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May GOD rest her beautiful soul. She was a remarkable woman!

Painful as it was to read, I can understand your mums behaviour but since you can see the wrong in her actions and others then you definitely can do something.
Firstly, calmly talk to your mum about how her actions towards the little girl affect YOU (she will be more receptive from that angle). Appeal to her to please consider her own children could be on the receiving end anyday and ask her how she would like them treated. Plead with her not to unleash her anger for the mother on the innocent child; Next engage your second brother and together both of you calmly discuss with your youngest brother and let him know you do not support such behaviours; Lastly, talk to the child and let all of you in support, together, let her know you have observed the treatment and dont support it. Talk with your dad too, if you can, to let him know how it affects you.
May GOD give you wisdom through this. Pele