Hmmm, ur case ehhhh....
no 1. His brother had the mind to chase u out of ur fiance's house in the city.
no 2. The entire family chase u away when you went to his village.
no 3. He cant protect you from his family.
no 4. He used to beat you before. then u made a whole lot of sacrifices for him.

A man who loves you should be able to protect you
what has he done to protect u?

he might be telling u he loves you and want to marry you cos of all the sacrifices uve made but goes behind to tell his people to treat u in a way u will refuse marrying him cos he cant tell you in person.

my dear, use ur tongue to count ur teeth and save urself from future torment.

she still has feelings for her ex and she is still not fully ready for u yet or dosnt love you enough cos someone who truly loves u will never think of sleeping with someone else, sharing same bond u have with someone else.
if u want a serious relationship i advise u look elsewhere cos she is not ready to be committed yet.