Jade sorry, please are you not a Nigerian/African woman?
Well, if you are not, i may appreciate your problem, which to me is more of a Cultural conflict.
I will recommend a book to you to read called ''My People, thy people'' Its all about cross marriages and the conflict that follow a Nigerian young Prince in the UK married to an English lady and their final return to Nigeria, where the chap becomes the traditional ruler of his people.
If you cant get the book, let me i shall endeavour to send one to you.
Take care of yourself and each other .

Hello jade,
How are you? I do sympathise with you so much and pray that God gives you the wisdom to settle this matter. If I may be frank with you, you are making too much issue out of nothing. Are you not an African woman? Don't you understand the meaning of tolerance and endurance in marriage? Why are you washing your dirty linen in public? How much money is really involved in the whole matter? Please don't take advantage of the fact that you are in a more advantageous position than your husband to torment him in a foreign land?
I know you must have been wronged by him, but it is not enough to fight over small finances, like buying a gold wrist watch, when he is indebted to you.
Please search your mind and with the fear of God , put your house in order.

Omotola can you hear me?
Pls tell me where you live. this is my phone number4365081881223

Omotola is a star and the world over people die to meet stars.
Why is my case different here?
why all the venom, just because i want to meet omotola.
What is my concern with her marriage. Did i tell you i am a home breaker.
Please i want to meet omotola,take me to her place .

Latoya:

Okay i will pass the message on
But y do u want to meet her?

I really wish i know why, my problem would have been half solved

How can I reach Omotola Jolade-ekeinde? I see her in my dreams, but have never met her in life.

Please kindly oblige me with her phone number or email address. I will appreciate it with my whole life or if you know her, kindly pass the message to her. Let me know when next she visits Europe.

Are you sure nike? pls dont be ashame to say the truth.

Did I forget to suggest Nike or Hot Angel?
It could be any of the girls mentioned. please pintos tell us and save us from this mind game.

Maybe Dablessed or Miss world or Latoya or Gina34 or Chigszy.
Please tell us .
why did she sack you?
Forget her and move on with your life. Afterall London is full of chicks begging for aktion.

Big sister dablessed, A nagging wife is a curse.
To save you from too much wahala and headache, put her in a bin bag alive and drop her in a desert.

dablessed:

If as a man, you can't deliver your wife of her nagging spirit, then you have a problem yourself. - Two people need to be delivered here!

On a more serious note, everyman must learn to understand their wife in totality. Its a shame that most men only try to understand them in bed alone. I am sure no woman enjoys being referred to as a nag. I am also certain that a woman does not wake up one morning only to find herself a nag! It is usually as a result of accumulated unresolved issues.

Why wouldnt the guy do what he says he'd do and why must he wait until the woman reminds him about what he promised to do the day before? { Knowing her incessant nature}

As a man, it is your utter responsibility to understand your woman and also able to manage her weaknesses. Divorce is not the answer here. Seeking the option of divorce only shows you are a failure.

Dablessed,
Tell that to your son when you get one.
Dont your know nagging in a woman is an incurable ailment like HIV/AIDS.
If you see it run away, its got no cure. It will either consume you or you consume it.
If your nagging wife will make you sin, chop her off your body.

Nagging wife the Holy bible says destroys her home. So you better <<snip>>

dablessed:

Men need to understand the total make-up of a woman just as women need to understand how a man thinks.

No man can ever understand a woman, it is needless trying.
As for the man , how simple. All a man thinks about a woman is as an object of pleasure.
If you doubt me fall prey, after the orange juice is sucked dry, you will end up in the bin bag.

Dont blame the men, it is a dog eat dog game.
Women are full of shakara, so wisemen have learnt how to beat them to their game, especially Nigerian girls, especially those that live abroad, they want to be more than the Oyinbo themselves.
Jo chop their Congo clean mouth as if though nothing happen-ala Fela.

pintos:

Alas! My Love has left me.
Oh my heart.

Pintos, why worry?
Incidentally, My pal knows you after reading your profile and your picture.
We met you once at Akwa Restaurant in London when 2YK[DJ] was playing .
I sincerely feel you are too much for most girls in this forum. Go for your class please.
You are one of the best.
Please our country need people like you to come home . Go home and put your intelligence to use.
Old boy you gather english for mouth