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Good morning nairaland family, please i need help on this issues, some sent money for me from FCMB bank to an opay account, she claimed her account was debited but I was not credited. Please how do I go about it

IT’S CHRISTMAS AND I FEEL NOTHING.

”No excitement, no cheer, no countdown vibes just tired. Life been heavy, the mind been overloaded, and the joy just ain’t showing up like it used to. Everybody yelling “holiday spirit” while some of us just trying to make it through the day without breaking down. If this season don’t feel magical for you, you not alone. Sometimes surviving the year is the gift, and that gotta be enough for now.”

arkad139:
I have spare 50k that I want to dash to one person

I would really appreciate, no salary for private teachers yet, thanks

always247:
I have 100k to giveaway

thank you sir, I would appreciate if I benefit your kind gesture

DocAdray:
I have little quantity of rice to give out (two mudus)
Location is Abuja.

am in Abuja, please how do I reach you

Dear Santa,
🎁 it's six days to Christmas 🎄🎁🎄, the atmosphere is filled with happiness and the aura is very very strong.
Dear Santa, all I need is rice 🙏 and 1 chicken... You see me , you know me. Thank you for making this Christmas a memorable one for me and family.

EmekaBlue:
See mine outside Christmas tree

this is beautiful, merry Christmas sir

The phone is not in phone outlets why...I have please someone should reapy

oladipo322:
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Good evening everyone..my neighbors s21 screen is shattered it fell off her hand in a keke. Please can she take it to Samsung office for a swap. How possible is it.

DeloitteNG:
How can I be of help to you
Tell me what you need this Christmas
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DeloitteNG:
How can I be of help to you
Tell me what you need this Christmas
I will randomly pick 20 people on the 24th and help

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amazingspiderma:
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Desmin Independent Television.

Tenders club
Beats of our time.
Awarawa
Kowa meteloche

Those people wan use Tom and Jerry scatter my life.

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Afodot0022:
Good morning and happy Sunday to my nairalanders fam and happy new month.
I know so many of you will have clue about my history here and my stories, if you don't, kindly check through my profile. This forum have helped me to navigate some difficult situation especially on marriage, even though I still get bashed and insulted, I can tell that I still get genuine advice from matured and experienced people here. It's all about taking the wheat from the shaft.

I and my wife had been separated for almost 2yrs and reason was that I saw some chat on her phone that she was having emotional affair with another man under my roof, I sent her away due to this and have been leaving my life since then, the kids have been with her and have been taking responsibility over them, recently she took my kids to her parents without my approval due to her traveling for months and now that she is back from the official trip, she had refused to pick the kids from her parents place to start living with her, that was the recent issue we both had and up till now, the kids still stay with her parents instead of her.

I have tend to move on concerning this matter and we have already had an agreement concerning the kids welfare and the rest. They are just 7 and 6yrs.


I married traditionally and ever since we separated, there had not been any formal divorce and the bride price is yet to be returned. Now it happens that I and my wife started chatting back on Whatsapp and my reason for allowing this was to know the situation of my kids and to keep track on them, but in those chat with her, I could see some form of remorseful from her and some calmness from her to the extent that she pleaded that I should forgive her for all the wrong she had done to me . I was surprised to see all this write up from her cos I never expected her to apologize cos of her over bloated ego. In her write up, it seems she want us to resolve our differences and come back together as family but I wasn't buying that.

Now my question is to matured and experienced men that have gone through this particular situation of separation from you ex wife, does it worth it given such woman a second chance knowing what lead to the breakdown of the marriage, she had an emotional affair but didn't caught her having sex though, is it worth forgiving her and taking her back, I just want to be sure I won't regret these cos I don't know her true intentions, we have been separated for two years now and I asked her if she have had any sexual encounters during those period, she told me she never dated or had any sex during our period of separation, I am finding it difficult to believe that, how can a woman that was once married and separated not feel the urge to have sex for almost two years. Pls experienced
married women in the house, is it possible for a woman to keep herself that long, I am assuming she is just using that to make me feel good about taking her back.

TBH, I still care about my kids cos they are my focus now and if I will be doing this, it will be for my daughters cos they have really been through alot during this separation, they have been staying with their grand parents and only God knows what they are passing through there.

I just want to know if it worth it given the marriage a second chance again despite everything that occurred or I should just move on with my life and forget about her and just take responsibility over my kids cos I don't want to regret this move, pls men that have gone through something like this scenario, kindly share some advice and tips on how to navigate through this situation. I know I will be bashed by some but will still appreciate honest opinion and advice from both gender and especially from experienced ones. As it is been said, the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know . Pls all advice will be welcomed and well appreciated.

with all due respect sir, it is you who has bloated ego.. since she was not caught having sexual relationship and if you are sure you still love her you should sincerely forgive and bring your family together..this does not worth the separation of your family.

AbnormaAssHole:
I don't think posting links is allowed on nairaland but let me make it easy for you, for TESOL/TEFL certification use. World TESOL Academy, you can Google it and sign up for there 120 hours course. It is good enough for certification.

I really appreciate your response thank you so much please can you reply your dm thanks

NaijaVietnamese:
I repeat again, here are the requirements for anyone hoping to get ESL jobs in Vietnam;

1. University degree.
2. TESOL/TEFL/Celta.
3. IELTS (band 7.5).

Teaching is a career and you’re supposed to qualified before expecting to get a job, it’s not a menial job.

I know many Nigerians who are teaching and changing jobs in Vietnam. I also know lots of Nigerians who are frustrated and in misery.

good morning bro please reply me when you see the message what's the site to register TESOL TEFL thanks much

Kirchoffs:
So today being Sunday and me been currently bored at home as work nor dey. I decided to visit my bet9ja account to see how much I have lost or gained and am still shocked at the results .

Do well to share your profits or loss let's have fun.

If your the type that bets huge sums , please be careful oh so you won't go bankrupt. I wonder how some people say they are addicted to gambling or betting, moderation is a key thing in life, stake what you can afford to lose and if the game enter praise God and if e cut no wahala.

Good morning sir

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Brownsrivers:
We are also looking for egg donors between the ages of 21 and 37 years old in Abuja.

Height: 5ft. 9 inches tall and above.

Education: Secondary school graduates and above

The successful egg donor will be paid N300,000.

She must be willing/able to pass the required prior medical tests conducted by the IVF clinic.

If you are qualified and interested or know someone who is qualified/interested, please respond appropriately to this post.

Thank you!

helo I am interested

gbegemaster:
I would like to send financial gifts to families here, but I don't want my name to be revealed. Does anyone know of a way to accomplish this so we can begin the process?

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gbegemaster:
I would like to send financial gifts to families here, but I don't want my name to be revealed. Does anyone know of a way to accomplish this so we can begin the process?

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Good evening, please I want to sell my eggs, am very very fertile.. school is resuming soon and the only thing I can think of is my children school fees.. please if anyone knows any hospital around ABUJA were no can do this should please let me know. thanks

Good evening, please I would like to know do any one know hospital were I can sell my eggs. please I would appreciate a kind answer.