on how you can overcome any sexual struggle, just call me on 07037488806 or email rufusyamoah@yahoo.com)

Rufus Yamoah
Sex Morality Counselor

“Shun immorality and all sexual looseness (flee from impurity in thought, word, or deed). Any other sin which a man commits is one outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.” 1 Corinthians 6:18, AMP

The first quick fact to establish in this article is for us to understand that sexual immorality is not just any kind of sin…

That doesn’t mean that we should engage in every other sin or treat them as minus or meaningless.


All unrighteousness is sin.
Every sin will separate you from your Father God and take you to eternal damnation!
For James 2:10 says, “ For whosoever shall keep the whole law, and yet offend in one point, he is guilty of all”.

It is like the saying in the animal kingdom, “all animals are equal, but some are more equal than the others”.

All sin is sin—YES!
But all consequences of sin is not equal.
All sin will separate you from God.
But some sin effects are more tormenting, terrible and destructive to our life than others.
Believe it or not…it is the truth!

And this was the fact Apostle Paul was pointing out to us in 1 Corinthians 6:18. (I hope you have read this verse).

Sexual Immorality…And So What?

“…Any one other sin which a man commits is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against is own body.”

The puzzle question is …
What does it mean to sin outside the body?
What does it mean to sin against your own body?

Here is the Revelation!

You see, the human body is a special part in the creation of man.
The body carries a special divine glory.
This glory is placed on the body by your creator God.
That is why the Holy Spirit, which is the Spirit of God, wonderfully and carefully choose the body as His temple (house, dwelling place). (Read 1 Corinthians 6:19).

Because of this, your body can determine what will come into your life…whether shame, reproach or beauty and good fortune.
But this depends on what you do with, or to, the glory of your body.

Every other sin does not touch or destroy this glory placed on the body, except SEXUAL IMMORALITY!

This is what it means to sin outside the body.
This is what makes sexual immorality different from all other sin man engage in or practice.

When you engage in sexual immorality, you sin not just against God, but against your own body.
How?
…Because you destroy the glory of your body in the process.

This is what it means to sin against your own body.
It is a great wickedness and evil you do to your body by destroying her glory, strength, pride and hope when you practice sexual immorality!

When your body looses her glory through sexual immorality, she has nothing again to offer you except to cloth you with shame, reproach and ashes.

Sexual immorality is a monster that takes away the garment of divine glory from your body and then cloth your body with the garment of ashes. (please you need to see Isaiah 3:24).

So many of us spend millions of naira and dollars yearly for the sake of caring for our bodies...
…But still engage in the LIFE OF SEX IMMORALITY!

What a painful irony!
This is outrageous foolishness.

The greatest gift and love you can express or show to your own body is…
living a sexual-immoral free life, running from all forms of sexual looseness and promiscuity.

Beauty soaps, creams, jewelries, clothes…just name it, can make you look real good but has no power to protect the glory of your body.

Your body is your love, respect and care.
This can only be fully express when you protect her glory by abstaining from immorality.

You must from today change the way you see your body.

Your body is the temple of God—His heaven!

Your body carries a treasure that will determine your success and determine in life.

It is a fact that you increase your chances of greatness as you begin to treat your body as God would please.

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Rufus Yamoah
Sex Morality Counselor

“Thus Saith the Lord: Cursed be the man that trusted in man, and maketh flesh his arm, and WHOSE HEART DEPARTETH FROM THE LORD”.-- (Jeremiah 17:5)

What is condom?
It is a barrier device mostly used during sexual intercourse to reduced the probability of pregnancy and spreading of sexual transmitted diseases. It is put in a man’s penis and it physically blocks ejaculated semen from entering the body of a sexual partner.

What then is Safe Sex?
It is a kind of sex where people protect themselves with contraceptive (e.g condom) when having sexual intercourse with a sexual partner.

This is the question I keep asking?

What good has condom done to our young people?

How safe is safe sex?

It is a great puzzle to me to hear of Government going to schools to give young students condoms and teaching them to protect themselves when having sex.

Is Safe Sex the right sexual education to teach our kids?

Let’s go back to the beginning.

Condoms have been in existence for more than 400 years according to researchers.
The original purpose was for birth control by married couples. Today…condom has become a ‘sex god’ in our society.

