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Michellin89
I agree with u, its a choice which I believe that every woman must make.
Yes d woman most times is always in d dark but if she's married to a man that truly loves her such  a man will acknowledge her at d end of day. A man goes out to make money a woman is expected to keep d home front( that does not mean that I am saying that a woman should not work oh!). Most successful men are powered by women.
There is a saying that a Good child is d son of is father and a bad child is that of the mother.
In essence women keep the home together. it is just that d african tradition tends to keep this fact in the background.
Its been nice talking to you. I've to go home now.
You can post ur reply.
Hope u will be online on monday still have a lot to say.

Michellin89,
Sure a woman can be her personal strength but the best in her comes out when it is applied to a man
I'm not trying to generalize, its just that I find it had to believe that a woman will want to remain single when she has d choice of getting married.
Remember, behind every successful man is a woman.
Behind every successful woman is ,
A woman is measured from how she's been able to handle her home.
The home belongs to d woman.

Michellin89, I believe that a woman can strive to become what ever she wants to become in life but this must not be at the expense of her home otherwise she would not be considered a worthy example of a true african woman. A woman is suppose to be the strength of man when he is weak or down but when the woman now says she is an equal to the man then her purpose in life has been defeated. I'm sure no woman will want to remain single

what do u expect her to do? My friend get serious. U have to work real hard to get her repect, trust and love back.
If u're lucky u would get her back.

Somze, do not be deceived women do not have equal rights as men. Its cuz of this attitude or believe that drives most women out of their marital home and d reason why most girls are still single. A woman was created as a help mate not an equal. Gensis

Go back to him as long as he has not asked u to go. The greatest mistake u can make is to allow another woman to take over ur matrimonial home I know it wont be easy unless both of u know that u can never be happy again.
If u decide to go back do not give any conditions whatsoever. marriage comes with its own challenges. u can either face up to these canllenges or run away. A strong woman would face the challange and hold on to God, I'm sure in will see u thru.
So pls go back home.

When a guy actually makes love to a lady, he is concerned about satisfying d lady. But when he has sex he wants to prove a point to d lady that he is a machine.

I konw of woman who allowed her husband to marry another woman cuz they could not have children together only that the new wife does not stay under d same roof with them.
What would u do if u were the 1st wife.

One can actually love a married man wether he told u or not and this can be due to various reason although it is not usually advisable to get involve in this kind of relationship. The man might be nice to u maybe cuz he's having problems at home or maybe he married the wrong woman(this happens a lot). Or simply put he might just be a player.
My advice is to pray hard to God to intervene cuz when a guy truly loves u or is kind resisting such a guy might be a bit difficult.
Please do not get close to his family cuz if his wife ever found out u will be in for a surprise.
There a lot of married men/women out there that do not love their spouses it is just that we like deception

Any hope 4 3rd class? IF any, one of my friend needs ur help but i tried but does not know because at d sound of Tooo , d d next is sorry we cant help. Pls does anybody knows d antidote 2 get a job. @ Leat 2 give hope