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BigBelleControl:
Most guys believe the burden of the siblings will be on them but if the lady is from a family that is financially okay, it doesn't matter.

that is why its advisable for ladies to be independent as well. not that everytin will be on the hubby

the lady was the first child of six or five like that and the parent have retired from service I tink. the bro just use style dump her immediately he knw

one of my big bro actually dump a lady bcus of this

I know him very well. he used to do one program on radio befr. I wish him the best

success has bn discovered to be an antidote to brkn hrt.

Maleka1:
I will try ooo

lolzzzz

akintho:
op, you can never know the reason for the breakup...I will advice you to leave her for now, she has been too familiar with the relationship routine and probably getting bored...From the look of things she cares about how you feel..she needs time and space, she's gonna come back..have gone through this before..I couldn't wait for all that before she got herself back have moved on...well if you can be patient enough for her..things will get back to normal and be fine.

I hope the op can try this. it works tooo

Maleka1:
tnx sis, I will try.

uwelcm man.

Seunosewapenis:
plis when it has reach grave call me for burial plans

hahaha, u wicked oooo. no atom of sympathy for the op.

Seunosewapenis:
plis when it has reach grave call me for burial plans

hahaha, u wicked oooo. no atom of sympathy for the op.

Maleka1:
it wasn't my fault sis. I actually love her and I don't want to do any thing against her wish. I never knew it will end like this. she really promised to stay no mata the circumstance, so I trusted her with all my hrt.

see irony of life oo. somebody loved and respected u and u still broke his hrt.

op, take hrt and move on

op I feel your pains, its not easy to be with a girl for 6 good years without touching. I know some guys who broke up with ladies for sex. you really tried. just try and move on, u may find better one that will love you.

and the wise one said its good for the man to love more. I hope this lady will not eventually fall for the guy that doesn't love her. from all indications the op seems to really loves her.

some ladies sha. I hope she doesn't regret ooo

Maleka1:
pls, kindly read my story. I will summarize it as as possible. we met and became friends in 2011, in early 2012, we started the relationship proper. she is a replica of everything I ever wanted in a woman. she stood by me during my trying times especially when I was looking for admission, though, she is ahead academically (now a masters student). she has bn so supportive morally, financially, spiritually etc. I love her with passion. I seek her consent on everytin I do, I respect her wish of no sex relationship despite the fact that i am sexually active (she is a virgin). I always try my best to pls her. I have introduced her to my family likewise she.

the problem started in april 2015, after a jolly conversation with her on phone, some hours later she sent a hrtbroken message asking for breakup without any quarrel oo. I tot maybe somebody used her phone and made mistake, I called to confirm and she affirmed it. the food I was eatin fell down and I strted feeling heat. after calling her severally without pickin, I called her sisters and a fend for intervention. dey were able to help and we settled. we continue again until last month. we spoke in the morning and later in the evening she started rejecting my calls for no reason. after several persuasion on WhatsApp to tell me wht was wrong, she later said she lost interest in our rltship and wnts us to be frnds, I pressed further to knw why she lost interest, she lack reason, she swear with bible that she didn't have any boyfriend anywhere that she just lost interest, I asked maybe its the time factor, she said no. then I hanged the call trying to control my emotion.

she knows well that I so much love her, so she called back begging that I shud not hurt myself and she was crying. she called early in the following morning still crying. her mum and sisters got to knw and rebuked her actions. she promised to work on her feeling and we settled again. since then, each time I asked abt the development, she always say we shud hold on to God.and be praying about it. she don't say I love u again either on fone or chat.



I'm just depressed and dejected. I wish I can brkup but I don't have the strength, I have bn captured and enslaved by love.

I'm 28, she will be 26 later this year

pls help me nairalanders.
pls mod, help me.

NP: communication is not our problem, we use one tarrif on GLO dat allows us to talk for full month at the cost of just #500.

op, your first mistake was the fact that you did not sleep with her before she lost interest. it is a fact that a woman will never forget whoever breaks her hymen, hence, making her heart to always be with the guy. I am talking from experience. nobody should quote me pls.