The concept of sex safe is a deception from the pit of hell. Condom has done more harm than good to our young people.

It is claimed that condoms helps to avoid pregnancy and prevent sexually transmitted disease.
If this is true, then condom cannot be reliable!

Some facts to consider according to researchers:

The United State Centers for Diseases Control (CDC) reported that 56 million have STD
12 million people get a new STD each year
33,000 people get a new STD every day, and
22, 000 of them are 15 to 24 years old.
25 % of High School students will be infected with STD before graduation.

“Condom is unreliable”
About one of every five teens using condoms becomes pregnant within one year, according to the National Survey of Family Growth.

Many leading experts have warned against depending condoms for protection against HIV and other STDs.
“You just can’t tell people it is right to do whatever they like as long as they wear condom”, (Dr. Harold Jaffee, Chief of Epid emiology, National Centers for Disease Control.

“Simply put, condom fails. And condom fails at a rate that is unacceptable to me as a physician to endorse them as strategy to be promoted as meaningful AIDS protection”. (Dr. Robert Renfeild, Walter Reed Army Institute

Condoms Manufacturers knows very well that their product is not 100 % method for protection.

Why should we endorse that which not reliable?

Why do we still go with the concept of ‘safe sex’ when we have not seen any safety in these contraceptives.

I want you to know that Safe Sex is never God’s idea when he created sex for man. Safe Sex is an invention of Satan who played on man’s desire to always satisfy their flesh and selfish interest.

***God’s idea for young people when it comes to sexuality is not the practice of safe sex as the society has taught, but it is Abstinence and sexual purity***

They society has train the mind of youth to become so weak when it comes to their sexual feelings. They make us to believe that it is impossible for someone to control his/her sexual drive. So everybody can just go with a condom.

Safe Sex vs. Sexual Purity

You need to think about these things…

1. Condom can prevent a disease but cannot preserve your virginity; Sexual purity will do both.
2. Condom does not protect you from falling into sin and separation from God; Sexual purity will.
3. Buying condom will make the Manufacturer richer and take away your money; Sexual purity will preserve your money.
4. God hates wastage. You waste your sperm when you ejaculate in the condom. Your body is the temple of God.
5. Condom does not keep your marriage bed to be undefiled; Sexual purity will.
6. Condom does not prevent emotional trauma, heart breaks, guilt, regrets and hate; sexual purity will save your life.
7. Condom can fail at any time. This means it is unreliable; sexual purity is reliable.
8. Using condom as a youth shows that you cannot rely of God for grace to help us overcome sexual temptation.

It is time for our society to make a shift…

It is time to depart from this evil we have gotten ourselves into.

We cannot help ourselves except we seek God for help.

He is the originator of Sex…let us run to Him for help and guidance so that we can be safe in this sexual infested society we live in.

Joseph made it. He did not use condom. He followed after sexual purity. He trusted God and reply on Him.

Condom is not the solution.
Let us run away from this idol worship.

God is the solution to every sexual struggle…


Note: (for help/prayer or counseling and free materials walking in sexual purity, please email rufusyamoah@yahoo.com or call 07037488806)

LEOSIRSIR:
MODIFIED, am not yet married but I sure take note of your points
Ok

guyz today is my birthday oo u should all show some love with like

I wish happy birthday my beloved. God bless you and increase His grace in your life.

Your decision today is the seed that will speak for your tomorrow.

Decision Making skill is one of the best skills a person can develop in order to attain personal success in life.
Your decision will determine your destination.
Decision making skill is the ability to make the right choices that will bring you blessings in life and not destruction.

Sexual relationship is a kind of relationship where a person is sexually active (I mean engage in sexual activity) with his/her partner.

A lot of people today and living a life of regret and pain because of poor decisions they made.

As a youth or single, for you to achieve a healthy sexual relationship in the future, you must make the right decisions today.

A lot of young people are in the dilemma of whether to become sexually active or not, whether to stop or start a relationship, whether to have a kid now or focus on their school or even whether to get married or remain single. These are some of the issues that run through the heart of many.

Sexual issues are no casual issues.
You must not be too quick to make sexual decisions because whatever you do will have a profound effect on your destiny and success in life.
Your decisions about sexual relationship will affect your life plans, health, finance, family, career and relationship with God—I mean everything about YOU.

Why People Make Wrong Decisions on Sexual Relationship

1. Sexual feelings: A lot of people enter into a sexual relationship because of their sexual drive not because of love. When a person cannot lead his/her sexual feelings, then will be influence negatively by those feelings and will try to seek satisfaction for their sexual need.

2. Peer pressure and associations: It is true that iron sharpens iron and like begat like. This is law of association. We become like the people will align ourselves with. Many people enter into sexual relationship because their friends are all sexually active and they want to have sense of belonging.

3. The mass media deception: The media (most especially internet, television and music) has done a lot of harm to our youth in the society. The media have presented a society that sees nothing wrong with people entering sexual relationship before getting married. The media has taken hold of the mind of young people and this has influenced people negatively into entering into sexual relationship.

4. Ignorance: This is really a big virus affecting so many young people. So many entering into sexual relationship without knowing the impact of sexual involvement on one’s life. Of a truth, people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. Lack of proper sex education is really affecting our churches, families, schools and society at large.

5. Taking of harmful drugs and alcohol: Drugs and alcohol has a strong power to affect our emotions negatively. This can lead us into making wrong decision on sexual relationship. Most young people who began drinking and smoking will always crown it with sexual activity.

6. The god of Condom: A lot of young people are influence into sexual relationship because of the myth of safe sex…the use of condoms and contraceptives. They belief that has long as they can purchase a condom they are ready for sexual involvement.

7. Family background and environment place a large role in forming our sexual identity. Parents who have a poor sexual lifestyle will end up breeding kids who will grow up into making wrong decisions on sexual relationship. Our environment reveals the people’s culture and belief system. For example, an environment that sees nothing wrong with homosexuality and prostitution tend to raise up people with such a sexual lifestyle.

The impact of Wrong Decision on Sexual Relationship

1. It can lead to sexual abuse and molestation.
2. It can lead to abortion and its complications.
3. It can lead to unwanted pregnancy.
4. It can lead to heart break, emotional trauma/psychological stress.
5. It can lead to contracting STIs and HIV/AIDS.
6. It destroys destiny and careers.
7. It brings separation between you and God.
8. It brings loss of virginity.
9. It brings loss of self respect and self esteem.
10. It can cause financial setback and struggle.

Here are some factors that will influence you towards making the right decision concerning sexual relationship.

1. Seek the truth about sex and its purpose from the Word of God and not from friends or the mass media.

2. Ask the Holy Spirit, who is called the Spirit of Truth, to guide you into making the right decision towards any sexual issue. The Holy Spirit also gives power to resist temptation and also ability to control our sexual feelings.

3. Associate with Wise Counselors and people who believe in sexual purity. This will affect your decision on whether it is necessary to involve in sexual relationship or not. Remember Iron sharpens iron.

4. Patience is a virtue. I have learned this lesson the hard way. A lot of young people are in a hurry to satisfy their sexual urge and are not willing to wait for their time. When you have this virtue of patience, it will influence your decision not to rush into sexual relationship because you see others in it.

5. Your relationship with God matters when making sexual decisions. You must ask yourself that, “Should I seek to satisfy and please my flesh or to make my Heavenly Father Happy?” which is more important.

Some benefits of making the Right Decisions on Sexual Relationship

1. It will protect your destiny and purpose.
2. It bring protect your honor, glory, dignity and respect.
3. It will preserve you from STIs and HIV/AIDs.
4. It will help you to become responsible and focus.
5. Sexual purity clarifies your vision and direction to your destination.
6. It will help you to avoid regret, set back, heart break and unnecessary emotional/mentral drainage.
7. It will help you to achieve your goal.
8. It builds your self esteem and confidence.
9. It helps you to build a strong relationship with God and people.

Do you have a boyfriend or girlfriend that gives you sexual satisfaction?
Are you thinking of entering a new sexual relationship?

Let this article lead you into making the right decision that will build your life and help you to reach the height you desire in life.

Note: (for help/prayer and counseling and also free materials on how you can walk in sexual purity and freedom, reach me on rufusyamoah@yahoo.com or call 07037488806)

Rufus E. Yamoah
Sexual Morality Counselor

My beloved, Elveco, You can use it for tracks for the work of God. But it is good to quote the source. God bless you